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Ex's Mom's Heartbreaking Message Years After Breakup
It was when I found myself debating whether to attend the wedding of my new boyfriend's sister or the art opening of my ex-boyfriend's mother that I realized I had a problem. My boyfriend shook his head, puzzled. 'Is this really a question for you?' he asked. I'd been hiding my relationship with Tamar, my ex's mother, knowing it was not likely to go over well with my new beau. Even my ex himself had been jealous. Neither man could understand my connection to this brilliant, elegant, creative woman. My boyfriend watched me, waiting for an answer. I couldn't blame him for his impatience: Who in their right mind ends a relationship with the son, but keeps the parent? 'She's not just my ex's mom,' I stammered. 'She's important to me.' 'Loving her is one thing — prioritizing her over me is another,' he said. I loved this man, so reluctantly, I bought a new dress for the wedding. The next day I went to see Tamar. She lived in a stone house perched on a hillside outside Haifa. Like her, it seemed both elderly and youthful, rough-hewn and graceful. 'It's ok, sweetheart,' she said when I broke the news, but I could tell she was disappointed. Later, as I was putting on my coat to leave, she pulled me to her and gave me a long hug. 'You know I'll always love you,' she said. I swallowed the lump in my throat and turned to leave. The first time I met Tamar, her son and I had been dating for only a couple weeks. It was her unflinching gaze I noticed first, as if she was performing a CAT scan on my soul. 'You'll stay for lunch,' she said and patted my shoulder conclusively. 'Tell me everything.' Her son and I had plans, but there was no longer any question of leaving. 'My mother is a force,' he explained sheepishly after we left. 'I know she's a lot — she just can't help herself — but it's only because she's genuinely interested.' I managed a shrug, still a bit dizzy from her barrage of questions. Tossed into the storm, I was hooked. Tamar was a sculptor whose large female forms dipped in bronze managed to be both terrifying and entrancing. Watching her work was like observing a butterfly flitting from place to place. Her black hair, pulled into a tight bun, contrasted with piercing blue eyes, and her clothes beneath her white smock were vibrantly colored. When she wasn't working, Tamar drank mint tea out of small Moroccan tea glasses, the gold gilt on their rims long rubbed away. She talked about art, eyes flashing, as if every creation was not only a joyful adventure, but a puzzle to be figured out. She liked to host elaborate themed parties, which sometimes involved costumes. I was at a transitional point in my life, choosing between careers and countries. Though I had learned how to appear OK, I was deeply sad, plagued by my own uncertainty. It was only in the privacy of the shower that I let myself go — releasing great torrents of tears that I didn't understand. The freedom with which Tamar loved and lived both mystified and entranced me. My own mother is perceptive, thoughtful and smart, but also timid. My whole childhood, it was as if she was waiting for permission to be a mother — permission that never came. As a child, I hungered for direction, but my mother didn't feel it was 'her place' to advise me. 'Whatever you think is best,' she would say. I felt like an unclaimed suitcase winding its way around a baggage claim carousel. What I didn't know then was that she had suffered years of abuse at the hands of my father; I only learned that years later. What I did know was that his casual cruelty and contempt filled our house with a seething, brittle tension. Tamar was the opposite of my mother. When she first laid eyes on the small apartment I shared with her son, she noted his guitars, books and posters scattered everywhere. Looking at me, she said, 'You know you can take up more space, my dear.' She had strong opinions and an even louder voice. At dinner parties, she dominated the men but was always careful to seek my opinion. For the seven years that I was with her son and five years after, she loved me fiercely and unconditionally. I hadn't realized how hungry I was for it. When a surprise miscarriage landed me in the emergency room, she was there until three in the morning waiting for me to be released. For the next week, she made my favorite soup and propped up the pillows on her couch so I could lie weeping in comfort. On the day of my first half marathon, she cheered so loudly that my boyfriend had to shush her. She just shrugged and kept cheering. 