Evil neighbour invited me to a BBQ then drugged & raped me – he laughed as I tried to push him off, then attacked again
Taking her first sip the grandmother had no idea of the horrific ordeal that would follow just an hour later.
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Juanita Greenhalph was thrilled to be invited to her neighbour Meynard Murambakanda's BBQ
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But Murambakanda raped Juanita before robbing her of £650
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As she carried on drinking Juanita, 62, felt 'whoozy' and her vision blurred having been unknowingly spiked by her neighbour Meynard Murambakanda.
When she next opened her eyes, Murambakanda raped her twice after
Murambakanda, 34, was sentenced to eight years and now Juanita has waived her right to anonymity to share her story.
Juanita, a retiree who used to work as a barmaid, says: 'When I was invited to Meynard's
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'It was a beautiful sunny day with all the
'I am now haunted by the memory of accepting that cup of tea, and how stupid I'd been.
'But I now know none of it was my fault. He's a monster who preyed on me.'
In 2020, Juanita, from Manchester, was 58 and living at home alone. She was retired and struggling with
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Her four children, all in their 30s and 40s, had left the nest years before.
She says: 'Their dad and I divorced in 2003 and I'd been alone for the past 17 years.
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'I barely left the house. I only left to get food from the shops.
'Every morning, I had a carer visit to give me my medication and help me with breakfast.
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'My life had become very lonely.'
In May that year, she got chatting to one of her neighbours, Murambakanda. They'd seen each-other but had never spoken.
She says: 'I was sprawled out on my deck chair in my front garden when Meynard walked past again.
'This time he stopped and introduced himself. He told me he lived with his mother, around the corner.
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'The next day, he came back and chatted again. He seemed very sweet.
'Admittedly, I never thought I'd find love again. But Meynard's attention made me feel good inside. It had been so long.
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Murambakanda spiked Juanita's tea while at the BBQ before leading her upstairs
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Juanita says the attack left her too afraid to leave her home
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'The next day he came for a walk down the canal with me, my daughter, her partner and my granddaughter.
'I was glad to have made a new friend.
'But as Meynard was so interested in my life, I wondered if there was more between us.
'It had been years since I'd been with a man, I felt special.'
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Later that week, Murambakanda hosted a neighbourhood BBQ in his back-garden. To Juanita's delight, he invited her to join.
She says: 'I was excited as I never left the house. He took me into the back garden and I recognised lots of my neighbours and locals.
'I sat with them and we all had a nice catch up. Whilst Meynard did the BBQ and kept disappearing inside.
I pleaded with him to stop, but he laughed and continue
Juanita Greenhalph
'Due to my diabetes meds, I hadn't drank alcohol for nine years. So I stuck to water.'
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After a few hours, Murambakanda ran out of meat for the BBQ and Juanita kindly offered to walk to Lidl to get more.
Murambakanda insisted on joining her, and as she paid for the extra steaks and sausages, he helped her with her bags.
Juanita says: 'Back at the BBQ, Meynard offered me a cup of tea, my thought was, 'how sweet of him.'
'I thanked him, and he made me a nice brew.'
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But just an hour after drinking her tea, Juanita began to feel woozy.
'I told him I felt very tired and my eyes were heavy,' she recalls.
'He told me I should have a lay down, before helping me out of the garden to go inside.
'My vision went very blurry, then everything went black.
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'When I next opened my eyes, I was on Meynard's bed. He was on top of me, raping me.
'I pleaded with him to stop, but he laughed and continued. My eyes were still droopy and I drifted off again.
'When I next woke, he flipped me over and raped me from behind. I tried to stop him, but I lost consciousness again.'
Juanita woke up again to Murambakanda holding a wet towel on her head, telling her that she was sweating.
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She fell unconscious again, and woke up in a silent house the next morning, realising Murambakanda and the neighbours were gone.
Juanita says: 'I broke down in tears and rang my daughter. I begged her to come pick me up.
