Moment mom Realizes Babysitting For 6 Days Pushed Grandma 'Over The Edge'
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A woman in Oklahoma has shared hilarious footage of the moment she realized babysitting three grandkids for six days may have pushed her mother-in-law "over the edge."
It's commonplace in America today for grandparents to assist in the care of grandchildren.
In 2024, the University of Michigan's National Poll on Healthy Aging, a nationally representative survey of over 3,400 adults aged 50 to 94, found that almost half (49 percent) have grandchildren under the age of 18 whom they provide care for at least once every few months.
The survey found that 30 percent of those with grandchildren under 18 care for one or more grandchildren at least once a week, while 8 percent provide daily or near-daily care.
That kind of support is invaluable to parents like Melissa Beeler and her husband, who share three kids and would have considerably less time for themselves were it not for the help they receive from family members like her mother-in-law. "Grandparents are the real MVPs when they step in and help so parents can still take some time for themselves," Beeler said.
Everyone has their limits, though, as Beeler discovered when returning from an extended trip away. "We just came back from a cruise in the Bahamas," she said. "We flew in and out of Miami. It was a nice little parents' getaway."
But while they were enjoying some much-needed rest and relaxation, her mother-in-law had her hands full. "We were gone for six days. Our kids are 3, 7, and 9 years old," Beeler said.
"Everything went okay while we were gone. She is so great and watches our kids for us when we go out of town, but this time, we had two new puppies to add to the mix."
That might go some way to explaining her mother-in-law's reaction when they returned from their trip. In footage Beeler captured on her phone and later shared to her TikTok, melissabeeler2, her mom can be seen walking straight to her car with her bags packed as they pull up.
"Her bags were packed and she was ready to go," Beeler wrote alongside the video. "Where are you going, Mimi?" Beeler can be heard calling out on the video, with her mother-in-law unresponsive and solely focused on making a beeline to her car. Beeler is still mindful of calling out "thank you" before she departs, though.
While she's never had any issues with the kids before, Beeler reckoned adding two young dogs to the mix had complicated matters this time around. "I think that is what put her over the edge," Beeler said. "They are pretty naughty."
Beeler said that while her mother-in-law had never left that quickly before, she did later explain that she was simply "very tired" after the past week and that while her reaction was unexpected, it was not without merit. "We were surprised but totally understood," Beeler said. "Three kids and two puppies are hard to handle."
Beeler shared the footage because she saw it as "funny and relatable." The family has certainly laughed about it since. She hopes others who go through similar can laugh about their own experiences while respecting the great support grandparents can provide.
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