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The Guardian
03-08-2025
- Health
- The Guardian
I lost my hearing in one ear and I'm worried I won't find a new job
I am a 50-year-old man. After a long-term disease, I had my inner ear removed, and then lost my job due to incapacity. I have hearing in one ear, am waiting for an implant and wear aids, which help. I felt lost for a few years, but I got fit and slowly regrouped, and ended up doing an apprenticeship. Now it is coming to an end, I am worried about applying for jobs, having to prove myself again against healthy people half my age. Sometimes I wake in the night panicking. I want to cry most of the time. I just want someone to say it will be OK and help me. But I'm not sure who to ask. My biggest fear is putting strain on my wife and kids again. I can't drive due to the illness and operation, so I am already at a loss as to which jobs I can apply for. After being ill for so long I lost a lot of friends, who just didn't get it. I think the new situation is triggering a lot of that hurt. Facing a long-term disease and loss of hearing is tough. You have already really helped yourself. I went to emergency planner Prof Lucy Easthope, and the RNID, the national charity supporting people who are deaf or have hearing loss or tinnitus (which is one in three adults in the UK). Easthope has written a book you may find helpful called Come What May: Life-Changing Lessons for Coping with Crisis. The first thing she said was: 'Bloody well done. We often need to hear that, but no one says it. You've been incredibly brave doing the apprenticeship.' She felt you were using 'pessimism as protection, which can actually be really helpful as long as it doesn't sabotage, because you have to be ready for things to not go entirely right. And there are reasons things might not go right that shouldn't be linked to your self-esteem.' She gave the example of people after adversity 'going for total reinvention and not being realistic, like going for jobs they can't do and maybe could never do. If the job isn't right for you, then you probably won't get it.' She also felt that: 'What you are going through is bigger than what happens next; the dreams you have had to give up on.' She suggested 'speaking out loud the monsters that keep you awake at night so you can explore them'. Who previously made things OK for you? Is there someone you can talk to? I'm sure your wife would welcome you letting her in, but if not, a good friend or a family member? I'm sorry your friends didn't get it. Lots of people don't, but often it's not ill intent, just ignorance (and laziness to not find out what you need). Sign up to Inside Saturday The only way to get a look behind the scenes of the Saturday magazine. Sign up to get the inside story from our top writers as well as all the must-read articles and columns, delivered to your inbox every weekend. after newsletter promotion Little by little, things can and will shift. Health crises can really throw us, and it can take a long time to adapt and redefine ourselves. It also sounds like you are a bit afraid of letting others in, but talking about things is how we process. No one can say this is going to be 100% OK, but slowly you may realise that there will be OK-ness, joy and hope. You can cry if you need to. The RNID recommended looking for employers who have signed up to the Disability Confident scheme. And added: 'Remember that under the Equality Act 2010, employers have a legal duty to support individuals, including those who are deaf or have hearing loss.' The RNID has lots more info, and the charity Hearing Link Services offers peer support sessions. Easthope said that you might imagine younger people without your issues wouldn't be afraid but, trust us, they are. Everyone is with a new start. You've done amazingly well. This wasn't what you planned, but it's where you've found yourself. You're not the same person you were at the beginning of this journey, because you've already found great resources within yourself. Every week, Annalisa Barbieri addresses a personal problem sent in by a reader. If you would like advice from Annalisa, please send your problem to Annalisa regrets she cannot enter into personal correspondence. Submissions are subject to our terms and conditions. The latest series of Annalisa's podcast is available here. Comments on this piece are pre-moderated to ensure the discussion remains on the topics raised by the article. Please be aware that there may be a short delay in comments appearing on the site.
