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Irish Times
2 days ago
- General
- Irish Times
If everything does not happen for a reason, then why does it happen?
I set two atheists up on a date. It was a few years ago, when the Covid -era restrictions had convinced us that we would never again meet a new person. Unless it was online. And we'd had enough of that. The two atheists, both friends of mine, met for a drink along the canal. They spent the evening discussing God. There is no greater power they both agreed. P, my closer friend of the two, believes that life and love are dictated by chance. Your soul mate might board the 7.15am train from Connolly to Pearse Street every morning. You board the later one. Maybe one day, you get the early one and meet them and start chatting. Or maybe they are sick and stayed home that day. You never meet. It's all down to chance. READ MORE P's date, on the other hand, believes in serendipity. Although serendipity is really just the romantic version of chance. So, take the above scenario, where in the latter instance this pair do not meet on the train. But a minor accident aboard the Dart lands one of the soul mates in the doctor's office, where she meets the other, who was kept out of work with illness. In the waiting room, he overhears her telling the receptionist about the incident and intrigued, he starts a conversation with his soul mate. [ I told my boyfriend about my soulmate, without registering his reaction Opens in new window ] The rest, as they say, is history. In the instance of my two atheist friends, the fairy-tale would become resigned to a brief historical footnote. If the opening scenes sounded like the beginning of a noughties romcom, starring Bill Murray and Kate Hudson , it wasn't meant to be. God had different plans in store. Or maybe one of them simply forgot to text back. Who knows. Anyway, this friend, P, and I lived together for a brief period and spent much of that time discussing existence, and much more of our time discussing love (to the extent that P politely suggested at one point, we could perhaps talk a little less of love). These are the topics reserved for people with whom you spend copious amounts of time, where the mundane need not eclipse the existential. Friends you see so often that conversations are conversations, and not catch ups. Believing in chance was a comfort, P told me; it removes control from your hands. Her admission reminded me of the 'humbling and character-building experience of astronomy' of which Carl Sagan speaks in his celebrated book, Pale Blue Dot. The insignificance of our individual experience is reassuring to many, while for others (me!) it is anxiety-inducing. 'Our posturings, our imagined self-importance, the delusion that we have some privileged position in the universe, are challenged' Sagan writes, when we witness the diminutiveness of our home planet. Without the structure of a formal belief system, we have the freedom to create our own understanding of life. There is no doctrine to tell us how and what to believe; that might guide us or challenge our instincts and guttural value system. This freedom, however, can be intimidating. Choice is a scary thing. [ Illness management: 'If my condition does not improve, does that make it my fault?' Opens in new window ] I often wish, when it came to migraine, that I had a formal belief system to look to. One that could categorically assure that 'God does not give you more than you can handle', 'it will all make sense in time' or even the more kitsch, 'everything happens for a reason'. If everything does not happen for a reason, then why does it happen? Randomness feels a cruel instructor of fate. It was almost 20 years ago now that I received in my local church the blessing of the sick. It was not without hope that I walked up the aisle with my hands across my chest. Embarrassed by the jittery shimmer of hope I held that this teenage girl was destined for a miracle. That same year, an experimental doctor promised he would have my migraine cured by Easter time. Innocently and naively, I shared this news on my Facebook status with comparison to Christ's resurrection. (it didn't come to pass) More recently, a therapist asked me to outline my belief system. I began rather coyly but stopped abruptly when he began to interrogate. I didn't like his questions. I didn't want to lose this comfort to logic. My therapist, who enjoyed playing devil's advocate and readily contested anything I said, simply nodded and changed the subject. Perhaps he understood that, for pain without reason, the rational brings little comfort.
