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Yahoo
2 days ago
- General
- Yahoo
The Hidden Problem with Father's Day Cards
"Hearst Magazines and Yahoo may earn commission or revenue on some items through these links." Every June, I find myself in the same situation — standing in the stationary aisle with my kids, staring at dozens of Father's Day cards that don't quite meet our needs. We gaze into a sea of navy blue and tan, and are given a limited choice of themes: golf clubs, hamburgers on the grill, fishing gear or a necktie. The kids and I look at each other and shrug; none of these cards helps them articulate what they want to say, which is: Thank you for cooking dinner every night, thank you for the days when you leave work early because we need you at home, thank you for being our chauffeur on the weekend and thank you for making us feel loved. But there are no cards that capture those thoughts. So, we just choose the most innocuous of the bunch and move on. Another Father's Day card … check. I find this annual routine deeply unsatisfying. It's not just due to the lack of aesthetic choices — it is because these cards do not adequately match the current reality of today's fatherhood. The implicit message in these cards is that the essence of fatherhood lies not in a man's involvement with his family, but in his profession or his hobbies. Ironically, rather than celebrating Dad as part of the family, we focus on his activities from his family. This message is not new; this perception has existed as long as any of us have been alive. For generations, we have defined the venerable father as a man who financially provides for his family. He might also do other things for the family, but those are tangential, additional. According to tradition — and to the limited selection of Father's Day cards — a good dad is a man who brings home a paycheck and then is allowed to sneak away to his favorite fishing hole or play a round of golf. Of course, there are many ways that any parent can provide for their family. There are household tasks, such as laundry, cooking, dishes, grocery shopping, cleaning. There are caregiving tasks: giving kids a bath, helping with homework, taking time off work when kids are sick — not to mention scheduling and managing all the appointments, from dental check-ups to haircuts. And perhaps, the toughest of all, there is emotional work with kids: helping them through a challenge at school, or being there after their first heartbreak. Society has long coded these activities as a female responsibility, and data tells us that women still do the majority of this work. But little by little, our perception of a 'successful father' is evolving, and more dads are embracing household work as a way to provide for their family. According to the Survey of Contemporary Fatherhood, more than 90% of today's dads believe that fathers should play an active role in their children's lives, that a dad's involvement is essential for children's well-being. We are seeing a rise in stay-at-home dads. And more dads are looking for a flexible work schedule; not because they want to golf or go fishing, but because they want to be present at home, support their partner's career, and spend more time with their kids. This redefinition of fatherhood is not just the result of natural progression. Social change requires intentional behavior. Equimundo: Center for Masculinities and Social Justice does research, advocacy and programming to change the way we think about fathers and fatherhood. One core component of Equimundo's work is specifically aimed at increasing men's role in caregiving, and they've found that more dads doing more hands-on care work in the home does not just benefit their partners and kids — it also benefits dads. 'Men themselves benefit as they embrace the daily joys that come along with doing the hands-on work that care requires,' says Gary Barker, founder and CEO of Equimundo. 'Our research from around the world finds that men who report being more involved in the daily care of their children and emotionally closer to their children are happier, they are more motivated at work and they tend to take greater care of themselves. Whether they live with their children, or live apart, involved fathers are happier and healthier. And for those of us who have the experience, it is a self-evident truth that the relationships with our children are among the most powerful and meaningful parts of our lives." Maybe you're thinking sure, this all makes sense. But why make such a fuss about a greeting card we send once a year? Father's Day is an important cultural touchpoint. According to Hallmark, Father's Day is the 4th largest card-giving holiday in the United States, and roughly 72 million cards are exchanged every June. Imagine the subconscious, reinforcing impact of those 72 million messages on our culture year after year. This year, let's move past the old stereotypes and use card-giving as a way to embrace an expanded definition of a 'good dad.' We can use Father's Day to highlight that fatherhood is so much more than a 9-to-5 at the office or a weekend BBQ. We can celebrate those dads who are providing for their families in many different ways, and honor fathers for the care work they do. We can also challenge outdated cultural norms, and set clear expectations of what we expect fatherhood to look like in the future. 