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'Half an hour later she came with her partner. I was sobbing uncontrollably. I had agonising pain below, my daughter was horrified.'
Back at Juanita's home, her daughter realised that her mum's bank card was missing.
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'She went onto my banking app and saw £650 had been withdrawn,' Juanita says.
'I realised Meynard must've seen my pin number when I bought the meats at Lidl. He stole my money.
'I pulled down my top and showed my daughter my bruises. I told her he drugged me with a cup of tea and raped me.
'I was hysterical. I also felt like it was all my fault. I felt stupid.'
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Juanita's daughter helped her ring the police and 20 minutes later, two police officers arrived.
Whilst Juanita was taken to the rape clinic to have swabs taken, police couldn't find Murambakanda.
Two weeks later, they tracked him down at his house, and was arrested.
Whenever I thought I could no longer live with such pain, I looked at photos of my grandkids. They kept me alive
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Juanita says: 'He denied seeing me that day but police had CCTV footage of us together at the shops, and the bank confirmed he'd withdrawn the money.
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'Although Meynard was charged, and remanded, I lived in fear every day after that.
'Every time I looked out my bedroom window, I thought I saw him in the bushes, watching me.
'I couldn't sleep. I ended up moving my bed from the window, and keeping my curtains shut.
'Months later my daughter gave birth to my second grandchild but I was so depressed I didn't meet her.
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'Due to my PTSD, I missed the first year of my new granddaughter's life. I shut my family out.
'But, whenever I thought I could no longer live with such pain, I looked at photos of my grandkids. They kept me alive.'
In March 2023, Meynard Murambakanda, now 34, of no fixed abode, pleaded guilty to two counts of rape against at Manchester Crown Court.
Juanita says: 'I was too terrified to see him again, I stayed away from court.
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'But my case officer visited me, to break the news of his eight year sentence. The court also ordered Meynard to be deported back to Africa after his sentence.
'I burst into tears. For such a long time, I lived in fear and shame.
'Meynard knew I was very vulnerable when we met and he targeted me, taking my kindness for weakness.
'Now, I'm trying to make it up to my kids and grandkids for lost time. And I'm getting my strength back, day by day.
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'If you have been assaulted, please tell someone. There will be people there to help you. It's never your fault.'
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WHEN police officers walked round the corner, as she was being raped on an industrial estate, 14-year-old Jamie Lee Jones should have felt relief that they had come to her rescue. But shockingly, instead of arresting her attacker - an illegal immigrant – they put HER in handcuffs and arrested her for prostitution. Advertisement 9 Jamie Leigh Jones was abused by grooming gangs in Oldham from age 12 Credit: Glen Minikin 9 Jamie Leigh was 12 years old when she was first raped by a groomer Credit: Glen Minikin 9 Cops published this mugshot of Jamie age 14 - knowing she was a vulnerable child who had reported multiple rapes Credit: GMP The vulnerable teenager, who have been a victim of grooming gangs from the age of 12, was labelled a sex worker, told she was 'out of control' and hauled up in court. Incredibly, Greater Manchester Police also sent her name and photo to be published across local and national media with a quote from a police chief saying: 'We will run young yobs out of town' – despite having at least two reports of rape against Jamie Leigh at the time and knowing she was classed as a vulnerable child at high risk of sexual abuse from grooming gangs. Jamie Leigh was then taken from her family and placed in care, where the abuse got worse and gangs of rapists from Oldham's Pakistani, Kurdish and Bengali communities were given free reign to continue their sickening campaign of grooming and rape until she was 18. She reported four other rapes to Greater Manchester Police from 2011 to 2015 but says 'nothing was ever done' and officers openly 'blamed her' for the sexual assaults. Advertisement Read more on grooming gangs Care home staff turned a "blind eye" to the abuse, sometimes even dropping her off to meet