10-07-2025
Rachel Kolisi's bittersweet TikTok: kids' first solo trip to see dad hits home
Rachell Kolisi embraces her children Nicholas, Keziah, Liyema and Liphelo.
Image: Instagram.
Rachel Kolisi recently shared a TikTok video that captured the bittersweet moment of her children embarking on their first solo journey to visit their father, Siya Kolisi, captain of the Springboks.
The video encapsulates the logistical realities of parenting and the emotional complexities that come with navigating divorce.
Married for eight years, Rachel and Siya tied the knot in 2016 and announced their separation in October 2024.
As they adjust to their new realities, Rachel has taken to social media to express her feelings.
"In the process of getting divorced, today was the first time my kids flew to see their dad without me. It was hard," she said in her video, sharing snippets of their last days before the airport drop-off.
Rachel also reflected on the emotional weight of packing for her children's adventure.
"It's only a few days, so packing was light. Never going to feel normal packing for my kids to leave. I braid my daughter's hair so it doesn't need to be brushed while she's away ... Sasha Fierce, of course, went with the longest braids she could find 738 hours at the salon later," she laughed.
As the night before their departure unfolded, Rachel shared her struggle with anxiety, revealing a glimpse into her mental health journey.
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"This part (the night before) and when they leave is usually the hardest ... Slept three hours and decided to call my gran and ask if she'd like to go away with me while the kids are away. She said yes, so feeling better that I won't be alone."
In an emotional climax, Rachel encountered her second anxiety attack while preparing for her day: "Very swiftly moved into my 2nd ever anxiety attack. Headed to the airport ... Five minutes before my first meeting - it was a rough day for numerous reasons. Heading to bed early and I'll try again tomorrow."
Rachel's ability to share both her joys and struggles in a relatable manner not only humanises the challenges of transitioning to a new familial structure but also fosters a sense of community among those navigating similar circumstances.
Fans took to the comments to offer her their support.
"You can do this, queen. God's got your back," said Brlllsh Empire.
@Haylay wrote: "Whole of South Africa is here for you."
@tahnurmica said: South Africa is behind you, mama. This chapter isn't the end, it's a turning point and even though you didn't choose this storm, you will rise in it softer, wiser and stronger. One day, you'll look back andsee that even here God was holding you."
