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The Sun
5 hours ago
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- The Sun
England cricketer Graham Thorpe ‘told doc he 'didn't see the point of being here' but was not classed as imminent risk'
ENGLAND cricket star Graham Thorpe told a doctor he "didn't see the point of being here" but was not classed as an imminent risk, an inquest heard. The dad, 55, was found dead on August 4 last year after a heartbreaking battle with anxiety and depression for several years. 4 4 An inquest has heard Thorpe begged his wife Amanda to help him die when his mental health "spiralled". The Surrey lefthander had previously tried to take his own life in 2022 after losing his coaching job with the England and Wales Cricket Board (ECB). Today, Surrey Coroner's Court was told Thorpe had missed a number of appointments with a mental health team before his death. He also told care co-ordinator Katie Johnson in June 2024 that he "hadn't been out for a while" and "didn't see the point of being here". But Thorpe reportedly had no immediate plans to act on suicidal thoughts and agreed to come to more follow-up appointments, consultant psychiatrist Dr Amirthalingam Baheerathan said. When asked whether the comments required an immediate review, the psychiatrist said he felt Thorpe "wasn't under imminent risk". The last time Dr Baheerathan saw Thorpe was 19 weeks before he died on March 20, 2024, it was said. He had been treating the cricketer since October 2022 after he was transferred to the community mental health recovery services following his discharge from a private hospital. It came after Thorpe was dismissed from his role with the ECB following an "incident" surrounding a viral video. According to reports at the time, the video was filmed after a dismal Ashes series which England lost 4-0. It showed Tasmanian police breaking up a drinking session involving both England and Australia players. The leak of the footage caused Thorpe to be dismissed and he ended up in hospital for eight weeks due to a suicide attempt in 2022. His wife Amanda told the court Thorpe had also found Covid lockdown "very difficult" and "stressful". Assistant coroner Jonathan Stevens said: "Things continued to go downhill, he was really struggling, had anxiety and insomnia and it was all really dark." Thorpe made repeated threats to kill himself and by June 2024, he lost interest in food and "wanted to hide away, totally isolated, in real crisis and despair", the court heard. On August 4 that year, he left home and was never seen alive again. Amanda believed he had gone out to walk the dog but saw the pet at home still so tried to call her husband. The court heard she then received a call from Thorpe's dad telling her: "He's gone". Amanda added: "He never really recovered from (his first suicide) attempt. "He came back from the tour of Australia in a terrible state - lots of things, the video, the environment, the set-up. "To be sacked after that I think it was foreseeable that it would be really really hard on him." She also told the court how in the weeks leading up to his death, Thorpe told her he "doesn't want to be here any more". Amanda added: ""He asked me to help him end his life. "He said he wants to go to Switzerland. I was in turmoil." How to get help EVERY 90 minutes in the UK a life is lost to suicide It doesn't discriminate, touching the lives of people in every corner of society – from the homeless and unemployed to builders and doctors, reality stars and footballers. It's the biggest killer of people under the age of 35, more deadly than cancer and car crashes. And men are three times more likely to take their own life than women. Yet it's rarely spoken of, a taboo that threatens to continue its deadly rampage unless we all stop and take notice, now. If you, or anyone you know, needs help dealing with mental health problems, the following organisations provide support: CALM, 0800 585 858 Heads Together, HUMEN Mind, 0300 123 3393 Papyrus, 0800 068 41 41 Samaritans, 116 123 Thorpe made his international debut in 1993 and scored a century on his first Ashes appearance, becoming the first England player to do so in 20 years. He was an England regular and went on to play 100 Tests, scoring 16 centuries and featuring 82 times for the ODI side, as well as enjoying a 17-year career with Surrey. His final Test appearance came in June 2005 before he was omitted from that summer's victorious Ashes series and called time on his international career. The inquest continues. If you are affected by any of the issues raised in this article, please call the Samaritans for free on 116123. 4 4
The Sun
7 hours ago
- Health
- The Sun
Tragedy as brother, 15, finds sister, 18, dead at home after she ‘slipped through the gaps' in NHS care