her abusers and buying her a McDonald's so she wouldn't tell anyone. On one occasion, she was gifted a phone by a groomer, and the next day received calls from 60 different Asian males, asking her to come 'chill' and have sex with them. Groomers would even climb through her bedroom window at the care home or pick her up and traffic her to In all, she believes she was raped and sexually abused by over 50 men aged from early 20s to 60s, over a hundred times. Advertisement Most read in The Sun Now aged 28, Jamie Leigh has bravely waived her anonymity to tell her harrowing story – which she hopes will pressure the government to deliver on their promise to hold a national enquiry into Jamie Leigh's horrific tale began when her family moved to a new area of Oldham and, not having a school place for her, the council placed her in a Pupil Referral Unit (PRU). 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They said I was an out-of-control child and that my mum needed to put her foot down. 'At the beginning my abuser was nice to me, he bought me things and then I started going around with other older Asian men with this girl. 'One night I gave my number to one Asian man and then I had around 50, 60 people ringing my phone that I didn't know and adding me on Facebook, all older Asian men. 'They were asking me to come out, chill with them, drink, smoke weed, things like that and have sex." Advertisement 9 She believes police and social services deliberately turned a blind eye to the abuse Credit: Glen Minikin 9 Jamie Leigh lost her trust in authorities after being taken from her family and put into care Credit: Glen Minikin 9 Jamie around age 12 just after she was first raped by a grooming gang member Credit: Glen Minikin Jamie Leigh was raped for the first time at 12. 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'Nobody cared' Jamie Leigh's worried friends tried to intervene, telling her mum, police and social services about what was happening to her – but no action was taken against any of the men. Instead, authorities began to target Jamie Leigh. Advertisement 'They told my mum that I was a danger to my little brother and I couldn't live there anymore otherwise he'd be put in care, so I had to move out and then I was put into care,' she says. 'One day my abusers filled me with drink and I actually kicked off with the police. So I was arrested. 'Before that court date actually took place, police walked around the corner into this industrial estate and caught an illegal immigrant rapist raping me. 'I had my pants down my ankles. He was laying on top of me. His pants were down. Advertisement 'I stood up with one boot in my hand and they actually put me in handcuffs and took me to the police car, arrested me for prostitution and took me to the police station. To be honest I was raped so many times it's hard to remember exactly how many. Jamie Leigh Jones 'He wasn't arrested at the time, but they arrested me for prostitution because he told them that I took money off him, which I didn't. 'At the time I thought nothing was done to him but I found out from officers recently that he was actually an illegal immigrant and they sent him to the deportation centre. Then he was let out of the deportation centre and they have no idea where he is now. 'I was sent to court and the judge questioned social services for over an hour, telling them that I was not a danger to the public, but the public was a danger to me and that he was going to adjourn it while they sorted something out for my safety. He put me in a secure children's prison. Advertisement 'After I got to the secure unit, the judge forced them to put me into a care home. 'The judge was trying to help me, but it just got even worse. "There were men coming to the care home outside, picking us up, dropping us off every day and every night. Nobody cared.' 9 Jamie was passed around for years as a teenager Credit: Glen Minikin Advertisement Drugged and raped Jamie Leigh was plied with drugs and alcohol for years by her abusers who would pass her around to be raped, often by multiple men in one day. 'I think on a few occasions I was drugged. I lost loads of weight, I was like a rake and I looked poorly,' she says 'There was one occasion where I was in a flat and I was that drunk, I'd laid down and my head was spinning, then loads of different men were coming in the room having sex with me. 'They were all horrible to me they would spit on me and stuff. Advertisement I was passed around for years between older Asian men, sexually abused, sexually exploited, filled with alcohol, filled with drugs. Jamie Leigh Jones 'At first I thought they were my friends. I thought they cared about me and they were giving me loads of things that I never had. 