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Yahoo
2 hours ago
- Entertainment
- Yahoo
Bride furious after groom invites parents to crash honeymoon — and friends are calling it a red flag: ‘He isn't mature enough to be married'
She's ready to say 'I Do' — but not to the groom's mommy and daddy, too. After swapping rings, the cherry on top of most holy matrimonies is a hot honeymoon holiday for the enamored newlyweds. However, that sweet escape can quickly turn sour if the in-laws tag along, so fears one freaked-out bride-to-be. 'We're getting married in [November] on [a] property that my [fiancé], his sister and their parents own together,' said the distressed damsel, 22, to Reddit's anonymous 'Am I The A—hole' community. 'Everyone is leaving the day after the wedding so we can honeymoon for a week there,' she added. 'That is, everyone except his parents.' While the Gen Z admittedly 'loves' her future mother- and father-in-law — who live on the 40-acre property she and the groom, 24, also call home — she's not too keen on them cramping her style during their post-vows vacation. Her objection isn't rooted in bratty bridezilla behavior. Instead, it's all about setting boundaries. Unfortunately for young couples tying the knot, Gen X and Baby Boomer parents are now horning in on their honeymoon fun en masse. It's a phenomenon that's rising as a cringy, controversial travel trend. And although having elderly chaperones on a romantic getaway might not be as egregious as a 'toxic' mother-of-the-groom who wears an all-white gown on her son's big day, or one who splashes the bride with red paint, it's still being deemed a 'red flag' by whistleblowers online. 'If [the 22-year-old] marries this guy, she will spend her entire life either with her in-laws, or arguing with her 'husband' about her in-laws. He isn't mature enough to be married as he is still his parents' child,' cautioned a concerned commenter, regarding the groom's unwillingness to disinvite his folks to the honeymoon. In her digital cry for help, the beleaguered bride explained, 'When I found out they were planning on staying, I told my [fiancé] I didn't want them there.' 'He said it wasn't a big deal. I told him it was weird and I wanted it to just be us,' she continued. 'I said he needs to tell his parents to leave at the same time everyone else does,' said the Zoomer. 'He told me no since his parents are part owners (even though his sister is leaving with everyone else).' The stalemate left the nearly-wed feeling 'invalidated,' prompting her to wonder if 'I crossed a line by telling him he needs to set boundaries with his parents.' But social media supporters assured the heartbroken belle that her would-be Prince Charming is being childish. AITA for telling my fiancé to set boundaries since his parents are going to our honeymoon? byu/Signal-Paint-7913 inAmItheAsshole 'This is a red flag [there] will always be 2 extras in your marriage and you will NEVER be a COUPLE,' warned a Redditor. 'Don't do this to yourself! Life is way too short.' 'Why does HE want his parents on his honeymoon?,' questioned a skeptic. 'If your partner doesn't want to be alone with you on your honeymoon, they just aren't that into you.' And a no-nonsense critic encouraged the bride to surprise her guy with a spicy ultimatum, suggesting she say, 'I plan on us having sex three times a day for the entire week. Would you rather do that or have your parents there?' 'Because you can't have both.' Solve the daily Crossword
Yahoo
3 hours ago
- Business
- Yahoo
Retirees face staggering 6-figure health care bill when leaving the workforce
A 65-year-old retiring in 2025 can expect to pay $172,500 on average for healthcare and medical expenses throughout retirement. That's according to Fidelity's 2025 Retiree Health Care Cost Estimate, which is up 4% from the year before. It highlights the general upward trajectory of health-related expenses that have occurred since Fidelity's first estimate of $80,000 in 2002. The report underscores an even bigger issue: 17% of all respondents have taken no action at all when it comes to planning for health expenses in retirement. One in five respondents said they never consider healthcare needs during retirement. With Gen X, that rises to about one in four. Health Care Costs For Retirees Continue To Soar Fidelity's estimate assumes enrollment in Medicare (Parts A and B) and Medicare Part D, which includes premiums, co-payments and other out-of-pocket costs for medical care and prescription drugs. However, it does not include long-term care expenses. For instance, even with Medicare, retirees are responsible for Medicare premiums, over-the-counter medications, dental and vision care as well as other types of added expenses like long-term care, according to Fidelity. Some of those costs can be offset with enrollment in Medicare Advantage plans, but those require separate monthly premiums. Read On The Fox Business App Chandler Riggs, vice president of financial consultancy at Fidelity Investments, told FOX Business that the rise in healthcare costs is driven by several factors, notably longer life expectancies, as well as a healthcare inflation rate that has outpaced general inflation. Despite the