Wednesday's Warrior: Derby-Shelton Rotary Club dedicates Flags for Heroes
DERBY, Conn. (WTHN) – Beautiful American flags.
'It's just so moving patriotism, pride … it's just amazing,' said Linda Holmes-Hannon of the Derby-Shelton Rotary Club.
Our stars and stripes take over parts of Derby and Shelton to honor heroes who put service above self.
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'Our total flags in both communities were 325 flags,' Holmes-Hannon said.
This is the fourth annual Flags for Heroes, put on by the Derby-Shelton Rotary Club for the community to recognize all our heroes.
You can purchase a flag for one hero or multiple heroes- including veterans, firemen, teachers, nurses, and active military heroes.
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A former Rotary president, Homes-Hannon, brought this event to Derby and Shelton to give community members an opportunity to honor a loved one or someone they are thankful for.
'The true warriors are the heroes that are displayed,' Homes-Hannon said.
To find out where you can see the flags, and take in their beauty and meaning, or maybe dedicate a flag to your hero in the future, visit the Rotary Club website.
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