'We're all going to die, right?' she would say when I hesitated over a purchase. 'Life's too short not to do what your heart desires.' When her son and I broke up, I cried so hard I couldn't breathe. 'I'm not sure this is just about us,' he said, perceptively. I couldn't bring myself to look at him, or even to respond. For years, every time he'd brought up marriage, I'd changed the subject. Instead, we'd spent an increasingly large amount of time in his mother's living room. I worried about how our breakup would impact my relationship with Tamar, but she went out of her way to reassure me. Surprisingly, so did my ex. 'I don't have to call her, because you do,' he joked during one of our occasional coffee dates. Tamar didn't give birth to me, but she did choose me, and that helped me believe in myself. In hurricanes, birds survive by flying into the vortex, sometimes swept along with it for hundreds of miles. I wonder if they feel disoriented and off-kilter when the storm deposits them somewhere new and unfamiliar. I wonder if they long to remain in the eye, where it is calm. I have felt that longing. But during those 12 years, when Tamar held me aloft with her love, I had become a stronger and more confident person. In fact, it was only because of that strength that I was ready to let her go. After the wedding of my boyfriend's sister, I gradually withdrew from Tamar. Ours wasn't a relationship I could just dabble in. Over time, we confined ourselves to yearly birthday and New Year's cards. I wasn't surprised, though, that my ex got in touch when she was dying of cancer. 'She wants to say goodbye,' he said. By then, more than a decade had passed, and I had moved to a different country. But I didn't hesitate. When I climbed the hill to the little stone house, I found her much changed. She was no longer the hummingbird flitting from place to place. Her motions had become lethargic, her coal-black hair, which she'd always been so proud of, had turned grey. She labored to breathe. But the bright purple scarf remained, as did the steady gaze when she pulled me into a hug. 'Tell me everything,' she said. Smiling, she fixed us tea, plucking mint leaves from the pot on the windowsill. As we chatted, 'All My Loving' began to play on the old radio in the kitchen. She loved the Beatles and swayed falteringly in time to the music. Watching her, I teared up. She put the back of her hand to my cheek and pulled me up to dance with her, the skin on her hands now crepey. 'Close your eyes and I'll kiss you, tomorrow I'll miss you, remember I'll always be true...' I closed my eyes and swayed.
Zawya
02-06-2025
- Business
- Zawya
Launch of Israel's Nitzana pipeline with Egypt delayed to H1 2028 over disputes
Arab Finance: The start-up date of the planned 600 million cubic feet per day (cfd) Nitzana pipeline, set to boost Israeli natural gas exports to Egypt, has been pushed to the first half (H1) of 2028 due to ongoing disagreements over cost-sharing and volume allocation, according to the Middle East Economic Survey (MEES). The expected date pushback was due to disputes between Chevron-led partners in Israel's Leviathan and Tamar gas fields and the country's Natural Gas Authority. The setback will cap Israeli gas exports to Egypt at 1.6 billion cfd from the second half (H2) of 2026, hindering Egypt's efforts to substitute costly liquefied natural gas (LNG) imports with more affordable pipeline gas amid surging domestic demand and falling production. The proposed Nitzana pipeline, which was expected to come online this year, is a 65-kilometer onshore connection between Israel's southern gas network and Egypt's network in eastern Sinai. With a planned capacity of 600 million cfd, it aims to expand Israel's export capacity to Egypt to 2.2 billion cfd. © 2020-2023 Arab Finance For Information Technology. All Rights Reserved. Provided by SyndiGate Media Inc. (
The Hindu
28-05-2025
- Entertainment
- The Hindu
Bengaluru welcomes rock with a cause this weekend