'Many of us have in our heads that mothers are the main caregivers," Barker agrees, "the ones who really know what they are doing and that dads are really kind of deficient when it comes to care. That's why it's so important that we send daily messages that [dads] can and should be just as much the caregivers as moms.' This may be especially important for the new dads in our lives. A new generation of men are entering parenthood, perhaps celebrating their first Father's Day this year. They have the luxury of a blank slate, and a lifetime of opportunities ahead of them. Do we want to limit these new dads to the traditional role of "provider?" Or do we want to help them fully embrace a wider range of fathering possibilities — to be the dad they want to be. As a researcher and writer of gender norms, I will be the first person to admit we still have a lot of work to do before achieving household gender equality. And, still, I believe it is important to celebrate our successes — and think about the ways we are each embracing change. In that spirit, Good Housekeeping has created four Father's Day cards for you to download, print (double-sided works best) and give to the dads in your life. These cards, we hope, come closer to illustrating our evolving expectations of fatherhood: a dad giving a bath, a dad reading books, a dad and grandpa preparing a meal, and a dad doing a TikTok dance with his teenager — all of which aim to capture those sweet, every day moments that dads share with their family. We made two versions of each card: a color version, and one that also works as a coloring page that kids can fill in themselves. I showed these four illustrations to my kids and asked, which one is best for your dad? They knew immediately — their favorite was the dad reading books. When I asked why they chose that one, they replied, 'Because it is so real. It's so cozy. That's something that we have done with dad ever since we were little … something we still do with dad all the time.' My kids were drawn to the illustration because it made them feel something. Unlike a photo of golf clubs or a necktie, this illustration captured a snapshot of fatherhood; a routine that made them feel warm, content, important, and loved. Hopefully, when my husband opens this card on June 15th, he'll feel the Message: "Best Dad. Better Dancer. Happy Father's Day!" Shop Now Shop NowInside Message: "Dad, you've taught me so much! Happy Father's Day!" Shop Now Shop NowInside Message: "Thanks for all that you do! Happy Father's Day!" Shop Now Shop NowInside Message: "I couldn't ask for a better role model. Happy Father's Day!" Shop Now Shop Now You Might Also Like 67 Best Gifts for Women That'll Make Her Smile The Best Pillows for Every Type of Sleeper
Yahoo
3 days ago
- Yahoo
North Adams man sentenced to prison for assaulting child
PITTSFIELD, Mass. (WWLP) – A North Adams man pleaded guilty to five charges involving assaulting a child in Berkshire Superior Court on Thursday. Springfield man sentenced to life for 2021 Chicopee murder Berkshire District Attorney's Office Chief of Operations Julia Sabourin shared in a news release that in 2022, 37-year-old Jesriel Morales of North Adams allegedly assaulted a six-year-old child. Morales reportedly slammed the child into a window and wall, hit them with a belt, slapped them, and forced them to kneel on dried rice. On Thursday, Morales pleaded guilty to three counts of Aggravated Assault and Battery with a Dangerous Weapon on a Child and two counts of Assault and Battery. He was sentenced to two and a half years in the Berkshire House of Corrections, followed by two years of probation. Morales was also ordered by the judge to have no contact with the victim and to participate in the Fatherhood program. 'I am pleased with the guilty plea,' said Berkshire District Attorney Timothy Shugrue. 'Jesriel Morales preyed on the most innocent member of society. Today, my thoughts are with the very young victim. I hope this conclusion provides them some peace and feeling of safety and security.' WWLP-22News, an NBC affiliate, began broadcasting in March 1953 to provide local news, network, syndicated, and local programming to western Massachusetts. Watch the 22News Digital Edition weekdays at 4 p.m. on Copyright 2025 Nexstar Media, Inc. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten, or redistributed.
The Sun
20-05-2025
- Entertainment
- The Sun
Phil Foden puts Man City's FA Cup final defeat behind him as he beams with his kids in Burberry Father's Day photoshoot
FOOTIE ace Phil Foden lines up with his kids in a Father's Day shoot for Burberry. It's good to see the Manchester City star, 24, all smiles as he posed with son Ronnie, six, and daughter True, three. 3 3 3 After all, just days ago he and boss Pep Guardiola had to face up to the team's shock 1-0 FA Cup defeat to Crystal Palace. Foden is the face of Burberry's new menswear collection, launched to 'celebrate fatherhood', after he previously collaborated with the famous brand ahead of Euro 2024. The England footballer, wearing a white T-shirt and navy shirt, holds True on his lap as she rocks a checked dress, while his 'mini-me' son sports a Burberry shirt next to him. Sharing the heartwarming pictures on their official Instagram page, the fashion giant posted: 'Team line-up: Phil, True and Ronnie Foden celebrate fatherhood.' Fans commented: 'What a beautiful family.' After working with Burberry in 2023, doing a shoot in Stockport, Gtr Manchester, the £200k-a-week midfielder said: 'Fashion is important to me and it was incredible to work with Burberry in my hometown.' Burberry's new range has been launched ahead of Father's Day next month, celebrating "fatherhood, tradition and British values". At the weekend, The Sun on Sunday revealed how Foden has already treated daughter True to a £10,000 Rolex, a £160 Monnalisa designer dress, and a £40 bag from Hookd. Her Rolex is identical to one worn by Kylie Jenner's daughter Stormi, six. Phil's own watch collection includes a Rolex Sky Dweller and a Day Date.