The Guardian
03-08-2025
- Health
- The Guardian
I lost my hearing in one ear and I'm worried I won't find a new job
I am a 50-year-old man. After a long-term disease, I had my inner ear removed, and then lost my job due to incapacity. I have hearing in one ear, am waiting for an implant and wear aids, which help. I felt lost for a few years, but I got fit and slowly regrouped, and ended up doing an apprenticeship. Now it is coming to an end, I am worried about applying for jobs, having to prove myself again against healthy people half my age. Sometimes I wake in the night panicking. I want to cry most of the time. I just want someone to say it will be OK and help me. But I'm not sure who to ask. My biggest fear is putting strain on my wife and kids again. I can't drive due to the illness and operation, so I am already at a loss as to which jobs I can apply for. After being ill for so long I lost a lot of friends, who just didn't get it. I think the new situation is triggering a lot of that hurt. Facing a long-term disease and loss of hearing is tough. You have already really helped yourself. I went to emergency planner Prof Lucy Easthope, and the RNID, the national charity supporting people who are deaf or have hearing loss or tinnitus (which is one in three adults in the UK). Easthope has written a book you may find helpful called Come What May: Life-Changing Lessons for Coping with Crisis. The first thing she said was: 'Bloody well done. We often need to hear that, but no one says it. You've been incredibly brave doing the apprenticeship.' She felt you were using 'pessimism as protection, which can actually be really helpful as long as it doesn't sabotage, because you have to be ready for things to not go entirely right. And there are reasons things might not go right that shouldn't be linked to your self-esteem.' She gave the example of people after adversity 'going for total reinvention and not being realistic, like going for jobs they can't do and maybe could never do. If the job isn't right for you, then you probably won't get it.' She also felt that: 'What you are going through is bigger than what happens next; the dreams you have had to give up on.' She suggested 'speaking out loud the monsters that keep you awake at night so you can explore them'. Who previously made things OK for you? Is there someone you can talk to? I'm sure your wife would welcome you letting her in, but if not, a good friend or a family member? I'm sorry your friends didn't get it. Lots of people don't, but often it's not ill intent, just ignorance (and laziness to not find out what you need). Sign up to Inside Saturday The only way to get a look behind the scenes of the Saturday magazine. Sign up to get the inside story from our top writers as well as all the must-read articles and columns, delivered to your inbox every weekend. after newsletter promotion Little by little, things can and will shift. Health crises can really throw us, and it can take a long time to adapt and redefine ourselves. It also sounds like you are a bit afraid of letting others in, but talking about things is how we process. No one can say this is going to be 100% OK, but slowly you may realise that there will be OK-ness, joy and hope. You can cry if you need to. The RNID recommended looking for employers who have signed up to the Disability Confident scheme. And added: 'Remember that under the Equality Act 2010, employers have a legal duty to support individuals, including those who are deaf or have hearing loss.' The RNID has lots more info, and the charity Hearing Link Services offers peer support sessions. Easthope said that you might imagine younger people without your issues wouldn't be afraid but, trust us, they are. Everyone is with a new start. You've done amazingly well. This wasn't what you planned, but it's where you've found yourself. You're not the same person you were at the beginning of this journey, because you've already found great resources within yourself. Every week, Annalisa Barbieri addresses a personal problem sent in by a reader. If you would like advice from Annalisa, please send your problem to Annalisa regrets she cannot enter into personal correspondence. Submissions are subject to our terms and conditions. The latest series of Annalisa's podcast is available here. Comments on this piece are pre-moderated to ensure the discussion remains on the topics raised by the article. Please be aware that there may be a short delay in comments appearing on the site.
South Wales Guardian
11-07-2025
- Entertainment
- South Wales Guardian
Swansea Grand announces new star for 2025 panto Aladdin
The Welsh actress will join Joe Pasquale and Kev Johns in this year's production of Aladdin. Running from December 6,to January 4, Ms Cartwright will play the role of Spirit of the Ring. The north Wales native is an accomplished musical theatre performer, having been the first-ever recipient of the prestigious Catherine Zeta-Jones scholarship at the Royal Welsh College of Music and Drama. She has played the leading lady in the UK tour of Come What May and was the principal vocalist in Michael Flatley's Lord Of The Dance. She said: "I'm over the moon to be back at Swansea Grand for this year's panto. "Nothing beats performing in front of a home crowd – the laughs, the energy, the Welsh warmth… it's pure magic!" Aladdin, which is produced by award-winning Imagine Theatre, will feature another dazzling digital set using LED screens with animated scenes and mesmerising effects. The show is set to include "hilarious slapstick, plenty of audience interaction, and marvellous musical numbers". The production company said: "Aladdin is a spectacular family adventure, and the Christmas treat you don't want to miss." Tickets for the show are on sale now. For more information visit the Swansea Grand's website.