daunting figure, Riggs called Fidelity's estimate an "important wake-up call for all generations." "It's not just a benchmark for retirement readiness but also underscores the importance of planning as early as possible," Riggs said. Social Security Confidence Hits 15-Year Low As Younger Americans Increasingly Lose Faith In System Matthew Gregory, planning director for private wealth management firm The Bahnsen Group, said people grow accustomed to a hands-off approach during their working years since a meaningful piece of the cost can come directly out of their paycheck. "They may not be thinking about the need for supplemental coverage on top of Parts A and B of Medicare, as well as the fact that Medicare does not cover most long-term care costs. Those expenses can snowball quickly and become a reality check," he said. Likewise, Riggs said that people who have health coverage through their employer won't consider how they'll cover medical expenses when they retire and are no longer enrolled in their employer's health plan. This wake-up call for people near retirement could force them to question whether they have saved enough for retirement, if they can accomplish their goals with the funds they have and if they need to delay retirement entirely. "They may also end up settling for a level of coverage that is far less than they would otherwise be comfortable with or leaning on family members to fill gaps in care," Gregory said. This data comes shortly after an AARP study found Americans' confidence in Social Security – often seen as a safety net program because it provides a financial foundation for retirees – was also on the decline. The data, which was published earlier this week, showed that Americans' overall confidence in Social Security dropped from 43% in 2020 to 36% in 2025, the lowest level since it fell to 35% in 2010. Despite these findings on retirement readiness and growing uncertainty about long-term financial support, Riggs underscored that there are always steps someone can take to better position themselves financially, regardless of where they are in their retirement journey. Riggs said saving early and leveraging accounts where savings can be invested are powerful tools to build a "healthcare nest egg, regardless of age." Additionally, Riggs said employees who are enrolled in an HSA-eligible health plan should consider using a health savings account. For one, the triple-tax advantage of HSAs makes them a versatile tool to save and pay for health expenses. The contributions are tax-deductible, and the HSA dollars can be spent tax-free when used for qualified medical expenses. Any potential growth in money invested is tax-free as well, Riggs article source: Retirees face staggering 6-figure health care bill when leaving the workforce
New York Post
6 hours ago
- Entertainment
- New York Post
GEN X vs. GEN Z SLANG WAR! Who Flops and Who Slays?
Can Gen X decode Gen Z's chaotic lingo? Or will Zoomers be left scratching their heads over what it means to be 'bogarting' a cig? In this laugh-out-loud generational clash, reporter Andrew Court hits Times Square to test the street smarts (and slang skills) of both camps. From 'tubular' to 'delulu,' the results are equal parts grody and glorious.
New York Post
7 hours ago
- Entertainment
- New York Post
Gen Z, Gen X square off in slang showdown: Do you know what 'slay,' 'tubular,' 'Bogart' and more mean?
These generations are lost in translation. Gen X isn't exactly 'slaying' when it comes to understanding their zoomer children's slang — but Gen Z is similarly stumped by the popular words and phrases their parents said way back in the day. The Post took to Times Square to host the ultimate fun showdown — Gen X vs. Gen Z in a battle of the slang — and the results were mixed. Advertisement 9 James Curran, 49, and his daughter Katie, 17, battled it out in our Gen X vs. Gen Z slang quiz. Olga Ginzburg for N.Y. Post 9 Isabella Moss, 18, and her mom, Allison, 53, visiting from Austin, Texas, took part in our quiz. Olga Ginzburg for N.Y. Post We asked Gen Xers the meaning of five slang words currently used by Zoomers, including 'serve,' 'stan' and 'rizz.' Advertisement To test whether their kids could speak fluent throwback, we subsequently quizzed Gen Z teens on five slang words popular among Gen X back in the 1980s and 1990s, including pop culture-inspired 'gnarly,' 'grody' and 'tubular.' If you fancy yourself a superior slang decoder, take our test below and find out whether you fared better than those we stopped on the street. GEN X SLANG Gnarly 9 Mya Lenahan, 16, tries to guess Gen X slang in our Post pop quiz. The Gen Z teen was left stumped by some of the words used by older generations. Olga Ginzburg for N.Y. Post According to Surfer Today, gnarly 'originated from the word 'gnarled,' meaning 'knobbly, rough, and twisted, especially with age.'' Advertisement It first came into usage way back in the mid-18th century and kept its literal meaning for more than 200 years before it was appropriated by California surfers in the 1970s to describe something completely different. The slang word subsequently became a Gen X staple after it was used by Sean Penn's surfer stoner character Jeff Spicoli in the 1982 