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Woman Feels 'Like a Guest' in Her Own Home Due to Mother-in-Law's 6-Month Stays
Woman Feels 'Like a Guest' in Her Own Home Due to Mother-in-Law's 6-Month Stays

Yahoo

time13 hours ago

  • General
  • Yahoo

Woman Feels 'Like a Guest' in Her Own Home Due to Mother-in-Law's 6-Month Stays

Woman says her mother-in-law rotates between sons' homes for six months, staying two weeks at a time She describes feeling like a guest in her own home, with no privacy or boundaries during visits Despite sharing her concerns, her husband dismisses them, leaving her emotionally drained and desperate for changeA woman turned to the Reddit community for support after years of feeling suffocated by her mother-in-law's extended visits. The poster, married for seven years, shared that her husband's mother "lives overseas and intends to move to our country permanently, and so while her visa is processing, she visits every year." "And by visits, I mean she stays for nearly six months, rotating between her sons' homes every two weeks," she writes. "This has been the routine for years." From the beginning, she has tried to be understanding, initially agreeing to the setup when her husband first asked if she'd be okay with it. 'I (naively) said yes,' she writes in her post, recalling how her mother-in-law seemed 'pretty independent' at first, traveling alone and joining group tours, which led her to believe it wouldn't be difficult. After they got married, the couple "lived in a shared house" with her younger brother-in-law and mother-in-law. However, the reality turned out to be far from what she expected. 'They were both around all the time — it felt like I never had any privacy or personal space as a newlywed,' she confides. Her mother-in-law, a widow for nearly two decades, had grown used to living with others for long stretches, rarely staying in her own home, even while overseas. 'She just prefers being around people - which I get, to an extent - but it's becoming too much for me,' the woman admits. "When she stays with us, she basically parks herself in the living room all day,' she explains, adding that her mother-in-law 'never goes out, doesn't do much on her own, and there are no boundaries.' The poster describes that the mother-in-law's constant presence leaves her feeling like a guest in her own home. 'I can't walk through my own house without feeling like I have to engage or at least acknowledge her presence 24/7,' she laments. Over time, she realized that her mother-in-law is "just incredibly clingy and constantly inserts herself into everything." The woman's patience was tested further by her mother-in-law's "pointed remarks" about her family, "including one about how my dad drinks 'a bit more than normal,' which I found really inappropriate.' She's not alone in her feelings. Her sister-in-law agreed that the situation has also taken a toll on their household. 'My sister-in-law opened up to me about how much of a nightmare my MIL was when SIL had her baby - constantly interfering, stressing her out, and not respecting boundaries,' she reveals, adding that as a result, her mother-in-law now only gets "limited access" to the child. Never miss a story — sign up for to stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer​​, from celebrity news to compelling human interest stories. These conversations only reinforce her own sense of frustration. 'My MIL thrives on meddling in other people's lives, playing the victim, and stirring up drama so she can get sympathy,' she writes, feeling that her mother-in-law 'inserts herself into other people's homes and routines because she's bored and wants entertainment - at our expense.' Despite repeatedly sharing her concerns with her husband, he dismisses her frustrations. 'He just doesn't see the issue. He's used to her being this way and thinks it's normal to go live in people's houses,' she says. 'I feel like I've never had a chance to build a life with just us without her constant presence looming over everything.' She insists that she values family and doesn't want to be seen as the villain, but feels "suffocated when she's here." "It doesn't feel like my home anymore when she stays with us,' she writes. Now, she's reached a breaking point. 'I'm at the point where I just don't want her to stay with us at all,' she confesses. Read the original article on People

Halting spy operation placed CSIS team in unnecessary danger, watchdog report says
Halting spy operation placed CSIS team in unnecessary danger, watchdog report says

CBC

time3 days ago

  • General
  • CBC

Halting spy operation placed CSIS team in unnecessary danger, watchdog report says

A new spy watchdog report says an overseas Canadian Security Intelligence Service operation was suddenly halted by government officials, "creating unnecessary danger for the CSIS team" and raising questions about ministerial accountability. The National Security and Intelligence Review Agency found no written records indicating the decision to suspend the operation had been made by the CSIS director or the minister of public safety. The review agency says that unlike typical operational matters, the case involved senior political-level actors from across the federal government. The heavily redacted review agency report provides few clues about the actors in question or the nature of the overseas CSIS operation. However, it says the decision to halt the activities abroad in mid-operation caused harm to Canada's reputation, needlessly placed spies in danger and "raises serious concerns regarding CSIS's accountability mechanisms." In September 2022, the episode prompted Marco Mendicino, the public safety minister at the time, to ask the review agency to look at whether CSIS and the Public Safety Department were effectively supporting ministerial responsibility. Ultimately the sensitive operation in question was allowed to proceed after a delay. But the review reveals that senior CSIS officials had difficulty grappling with its temporary suspension. At one point, the CSIS director sent an email to senior officials within key security and intelligence portfolios stating, "time is quickly running out and the situation is getting much more tense on the ground. We need a decision tomorrow." The report indicates there was also uncertainty over who had authority to resume the operation. The review agency found that CSIS and the Public Safety Department failed in their responsibilities to "provide timely and accurate information" to the public safety minister about elements of the operation. The report concludes the system of ministerial accountability for CSIS "is in need of serious attention." Building a stronger system now will help prepare for future operations and reduce the likelihood of a repeat of past confusion and risk, the report adds. It recommends that when a decision affecting an active CSIS operation is not made by the spy service's director or delegates, it must come as a direction from the public safety minister and should be accompanied by a written record. It also urges the public safety minister to ensure the deputy minister obtains any information required to fulfil their responsibility to provide independent advice to the minister about CSIS activities and operations.

