If your partner uses any of these 7 phrases every day, it means they 'truly trust' you: Harvard-trained psychologist
As a Harvard-trained psychologist who works with couples, I often tell people that emotional security in a relationship starts with seeing yourself as worthy of love, and trusting that your partner is accepting, caring, and truly committed — through the highs and the lows.
Couples who truly trust each other use seven phrases every day:
Feeling safe in a relationship means never having to hide parts of yourself. You are comfortable being vulnerable when talking about painful or difficult topics because you trust that your partner will respond with compassion, not judgement.
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Trust is the foundation of emotional security. You believe that your partner's words and actions align, whether you're together or apart. You know who they are and you believe they have your best interest in mind.
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Even the most emotionally secure couples have conflict. What differentiates them is how they handle it. They don't panic or threaten to leave during disagreements because they trust that the relationship can weather the storms.
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People who trust their partners don't feel threatened during time apart. Alone time feels natural. They respect each other's need for independence, knowing that it strengthens the relationship.
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Missing someone doesn't mean you're clingy — it means you're connected. Even when you support each other's personal space, you still look forward to being together.
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Secure relationships make room for hard conversations. When something feels off, you're not afraid to speak up because you believe your partner will be nurturing and listen with care.
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Looking forward to the future, whether it's date night or a shared life goal, indicates mutual investment in the relationship. You see your partner in your long-term vision, and they see you in theirs.
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Sharing intimate information about ourselves with our partners isn't easy. It makes us vulnerable — and if we aren't met with empathy, it can really hurt.
But the goal is to be in a relationship where we can be fully seen, fully known, and fully accepted. It doesn't happen overnight, though. It requires conscious effort, and it means learning to accept yourself first, seeing your partner for who they truly are, and committing to growing together over time.
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