'And then it turned and it started being horrible and nasty. They were telling me to bring other girls out, younger girls. I never did. 'But I know one of my friends did and she was arrested for being a perpetrator while none of the men were arrested. She was 15. 'I was groomed into just walking around the area and Asian men would just pull over and say 'Right, you coming out? You coming to chill? You coming for a drink? And I get in the car and I'd end up being raped. Advertisement 'I don't know why I got in the cars, it was just normalised at the time. I didn't know any better. I had no self esteem. 'The police, the council, social services didn't seem to see a problem with it then. 'I was so young when it started, your brain's a sponge." Jamie began to rely on alcohol, supplied by her abusers, to make her feel like she "wasn't really there." Advertisement 'A lot of times I was scared and that's why I drank so fast and I drank straight alcohol deliberately to block it out. 'When you've been raped you become scared to say no. 'Once that has happened for the first time, from that moment, you're just quiet, because you know they're going to take it anyway.' 'High risk of murder' Jamie Leigh was placed in three different care homes in Oldham, Rivendell House, and Fraser Street Children's home and Porter Street Supported Living. Advertisement 'There were always cars outside the care homes waiting for us,' she said. 'Staff knew I was high risk. They had me at high risk of being murdered but they still never tried to stop us getting into the cars. 'They did absolutely nothing. They knew what was going on. It wasn't just me, there were numerous girls and they just kept coming back absolutely obliterated after being abused. 'By the time I was 15, I had 152 missing episodes my records say. Advertisement 'But the care home staff would act like it was normal. The only time they ever did anything about it was when one of my care workers turned around and said, I needed to get an STI check because I'll end up with 'fanny rot' if I don't. 'Those were the actual words she said. 'There was an Asian man who worked at one of the care homes and he was always saying inappropriate things to the girls. 'He'd say: 'Why do you hang around with Bengalis? Why don't you hang around with us Pakistanis? Advertisement 'Sometimes he'd give us a lift to places and say, 'I shouldn't be dropping you off in Pakistani areas or Bengali areas. I shouldn't be doing this. So make sure you don't tell anyone. Here I'll buy you a McDonald's' 'Then he'd say, 'Don't tell any of the other girls' and then he'd sneak in your room to take your rubbish so no one would see it. 'He also had one of his nephews who was in his twenties come and smoke weed and offer it to the kids in the care home." 9 Jamie Leigh with her mum Louise Hopwood Credit: Glen Minikin Advertisement 9 Jamie Leigh with her mum as a teen Credit: Glen Minikin Shocking files Redacted social services documents from Jamie Leigh's file, which she has shared with The Sun, show that she was the subject of Child Sexual Exploitation Strategy and Review Meetings from as early as 2010, when she would have been aged 13. One notes shockingly: 'Although Jamie is 13, she does look older.' It adds: 'A number of Jamie's friends are already known to the [redacted] service and Jamie is aware of this, however she still chooses to place herself at risk.' Advertisement A social services form, filled out for Jamie in 2013, titled Hazard: Child Sexual Exploitation, describes Jamie at 'high' risk of sexual exploitation with the frequency listed as 'daily'. The 'risks' she faced are listed as sexual abuse, absconding, criminal record, harm to public, pregnancy and STIs and 'allegations'. Ninth on the list is 'risk of serious injury or death'. Despite the high risk of death, Jamie Leigh's 'action plan' written down by staff is woefully inadequate – including plans to get her to fill out a 'safe and well questionnaire' on her return from missing episodes. Advertisement It also states: 'Staff to discourage inappropriate friendships' – showing staff saw the older Asian men who abused her as the teen's 'friends'. 'They did nothing at the care homes, I noticed in Porter Street a few years later, which when I was 16, they started actually reporting stuff but still nothing happened to stop it,' Jamie Leigh says. 