Scottish Sun
23-06-2025
- Entertainment
- Scottish Sun
Curtis Pritchard gets VERY close to EastEnders star he met when he was dating Ekin-Su as they leave show arm in arm
The actress has been linked to her co-stars Jamie Borthwick and Bobby Brazier in the past NEW FLAME? Curtis Pritchard gets VERY close to EastEnders star he met when he was dating Ekin-Su as they leave show arm in arm Click to share on X/Twitter (Opens in new window) Click to share on Facebook (Opens in new window) NEWLY single Curtis Pritchard has been spotted getting very close to an EastEnders star, as they left a show arm in arm. Curtis, 29, was pictured looking cosy with Jazzy Phoenix, 23, who rose to fame for playing Nadine Keller on the BBC soap opera, EastEnders. Sign up for the Entertainment newsletter Sign up 10 Newly single Curtis Pritchard has been spotted getting very close to an EastEnders star, as they left a show arm in arm Credit: James Curley 10 The pair attended the Bloomsbury Theatre in London Credit: James Curley 10 Jazzy looked stunning in a grey jacket and tartan trousers, with her blonde hair down Credit: James Curley 10 The pair looked in great spirits Credit: James Curley The pair are believed to have met when Curtis was dating Ekin-Su, as they were both on the same tour, named Come What May. In August last year, it was revealed that Jazzy had bagged herself a huge new role away from Walford, with the big new theatre role in Come What May. And Curtis also starred in the show alongside his Strictly star brother AJ. The tour ran from September 20th to October 24th 2024, meaning he and Jazzy knew each other before his Love Island All Stars stint, in January of this year. Curtis and Ekin-Su got together on All Stars this year, but recently split, with the pair announcing their break up via social media statements. Now, shortly after his and Ekin's split, dancer Curtis has been spotted linking arms with stunning actress Jazzy, while attending the Bloomsbury Theatre in London. The pair went to watch Strictly star Kai Widdrington's Evolution tour. Curtis was spotted looking casual in a white t-shirt and jeans as he exited the theatre with Jazzy by his side. She was seen showing the Love Islander something on her phone, as well as stroking the back of his head and linking arms with him. Ekin-Su and Curtis Pritchard SPLIT three months after Love Island All Stars Jazzy looked stunning in a grey jacket and tartan trousers, with her blonde hair down. She sported a glam makeup look and red lipstick for their theatre trip, and the pair looked in great spirits on the hot summer's day, laughing and smiling in each other's company. The Sun has contacted Curtis' reps for comment. The actress, who was previously linked to another of her co-stars Bobby Brazier, was rumoured to be dating Strictly Come Dancing star Jamie Borthwick last year. Jamie continued to fuel speculation that the pair were an item after seemingly remaining close months after Jazzy left the BBC soap opera. 10 In August last year, it was revealed that Jazzy had bagged herself a huge new role away from Walford - Curtis also starred in the show Credit: Instagram 10 Jazzy was seen showing the Love Island star something on her phone Credit: James Curley 10 They'd gone to watch Kai Widdrington's new tour Credit: James Curley Curtis Pritchard's love life Amy Hart (2019) Jourdan Riane (2019) Maura Higgins (2019-2020) Sophie Sheridan (2021-2024) Ekin-Su - 2025 They were often snapped together on social media and this week was no different. The duo posed for a selfie, with the blonde actress captioning it: "The weekly gossip = complete." The stars then filmed a carpool karaoke as they sang a version of Nobody Knows Me Like You Do, from Disney film High School Musical, before finishing with a rendition of Start of Something New. Jamie, 30, and Jazzy previously sparked rumours they were dating back in December 2023. Jazzy shared a photo of her resting her head on Jamie's shoulder. The picture got fans talking, with some convinced that this is more than just an on-screen romance. One wrote: "They would make a great couple," while another posted: "Are they an item?" 10 Curtis and Ekin-Su got together on All Stars this year, but recently split, with the pair announcing their break up via social media statements Credit: Rex 10 Jazzy Phoenix, 23, rose to fame for playing Nadine Keller in EastEnders Credit: Rex