A Guide To Starting A US Business For International Entrepreneurs
A Guide To Starting A US Business For International Entrepreneurs

Forbes

time3 days ago

  • Business
  • Forbes

A Guide To Starting A US Business For International Entrepreneurs

Vincenzo Villamena, CPA & founder of Entity Inc., helps global entrepreneurs with U.S. incorporation, tax filing and compliance. American and non-American entrepreneurs living overseas can benefit from forming a U.S. limited liability company. LLCs are a flexible and accessible U.S. business structure that offers financial legal liability protection for the owners as well as the opportunity to access U.S. markets. For Americans living and working abroad, setting up a U.S. LLC can offer tax advantages, particularly for freelancers and self-employed professionals. Compared to other U.S. corporate structures, the pass-through taxation structure of an LLC means the company's income is not taxed at the entity level. Instead, it passes through to the owner's personal tax return, simplifying U.S. tax filing. Owning an LLC also offers legal protection to the owners. This means that it protects personal assets from business debts, and it protects the owner personally from being held legally responsible for issues relating to the business. A U.S. LLC can also enable invoicing through a professional entity and can simplify access to U.S.-based banking services, which can otherwise be challenging if you don't live in the U.S. Additionally, forming a U.S. LLC can support the use of various large payment platforms, which often prefer U.S.-registered businesses and which are widely used and trusted by U.S. consumers. Foreign entrepreneurs can benefit from forming a U.S. LLC, particularly those running online businesses, consulting services or e-commerce ventures. Essentially, a U.S. LLC can open up access to the internal market of the world's largest economy. Another benefit is credibility. Owning a U.S.-registered LLC can increase trust with international clients and partners, offering a professional image. For e-commerce entrepreneurs, I've found a U.S. LLC can simplify registration on e-commerce platforms. Similarly, access to U.S. financial systems allows non-residents to open business bank accounts, use payment processors and generally operate efficiently within U.S. markets. The U.S. LLC also offers a straightforward structure compared to other jurisdictions, and there's no requirement for directors or shareholders to be U.S. citizens or residents. Starting an LLC in the U.S. can involve what is sometimes complex admin and ongoing fees for compliance with varying state regulations. Entrepreneurs may also become subject to U.S. self-employment taxes and fewer fundraising options compared to corporations. To manage these challenges, ensure that an LLC is the right structure for you, your business activities and your long-term business goals. You should also research state laws so that you understand what is required of you in terms of compliance. Setting up a U.S. LLC involves a few straightforward steps. Engaging a professional incorporation service or agent can help ensure that the process is completed correctly and help you keep compliant with state and federal requirements after you've formed a U.S. LLC. (Disclosure: My company helps with this, as do others.) These experts can also apply for an employer identification number (EIN) on your behalf and advise on bookkeeping and tax obligations. If you decide to work with a U.S. incorporation agent, look for someone who is experienced and has transparent pricing, good customer reviews and high-quality client support. Avoid agents with hidden fees, or those who are slow to respond to your questions. You may also want to look for ongoing compliance services to help meet legal requirements. Non-residents often register in business-friendly states like Wyoming, Delaware or Nevada due to low taxes, minimal filing requirements and strong privacy protections. Make sure to carefully consider which is the right state for your needs. All U.S. LLCs must have a registered agent in the state of formation by law. The purpose of a registered agent is to serve as a reliable, official point of contact between your company and the government, ensuring that legal and administrative documents are properly received and handled. Think of them as a designated "receiver" for important paperwork on behalf of your business. Any resident of a given state can be a registered agent. However, if you don't live in the state you incorporate your business in, you'll likely need to contract a registered agent service. With regulations like the Corporate Transparency Act, foreign-owned LLCs will need to have a physical U.S. business address in order to open a U.S. business bank account. You can register a U.S. company with a virtual address in many states, but U.S. banks typically require a physical business address (not a virtual office, mail forwarding service or P.O. Box) when opening a business bank account, especially for foreign-owned LLCs. This is the foundational document that officially establishes the LLC. It includes basic information such as the business name, address and registered agent details. The articles of organization are created automatically when you provide the information to the state in question. An EIN is required for tax purposes, opening a U.S. bank account and to hire employees. The EIN is issued by the IRS and also identifies the LLC for federal reporting. Establishing a U.S. LLC as a foreign non-resident or American abroad can open the door to opportunities and benefits, but it's important to ensure that you incorporate in the right state and in the right way for your situation. Setting up a U.S. LLC can be a straightforward and efficient way to do business in the U.S., even if you don't live in the U.S. The information provided here is not investment, tax or financial advice. You should consult with a licensed professional for advice concerning your specific situation. Forbes Business Council is the foremost growth and networking organization for business owners and leaders. Do I qualify?

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