Confront ex at reunion on behalf of ‘younger self'? Hax readers give advice.
We asked readers to channel their inner Carolyn Hax and answer this question. Some of the best responses are below.
Hi Carolyn: I'm headed to a reunion next month, and one of the people who will be there is a former flame of mine. Things ended badly, and it messed me up for a while. Now, many years have passed, and I'm totally over it (happily married, great kids, satisfying life, etc.).
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