teen smash 'Fast Times at Ridgemont High.' But do you know what it means? Answer: 'gnarly' can mean either difficult and challenging or excellent and cool Bogart Advertisement 9 Brooklyn teen Azeeah Philips, 15, was stunned to learn the meanings of some Gen X slang words. Olga Ginzburg for N.Y. Post This popular Gen X slang word baffled the Gen Z participants who took part in our quiz, with several theorizing it was related to the 'Harry Potter' universe, in which a 'boggart' is a shape-shifting creature that takes the form of its observer's fear. However, the word is actually inspired by Hollywood icon Humphrey Bogart, who often kept a cigarette in his mouth without smoking it in scenes from his famed black-and-white movies. Thus, to 'Bogart' something means to hog or monopolize on something without sharing. Tubular Another slang word that originated in California's surfing culture, 'tubular' was initially used to describe a hollow, curling wave. By the late 1980s, it had entered Gen X lexicon with a different meaning and reached peak usage after 'Bill & Ted's Excellent Adventure' in 1989. Zoomers quizzed by The Post were mystified by the term, which fell out of fashion long before they were born. Advertisement It was widely used by Gen X to describe something cool, awesome or — imagine Keanu Reeves saying it — most excellent. Bodacious 9 Mom and daughter Angelique, 52, and Michelle, 18, stopped in Times Square to test their knowledge. Olga Ginzburg for N.Y. Post This Gen X slang word stayed popular even as they aged out of their teens and into parenthood. 'Bodacious' was subsequently picked up by millennials — but only a few zoomers we tested were able to guess its meaning. Advertisement It's used to describe someone impressive or remarkable. Additionally, it's used as an adjective for someone who is sexually attractive. Grody 'Grody' is an American variation of 'grotty' — a British slang word first made famous by The Beatles in the 1964 film 'A Hard Day's Night.' In California, 'grody' gained traction in the surfing community in the early 1980s, and several Zoomers we quizzed correctly guessed its meaning. However, they all insisted it's no longer a part of everyday conversation. Advertisement A shortening of the word 'grotesque,' it's slang for gross, disgusting or unpleasant. GEN Z SLANG Stan 9 New Jersey dad James Curran, 49, correctly guessed the meaning of the Gen Z slang word 'stan.' Impressively, he was even able to explain its origin. Olga Ginzburg for N.Y. Post The origin of this popular Gen Z slang word dates back to the year 2000 — long before Zoomers held cultural sway. Inspired by Eminem's song 'Stan,' released in that year, it's a term used to describe a devoted — and possibly deranged — fan. Advertisement Conveniently, it's also a portmanteau of the words 'stalker' and 'fan.' One hip Gen X dad, James Curran, 47, from New Jersey, correctly guessed the meaning of the slang word and was even able to explain that it originated from the Eminem track. Slay 9 Zoomer Hadi Baydoun, 25, is seen taking part in our Post pop quiz. Olga Ginzburg for N.Y. Post 'Slay' is derived from the LGBTQ+ ballroom scene but has become a key part of Zoomer vernacular in recent years. Several Gen X parents were able to guess the meaning of this word correctly, possibly thanks to Beyoncé's iconic hit 'Formation,' in which she sings: 'I slay all day.' It's commonly used to describe someone's appearance or accomplishment, e.g., 'You're slaying in that outfit.' Serve Despite being a popular variation of 'slay,' most Gen X'ers weren't able to guess the meaning of this word correctly. It's used to describe someone or something that looks good or amazing. For instance: 'You're serving in those shoes.' Rizz 9 Laney Schmidt, 15, and her mom, Sara, 47, took our test in Times Square. The tourists were in town from Omaha, Nebraska. Olga Ginzburg for N.Y. Post First used by Twitch streamer Kai Cenat, this word is now a Gen Z slang staple. It stumped many Gen X'ers who participated in our Post pop quiz, despite the fact that it's an abbreviation of an actual word. 'Rizz' refers to charisma and is often used to describe an unconventionally attractive male who has an indescribable allure over gorgeous women. Delulu 9 'I know Labubu, but not 'delulu,'' confessed mom Angelique, 52, standing next to her daughter, Michelle, 18. Olga Ginzburg for N.Y. Post While most Gen Xers we quizzed were able to identify the meaning of this colloquialism, one mom was left baffled. 'I know Labubu, but not 'delulu,'' Gen X mom Angelique, 52, told The Post as her daughter, Michelle, 18, stood laughing alongside her. Labubus are, of course, the viral collectible dolls from China that are currently the hottest toys on the global market. 'Delulu,' on the other hand, is a colloquialism for 'delusional' and is often used in a romantic context when the person reads into the actions of their crush a little too much. The results Gen X came out on top, with an overall score of 48%. However, that means that most participants didn't guess a majority of the five words correctly. But zoomers fared even worse, with a score of 41%, failing to understand the meanings behind their parents' generation's popular slang.