TEENAGE Chloe Barber was found dead at home by her 15-year-old brother after "slipping through the gaps" of NHS mental health care. The "bright, brilliant and beautiful" 18-year-old from Driffield, East Yorkshire, struggled with her mental health after being cruelly bullied at school and on social media. In 2017, Chloe overdosed on pain relief medication and was referred to the Child and Adolescent Mental Health Services (CAMHS). Four years later, in November 2021, Chloe's body was found by her 15 year-old brother after she ended her own life. Her heartbroken family say the teen was left with a "complete lack of support" as she came of age and tried to transition from child to adult mental health services. "Chloe was passed from pillar to post and we lost her because she was allowed to slip through gaps in the system," they stated. Two reports commissioned following her death - including a serious Incident report by Humber Teaching NHS Foundation Trust and an independent Safeguarding Adults Review (SAR) - found a string of mental health service failings, which may have contributed to her death. A coroner who examined Chloe's case found there was not a "clear path" for patients to transition from child and adolescent to adult mental health services, He intends to issue a Prevention of Future Deaths report to protect other teens in Chloe's position. "It's difficult to put into words the kind of person Chloe was," her family said in a statement. "She was amazing, bright, brilliant, beautiful, caring and stubborn. A truly wonderful young lady. "She loved all kinds of music and was always wearing headphones. She was always dancing around to the song Pocketful of Sunshine. "She was a gifted artist and loved drawing, and we always proudly displayed her artwork on the walls of our family home. "Our hearts have been broken beyond repair since she left us, but we are so proud of Chloe and grateful for the time we had her in our lives." After being referred to CAMHS in 2017, Chloe continued to struggle with her mental health for the next four years. She made another attempt at self harm in 2018 and had stays in several psychiatric units. 2 In early 2021, she was sectioned under the Mental Health Act and hospitalised at Cygnet Hospital in Sheffield, where she remained until July. Chloe was diagnosed with unstable personality disorder "evolvingly unstable personality disorder", characterised by "difficulties on how an individual feels about themselves and is associated with impulsive behaviour", per the BBC. But her family claimed they weren't informed of her diagnosis or how they could support her. Chloe was due to transfer to adult mental health services but struggled to engage with CAMHS and the Complex Emotional Needs Service (CENS). Just before her eighteenth birthday, she request that her medication be reviewed. But her family claimed: "This never took place as no one in any service took responsibility for who would be responsible for managing and monitoring Chloe's medication in the community. How to get help EVERY 90 minutes in the UK a life is lost to suicide It doesn't discriminate, touching the lives of people in every corner of society – from the homeless and unemployed to builders and doctors, reality stars and footballers. It's the biggest killer of people under the age of 35, more deadly than cancer and car crashes. And men are three times more likely to take their own life than women. Yet it's rarely spoken of, a taboo that threatens to continue its deadly rampage unless we all stop and take notice, now. If you, or anyone you know, needs help dealing with mental health problems, the following organisations provide support: CALM, 0800 585 858 Heads Together, HUMEN Mind, 0300 123 3393 Papyrus, 0800 068 41 41 Samaritans, 116 123 "She became so frustrated with the 'faffing around' that she told them not to bother." Iftikhar Manzoor, a senior litigation executive at Hudgell Solicitors who represented Chloe's family, added: "When she was discharged from children's mental health care and into adult care, she was effectively abandoned without a full assessment or care plan being devised and without any appropriate support being offered to her family. "Just a week before she took her own life, her father reported an incident of serious self-harm, which left her needing hospital treatment, and yet she was still not referred to Vulnerable Adults Risk Management." This is a forum that could have considered Chloe's case from a safeguarding perspective. Following her death, an independent SAR review flagged a number of failures from Humber Teaching NHS Foundation Trust regarding Chloe's care. This included a failure to assess and consider Chloe's need for aftercare services and a failure to ensure Chloe had an updated safety plan for use in the community. The SAR also identified failures in relation to the local authority including failure by adult social care to accept Chloe's referral and failure by Children's services to re-refer Chloe to adult social care when she turned 18. Senior coroner Professor Paul Marks, who conducted an inquest in Chloe's death, said there was a 'lack of documentation and poor communication between services and partner organisations'. But he concluded that, on the balance of