75 Best Hinge Prompts, According to Relationship Therapists
Dating has come a long way from chance meetings, mutual friends, and love letters sealed with a kiss. Unlike our parents or grandparents, many of us now turn to dating apps to find meaningful connections—but with so many options out there, it can feel both exciting and overwhelming. One of the most popular apps today is Hinge, known for its focus on matching people interested in pursuing serious relationships. However, with so many people on the platform, making your profile stand out can be hard. That's why we've gathered 75 of the best Hinge prompts, according to relationship therapists.Together, Charisse Cooke, Shadeen Francis, Kasturi Mahanta and Deirdre Cosgrove not only share some amazing prompts you can use—ranging from ones tailored for guys and girls to funny ones—they also offer expert insight into what actually makes a prompt effective. Their advice goes beyond just getting more likes; it's about using the right words to attract the kind of person who truly aligns with you. With their tips, you'll be better equipped to filter out mismatches and spark meaningful conversations that can lead to something real—maybe even your happily ever after.So, if you're currently on Hinge—or thinking about giving it a try—don't stress about crafting the perfect prompt. We've got you covered with expert-approved suggestions that take the pressure off and help you stand out. Keep reading to see which ones our pros recommend, and feel free to steal your favorite!Related:
If you've never been on Hinge, it stands out from other dating apps because there's no endless swiping—instead, you like or comment directly on someone's photo or prompt to initiate real conversations and bonds. 'Hinge can be a great place to meet a partner because it is designed to foster true connections by presenting opportunities for users to share interesting things about themselves,' Cosgrove explains.Related:
When it comes to writing a good Hinge prompt, our experts have a few tips you should keep in mind that can help you in your journey to finding love.'A good Hinge prompt teases out compatibility without sounding like a job interview,' Cooke shares. 'Consider going with something a little vulnerable, a little flirty, and ideally specific enough to encourage a proper reply, not just a fire emoji.'Related: Cosgrove agrees and adds, 'A successful Hinge prompt is one that invites opportunity to connect more than just giving information, as it invites users to engage in dialogue and should spark curiosity. It should also invite users to turn further toward one another and keep the conversation going!'So how do you do that? Our experts say the answer isn't as complicated as you might think. 'Keep your Hinge prompt answers real is the secret,' Mahanta states. 'You're already cool—just by being you. Authenticity is what truly stands out. So, let your answers be 100% you. That way, if things go well, you won't be stuck maintaining a version of yourself that doesn't feel real.'Aside from being authentic, Francis proposes that you use a prompt to also highlight one part of your personality traits. 'Use a Hinge prompt as an opportunity to showcase your sense of humor,' she proposes. 'Laughter is high on people's relationship wish list, so allow yourself to be whatever brand of funny you are in your profile.'Related:
1. The award I should be nominated for is… 2. Three emojis that describe my life are…3. A life goal of mine is...4. Most spontaneous thing I've done…5. The way to win me over is… 6. One thing you wouldn't know from looking at me is… 7. My best friend would say I'm…8. This year I really want to…9. The thing I am most proud of is...10. What I'm looking for from a partner is…
This Hinge prompt has become one of the more popular ones to use. However, for some, it can seem intimidating or feel like a lot of pressure to come up with the perfect creative response. Though, according to our experts, the trick is to not overthink your answer. Instead, you want it to reveal to someone what it's really like to be in a relationship with you in a fun, but honest way.'By sharing more about yourself in your answer, possible matches will get the best sense of you before they make a connection, meaning that your connections will be based on more than superficial facts or a few photos,' Cosgrove notes. 'When you match with someone, you can feel secure in the fact that they have begun to learn about your life and personality and already want to see more!'In addition, Francis tells Parade, 'This prompt is inviting you to write a metaphor, a comparison using 'like,' about yourself, and just like in literature, when getting to know someone, the most compelling opening statements are both specific to your experience and relatable to others.'Related: She explains that your 'Dating me is like…' answers and can help you hit it off with someone who has the same quirks as you, a similar personality and lifestyle. 'Remember, what you write doesn't have to be relatable to everyone,' she reveals. 'Picking something niche is great because it will likely filter out people who you may not have something important in common with. Instead, choose something specific to set you apart and give others something to respond to.'Some examples are:11. Dating me is like a Taylor Swift album release—ever-evolving, fun, occasionally messy, and totally unforgettable.12. Dating me is like the stock market—unpredictable, thrilling, and full of ups and downs (but totally worth the ride).13. Dating me is like a treasure hunt—full of adventures, exciting, and worth every twist along the way.14. Dating me is like a lazy Sunday—full of cuddles, coffee, and conversations that last all day.15. Dating me is like your favorite meme—random, endless laughter and just the right amount of unhinged.16. Dating me is like a Disney movie—enchanting, slightly dramatic, and filled with over-the-top romantic gestures.17. Dating me is like a TikTok trend—unexpectedly hilarious, sometimes awkward, and always entertaining.18. Dating me is like buying your favorite cookie—sweet, guaranteed to bring a smile to your face and you'll wonder if I'm too good to be true.Related:
19. An irrational fear of mine is…20. My perfect weekend consists of…21. My Roman empire is…22. My go-to party trick is...23. The best way to get my attention is...24. A random thing I know a lot about is…
25. A shower thought I recently had was...26. Tell me your cheesiest Dad joke…27. I'm the type of texter who...
28. The Muppet I most relate to is ____ because ____.29. My last Google search was…30. If I could be any animal, I'd be... 31. I won't shut up about…32. If I was on Survivor, I would thrive if the challenge was…33. I'll never stop quoting...34. My favorite way to waste time is…35. My superpower is...36. When in doubt, I always want to eat…Related:
37. Something that's non-negotiable for me…
38. My perfect first date is…
39. You should leave a comment if…
40. Ask me about my hot take on...
41. My therapist would say I'm…
42. I'll know we're a good match if...
43. If I could have dinner with any fictional character, it would be...
44. My typical Sunday looks like…
45. The best way to ask me out is by...
46. I'll never judge you for...
47. Something I'd like to try, but haven't yet is…
48. My pet peeves are…
49. One thing I know we will never fight about is…
50. Let's make sure we're on the same page about…
51. Good communication, to me, looks like...
52. All I ask is that you...
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'A common mistake men make when writing a Hinge prompt is focusing too much on looking cool or avoiding emotions, often sticking to a 'bro' mindset,' Mahanta tells Parade. 'But in reality, showing emotional depth and self-awareness can make them far more attractive—especially if they're looking to get more matches with women.' Below are some examples our experts say are good prompts for guys.53. I'll fall for you if…
54. One thing I'll never do again is…
55. People are surprised to learn that I...
56. I'm the type of texter who…
57. If I had to describe my love language, I would say it is…
58. One cause I am passionate about is…
59. The last time I cried happy tears was...
60. My happy place is...
61. The one thing I'd love to know about you is…
62. Don't hate me if…
63. One family tradition that is important to me is…
64. I'm overly competitive about…
65. A perfect night in includes…
'Women sometimes go overboard with too much information in their prompts,' Mahanta stresses. 'While their intentions are good, an overload of details can end up overwhelming or confusing the other person. The sweet spot? Keep it engaging, clear and just enough to spark curiosity.' A few examples of prompts that our experts suggest for girls are listed below.
66. First round is on me if...
67. I'll pick the topic if you start the conversation...
68. The dorkiest thing about me is...
69. A skill I want to learn is…
70. I know the best spot in town for…
71. My life is basically a rom-com if you count...
72. One thing on my bucket list is…
73. I'm known for…
74. The best way to win my heart is…
75. Which TV couple are we?
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