Bangalore Death Fest May 30, 6:30pm onwards Ignite Super Club, HSR Layout Entry: ₹1,900 onwards via If there is anything this city loves about its death metal, it is that it has got to be fast and relentless, with a nod to the old school. The third edition of Bangalore Death Fest is bringing in exactly those kind of bands, headlined by American death metal veterans Massacre, with support from Mumbai trio Atmosfear and city-based band Regicide. Massacre, part of the Florida metal scene right from the 1980s, will make their India debut at the event. Expect material from their seminal 1991 album From Beyond, considering their India stop is part of Massacre's From Beyond Down Under and Death in Asia tour. The band currently comprises vocalist Kam Lee, guitarists Carlos Gonzalez and Jason Banning, bassist Tim Wilson and drummer Elden Santos. 'The band will deliver a mix of classic hits, fresh material, and a few surprises,' the event description adds. An added bonus is Atmosfear coming in on the back of releasing their latest single 'Colossal Abhorrence,' which they say 'delves into the human condition in an almost apocalyptic world we now live in.' Lala Tamar May 30 and 31, 9:30pm onwards Windmills, Whitefield Entry: ₹2,000 (seating), ₹750 (standing), via and Vocalist, dancer and guimbry (a lute-like, three-stringed instrument) artiste Lala Tamar will perform with her band at Windmills this weekend. Described by the organisers as an 'electrifying force' with a border-defying and fiery performance style, Tamar will be joined by flamenco guitarist Ofer Ronen, bassist Oussama Menay and drummer Habib Baychou. Lala was raised in Morocco and Brazil, leading to a 'complex diasporic identity that she expresses through music, movement, and mysticism,' the event description states. It adds, 'With a deep reverence for her Sephardic Amazigh heritage, Tamar reinterprets the musical legacies of North Africa with an intensely personal and modern voice. Her artistry fuses gnawa trance, flamenco, Berber rhythms, and Ladino song traditions with contemporary pop, jazz, and electronic elements, creating performances that are at once sacred and subversive, intimate, and explosive.' Tatakai June 1, 7pm onwards Ignite Super Club, HSR Layout Entry: ₹320 onwards, via plus cover charge at the door Bands who rock with a cause are coming to town, kicking off the multi-city Tatakai tour in Bengaluru. These include Sri Lankan rock band Paranoid Earthling, Pune-based rock trio Nemophilis and North East-origin electronic rock/nu-metal band Rain In Sahara. All three bands intend to bring social messaging through their performances, from mental health to economic and environmental crises. Paranoid Earthling's frontman Mirshad Buckman says, 'We are returning to Bengaluru as a performing act after 16 years since our last gig in 2009, with a brand new lineup and new music in hand. We're set to start our tour in the city of metal and rock music.' Rain In Sahara's vocalist Lain Heringman says, 'The entire tour has been a totally do-it-yourself bootstrapped effort with all three bands pouring in heart, hustle, and belief to make it happen.' Talking about their setlist, drummer Akarsh Singh from Nemophilis says, 'Fans can definitely look forward to a vibrant mix of powerful tracks from our previous album, The Iceberg. The energy will be electric! And, adding a special touch, with our acoustic album dropping on June 1, we'll be weaving in a couple of those reimagined songs into our setlist.' Akshada Krishnan Trio June 1, 6 pm onwards The Blue Room, Jayanagar Entry: ₹800 via Pianist and composer Akshada Krishnan has performed across Goa and Pondicherry in recent times and she is now making her way to Bengaluru for an intimate gig in the trio format, joined by Sricharan Sunder on electric bass and Rohit PS on drums. Described as a 'demanding set' by organisers and venue The Blue Room, the Akshada Krishnan Trio is a new jazz act on the block and their set will largely feature contemporary jazz compositions by influences such as Shai Maestro, Nate Smith, Avishai Cohen, and Tigran Hamasyan. The event description adds, 'The featured composers are not just pianists, but also include a drummer and double bassists, known for their sophisticated and intense musical language and challenging compositions. Expect odd metres, playful groupings, and rich harmonic language that supports dynamic, story-driven music. They will also present two rearranged traditional jazz standards to honour the roots and heritage from which the modern jazz language has evolved.'
