Asking Eric: I can't get answers about my friend's death
Dear Eric: Via complete happenstance I have recently become aware of my oldest friend's death about a year ago. Mary and I grew up across the street from one another in the '60s and '70s. I played with her and with her older brother as kids, and our families were close.
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