'It was there that older Asian men kept climbing into my flat window and that is recorded in my notes. Staff knew I was high risk. They had me at high risk of being murdered but they still never tried to stop us getting into the cars. Jamie Leigh Jones 'I don't know why, when I was classed as at risk they still kept putting me in these care homes where there were Asian men picking up girls. Putting all these girls that are at risk together, just causes more problems. Advertisement 'There were at least 20 girls I knew in the care homes who were being exploited.' According to Jamie Leigh's police records, which she requested, she reported rapes in 2011, 2012 and 2015. She also recalls reporting a rape at the age of 12 but no records can be found. 'Throughout that time they didn't do anything, nothing ever came of the reports I made,' Jamie Leigh said. Advertisement 'I never did a rape kit. They took my knickers from the gang rape – but nothing ever came of that. "I stopped reporting things. It just became me versus the world." Search for answers Jamie Leigh said she moved out of Oldham as soon as she turned 18. 'It was the only way to stop it,' she says. "I struggled to piece my life together, and to be honest I'm still struggling now. Advertisement 'I want answers. I think every survivor deserves answers.' Oldham Council and GMP have admitted failing Jamie Leigh, who was featured anonymously in an independent inquiry into child sex abuse in Oldham in 2022, and apologised to her. Jamie Leigh has also given evidence to Operation Sherwood, an active investigation into historic child sex abuse in Oldham. So far, 12 arrests have been made as part of the investigation but no one has yet been charged. Advertisement But to Jamie Leigh, it's too little, too late. 'I've been left with complex PTSD. I've suffered from panic attacks, nightmares. I rarely leave the house," she said. 'And I think my problems stem not just from the abuse suffered, but also the way that the services handled it and they're still handling it to this day. 'It's become this whole debate about racism when in reality, that doesn't matter. What matters is that the females and the girls that have been through these horrific things get heard. Advertisement 'I feel like people need to accept the full failings and stop denying the facts of what's happened. We can't make changes in the future if we don't go back and look into every single mistake that's happened in the past. 'Survivors should not have to be fighting now.' Jamie Leigh is now studying to be a counsellor at Open University and wants to help other survivors of abuse. Police response to Jamie's story A spokesperson for Greater Manchester Police gave this statement to The Sun: 'We have fully accepted our past failings in tackling this horrific abuse and are working with a number of survivors, who have placed their faith in the GMP of today and are supporting our active retrospective investigations. 'These are long and complex investigations, but our commitment is unwavering, and we will not allow passage of time to be a hindrance. 'HMICFRS and Ofsted published a report last week highlighting significant improvements we have made in how we protect children, respond to abuse, and investigate non-recent cases of CSE. 'GMP remains focused on listening to survivors and advancing our effective practice still further. We owe it both to those abused in the past and to our children today to sustain this most pressing of priorities, and we continue to give our commitment to do just that. 'We are actively investigating and supporting Jamie as we progress her case. While we understand that the impact of her past experience cannot be undone, we are confident that victims' experiences today would be significantly improved compared to those of previous years." And she is urging other survivors and whistle blowers to come forward and share their stories. Advertisement 'I think we deserve answers after everything we've been through, after years of having to fight for what's right,' she said. 'And it's still happening. I'm getting people messaging me saying they don't know where to turn, they're not getting the right support. Children are still being blamed for being raped. 'People message me telling me it's happening to the daughters or their sister. 'One of the worst things about a woman being raped and suffering abuse like this is not being believed. Advertisement 'So when services that are supposed to help are not doing anything to help them, it's wrong. It's worse because these people should know better than abusers and rapists and child molesters. I've been left with complex PTSD. I've suffered from panic attacks, nightmares. I rarely leave the house. Jamie Leigh Jones 'Some of these people should be jailed as well because they've enabled this to happen to so many girls for so long. 