Daily Mail
18-05-2025
- Entertainment
- Daily Mail
Ben Affleck is glued to his phone as he treats kids Fin and Samuel to lunch after visiting ex Jennifer Garner
Ben Affleck was ever the doting dad as he spent Saturday afternoon with two of his kids. The actor, 52, took Fin, 16, and Samuel, 13, for lunch at Huckleberry Cafe in Santa Monica, after r ecently visiting their mom Jennifer Garner, 53, on Mother's Day. The Batman star — whose ex-girlfriend Ana de Armas, 37, is romancing Mission Impossible star Tom Cruise, 62 — was a tad distracted by the phone in his hand, and appeared to make a surprised face while looking at something on the device. Fin, who held a book, was pictured glancing over at the phone as if trying to decipher what had captured Ben's attention so intently. Not pictured on the outing was older sister Violet, 18, who's away in college. Ben sported a black peacoat with matching jeans and boots for the outing. Peeking out from underneath his coat was a grey t-shirt. He completed the look with a pair of aviator sunglasses. Finn rocked a white and orange sweatshirt, blue jeans, and a brown belt. The youngster's shoe laces appeared untied, posing a potential tripping hazard. Ben's son Samuel sported a grey hoodie, grey sweatpants and blue and white sneakers. The sneakers appeared to be the Off-White x Air Jordan 1 Retro High OG, which have a resale market price anywhere from $3,000 to upwards of $6,000. It comes after Affleck had a blistering response when Samuel publicly asked him for $6,000 sneakers back in March. The Town actor made sure his teenager understood that fortune is earned, not inherited, after a pair of Dior Air Jordan 1 shoes caught Sam's eye at the Got Sole sneaker convention, telling him quite simply: 'You're broke.' In a later red carpet interview at SXSW, Affleck, who has a reported $150 million net worth, explained why he turned down the request. 'He's like "We have the money,"' the father-of-three told Access Hollywood. 'I'm like "I have the money, you're broke!"' 'That's what happens when you tell a motherf***er they have to mow a lawn. All of a sudden they don't want those shoes,' Affleck, who shares his son's love of sneakers, joked. Ben sported a black peacoat with matching jeans and boots for the outing. Peeking out from underneath his coat was a grey t-shirt It comes after Affleck told Sam 'You're broke' when he publicly asked him for $6,000 sneakers back in March at the Got Sole sneaker convention 'He's like "We have the money,"' the father-of-three told Access Hollywood. 'I'm like "I have the money, you're broke!"' he said as he explained his decision in a red carpet interview 'That's what happens when you tell a motherf***er they have to mow a lawn. All of a sudden they don't want those shoes,' Affleck, who shares his son's love of sneakers, joked Affleck added that 'there's always some grift why I need to be buying... I'm like, man, you do not need thousand dollar shoes.' In a video from the convention, shared on the Got Sole Instagram account, Affleck was seen telling his son, 'That's a lot of lawns you've gotta mow there.' 'You just like those because they're expensive,' he added. It comes after Affleck recently visited his ex-wife Garner on Mother's Day. The Argo director was spotted heading toward Garner's home in the Brentwood area of Los Angeles and seemed to be carrying a small gift. The pair sparked reconciliation rumors earlier this year following a very public embrace. Affleck and Garner were married from 2005 to 2018. She has since been in an off-again-on-again relationship with businessman John Miller. Last month Ben praised Jennifer and their co-parenting partnership during an interview with British GQ. 'I'm really lucky that I have a really good co-parent and partner in Jennifer Garner, the kids' mom, who's wonderful and great and we work together well.' That same month the pair were seen embracing during an outing, sending the internet into a frenzy. Daily Mail later learned Garner is 'deathly afraid of falling back in love' with the actor, with a source saying she still has 'trust issues' with Affleck following affair rumors with their children's nanny, Christine Ouzounian, now 37, a decade ago. 'She loves Ben but is worried that he will crush her all over again,' the source said. 'She doesn't want to heal another broken heart because it is just too much drama, plus she does not want their kids to see round two of their mom in a bad place with their dad. 'So much could go wrong if they reunite.' Affleck has not spoken much about his recent divorce from second wife Jennifer Lopez, 55, but was photographed spending more time with first wife Garner in the months that followed. He wed Lopez in 2022 and she filed for divorce last year following months of speculation. The marriage officially ended earlier this year. The 13 Going On 30 star was said to have played a key role in helping her ex-husband through his split from Lopez, adopting the role of 'marriage counsellor' to the struggling couple, with some friends feared she had been forced to 'play mediator.'
