Warring neighbours spend ten years feuding over a tree that blocks the sun out of one's garden... So, who do YOU think is in the right?

Daily Mail​

16-05-2025

A pair of neighbours are embroiled in a ten year feud because a tree in one's garden is blocking the sun out of the others.
With sunnier days fast approaching, most UK citizens are looking forward to enjoying some much-appreciated vitamin D.
However, for one unlucky Briton, the prospect of sunbathing in their garden is looking slim due to their neighbour's tree preventing sunlight from entering their garden at certain points of the day.
An anonymous UK-based TikTok user has created a profile on the platform under @shadyneighbourtree to reveal the dilemma, which has been ongoing for the past ten years.
'My neighbour's tree doing its best to keep my garden a secret,' the user wrote, adding, 'We need some sun!'
Initially, the video attracted countless comments telling viewers to ask the neighbour to trim the tree.
However, they explained that their attempts to request the change have gone unsuccessfully.
'Yes, I have asked my neighbour to trim the tree (not chop it down). [I] just want to soak up some sun like they do in their shadeless garden,' they wrote.
Another viewer pointed out that the shade moves throughout the day, but the frustrated TikTok user explained, 'This is very true... but its shade when I get home from work and [I] want to enjoy the sun'.
The dilemma divided viewers in the comment section, with many conflicted over the best course of action.
One wrote, 'Roots may go under the fence, move some dirt, drill hole, pour in stuff trees don't like, fill hole...worked for a friend, just saying.'
Another with a similar perspective joked, 'I'd be paying someone with no name cash in hand'.
A third added, 'Garden trees should be kept at a certain height even just for safety. What if it fell in a storm caused damage or injury? It's inconsiderate, blocking all the light and the leaves that would fall in autumn would be a nightmare to keep tidy.'
However, others thought differently. One said, 'This is on you. Fed up with people thinking they have a say in other people's property and want to cut everything down. That tree has been for there years and deserves to be. Don't like it, move. Simple.'
A second agreed, adding, 'Do not cut that tree down. The sun moves throughout the day.'
'I love the shade rather that the sun blaring at me. It's an old tree, end of discussion,' said another.
It comes after a UK 'mumfluencer' boasting more than 27,000 followers on TikTok posted a video in which she complained that her neighbour's fence was 'the wrong way round' and argued that 'technically we should have the good side of the fence'.
By 'the good side of the fence', the influencer, Samantha (@samanthaproudmama), means the smooth side - as opposed to the side with the extra posts that support the structure.
Viewed more than 900,000 times, the minute-long clip entitled 'Are we about to fall out with our neighbours?' saw Samantha tour her garden and point out the troublesome fence before asking viewers to share their opinions on whether she should ask next-door to 'turn the fence round'.
Explaining first that the fence she shares with the neighbours in question is too small, denying her family privacy, she added that they had already agreed to 'put some trellis up' to extend it.
She then got to the heart of the matter, telling viewers: 'Now you will notice that the fence is actually the wrong way around - technically we should have the good side of the fence.
'They're about to put the trellis up but do we say anything? Should we be asking them to turn the fence around so that we get the nice side?'
In the caption, she even claimed that there are 'rules' in her area which state: 'If you own the fence you have to give the neighbour the "good" side of the fence!'
Yet Samantha's clip, which amassed almost 4,000 comments, appeared to backfire, with some TikTokers asking 'who is the nightmare neighbour?' and others assuming the influencer's fuss over the fence was 'a joke'.
Viewers took to the comment section to share their thoughts on the matter - and there was a lack of consensus
One person wrote: 'Glad I'm not your neighbour. Jeeeez'. Another commented: 'Here's me wondering who is the nightmare neighbour.'
A third TikTok user asked: 'This has to be a joke?'
A fourth was equally critical, calling Samantha 'petty'. They wrote: 'I'm with you on the height of the fence for privacy but you lost me when it came to which side you get.
Another person mocked: 'Ask them to turn the fence? If my neighbour asked me to do that, there would only be one response; a massive LOL and door closed!'
Someone else added: 'Personally I think it's cheeky to expect neighbours to give you the nice side of their fence'.
But not everyone was critical - some TikTok users were simply bemused while others volunteered potential solutions to the problem.
One person was baffled by Samantha's predicament and wrote: 'Who knew there was a good and bad side of a fence'. While another TikToker commented: 'Life is too short to stress about fences'.
In a bid to be helpful, someone else suggested: 'Just put your own fence in front of it - literally back to back'.
Yet supportive responses like this one were few and far between, with the majority of commenters failing to see the matter from Samantha's point of view.