probabilities, these failures and missed opportunities only minimally contributed to Chloe's death. While "many matters were true or partially true, no causation flows from them", he said. "The unpredictability of impulsive behaviour with evolving emotional personality disorder coupled with services offered makes it probable there was no realistic opportunity to prevent her death," the coroner concluded. Depression... the signs to look for and what to do Depression can manifest in many ways. We all feel a bit low from time to time. But depression is persistent and can make a person feel helpless and unable to see a way through. They may also struggle to about daily life. Mind says these are some common signs of depression that you may experience: How you might feel Down, upset or tearful Restless, agitated or irritable Guilty, worthless and down on yourself Empty and numb Isolated and unable to relate to other people Finding no pleasure in life or things you usually enjoy Angry or frustrated over minor things A sense of unreality No self-confidence or self-esteem Hopeless and despairing Feeling tired all the time How you might act Avoiding social events and activities you usually enjoy Self-harming or suicidal behaviour Difficulty speaking, thinking clearly or making decisions Losing interest in sex Difficulty remembering or concentrating on things Using more tobacco, alcohol or other drugs than usual Difficulty sleeping, or sleeping too much No appetite and losing weight, or eating more than usual and gaining weight Physical aches and pains with no obvious physical cause Moving very slowly, or being restless and agitated If you feel this way, visit your GP who can help you. If you, or anyone you know, needs help dealing with mental health problems, the following organisations provide support. The following are free to contact and confidential: Samaritans, 116 123, jo@ CALM (the leading movement against suicide in men) 0800 585 858 Papyrus (prevention of young suicide) 0800 068 41 41 Shout (for support of all mental health) text 85258 to start a conversation Mind, provide information about types of mental health problems and where to get help for them. Email info@ or call the infoline on 0300 123 3393 (UK landline calls are charged at local rates, and charges from mobile phones will vary). YoungMinds run a free, confidential parents helpline on 0808 802 5544 for parents or carers worried about how a child or young person is feeling or behaving. The website has a chat option too. Rethink Mental Illness, gives advice and information service offers practical advice on a wide range of topics such as The Mental Health Act, social care, welfare benefits, and carers rights. Use its website or call 0300 5000 927 (calls are charged at your local rate). A spokesperson for the Humber Teaching NHS Foundation Trust told Hull Live: 'The coroner's inquest conclusion found no evidence of causation attributable to the Trust and acknowledged that any learnings taken from the case have already been embedded effectively by the Trust. "We would like to thank HM Senior Coroner for his careful and thorough consideration of the circumstances surrounding the sad death of Chloe Barber, a patient discharged from our care in 2021. 'Our organisation remains committed to continually learning and making meaningful improvements to the safety and quality of the care we provide. "Our thoughts and heartfelt condolences are extended to Chloe's family and loved ones.' 'Worrying gaps in the system' Chloe's family said in a statement: "There was a multitude of social workers and mental health professionals assigned to her case in a short period of time, and there was no clear protocol or process in place that could be followed when Chloe was due to transition from CAMHS to adult services following her eighteenth birthday. "There was a consistent lack of record keeping and information sharing between services, which we feel is utterly unacceptable. "Consequently, important information that highlighted Chloe's risk of harm to herself was not identified. "We feel there was a complete lack of support for the family throughout, particularly when Chloe was discharged from inpatient services into the community." Mr Manzoor added: "Chloe and her family were completely failed by mental health services. "Chloe was a vulnerable young person with a history of serious mental health issues that made her a clear risk to herself. "She had made repeated attempts on her own life, had avoided taking medication which helped her and she had repeatedly talked of ending her life. "Her family were perplexed and concerned that after several years of support and treatment, including inpatient admissions to hospitals, Chloe was deemed at the age of 18 to be able to decline all services, despite the risk she posed to herself and her history of self-harm. "This is a case which has exposed worrying gaps in the system. "Turning 18 does not make somebody with a serious mental health illness suddenly able to make decisions in their own best interests.
