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- Indian Express
‘I'm always scared of this word ‘ambition': Ranbir Kapoor reveals his definition of ambition and what drives him in life
Ranbir Kapoor's latest brainchild, ARKS — a lifestyle brand– recently dropped a new fragrance, and its promotions saw social media stars conversing with the Bollywood actor on all things work, fashion, and ambition.
During the second episode of ARKS Insiders, What Makes My Day – Ambition, Kapoor and digital creator Sahiba Bali engaged in a long, drawn conversation about all things ambition, drive and purpose in life, as well as the little rituals that shape their day. For them, ambition isn't loud; it's deeply personal. It's in the quiet discipline, the perfect fit, and the scent that sets the tone. Because ambition doesn't always shout, sometimes, it simply shows up.
'I think when you are super ambitious, which you are, discipline is actually that one key that leads you to achieving what you want,' Bali told the Jagga Jasoos actor, to which he replied: 'I'm ambitious, of course, you know. I have a certain vision for myself. So I'm always scared of this word ambition, because ambition is a very personal thing,' he said.
'But when someone says you are super ambitious, it also comes with trampling other people and kind of trying to move ahead in life,' he added.
According to Ashish Pillay, Psychologist at Mpower, Aditya Birla Education Trust, Ranbir's mindset on ambition is a beautiful example of self-awareness. 'He doesn't reject ambition, but he questions the kind that's rooted in ego, competition, or blind pursuit. He embraces growth but not at the cost of joy or integrity. He understands that ambition can be deeply personal, and it doesn't always need to be broadcasted or validated externally,' he said.
That humility, coming from public figures, makes a huge impact. 'In a world that celebrates hustle culture, their conversation gently offers another path. One that values consistency over obsession, presence over perfection, and self-care over self-sacrifice,' mentioned Pillai.
'Healthy ambition makes you come alive it inspires you to grow, without losing your soul in the process. It allows room for gratitude, curiosity, and self-compassion. Toxic ambition, on the other hand, demands constant hustle, breeds insecurity, and measures worth only by productivity or accolades,' said Pillai, adding that Ranbir's message for all of us is to live well, be kind to every person, enjoy the little things, and not to overthink.
He added that ambition doesn't have to be a storm, it can be a quiet, steady fire that keeps you warm, not one that burns you out. 'And sometimes, ambition can be as simple as showing up, dressing in what makes you feel good, and being kind. And maybe that's everything,' concluded the expert.
