Tom Daley says 'it's scary how LGBT rights are being dangerously threatened'
Even as someone who has grown up in the public eye, Tom Daley has vulnerabilities and concerns to finally reveal.
The five-time Olympic medallist has an even greater perspective as the British diver who first competed at the Games aged 14 in 2008, who is now retired and a father of two.
Having grown up in the public eye when social media was still in its infancy, Daley is deeply troubled by the toxicity online, especially for someone with an opinion.
And the 31-year-old has spoken out from a young age - from LGBTQ+ rights to bullying and mental health - but he is ready to go further now.
"There's lots of things I think we'll look back on this last five, 10 years of human history as being quite shocking in a way," Daley said in an interview with Sky News.
"When social media came to prevalence - and cancel culture and people not being allowed to make any mistakes or be able to share too many opinions - it can be very scary and intimidating for certain groups of people.
"I think it definitely pits lots of people against each other and I think we always have to remember that we're all in this together at the end of the day.
"And there's so many more important things - being able to come together as one human race and I know that sounds very like hippie-dippie.
"But it really is as simple as that, about just being kind to each other.
"Where has that kindness and compassion gone because everybody feels like they have something to say about very small groups of people."
A front row seat to LA 2028
The Tokyo 2020 Olympic champion revealed he was gay in 2013 and went on to marry Oscar-winning screenwriter Dustin Lance Black.
They now live as a family in Los Angeles - the city hosting the 2028 Olympics.
Having retired from diving after a final silver medal at Paris 2024, Daley will have a front row seat to the Games taking place in an America where Donald Trump has seemed to roll back LGBTQ+ protections early in his second presidential term.
"It is scary in some parts of the world how the rights of LGBT people are kind of being reversed or they're being dangerously threatened," Daley said when asked about Trump.
"It's something again where minorities have to come together for the greater good because it is scary.
"And you may see someone else's rights going away and I think it's important that everybody, especially minorities, come together because it won't just be one group that gets targeted.
"Once one group has been targeted, it will move on to the next, and the next, and the next.
"I think the most important thing is staying visible. I think lots of people ask, 'What can you do to be an activist? What can you do to an advocate?'
"I think it's being truly and authentically yourself. As long as you're happy, your friends and family are happy, and you're not hurting anyone else, then I think just being visible is a great form of activism."
Trump election victory was a 'shock'
"For lots of people living in the West Coast bubble, it was like a bit of a shock when Trump won the election in November," Daley said.
"But I think it's also given everybody a wake-up call. I just always believe in leading with kindness, care and compassion and trying to make life worth living for every single person."
Daley knows what it is like to feel targeted for abuse.
In a new documentary featuring family video growing up, Tom Daley 1.6 Seconds, there is a sense of disbelief that he gave interviews as a child talking about being bullied in school after his Olympic debut at Beijing 2008.
"I never really saw it back then as something that was strange because it's something that I had lived and grown up and just was part of how my life existed," he said.
"But, looking back on it, I kind of was like, 'Oh my gosh, imagine if it could have all been so different'."
London 2012 poster boy
During the build-up to London 2012, Daley was the poster boy of the home Olympics.
But he was dealing with bulimia and body dysmorphia in private. It's still difficult to talk about, knowing people would comment on how he seemed in great shape.
"But that's not what an eating disorder is," he said. "An eating disorder is not being able to think about your body, what you eat, what you put into your body rationally.
"And I think that's something that people don't necessarily understand with eating disorders, which is why going through that, I went through it alone.
"Because I was embarrassed to be thinking about those things. I didn't think anybody would believe me."
To this day, Daley feels people online are dismissive of his concerns. In interviews, he grates when it is pointed out that in retirement he is not fat.
"I'm constantly reminded of that," he said. "So it's definitely something that triggered the way that I think about my relationship with food."
This is not to take away from how fondly Daley looks back on a career that saw him reach the pinnacle with Olympic gold in 2021 at the pandemic-delayed Olympics.
There is no sign of coming out of retirement again as he did in Paris last year.
"I feel incredibly proud of what I've been able to achieve in terms of my perseverance and resilience through lots of different things," he said. "I do miss being on that diving board.
"It is like there is no other feeling than being on top of a diving board in a competition where you're putting all of the work that you put in into that 1.6 seconds and I think I will forever miss that."
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