New York Post
8 hours ago
- Entertainment
- New York Post
Bride furious after groom invites parents to crash honeymoon
She's ready to say 'I Do' — but not to the groom's mommy and daddy, too. After swapping rings, the cherry on top of most holy matrimonies is a hot honeymoon holiday for the enamored newlyweds. However, that sweet escape can quickly turn sour if the in-laws tag along, so fears one freaked-out bride-to-be. 4 A 22-year-old bride-to-be took to Reddit, begging for help after learning that her future in-laws planned to crash her honeymoon. Getty Images/iStockphoto 'We're getting married in [November] on [a] property that my [fiancé], his sister and their parents own together,' said the distressed damsel, 22, to Reddit's anonymous 'Am I The A—hole' community. 'Everyone is leaving the day after the wedding so we can honeymoon for a week there,' she added. 'That is, everyone except his parents.' While the Gen Z admittedly 'loves' her future mother- and father-in-law — who live on the 40-acre property she and the groom, 24, also call home — she's not too keen on them cramping her style during their post-vows vacation. 4 The Gen Zers, who already share a 40-acre property with her mother- and father-in-law, says she doesn't want them to join her and the groom on their romantic trip. Take Production – Her objection isn't rooted in bratty bridezilla behavior. Instead, it's all about setting boundaries. Unfortunately for young couples tying the knot, Gen X and Baby Boomer parents are now horning in on their honeymoon fun en masse. It's a phenomenon that's rising as a cringy, controversial travel trend. And although having elderly chaperones on a romantic getaway might not be as egregious as a 'toxic' mother-of-the-groom who wears an all-white gown on her son's big day, or one who splashes the bride with red paint, it's still being deemed a 'red flag' by whistleblowers online. 4 The bride-to-be says she and her fiance argued about the issue until he ultimately 'refused' to discuss it any further. Getty Images/iStockphoto 'If [the 22-year-old] marries this guy, she will spend her entire life either with her in-laws, or arguing with her 'husband' about her in-laws. He isn't mature enough to be married as he is still his parents' child,' cautioned a concerned commenter, regarding the groom's unwillingness to disinvite his folks to the honeymoon. In her digital cry for help, the beleaguered bride explained, 'When I found out they were planning on staying, I told my [fiancé] I didn't want them there.' 'He said it wasn't a big deal. I told him it was weird and I wanted it to just be us,' she continued. 'I said he needs to tell his parents to leave at the same time everyone else does,' said the Zoomer. 'He told me no since his parents are part owners (even though his sister is leaving with everyone else).' 4 Redditors rallied around the soon-to-be-bride, telling her that the groom's allegiance to his parents is a major 'red flag.' Elnur – The stalemate left the nearly-wed feeling 'invalidated,' prompting her to wonder if 'I crossed a line by telling him he needs to set boundaries with his parents.' But social media supporters assured the heartbroken belle that her would-be Prince Charming is being childish. 'This is a red flag [there] will always be 2 extras in your marriage and you will NEVER be a COUPLE,' warned a Redditor. 'Don't do this to yourself! Life is way too short.' 'Why does HE want his parents on his honeymoon?,' questioned a skeptic. 'If your partner doesn't want to be alone with you on your honeymoon, they just aren't that into you.' And a no-nonsense critic encouraged the bride to surprise her guy with a spicy ultimatum, suggesting she say, 'I plan on us having sex three times a day for the entire week. Would you rather do that or have your parents there?' 'Because you can't have both.'