The Irish Sun
23-06-2025
- Entertainment
- The Irish Sun
Curtis Pritchard gets VERY close to EastEnders star he met when he was dating Ekin-Su as they leave show arm in arm
NEWLY single Curtis Pritchard has been spotted getting very close to an EastEnders star, as they left a show arm in arm. opera , EastEnders. 10 Newly single Curtis Pritchard has been spotted getting very close to an EastEnders star, as they left a show arm in arm Credit: James Curley 10 The pair attended the Bloomsbury Theatre in London Credit: James Curley 10 Jazzy looked stunning in a grey jacket and tartan trousers, with her blonde hair down Credit: James Curley 10 The pair looked in great spirits Credit: James Curley The pair are believed to have met when Curtis was dating Ekin-Su, as they were both on the same tour, named Come What May. In August last year, it was revealed that Jazzy had bagged herself a huge new role away from Walford, with the big new theatre role in Come What May. And Curtis also starred in the show alongside his Strictly star brother AJ. Read More on Curtis Pritchard The tour ran from September 20th to October 24th 2024, meaning he and Jazzy knew each other before his Love Island All Stars stint, in January of this year. Curtis and Ekin-Su got together on All Stars this year, but recently split, with the pair announcing their break up via social media statements. Now, shortly after his and Ekin's split, dancer Curtis has been spotted linking arms with stunning actress Jazzy, while attending the Bloomsbury Theatre in London . The pair went to watch Strictly star Kai Widdrington's Evolution tour. Most read in Love Island Curtis was spotted looking casual in a white t-shirt and jeans as he exited the theatre with Jazzy by his side. She was seen showing the Love Islander something on her phone, as well as stroking the back of his head and linking arms with him. Ekin-Su and Curtis Pritchard SPLIT three months after Love Island All Stars Jazzy looked stunning in a grey jacket and tartan trousers, with her blonde hair down. She sported a glam makeup look and red lipstick for their theatre trip, and the pair looked in great spirits on the hot summer's day, laughing and smiling in each other's company. The Sun has contacted Curtis' reps for comment. The actress, who 10 In August last year, it was revealed that Jazzy had bagged herself a huge new role away from Walford - Curtis also starred in the show Credit: Instagram 10 Jazzy was seen showing the Love Island star something on her phone Credit: James Curley 10 They'd gone to watch Kai Widdrington's new tour Credit: James Curley Curtis Pritchard's love life Amy Hart (2019) Jourdan Riane (2019) Maura Higgins (2019-2020) Sophie Sheridan (2021-2024) Ekin-Su - 2025 They were often snapped together on social media and this week was no different. The duo posed for a selfie, with the blonde actress captioning it: "The weekly gossip = complete." The stars then filmed a carpool karaoke as they sang a version of Nobody Knows Me Like You Do, from Disney film High School Musical, before finishing with a rendition of Start of Something New. Jamie, 30, and Jazzy previously sparked rumours they were Jazzy shared a photo of her resting her head on Jamie's shoulder. The picture got fans talking, with some convinced that this is more than just an on-screen romance. One wrote: "They would make a great couple," while another posted: "Are they an item?" 10 Curtis and Ekin-Su got together on All Stars this year, but recently split, with the pair announcing their break up via social media statements Credit: Rex 10 Jazzy Phoenix, 23, rose to fame for playing Nadine Keller in EastEnders Credit: Rex 10 Jazzy has been linked to co-star Jamie Borthwick in the past Credit: BBC
