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Daily Mail
3 days ago
- General
- Daily Mail
FLOURISHING AFTER 50: Dad had a secret daughter for 49 years - now she's taking a share of everything including our family home
Dear Vanessa, I'm still reeling. My father died a few months ago at 82. We had a beautiful funeral - just as he would have wanted - and my siblings and I felt proud of the farewell we gave him. Then, everything changed. We were called in by the executor to discuss the will. That's when we were told there's a fourth beneficiary: a woman none of us knew. She's 49 years old, and she's our half-sister. It turns out Dad had an affair during his marriage to our mum, and this woman is the result. We had absolutely no idea. Mum passed away 10 years ago, and as far as we know, she never knew either. I can't stop thinking about how betrayed she would have felt. To make things worse, this half-sister has been left an equal share of Dad's estate. That includes part of the family home we grew up in - a place we assumed would stay in the family. She's now reached out and says she wants to connect. She's being polite, even gentle, but I feel completely torn. My brother is furious and wants to challenge the will. My sister doesn't want to talk about it at all. And I'm somewhere in between. I feel heartbroken, confused, protective of Mum's memory, and weirdly curious about this woman who shares our DNA. I don't know what to do. Do I fight? Do I accept her? And how do I stop this from changing the way I remember my dad? Blindsided Daughter. Dear Blindsided Daughter, What a devastating thing to uncover - and at the worst possible time. You've lost your father, and now you're mourning not just his death, but the version of him you thought you knew. Finding out about a secret sibling after a parent dies shakes your identity to the core. It's betrayal layered with grief and I can feel how much you're carrying. The anger, the confusion, the need to protect your mum's memory… all of it is valid. And yet, as hard as it is to accept, your half-sister didn't ask to be born into this. She had no control over what happened back then and may have lived her whole life wondering where she came from. Her timing might feel intrusive, but her existence doesn't erase your place in the family. It just complicates it, painfully. From a legal standpoint, if your father left a valid will and was of sound mind when he signed it, you may not be able to contest it successfully - especially if this woman has a legal claim as his biological child. But it's worth getting advice from an estate lawyer in your area before making any decisions. If you're unsure where to start, I offer a free referral service that can connect you with financial advisers and estate professionals who handle situations just like this. Emotionally, though? That's a different story. You get to choose how this unfolds. You don't have to welcome her with open arms. But you also don't need to turn this into a battle that leaves you more broken than the situation already has. This isn't just about the money - it's about legacy, fairness, and the stories we tell ourselves about our families. I believe having honest conversations about these things, even the hardest ones, is the only way to find peace. If the emotions become too tangled to talk through with others, try writing your dad a letter he'll never read. Say everything - the love, the pain, the betrayal. It's not about him hearing it. It's about you letting it go. You've been hit with a truth you didn't ask for. But how you move forward from here - that part is entirely yours to shape. Wishing you the best, Vanessa.
Al Bawaba
4 days ago
- Entertainment
- Al Bawaba
Bella and Gigi Hadid reveal secret half-sister Aydan Nix in emotional family statement
ALBAWABA - Bella and Gigi Hadid reveal secret half-sister Aydan Nix publicly. The Hadid sisters, Bella and Gigi Hadid, have taken to social media to divulge some surprising information about their family. They have disclosed that they have recently learned that they have a younger half-sister named Aydan Nix. The model sisters issued a statement in which they stated, "More than twenty years ago, our father, who was an only child at the time, had a brief relationship that resulted in a pregnancy." At the same time as their younger brother Anwar was born in 1999, Gigi and Bella Hadid were born to their parents, Yolanda and Mohamed Hadid, in the years 1995 and 1996, respectively. One year later, in the year 2000, Mohammed and Yolanda officially divorced. After then, Mohamed had a romantic relationship with Aydan's mother, and a few years later, Aydan, who is now 23 years old, was born. BROOKLYN, NY - SEPTEMBER 09: Gigi Hadid and Bella Hadid (Photo by Dimitrios Kambouris / Getty Images AFP) "Aydan was born and raised in Florida, growing up with the man she lovingly knew as her father until his sudden passing when she was 19," the Hadid sisters continued their story. "After his passing, she decided to take a genetic test out of curiosity, and that's how she discovered a biological connection to us." It was in "late 2023" that the Hadids first encountered their younger half-sister, and they have since "embraced" her into their larger family. "We've cherished this unexpected and beautiful addition to our family," according to their statement. "As siblings, we've had many open and loving conversations—with Aydan included—about how to support and protect her," they went on, adding, "Aydan and her family value their privacy, and we fully respect that. While she continues her life as a young lady in New York, we respectfully request that others do the same and respect her right to remain anonymous as well as her choice to remain anonymous. NEW YORK, NEW YORK - APRIL 28: Gigi Hadid and Bella Hadid (/AFP) It has been stated that Aydan has recently completed his studies at the Parsons School of Design. Following in the footsteps of her older half-sisters, she has also engaged in some modeling, as evidenced by her Instagram account. In addition, Bella and Gigi have two elder half-sisters, Marielle and Alana Hadid, who are the result of Mohamed's union with Mary Butler in his previous marriage.
