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Los Angeles Times
6 days ago
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- Los Angeles Times
Wedding Registries and How to Ask for Gifts You Actually Want
LA Times Studios may earn commission from purchases made through our links. Let's talk about wedding registries. Specifically, how to build one that reflects your actual life, not just a checklist from a wedding website or home store. As you know, many couples live together before marriage and already own the basics. So it's no surprise that you may want to skip the request for an espresso machine or toaster in favor of more meaningful, practical, or experience-based gifts. That said, there's an art to asking for what you want, especially when it comes to money, large ticket items, or nontraditional registries. Money requests can feel awkward, but more and more couples are asking for it and guests are warming up to the idea. The key comes down to presentation. Instead of writing 'cash preferred,' consider using registry platforms like Zola, Honeyfund, or The Knot, which allow you to allocate contributions toward specific goals such as a new mattress, a down payment, or a Parisian cooking class. Framing cash as a contribution to a shared experience or milestone makes it feel thoughtful and intentional rather than transactional. If you're including this option on your wedding website or invitation, you can say something like:'Your presence is the greatest gift of all. But if you'd like to contribute to our honeymoon or future together, we've included a few ways to help us build our dream life.' Alternatively, if you do want to request cash as a gift, wording such as: 'Your presence at our celebration is the only gift we need. But if you feel inclined, we'd be grateful for any contribution toward helping us build our home together. Honeymoon funds are currently one of the most popular forms of registries. But instead of a single lump-sum ask, I suggest that you break the ask down into elements or experiences related to the honeymoon such as: airfare, hotel stays, a bottle of wine in Santorini, a couples' massage in Tulum, etc. Guests love to feel like they're gifting an experience rather than just giving money. Adding personal notes about why you want to experience said request together can make the ask even more meaningful. That beautiful sofa you've been eyeing? Put it on the list. Many registry sites (and stores like Pottery Barn or Crate & Barrel) offer completion discounts — sometimes up to 20% — for any items left unpurchased after the wedding. Even if no one buys the couch, it's still worthwhile to add it to your registry. And you might be surprised as some guests love going in on group gifts for something really special. Even if you're dreaming of a cash fund or a trip to Bali, not every guest will feel comfortable giving money. And some people, especially those of different generations, really want to give something they can wrap and see in your home next time they visit. Registering for a few tangible items like serving trays, candlesticks or other entertaining items can be a thoughtful way to honor those preferences while still curating items you actually want in your home. If giving back is part of your love story, you might invite guests to make a donation to a cause close to your heart. Nonprofit registry sites like The Good Beginning make it easy to set up a philanthropic registry. This route is especially meaningful for second marriages, couples who already have everything, or those planning celebrations where they truly do not want a gift but would love to use their wedding to inspire a little generosity in the world. A registry isn't about asking for 'stuff'. It's about sharing your vision for this new chapter of your life. Whether that means a dream honeymoon, a cozy home, or making the world a little better together, it's okay to ask for what you truly want. Just make sure to offer a variety of options, and to always express gratitude.
IOL News
02-06-2025
- Entertainment
- IOL News
Nozipho Ntshangase's heartbreak: Husband Zola marries second wife
Reality TV star Nozipho Ntshangase. Image: Instagram Nozipho Ntshangase's husband of 17 years, Zola, married his second wife, 25-year-old Misokuhle, this weekend. Last year, the reality TV star, who has eight children with her husband, shared that she was not in favour of the union. On The Mommy Club, Nozipho openly expressed her heartbreak regarding Zola's intention to take a second wife, stating, "The plan has changed to bring me pain and to bring my kids pain. I'm not happy with the plan". Last year, a video showing a heated argument between Zola and his family, including Nozipho and their children, went viral. In the video, Zola demanded his car keys to leave the house, while Nozipho insisted she needed the vehicle to take the children to school. The argument escalated, with Zola accusing his sons of ganging up on him. The fact that he went ahead and married his second wife has sparked debate among South Africans. The public reaction has been largely sympathetic towards Nozipho, with many criticising Zola for proceeding with the marriage despite her clear objections. Facebook user, Yolokazi Chagi, shared a post telling women to prioritise themselves when it comes to relationships. Yolokazi Chagi tells women to put themselves first. Image: Facebook screenshot The post shows images from Zola and Misokuhle's wedding as well as a picture of Nozipho and their children. Chagi writes, 'If as a woman you are not taking notes from these celebrity marriages I don't know uba at what point will u learn that men will choose themselves and their happiness over their children & wife of years. When it's time for him to pack nothing will ever make him change his mind so nawe as a woman do not be blinded by love,always put your goals and dreams before indoda because he can switch up anytime if he wants to and not even God will stop him once he finds new love (emoji)' Many women took to the comment section agreeing with the Chagi. 'Absolutely… focus ladies, focus', responded one person. 'Men will leave you in the desert WITHOUT WATER,' commented another woman. Another felt sorry for his new wife, saying, 'I feel for that woman because he is gonna show her flames, but it's safe to say she deserved everything coming her way.' Misokuhle has gone on Instagram to share images from the wedding day. Misokuhle on her wedding day. Image: Instagram screenshot Get your news on the go, click here to join the IOL News WhatsApp channel. IOL Entertainment