The Sun
4 days ago
- Entertainment
- The Sun
Leo weekly horoscope: What your star sign has in store for June 1
OUR much-loved astrologer Meg sadly died last March but her column will be kept alive by her friend and protégé Maggie Innes. Read on to see what's written in the stars for you today. Sign up for the Mystic Meg newsletter. Your info will be used in accordance with our Privacy Policy LEO JULY 23 - AUG 23 1 The deep insight of the moon and the powerful energy of Mars are just two of the advantages in your chart this week. You also possess new passion ambitions that, this time, will not falter or fall due to obstacles of time or distance. Visualise the future you desire most, as you are already moving towards it. Your luck factor is linked to a former competition team who reunite. SUMMER STARS: WHAT'S AHEAD FOR LEO IN SUMMER 2025? Love: The summer months are your time to shine, ready to impress anyone, anywhere. As you step onto a work or leisure stage, you may first glimpse a soulmate. Two stubborn hearts may finally unite around the August Bank Holiday. What is your star sign's element? In astrology, the elements — Air, Water, Earth, and Fire signs — serve as foundational principles that influence the characteristics and behaviours associated with the twelve star signs. Earth signs: Taurus, Virgo, and Capricorn The Earth signs are grounded in the tangible and practical aspects of life, embodying the stable and nurturing qualities of their element. These signs are known for their pragmatism, reliability, and strong connection to the physical world, often excelling in matters that require patience and persistence. Air Signs: Gemini, Libra, and Aquarius The Air signs are characterised by their intellectual, communicative, and social nature. This reflects the light and dynamic essence of their elemental influence. Overall, these signs tend to excel in the realms of ideas, relationships, and innovation, bringing a breath of fresh air to their interactions and thought processes. Water Signs: Cancer, Scorpio, and Pisces The Water element signs are profoundly impacted by their element. With each astrological sign, water gives way to emotional depth, strong intuition, and a capacity for deep empathy and connection. Fire Signs: Aries, Leo, and Sagittarius Fuelled by the element of Fire, these fire signs in astrology are known for their passion, boldness, energy, enthusiasm, courage, and a zest for life that often leads them to adventurous and creative endeavours. Life: The three summer new moons will guide you from idea to execution, and with each step, you will gain more confidence. This could involve career, finances, or adopting a new lifestyle in a new location. The key this summer is to keep looking forward and never back. Luck: Guessing games will work well in the second week of June, while working as a pair carries special promise in August. Mercury's detection skills will be strong within you, and your own history could lead to rich rewards in late July. Fabulous is the home of horoscopes, with weekly updates on what's in store for your star sign as well as daily predictions. You can also use our series of guides to find out everything from which star sign to hook up with for the steamiest sex to what it's like to .
Daily Mail
24-05-2025
- Entertainment
- Daily Mail
Daniella Westbrook is 'ready to marry soulmate boxer and makes further plans to go under the knife'
Daniella Westbrook is reported to have finally found her 'soulmate' and is now planning to marry the bareknuckle boxer who 'doesn't judge her'. The actress, 51, who rose to fame on Eastenders, is in a 'love bubble' with Charlie 'Chasa Real Talk' Symonds, 42, following her highly publicised personal struggles. She is even said to be planning additional surgery to get herself looking her best ahead of what could be her third marriage. An insider told OK! magazine: 'Danniella feels that she's found her soulmate. Chasa doesn't judge her one bit and doesn't care what has happened in her past. 'He understands all about the issues she's been through but is supportive – he just wants to make her happy. 'She's really smitten and feels like she can trust him, which is a really big deal for her.' From A-list scandals and red carpet mishaps to exclusive pictures and viral moments, subscribe to the DailyMail's new Showbiz newsletter to stay in the loop. The TV star hinted that the romance was getting serious on Instagram where she shared snaps from her Greek getaway with Chasa. The pair reportedly began as friends, having known each other for six years, before deciding to take their relationship to the next level. This was confirmed by Chasa himself, who wrote on Instagram: 'Sometimes that one friend is just too good to let go.' According to the insider, Daniella has been praying for a happy relationship for a long time. They added: 'She is thinking about marriage and definitely wants to tie the knot with him, it's a no brainer for her and she's ready to commit fully.' Daniella was previously married to Ben Morgan between 1998 and 1999 and then Kevin Jenkins from 2001 to 2014. Her nasal septum famously collapsed in 2000 following excessive cocaine use and while she has had corrective surgery since then, she is said to be considering additional work ahead of any wedding. The claims come after Daniella said her life has 'changed dramatically' since her father passed away at the start of 2024. This tragedy enabled Daniella to 'pull herself back from the brink' again. She wrote on Instagram: 'I got myself back into recovery and [have] taken the right opportunities that have come and do come my way. 'I feel so grateful, blessed and useful.' Chasa, whose boxing name is the 'Croydon Bomber', is no stranger to the limelight even without Daniella and is signed to Conor McGregor's Bare Knuckle Fighting Championship. He has also publicly spoken about his own addiction issues, revealing that drugs had led him 'down a dark road'. However, he is reported to have been in recovery now for several years.