'I'd love to see the officers that put me in handcuffs that day go down for a long time. 'Or at the very least be retrained because shouldn't be in the jobs if you stand with those beliefs. Advertisement 'They've been allowed to do it, while we've been as survivors, blamed for what we've been through for decades. 'It can really mess survivors and rape victims heads' up, especially children, when you say 'We're not doing anything about it? You go out and get raped. It's normal. That's your lifestyle. You're never going to amount to nothing.' 'It's wrong. It'd be different if it was their children. And I said that years ago to a police officer while it was happening. I said, 'Would you treat your children like this?' 'He said, 'My children wouldn't behave in such a way'. Advertisement Oldham Council's response to Jamie's story Oldham Council Leader, Cllr Arooj Shah said: "I want to commend Jamie Leigh for her extraordinary courage in speaking out and sharing her story. Her bravery is not only deeply moving but plays a vital role in ensuring that survivors are heard, and that real change continues to happen. "Across the country, councils, the police, and other agencies failed those affected by child sexual exploitation in the past. Oldham was no exception and we apologise again to survivors and their families. "We also recognise that these horrific crimes have not disappeared, but we are more determined than ever to root out those who abuse and exploit children. We will not rest until every child is safe and those responsible are held fully to account. "Oldham is absolutely committed to learning from the past. Thanks in no small part to the tenacity of survivors like Jamie Leigh, we are leading the way in tackling child sexual exploitation, putting survivors at the heart of our efforts, and doing everything in our power to ensure the mistakes of the past are never repeated. "We welcome both local and national inquiries, and we are clear that survivors must be at the centre of this process. Their voices are essential to building a safer future for every child." 'I feel like all survivors need a massive apology from Keir Starmer for starters, for the system, for being ignored and now for having to fight for what's right. 'I want the truth to come out because we've spent years of not being believed and that's horrible. I want people to be questioned and I want answers.' In response to Jamie's story, Greater Manchester Police said it had "fully accepted our past failings in tackling this horrific abuse" and it was "actively investigating" the case. Oldham Council added: "Oldham is absolutely committed to learning from the past. Thanks in no small part to the tenacity of survivors like Jamie-Leigh, we are leading the way in tackling child sexual exploitation, putting survivors at the heart of our efforts, and doing everything in our power to ensure the mistakes of the past are never repeated." Advertisement
The Irish Sun
12-07-2025
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Evil neighbour invited me to a BBQ then drugged & raped me – he laughed as I tried to push him off, then attacked again
AS HER neighbour offered Juanita Greenhalph a cup of tea during a get together BBQ, she was touched by the friendly gesture. Taking her first sip the grandmother had no idea of the horrific ordeal that would follow just an hour later. Advertisement 5 Juanita Greenhalph was thrilled to be invited to her neighbour Meynard Murambakanda's BBQ Credit: True Life Stories 5 But Murambakanda raped Juanita before robbing her of £650 Credit: GMP As she carried on drinking Juanita, 62, felt 'whoozy' and her vision blurred having been unknowingly spiked by her neighbour Meynard Murambakanda. When she next opened her eyes, Murambakanda raped her twice after Murambakanda, 34, was sentenced to eight years and now Juanita has waived her right to anonymity to share her story. Juanita, a retiree who used to work as a barmaid, says: 'When I was invited to Meynard's Advertisement Read More on Real Lives 'It was a beautiful sunny day with all the 'I am now haunted by the memory of accepting that cup of tea, and how stupid I'd been. 'But I now know none of it was my fault. He's a monster who preyed on me.' In 2020, Juanita, from Manchester, was 58 and living at home alone. She was retired and struggling with Advertisement Most read in Fabulous Exclusive Her four children, all in their 30s and 40s, had left the nest years before. She says: 'Their dad and I divorced in 2003 and I'd been alone for the past 17 years. Moment violent Scots rapist caught lurking on CCTV before horror sex attack 'I barely left the house. I only left to get food from the shops. 