IOL News
02-06-2025
- Entertainment
- IOL News
Nozipho Ntshangase's heartbreak: Husband Zola marries second wife
Reality TV star Nozipho Ntshangase. Image: Instagram Nozipho Ntshangase's husband of 17 years, Zola, married his second wife, 25-year-old Misokuhle, this weekend. Last year, the reality TV star, who has eight children with her husband, shared that she was not in favour of the union. On The Mommy Club, Nozipho openly expressed her heartbreak regarding Zola's intention to take a second wife, stating, "The plan has changed to bring me pain and to bring my kids pain. I'm not happy with the plan". Watching this really broke my heart. Strength to Nozi and her family. 🍃✨#TheMommyClub — Cinnamon Pigment🍁 (@Phee_Lebeko) April 1, 2024 Video Player is loading. Play Video Play Unmute Current Time 0:00 / Duration -:- Loaded : 0% Stream Type LIVE Seek to live, currently behind live LIVE Remaining Time - 0:00 This is a modal window. Beginning of dialog window. Escape will cancel and close the window. Text Color White Black Red Green Blue Yellow Magenta Cyan Transparency Opaque Semi-Transparent Background Color Black White Red Green Blue Yellow Magenta Cyan Transparency Opaque Semi-Transparent Transparent Window Color Black White Red Green Blue Yellow Magenta Cyan Transparency Transparent Semi-Transparent Opaque Font Size 50% 75% 100% 125% 150% 175% 200% 300% 400% Text Edge Style None Raised Depressed Uniform Dropshadow Font Family Proportional Sans-Serif Monospace Sans-Serif Proportional Serif Monospace Serif Casual Script Small Caps Reset restore all settings to the default values Done Close Modal Dialog End of dialog window. Advertisement Next Stay Close ✕ Last year, a video showing a heated argument between Zola and his family, including Nozipho and their children, went viral. In the video, Zola demanded his car keys to leave the house, while Nozipho insisted she needed the vehicle to take the children to school. The argument escalated, with Zola accusing his sons of ganging up on him. The fact that he went ahead and married his second wife has sparked debate among South Africans. The public reaction has been largely sympathetic towards Nozipho, with many criticising Zola for proceeding with the marriage despite her clear objections. Facebook user, Yolokazi Chagi, shared a post telling women to prioritise themselves when it comes to relationships. Yolokazi Chagi tells women to put themselves first. Image: Facebook screenshot The post shows images from Zola and Misokuhle's wedding as well as a picture of Nozipho and their children. Chagi writes, 'If as a woman you are not taking notes from these celebrity marriages I don't know uba at what point will u learn that men will choose themselves and their happiness over their children & wife of years. When it's time for him to pack nothing will ever make him change his mind so nawe as a woman do not be blinded by love,always put your goals and dreams before indoda because he can switch up anytime if he wants to and not even God will stop him once he finds new love (emoji)' Many women took to the comment section agreeing with the Chagi. 'Absolutely… focus ladies, focus', responded one person. 'Men will leave you in the desert WITHOUT WATER,' commented another woman. Another felt sorry for his new wife, saying, 'I feel for that woman because he is gonna show her flames, but it's safe to say she deserved everything coming her way.' Misokuhle has gone on Instagram to share images from the wedding day. Misokuhle on her wedding day. Image: Instagram screenshot Get your news on the go, click here to join the IOL News WhatsApp channel. IOL Entertainment
Yahoo
28-05-2025
- General
- Yahoo
Watch: Nyala antelope briefly escapes enclosure at Chicago zoo
May 28 (UPI) -- The Brookfield Zoo in Chicago confirmed one of its nyala antelopes briefly escaped from its enclosure before being safety returned. The zoo confirmed the African animal escaped from its primary habitat on Tuesday and went exploring in behind-the-scenes areas. The antelope never entered public areas and is not dangerous to humans, a zoo representative said. Zoo guests were cleared from the area near the antelope habitat while zookeepers worked to return the animal to its enclosure. The zoo is home to nyala antelopes Zola and Hamilton and their three calves. It was not clear which of the animals was the one who briefly escaped. "Nyala antelope females and young blend into their habitats," the zoo's website states. "Their reddish color and white striped coat mimics dappled sunlight, which provides camouflage protection in thickets and woodlands. The males' chestnut color makes them stand out, but their large size and pointy horns help to keep them safe from predators."
UPI
28-05-2025
- General
- UPI
Watch: Nyala antelope briefly escapes enclosure at Chicago zoo
May 28 (UPI) -- The Brookfield Zoo in Chicago confirmed one of its nyala antelopes briefly escaped from its enclosure before being safety returned. The zoo confirmed the African animal escaped from its primary habitat on Tuesday and went exploring in behind-the-scenes areas. The antelope never entered public areas and is not dangerous to humans, a zoo representative said. Zoo guests were cleared from the area near the antelope habitat while zookeepers worked to return the animal to its enclosure. The zoo is home to nyala antelopes Zola and Hamilton and their three calves. It was not clear which of the animals was the one who briefly escaped. "Nyala antelope females and young blend into their habitats," the zoo's website states. "Their reddish color and white striped coat mimics dappled sunlight, which provides camouflage protection in thickets and woodlands. The males' chestnut color makes them stand out, but their large size and pointy horns help to keep them safe from predators."