Newsweek
05-05-2025
- Business
- Newsweek
Why Obamas May Be Shielded From Trump's Film Tariff
Based on facts, either observed and verified firsthand by the reporter, or reported and verified from knowledgeable sources. Newsweek AI is in beta. Translations may contain inaccuracies—please refer to the original content. President Donald Trump has floated a 100 percent tariff on films produced in other countries, but one of his chief political rivals would mostly be shielded from the policy if it goes into effect. Why It Matters Trump wrote in a Truth Social post Sunday that he wants to impose the tariff on movies produced in other countries as a way to help save the "dying" film industry. How the tariffs may be implemented and enforced remains a question Hollywood is facing on Monday, as films are not a material good affected by his other tariffs such as the 145 percent tariffs on all Chinese imports. Trump has argued that the tariffs would boost U.S. manufacturing and close the trade deficit with other countries, despite economists warning the policy would mean Americans will pay more for consumer goods. His film tariff suggestion was met with some pushback from industry leaders, as it's common for movies to film in the U.S. and abroad. The White House, meanwhile, said on Monday that "no final decisions on foreign film tariffs have been made," the Associated Press reported. President Donald Trump speaks from the Oval Office on March 13, 2025, in Washington. President Donald Trump speaks from the Oval Office on March 13, 2025, in To Know The tariffs would have little effect on former President Barack Obama and first lady Michelle Obama's film production company, Higher Ground Media. That's because most of the production already takes place in the United States. Higher Ground Media has produced four feature films—Fatherhood, Worth, Rustin and Leave the World Behind. Leave the World Behind was filmed primarily in New York, Rustin primarily in Pittsburgh and Worth in Oregon. Fatherhood wasfilmed in Boston, with some scenes shot in Canada. The company's documentaries, such as American Factory, have also primarily focused on American subjects and thus have been filmed domestically. Newsweek reached out to Higher Ground Media for comment via Facebook message. What People Are Saying Spencer Hakimian, founder of Tolou Capital Management, on X, formerly Twitter: "There is no basis in economic reality to impose tariffs on a product you have a trade surplus in. Trump is doing this simply because the wealthy powerbrokers in the film industry in California have never seen him as anything more than a clown, and he wants to extract whatever petty vengeance he can with his final years of relevancy on this planet." Justin Wolfers, professor of economics at the University of Michigan, on X: "If Trump is serious about tariffs on movies, it's a very dangerous escalation. Tariffs have not traditionally been applied to services, and the United States is a massive net exporter of services. We would be extremely vulnerable to any service-based retaliation." President Donald Trump, on Truth Social: "The Movie Industry in America is DYING a very fast death. Other Countries are offering all sorts of incentives to draw our filmmakers and studios away from the United States. Hollywood, and many other areas within the U.S.A., are being devastated. This is a concerted effort by other Nations and, therefore, a National Security threat. It is, in addition to everything else, messaging and propaganda! Therefore, I am authorizing the Department of Commerce, and the United States Trade Representative, to immediately begin the process of instituting a 100% Tariff on any and all Movies coming into our Country that are produced in Foreign Lands. WE WANT MOVIES MADE IN AMERICA, AGAIN!" What Happens Next It's unclear whether Trump will actually impose the film tariff. His tariff on Chinese imports remains in effect, but other reciprocal tariffs have been put on a 90-day pause that began on April 16 to allow countries to have more time to negotiate new trade deals.