Yahoo
08-05-2025
- General
- Yahoo
6 Signs You've Met Your Soulmate, According to Astrologers
Whether you believe in fate or random cause, expert astrologers and mystics explain six signs that you've likely met your soulmate. Transits of the planets in the cosmos can trigger your birth or natal chart, making you a love magnet. However, there are other omens, such as aligned angel numbers, general manifestations, and various signs the universe reveals when meeting the one. MORE: SIGN UP for Star Signs to get your horoscope and manifesting tips delivered straight to your inbox The North Node is representative of destiny and new beginnings in astrology. A person entering your life while the transiting North Node is conjunct, opposite, or square your personal natal chart planets can signify a fated, soul contract, especially if Venus (love), Moon (emotional connection), or your Descendant (relationship point) is activated. READ: 3 Most Brilliant Zodiac Signs, According to Astrologers When you run into angel number 111, a divine message of new beginnings awaits. You're called to open your mind, body, and spirit to the potential for rebirth, likely in your romantic life if you resonate with other soulmate indicators. When you have met your soulmate, you'll be surprised that you don't feel overwhelmed with shock, excitement, or anxiety. Instead, they feel familiar, safe, secure, and trustworthy upon first impression. Your souls quickly recognize one another, remembering your previous agreement to meet in this lifetime. RELATED: 4 Signs You Met in a Past Life, According to Astrologers When you meet your soulmate, be ready for a profound transformation—sometimes referred to as an 'ego death,' but in the healthiest way possible. Their mere presence and aura can inspire you to let go of what no longer serves you. If you have been holding on to false notions of security, confidence, or happiness, the arrival of your soulmate will awaken you to your true reality and potential. With them, you can be yourself, freeing you from the need to maintain a facade. RELATED: The Most Spiritually-Gifted Zodiac Signs, Ranked Angel number 222 follows you when you've met the one. This divine numerological sequence denotes heart-centered harmony, connection, and meaningful union. When it keeps showing up through your everyday life, you've likely met someone very special. OTHER: 7 Signs You're Spiritually Gifted, According to Astrologers If you have met your soulmate, it's likely that you crossed paths during significant 7th house transits in astrology. When a transiting planet enters your relationship sphere, the chances of attracting a partner increase. Planets such as Venus, the Moon, Saturn, Jupiter, and the North Node moving through your natal chart's 7th house can have a particularly strong influence. UP NEXT:
Yahoo
08-05-2025
- General
- Yahoo
Is It Love or a Lesson? 4 Signs It's a Karmic Relationship
It can be difficult to determine whether someone is in your life for a season or for a reason. If you're uncertain whether the intensity of your connection stems from soulmate growing pains or karmic lessons, this guide can help. Expert mystics and astrologers share signs that indicate your powerful relationship might be destined to teach you valuable lessons rather than being a soulmate connection. Here are four signs that you may be experiencing a karmic encounter instead of a soulmate bond. If these indicators don't resonate with you, consider looking into signs that suggest you're about to manifest your soulmate or that you've already met them. It's also possible that you and your partner were lovers in a past life. MORE: SIGN UP for Star Signs to get your horoscope and manifesting tips delivered straight to your inbox With its emotional highs and lows, it feels like you're on a never-ending rollercoaster. These experiences trigger intense realizations and ultimately help you piece yourself back together. They serve as catalysts for spiritual healing rather than as soulmates to support you during this process. You feel as if they entered your life for a reason, whether it's destiny or fate. However, you wonder where they are when you need them most, or why their love both helps you in your self-development journey, yet hurts so much. MORE: 3 Most Intelligent Birth Months, According to Experts In a karmic relationship, you may often find yourself facing the same conflicts and arguments. You might feel addicted to the hope that your partner will eventually understand or become the person you know they can be. While you see their potential at a deep, soul level, you may overlook the fact that they are not yet ready to step up on the surface. The same issues keep resurfacing. Deep down, you recognize that these emotional wounds need to be processed for spiritual healing. What you might not realize is that this healing work is meant to be done individually, rather than as a couple, once these issues are brought to the surface. RELATED: Your Ruling Planet Based on Zodiac Sign, According to Astrologers You may have tried to walk away before. However, something magnetic keeps pulling you back in. Regardless of trying to explain it to others, they dismiss it as codependence, bad boundaries, or a weakness. However, deep down, you know that their soul has played an important role in your spiritual evolution. The energetic tie you have often stems from previous incarnations, unresolved lessons, or energetic debts that need to be rebalanced. Once you reclaim your power, understand the innermost intention, and prioritize healing, they don't seem as desirable. OTHER: Which Goddess Represents You, Based on Birth Month? When you're noticing yourself and a lover grow in different directions, you're evolving, but your journey together has likely served its purpose. If you keep holding yourself back from your authentic needs or truth, or notice them doing the same to stick together, you're not supporting yourselves or the connection. Sometimes, karmic relationships come into our lives to teach us essential values, lessons, or insights about ourselves, then exit once the process has been completed. Allow what's natural to occur, rather than resisting the divine purpose. READ: Which Goddess Represents You, Based on Birth Month? UP NEXT:
