29-03-2025
Life-altering events can happen any time; the FAMLI family leave program can't wait
A life-threatening or life-altering event can happen any time, which is why supporters say the state should not delay implementation of its family and medical leave act. (Photo by Fiordaliso/Getty Stock Images)
I got the phone call at 2:39 p.m. on Oct. 16, 2020. After four anxious days of waiting, I heard the voice on the line say, 'I'm so sorry to tell you the tumor we found was malignant – you have cancer.'
As the person on the phone became a muffled 'Peanuts'-esque voice, talking about oncology referrals and scheduling staging scans, I remember curling into a ball on my couch, alone with my cat, the room spinning as a myriad of rapid-fire thoughts ran through my head: 'I'm only 37. I have cancer?! Am I going to die? How do I tell my parents? My family? Friends? Work? What treatments will I need? Surgery? Chemo? What do those cost? What will my insurance cover?'
With little warning, four days after a routine colonoscopy I had because of a family history of polyps, my life suddenly cleaved in two: Before and after my Stage 3 neuroendocrine cancer diagnosis.
As my brain started the first of countless doom spirals, I tried to accept my life-threatening diagnosis, but I was fortunate never to have to ponder, 'Will I lose my job? Can I pay rent? Can I afford groceries?' Thanks to my large employer, I was among the lucky employees in Maryland with access to paid family and medical leave. Only 43% of the workforce have access to paid medical leave and even fewer have access to paid family leave.
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I was fortunate to have the time off to confront my situation, but no one should have to rely on luck to fight for their survival or the well-being of their loved ones. That's why we fought so hard to pass the Time to Care Act. In 2022, the Maryland General Assembly enacted it, creating a statewide Family and Medical Leave Insurance (FAMLI) program. A full 88% of Marylanders support this program, and the Maryland Department of Labor has been hard at work preparing to implement it.
Consequently, I am heartbroken by Gov. Wes Moore's proposal to delay the implementation of the FAMLI program for an additional 18 months: an unconscionable amount of time for Marylanders who need time to care today.
When you are faced with a life-threatening diagnosis, you are quickly reminded that the future is a luxury. Delaying this vital program harms every Marylander with a serious illness, caregiving for a loved one facing the end of their life, or welcoming new family members.
These Marylanders might not have an additional 18 months to wait for benefits to begin Jan. 1, 2028. During this proposed delay, over 247,000 Marylanders who would have applied for benefits will instead have to make impossible decisions about which bills to forgo, decide if they should miss a day's pay to sit at a parent's bedside in hospice care or risk bodily harm by returning to work too soon after giving birth.
Everyone needs time to care, and I am a testament to the unpredictability of when you might need paid leave.
The proposed delay has been justified by 'federal uncertainty,' but life doesn't stop because of uncertainty. I was diagnosed with cancer during a worldwide pandemic but care couldn't wait. No other state is delaying the implementation of its FAMLI program in response to the federal administration's recent actions, and Maryland's FAMLI program does not rely on federal funding.
Maryland was lauded as a national leader when it passed the Time to Care Act, but each year the implementation gets delayed and other states move ahead with starting their paid leave programs, Maryland gets left behind.
By keeping the FAMLI program on its current implementation timeline, the Moore-Miller administration can provide certainty to Marylanders facing the uncertainty of a life-threatening illness that they won't lose their income while navigating their care.
As a cancer survivor, I believe when facing an uncertain future you center your values, you stand beside each other, and you do the next right thing even if you can't see far into the distance. We may not be able to predict everything the future will bring, but the next right thing is for Maryland to hold fast to its values by keeping the FAMLI program on its current implementation timeline.
Marylanders should feel secure in knowing that facing life's best and most challenging times won't also create an economic tragedy. We can't delay promised progress because of the fear of some undefined uncertainty. Now is the moment to champion the timely implementation of FAMLI leave in Maryland.