Daily Mail
a day ago
- Daily Mail
Teenager searched on Tiktok for 'ways to make yourself pass out' before he was found dead aged 16, inquest hears
A teenager searched for 'ways to make yourself pass out' on Tiktok before he was found dead at his family home, an inquest has heard. Described by his mum as 'my angel', 16-year-old Maxwell Mills - known as Max - passed away in Christchurch, Dorset in February. In a statement to Bournemouth Coroners' Court, Isobel Hawkins said her 'respectful, caring, son' had 'never shown any indication of wanting to take his own life'. She said he was predicted to do well in his GCSEs and was already working part-time at a garage where he was planning to become an apprentice mechanic after leaving school. In the days leading up to his death Max had already arranged shifts for the following week at the garage. The schoolboy had been referred to CAMHS - Children and Adolescent Mental Health Services - after he acted 'out of character' by walking out of school weeks before he died. But a form he had completed on January 31 had led the service to categorise him as 'low risk' as he said he had no thoughts of self-harm or suicide. But on the morning of February 2 Max was found by his mother in the kitchen of their home at Briar Close. Paramedics were called but they could not save him. A post-mortem found he had died of hanging. His father Ben Mills later found Max had searched on a computer for TikTok videos on 'how to make yourself pass out'. TikTok is currently being sued by the parents of four British teenagers believed to have died after taking part in a 'blackout challenge' circulating on the platform - though there is no evidence Max had taken part in this. Max's mother said she did not have concerns her son was 'feeling depressed' before his death and she had 'always encouraged him' to talk to her about anything. She also said there were no signs he was being bullied at school where he had 'a wonderful group of friends'. The coroners' court heard she had earlier had concerns about how much time he was spending talking on the phone to his girlfriend. She said he would be up all hours talking to her, 'constantly video calling each other'. As a result he would be 'very tired' the next morning. But the two had broken up before Max died, and his parents said he appeared to be coping well with the split. On January 31 Max had refused to go to school saying he felt 'unwell and exhausted' and went to his father's house to do homework, staying overnight. Ms Hawkins said she picked him up the next day and they went home to watch TV together. She said as she passed his bedroom door later, she called out to him, and he had answered 'goodnight'. The next morning she found him in the kitchen. A search of Max's phone after his death found a WhatsApp conversation between him and his ex-girlfriend which had lasted nearly 90 minutes in the early hours of February 2. In it his girlfriend seemed 'concerned' that Max might harm himself, but he had assured her he would not do that. Coroner Brendan Allen said it was 'not clear' what Max's 'intentions' had been on the day he died, saying he had a 'strong and supportive group of friends at school and clearly a loving relationship with his family'. Although he had been referred to CAMHS he had 'expressed no thoughts of self-harm, or suicide'. Mr Allen said the TikTok searches showed 'there is a possibility that Max had not intended to lose his life, his intention was to pass out'. The coroner ruled his death as 'use of a ligature in circumstances where his intention is not explained by the evidence'.