South China Morning Post
23-05-2025
- South China Morning Post
Fire breaks out at Hong Kong government headquarters, 30 evacuated
A fire broke out at the Hong Kong government headquarters on Friday, prompting the evacuation of 30 workers, according to police. Insiders told the Post that the fire, which took place at the Chief Executive's Policy Unit office in the west wing of the compound, had been extinguished. 'It is suspected that a cable caught fire,' police said, noting that about 30 people were evacuated. The fire did not cause any injuries or fatalities, the force added. The smoke report at Tamar in Admiralty was sent to police at around 12.15pm. Fire extinguishers were deployed to the scene.
Black America Web
22-05-2025
- Entertainment
- Black America Web
Tamar Braxton's Top 10 Iconic Moments
Source: Prince Williams / Getty When it comes to star power, few shine quite like Tamar Braxton. Whether she's lighting up the stage with powerhouse vocals, turning heads with bold fashion, or commanding attention with her unapologetic personality, Tamar has always been a force to be reckoned with. From her early days singing with her sisters to becoming a solo R&B sensation and reality TV royalty, Tamar's journey has been nothing short of legendary. She's the kind of woman who can go from a viral meme to a Grammy-nominated ballad without missing a beat. Her wit, candor, and 'tell-it-like-it-is' attitude have made her a fan favorite—and at times, a headline magnet. But beyond the sass and one-liners lies a story of resilience, reinvention, and relentless drive. Tamar has experienced major highs, heartbreaking lows, and triumphant comebacks, all while keeping it real with her fans every step of the way. As we look back on her most unforgettable milestones, it's not just about the drama or the fame—it's about the way Tamar has carved out space in the industry and in our hearts. She's loud, she's proud, and she's always authentically her . If you're a true Tamartian or just now catching up, these iconic moments remind us why Tamar Braxton remains one of the most entertaining and impactful voices of her generation. So grab your edges, your popcorn, and maybe a little tea—because these top 10 Tamar moments are nothing short of iconic. RELATED: Get Tickets: October London, Tamar Braxton, and Special Guest Ro James Tamar Braxton's Top 10 Iconic Moments was originally published on Tamar's signature phrase 'Get your life!' became a pop culture moment thanks to Braxton Family Values . It spread across Black Twitter, GIFs, and memes, cementing her status as a reality TV icon. Her smash single 'Love and War' became a career-defining hit, topping iTunes and debuting at #1 on the Billboard Heatseekers chart. It earned her multiple Grammy nominations and proved she was more than just a reality star. As an original co-host of The Real , Tamar brought her raw, unfiltered personality to daytime TV, earning a Daytime Emmy and a whole new fanbase. Her departure sparked controversy and public support from the Tamartian fanbase. Tamar made history as the first Black woman to win Celebrity Big Brother U.S. and did it with unanimous votes—while entertaining the entire season with her wit, drama, and hilarious commentary. Tamar has never been one to back down from online shade. Whether clapping back at haters or feuding with former friends (yes, even K. Michelle and Toya Wright), her digital drag moments are unforgettable. Her dramatic flair reached new heights with the viral moment: 'She. Me. Her.' It's been quoted, memed, and used to describe any situation where you need to let folks know you're that girl. Her reality spinoff with then-husband Vincent Herbert gave fans a deeper look into her life, career struggles, and relationship ups and downs—including the behind-the-scenes drama of her music career. This line from Braxton Family Values became an instant meme. Her facial expressions, hand motions, and delivery made it one of the most replayed moments in reality TV history. After her 2020 hospitalization and mental health scare, Tamar became more vocal about emotional wellness and the pressures of fame. Her openness helped destigmatize mental health conversations in the Black community. Tamar came back strong with her single 'Changed,' proving her voice still reigns. The soulful ballad reminded everyone that when it comes to vocals , Tamar is not to be played with . Black America Web Featured Video CLOSE
