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The Star
a day ago
- Entertainment
- The Star
Melanie Bala opens up about motherhood and healing on 'The Relebogile Mabotja' podcast
In a recent episode of "The Relebogile Mabotja" podcast, veteran broadcaster Melanie Bala shared her journey through motherhood, personal loss and the pursuit of authenticity with host Relebogile Mabotja. With an illustrious career spanning over three decades, Bala rarely does interviews, but her conversation with Mabotja was a poignant exploration of womanhood and the struggles that often accompany it. From early beginnings at Bop TV to her current position at Metro FM, Bala has been a steadfast voice in South African media, but behind the microphone lies a story steeped in love, growth and the painful process of letting go. In this episode, she discusses the pressures of societal expectations surrounding motherhood, saying: "I think I let go, years ago, about what the perfect mother is, according to society, standards, family, magazine, blogs. "When I eventually let that go, it was incredibly freeing, and even now, my kids are teenagers, we have very open and honest conversations like if I've had a crappy day ... It's saying to them that I am human to, I am not the super mom. "Our parents' generation did it very differently; my mom was the ultimate homemaker. It took a long time for me to get over that model." Delving deeper, Bala opens up about the emotional complexities she faced during her divorce from renowned musician Zwai Bala. "No one wakes up today and decides that their marriage is ending; it's always a long time coming. In the process leading up to making the final decision that you're getting divorced, I think there's a part of you that starts to let go, so a lot of the grieving happens through that process. "Then, when the divorce happens, it's like 'Oh okay, this is different', and then it's a beginning of a different process of how do I navigate life without this person that I've been with for such a long time. "Again, it's giving yourself grace, you going to make mistakes, you going to mess up, but you give yourself grace to figure it out, particularly when you share children."
IOL News
a day ago
- Entertainment
- IOL News
Melanie Bala opens up about motherhood and healing on 'The Relebogile Mabotja' podcast
With an illustrious career spanning over three decades, Bala rarely does interviews, but her conversation with Mabotja was a poignant exploration of womanhood and the struggles that often accompany it. In a recent episode of " The Relebogile Mabotja " podcast, veteran broadcaster Melanie Bala shared her journey through motherhood, personal loss and the pursuit of authenticity with host Relebogile Mabotja. From early beginnings at Bop TV to her current position at Metro FM, Bala has been a steadfast voice in South African media, but behind the microphone lies a story steeped in love, growth and the painful process of letting go. In this episode, she discusses the pressures of societal expectations surrounding motherhood, saying: "I think I let go, years ago, about what the perfect mother is, according to society, standards, family, magazine, blogs. "When I eventually let that go, it was incredibly freeing, and even now, my kids are teenagers, we have very open and honest conversations like if I've had a crappy day ... It's saying to them that I am human to, I am not the super mom. "Our parents' generation did it very differently; my mom was the ultimate homemaker. It took a long time for me to get over that model." Delving deeper, Bala opens up about the emotional complexities she faced during her divorce from renowned musician Zwai Bala. "No one wakes up today and decides that their marriage is ending; it's always a long time coming. In the process leading up to making the final decision that you're getting divorced, I think there's a part of you that starts to let go, so a lot of the grieving happens through that process. "Then, when the divorce happens, it's like 'Oh okay, this is different', and then it's a beginning of a different process of how do I navigate life without this person that I've been with for such a long time. "Again, it's giving yourself grace, you going to make mistakes, you going to mess up, but you give yourself grace to figure it out, particularly when you share children."
TimesLIVE
3 days ago
- Entertainment
- TimesLIVE
Should men have manicures? DJ Sabby, Kat Sinivasan and more weigh in
What was once seen as strictly feminine is today a bold statement of self-expression. Nail art is no longer only for women. Across SA, men are confidently wearing polished nails, challenging outdated gender norms and redefining what masculinity looks like. Walking into a barber shop with glossy skin and painted nails is not a bold statement, it's a lifestyle. For DJ Sabby and Katleho Sinivasan, two of SA's most stylish media personalities, it's a personal standard. They are not only embracing nail art, they are owning it. DJ Sabby, real name Sabelo Mtshali, who is known for his energetic voice on Metro FM and charismatic presence on screen, is among a growing number of male public figures challenging stereotypes about masculinity through beauty and grooming trends. He told TimesLIVE: 'I started doing my nails years back. I was doing clear polish at first and transitioned into art designs. I enjoy expressing myself and having fun with how I look.' According to DJ Sabby the art designs simply depend on what the week looks like for him, or he scrolls on Pinterest to see what new styles are out there. DJ Sabby keeps it consistent. 'I normally do my nails every two weeks. It's usually at the same time I cut my hair,' he says. TV personality and style icon Sinivasan is no stranger to standing out but his confidence in self-expression did not happen overnight. From bi-weekly manicures to black-themed nail art featuring spiders and aces, Sinivasan is unapologetically redefining what masculinity looks like in modern society. 'I've always loved a clean look, and I don't like having crusty hands. Having nicely shaped and clean nails that are polished is an extension of being well-groomed, and I like the look of it. It also ties into the look and feel I go for. I'm very intentional with how I dress, how I smell and my overall grooming.' For Sinivasan, polished nails are about personal pride, not public approval. 'I think the idea of polish being feminine is one of those things based on some kind of binary that never made sense. We're starting to make more sense of the strict binaries, and it doesn't need to be that deep. Why should body wash be gendered? Why should a polish be gendered?'
TimesLIVE
4 days ago
- Entertainment
- TimesLIVE
R&B DJ Selby performs at Imbizo Shisanyama in Midrand
R&B lovers are in for a soulful treat as DJ Selby brings his smooth sounds to Imbizo Shisanyama in Midrand on Sunday evening. Known for his rich selection of love ballads and timeless grooves, DJ Selby is fast becoming a household name in the genre. Based in Mbombela, the DJ, whose real name is Selby Malatji, has been making waves in the local music scene with his nostalgic sets that pay homage to the golden era of R&B. His biggest musical inspiration is the late legendary Metro FM DJ Eddie Zondi, whose signature Sunday Soul Sessions became a staple in many South African homes. Selby continues that legacy by curating emotionally resonant mixes that celebrate love, heartbreak, and everything in between. 'I grew up listening to Eddie Zondi. His passion for soulful music and the way he connected with listeners left a huge impact on me,' he told TshisaLIVE. 'Every set I play is a tribute to that era and to him.' Asked what fans could expect on Sunday, DJ Selby said: 'Fans attending the event at Imbizo Shisanyama can expect a night filled with smooth classics, contemporary R&B hits and a few surprises.' Whether you're on the dance floor or relaxing with friends, DJ Selby's set promises to deliver the perfect soundtrack for a memorable evening. The event kicks off at 6pm. Entry is free, but early arrival is advised to secure a good spot.
TimesLIVE
27-05-2025
- Entertainment
- TimesLIVE
Tbo Touch announces star-studded line-up for Replenishment Concert
Metro FM's Thabo 'Tbo Touch' Molefe says a star-studded line-up is being readied for this year's Replenishment Concert. Tbo Touch will host the gospel event on September 27 at SuperSport Park in Centurion, Tshwane. The line-up includes Grammy Award-winning gospel singer Hezekiah Walker, Rev Benjamin Dube, Dumi Mkokstad, Sbu Noah, Xolly Mncwango, Jumbo, Thina and Ndumiso Zungu. 'I'm excited to host a star-studded gospel fair which has US gospel powerhouse Hezekiah Walker and this will mean some of our South African artists might get to interact with the megastar's music at the venue,' he said. 'It's all systems go and people should prepare themselves for an experience.'