Daily Mail
a day ago
- Health
- Daily Mail
Graham Thorpe asked his wife to help him end his life after his mental health 'spiralled' following Covid lockdowns and being sacked from his England coaching job, inquest hears
England cricket legend Graham Thorpe's mental health was 'spiralling down' after a combination of Covid lockdowns and being sacked from the English Cricket Board (ECB), his heartbroken widow said today. Amanda Thorpe described how the Surrey lefthander begged her to help him to die as he struggled to cope with anxiety and depression. He attempted to take his own life in a hotel in 2022, after losing his coaching job with the ECB after a video involving the England Ashes players on tour in Australia – which Thorpe filmed – was leaked. The former Surrey lefthander, who dazzled with the bat during a glittering career for club and country, was killed when he was struck by a train near his home on August 4 last year. He was 55 years old. Mrs Thorpe told her husband's inquest in Woking: 'He asked me to help him end his life. 'He said he wants to go to Switzerland. I was in turmoil. 'Then we get a letter for an appointment (with the medical team) in a month's time. 'How ill do you have to be?' Thorpe's wife, his father Geoff, and brothers Alan and Ian were all present for the hearing. Addressing them, assistant coroner Jonathan Stevens said: 'I appreciate this is an incredibly difficult time for you as a family.' The coroner, referring to Mrs Thorpe's witness statement, described how 'up until the time of Covid there were no psychological issues'. He said: 'You explain Graham found lockdown and Covid very difficult, very stressful for him.' Mrs Thorpe said: 'Up until 2020, no there wasnt anything in particular. 'Maybe in 2018 he had a bout of depression but he got through that, it didn't affect his job.' Thorpe's father Geoff, 83, agreed, adding: 'Everything was fine until Covid.' He told the inquest: 'What you've got to realise is sometimes us chaps are a little bit macho – we can cope. 'In fact, we can't.' Referring to the Covid restrictions, he said: 'He's not a fella who likes to be couped up.' Mr Thorpe senior described how his son's 'life came crashing down' when he lost his job with the ECB. The coroner described how Thorpe 'had his ups and downs with stress and anxiety' in 2021, but then there was the prospect of the Ashes tour in 2021/2 where the Covid restrictions in Australia were much stricter than in the UK. Referring to Mrs Thorpe's statement, he said: 'You say the environment of Covid was not good for him, would make his psychological condition worse. 'You mention on that Tour there was an incident involving a video that was taken that drew a lot of adverse publicity. 'You make the observation that he shouldn't have been allowed to go to Australia, and it was inevitable there was going to be a deterioration in his mental health.' Mrs Thorpe said: 'Thinking about it, because he went on that Tour, he was dismissed. 'If he hadn't been on that Tour, then he wouldn't be dismissed and that was ultimately what he couldn't deal with.' The coroner said Thorpe tried to take his own life with a cocktail of medication and alcohol in the middle of 2022. He said: 'Things continued to go downhill, he was really struggling, had anxiety and insomnia and it was all really dark.' Thorpe spent three weeks unconscious in hospital after the suicide attempt. He suffered a stroke, and was in intensive care for five weeks. He went to a private hospital, paid for by the ECB, but his mental health did not improve. He was offered a coaching role with the Afghanistan national team but could not go because of his mental health issues. Mrs Thorpe told the inquest: 'He tried to do it but he was spiralling down. 'He signed a contract and I had to tell them he was too unwell to do that job.' Thorpe tried various types of therapy including electro-compulsive therapy, but that 'didn't seem to work', the inquest heard. He made repeated threats to kill himself, including throwing himself in front of a train, his father said. Mrs Thorpe said: 'He told me he was scared, and I told him I was scared too because I didn't know how to help him.' By June 2024, Thorpe 'had no interest in food, he wanted to hide away, totally isolated, in real crisis and despair', the inquest heard. The coroner described how Thorpe left the family home on the morning of August 4 2024 and was not seen alive again. Referring to Mrs Thorpe's witness statement, he said: 'You had been upstairs on the phone and Graham had gone out. 'You thought he had gone to walk the dog but then you saw the dog. 'You tried to locate him using your phone but weren't able to do that. 'Then you got a call from Geoff telling you: he's gone.' Mrs Thorpe said: 'He never really recovered from (his first suicide) attempt. 'He came back from the tour of Australia in a terrible state - lots of things, the video, the environment, the set-up. 'To be sacked after that I think it was foreseeable that it would be really really hard on him. 'The weeks leading up to his death, he told me he doesn't want to be here any more. 'He asked me to help him end his life. 'He said he wants to go to Switzerland. I was in turmoil. 'Then we get a letter for an appointment (with the medical team) in a month's time. 