'Every morning, I had a carer visit to give me my medication and help me with breakfast. Advertisement 'My life had become very lonely.' In May that year, she got chatting to one of her neighbours, Murambakanda. They'd seen each-other but had never spoken. She says: 'I was sprawled out on my deck chair in my front garden when Meynard walked past again. 'This time he stopped and introduced himself. He told me he lived with his mother, around the corner. Advertisement 'The next day, he came back and chatted again. He seemed very sweet. 'Admittedly, I never thought I'd find love again. But Meynard's attention made me feel good inside. It had been so long. 5 Murambakanda spiked Juanita's tea while at the BBQ before leading her upstairs Credit: True Life Stories 5 Juanita says the attack left her too afraid to leave her home Credit: True Life Stories Advertisement 'The next day he came for a walk down the canal with me, my daughter, her partner and my granddaughter. 'I was glad to have made a new friend. 'But as Meynard was so interested in my life, I wondered if there was more between us. 'It had been years since I'd been with a man, I felt special.' Advertisement Later that week, Murambakanda hosted a neighbourhood BBQ in his back-garden. To Juanita's delight, he invited her to join. She says: 'I was excited as I never left the house. He took me into the back garden and I recognised lots of my neighbours and locals. 'I sat with them and we all had a nice catch up. Whilst Meynard did the BBQ and kept disappearing inside. I pleaded with him to stop, but he laughed and continue Juanita Greenhalph 'Due to my diabetes meds, I hadn't drank alcohol for nine years. So I stuck to water.' Advertisement After a few hours, Murambakanda ran out of meat for the BBQ and Juanita kindly offered to walk to Lidl to get more. Murambakanda insisted on joining her, and as she paid for the extra steaks and sausages, he helped her with her bags. Juanita says: 'Back at the BBQ, Meynard offered me a cup of tea, my thought was, 'how sweet of him.' 'I thanked him, and he made me a nice brew.' Advertisement But just an hour after drinking her tea, Juanita began to feel woozy. 'I told him I felt very tired and my eyes were heavy,' she recalls. 'He told me I should have a lay down, before helping me out of the garden to go inside. 'My vision went very blurry, then everything went black. Advertisement 'When I next opened my eyes, I was on Meynard's bed. He was on top of me, raping me. 'I pleaded with him to stop, but he laughed and continued. My eyes were still droopy and I drifted off again. 'When I next woke, he flipped me over and raped me from behind. I tried to stop him, but I lost consciousness again.' Juanita woke up again to Murambakanda holding a wet towel on her head, telling her that she was sweating. Advertisement She fell unconscious again, and woke up in a silent house the next morning, realising Murambakanda and the neighbours were gone. Juanita says: 'I broke down in tears and rang my daughter. I begged her to come pick me up. How to report a sexual assault Contact a doctor or practice nurse at your GP surgery. Contact a voluntary organisation, such as Call the 24-hour Speak to the 'Half an hour later she came with her partner. I was sobbing uncontrollably. I had agonising pain below, my daughter was horrified.' Back at Juanita's home, her daughter realised that her mum's bank card was missing. Advertisement 'She went onto my banking app and saw £650 had been withdrawn,' Juanita says. 'I realised Meynard must've seen my pin number when I bought the meats at Lidl. He stole my money. 'I pulled down my top and showed my daughter my bruises. I told her he drugged me with a cup of tea and raped me. 'I was hysterical. I also felt like it was all my fault. I felt stupid.' Advertisement Juanita's daughter helped her ring the police and 20 minutes later, two police officers arrived. Whilst Juanita was taken to the rape clinic to have swabs taken, police couldn't find Murambakanda. Two weeks later, they tracked him down at his house, and was arrested. Whenever I thought I could no longer live with such pain, I looked at photos of my grandkids. They kept me alive Juanita Greenhalph Juanita says: 'He denied seeing me that day but police had CCTV footage of us together at the shops, and the bank confirmed he'd withdrawn the money. Advertisement 'Although Meynard was charged, and remanded, I lived in fear every day after that. 'Every time I looked out my bedroom window, I thought I saw him in the bushes, watching me. 'I couldn't sleep. I ended up moving my bed from the window, and keeping my curtains shut. 'Months later my daughter gave birth to my second grandchild but I was so depressed I didn't meet her. Advertisement 'Due to my PTSD, I missed the first year of my new granddaughter's life. I shut my family out. 'But, whenever I thought I could no longer live with such pain, I looked at photos of my grandkids. They kept me alive.' In March 2023, Meynard Murambakanda, now 34, of no fixed abode, pleaded guilty to two counts of rape against at Manchester Crown Court. Juanita says: 'I was too terrified to see him again, I stayed away from court. Advertisement 'But my case officer visited me, to break the news of his eight year sentence. The court also ordered Meynard to be deported back to Africa after his sentence. 'I burst into tears. For such a long time, I lived in fear and shame. 'Meynard knew I was very vulnerable when we met and he targeted me, taking my kindness for weakness. 'Now, I'm trying to make it up to my kids and grandkids for lost time. And I'm getting my strength back, day by day. Advertisement 'If you have been assaulted, please tell someone. There will be people there to help you. It's never your fault.' 5 Juanita wants to encourage other survivors of sexual assault to come forward Credit: True Life Stories
Sunday World
10-07-2025
- Sunday World
Rapist repeatedly attacked woman and then fled to Ireland to evade cops
"There are moments in life that change you forever — moments that challenge everything you thought you knew about strength, courage, and healing' A man who fled to Ireland after repeatedly attacking a woman has been sentenced to four-and-a-half years for rape. A court has heard how Sultan Amjad made a bid to evade police after his victim reported him following several incidents of non-consensual sexual assaults in September of last year. However, Amjad was later arrested in Ireland where his details had been circulated as a wanted person. He was charged with rape and brought before the courts. The victim told police how Amjad had subjected her to an 'emotionally and physically abusive relationship'. She had also been 'manipulated financially and degraded' by Amjad and felt 'broken, afraid and unsure' of herself following the attacks. With the support of police the victim, whose identity remains anonymous due to the nature of the offences, issued an emotional statement encouraging others to speak out if they are the victim of abuse. Sultan Amjad News in 90 Seconds - July 10th "There are moments in life that change you forever — moments that challenge everything you thought you knew about strength, courage, and healing," she said. "Reporting the rape I experienced was one of those moments; it was one of the hardest decisions I have ever made, but one that I do not regret, because I was foreseen with no judgment or indifference, but with compassion, professionalism, and unwavering support.' She paid tribute to Detective Constable Sam Cullen who 'treated me with dignity and respect'. 'In a time when I felt broken, afraid, and unsure of myself, he saw me — not just as a victim, but as a person worthy of being heard, believed, and protected. 'His patience, his clear communication, and his calm reassurance helped me take the first steps in what felt like an impossible journey.' She told how she had been kept informed at every stage, 'treated with care and professionalism, and never once made to feel alone in what I was facing'. 'The updates, the follow-through, the consistent reassurance, all of it helped rebuild a sense of safety and control that I thought I had lost forever. "Even one conviction represents something monumental to me — it is proof that my voice mattered. This process has been incredibly painful, but because of the care and professionalism shown by you and your team, it has also been healing. You reminded me that I was not alone, that I was not to blame, and that I deserved to be fought for. That kind of support changes lives — it changed mine.' Amjad, aged 23, of Kirkmanshulme Lane, in Longsight, Manchester was sentenced to four-and-a-half years for rape. He was also given a five-year restraining order against his victim. DC Cullen, of GMP paid tribute to the woman for their bravery in reporting these incidents to us, 'which is not an easy thing to do'. 'The victim told us she was subjected to an emotionally and physically abusive relationship for some time where she was manipulated financially and degraded by Amjad,' he said. 'Time is no barrier when it comes to being sexually abused – no matter how long ago it was, or how old you were at the time, we will listen to you. We will support you, investigate, and act robustly against perpetrators. We will take your allegations seriously and treat you with dignity and respect.'