'How ill do you have to be? I just wish he could have been kept safe. If you're not here, there's no hope.' The father-of-four was considered a talisman for England, and was a veteran of 100 Test matches between 1993 and 2005. But he also spent years battling anxiety and depression, and believed his wife Amanda and children Henry, Amelia, Kitty and Emma were better off without him. Thorpe was born in Farnham, Surrey, and showed early promise as a footballer - even being offered trials at Brentford - but was already involved in the under-11s set-up at his home county cricket club. He did not look back. Thorpe would go on to become one of the most revered batsmen of his generation, a rare bright spark in an England team which often failed to deliver. His swashbuckling style and distinctive headband made him popular with fans new and old. And he set records along the way - becoming the first England batter for 20 years to score 100 runs on his Test debut, doing so against a Shane Warne-inspired Australia at Trent Bridge in Nottinghamshire in 1993. He would become only the eight man to reach 100 Test caps for England, scoring 6,744 runs at an average of 44.66. But he was also plagued by demons. In 2002, the year he scored the third fastest double-century in Test history, Thorpe took a 12-month break from cricket as he left a tour of India amid turmoil in his first marriage due to his cheating that led to a bitter divorce and a battle with suicidal depression and alcoholism. Thorpe admitted later after he flew back from touring India to try to save his first marriage: 'There came a time when I would have given back all my Test runs and Test caps just to be happy again.' Mrs Thorpe said in an interview after his death that despite having a wife and children whom he loved and who loved him, 'he did not get better'. His wife said: 'He was so unwell in recent times and he really did believe that we would be better off without him and we are devastated that he acted on that and took his own life.' Thorpe will be honoured during the final Test match against India at The Oval next month to raise awareness of mental health. Day two of the fifth Test will be called 'A Day for Thorpey' in support of charity Mind. It falls on August 1, which would have been Thorpe's 56th birthday. Thorpe's inquest is due to last until Friday.
News.com.au
2 days ago
- Health
- News.com.au
Girl, 7, contemplates suicide, reaches our for help
A seven-year-old girl made a phone call late one night telling a stranger she was thinking about killing herself. That call saved her life. The little schoolgirl, who is still in regular contact with her professional counsellor at Kids Helpline, is just one of 4000 Australian children aged five to nine who reach out for help every year. 'That's a lot of really young people who have the courage to ask for help,' Kids Helpline CEO Tracy Adams told 'We take our role to provide them with free, professional support any hour of the day extremely seriously,' she said. 'I really celebrate that they have that courage and absolute ability to recognise in themselves that they need to talk to someone and help them through what's worrying them. 'The fact they understand themselves well enough to do that is very special. They should never feel not worthy and not valued. We have built a whole service for children and young people, not anyone else, so that's how much we value them.' Last year the service carried out 135,000 counselling responses to people from the age of five to 25. Three per cent of all those contacts were made from children between five and nine years old. Bullying is one of the key issues affecting the young children who reach out. The epidemic is claiming lives of children turning to suicide as an escape. This month a 10-year-old girl died in her bedroom on the NSW South Coast. 'We are not going to solve the bullying issue if we don't engage with young people,' Ms Adams said. 'It's really about building respect, celebrating diversity and helping students and young people to embrace their differences, celebrate them rather than feeling like differences make children a target.' Ms Adams said the support service, which is available 24 hours a day, seven days a week, not only helps young people but 'walks beside families who have suffered great tragedy'. One such family is Kellie and Mat O'Brien from Sydney who lost their 12-year-old daughter Charlotte to suicide last year. The O'Briens are holding a Charlotte's Wish charity event in August this year to raise much needed funds for the service so no child ever has their call unanswered. 'In the wake of our unimaginable loss, we are honouring her legacy by channelling our heartbreak into action,' Mat O'Brien said. 'We aim to strengthen Kids Helpline's capacity to engage, inform, and support children, young people, parents, carers, and educators. It's crucial for everyone to have access to the right support, at the right time, in the right way, and at no cost – 24/7,' he said. 'Our goal is to create a stronger safety net for children and young people, enabling them to access the right support when they need it most. We truly want no child or young person to feel alone, unheard, or helpless in the face of bullying. 'By working together to honour Charlotte, we believe we can create lasting change in the lives of children, young people, and their families.' Mr O'Brien said that while bullying is a complex issue, doing nothing isn't an option.' The charity is also having a Giving Day on Thursday, hoping to raise $500,000 to allow for another 9000 counselling contacts a year.
