Modern mom makeover: How to celebrate mother's day with style and self-care

India Today

10-05-2025

Motherhood is a beautiful, challenging, and transformative journey, but let's be honest, it often comes at the cost of putting yourself last. This Mother's Day, it's time to flip the script. Instead of waiting for someone else to pamper you, why not take charge and give yourself the love and attention you deserve? The modern mom makeover isn't about fitting into trends or perfection, it's about reclaiming your time, style, and peace of mind. This guide is your invitation to indulge in self-care, refresh your style, and embrace beauty on your own terms.advertisementEMBRACE THE POWER OF SELF-CAREThe first step in your modern mom makeover is tuning in to what you need. When was the last time you had a moment to yourself without interruption? This Mother's Day, start by giving yourself the gift of stillness. Wake up 20 minutes earlier than usual and set the tone for your day.'The modern mom is a powerhouse—balancing career, family, and personal growth with resilience and grace. At the heart of this makeover is the belief that self-care isn't a luxury—it's a necessity. Whether through fashion choices that reflect her evolving personality or moments of stillness that restore her energy, today's mom is embracing herself fully", Deepak Bansal, Whole Time Director, Cantabil Retail India Pvt Ltd
He added that this evolution reflects a broader societal shift where women are reclaiming their space, their time, and their sense of self. It's a transformation that deserves celebration. The modern mom is not just managing change—she's leading it. And in doing so, she's redefining what beauty, confidence, and care look like in today's world.advertisementBrew your favorite tea or coffee, open the curtains, and take a few deep breaths. Whether it's journaling, stretching, or simply sitting in silence, this quiet ritual helps ground you before the chaos begins. Self-care isn't a luxury—it's a necessity. From a soothing bath with Epsom salts to a DIY face mask and aromatherapy, treat yourself like the queen you are. Block out the noise, light a candle, and remember: the better you feel, the better you give. You're not just doing it for you—you're doing it for everyone who relies on you, too.REIMAGINE YOUR STYLE WITH CONFIDENCEForget the notion that moms have to dress a certain way. Being stylish doesn't mean being uncomfortable or impractical. It's about feeling confident in your skin and in your clothes. A modern mom's wardrobe should be a mix of comfort, function, and flair.This doesn't mean a closet overhaul—just a few intentional choices. Maybe it's a wrap dress that hugs you in all the right places, or a soft, flowy tunic that transitions effortlessly from daycare drop-off to dinner.Pair a well-fitted jean with a bold accessory, or refresh your basics with new textures and colors. Don't underestimate the power of a great pair of earrings, a pop of lipstick, or a new haircut—they can lift your entire energy. Clothes can be transformative—not just in how others see you, but in how you see yourself.CELEBRATE MOTHER'S DAY-YOUR WAYadvertisementTraditionally, Mother's Day is filled with cards, flowers, and breakfast in bed—but what do you really want? This year, make space for that answer. Maybe it's a solo walk in nature, a slow morning with no responsibilities, or a long-overdue brunch with friends. Maybe it's an hour of uninterrupted time to read, journal, or simply do nothing. Give yourself permission to say 'yes' to joy and 'no' to guilt.'Today's mom is redefining what it means to look and feel her best. Beauty and self-care are no longer indulgences—they are essential acts of self-respect and empowerment. Self-care today is smarter, more intentional, and deeply personal—whether it's a five-minute skincare ritual, a moment of mindfulness, or choosing products that nourish both body and soul. Beauty and style for moms are no longer dictated by trends—they're about authenticity, ease, and confidence. It's inspiring to see women embracing their evolution—not with guilt, but with grace." Gunjan Sharma, Co-founder LumaeYou don't have to spend the entire day catering to others or orchestrating a perfect family moment.advertisementYou deserve to be the center of the celebration, in a way that feels genuine and fulfilling to you.Whether you're surrounded by loved ones or enjoying peace and solitude, own your happiness. This is your day—celebrate it on your own terms.REDISCOVER YOUR INNER GLOWBeauty is often portrayed as something external—but for moms, it radiates from within. That said, a little glam never hurt anyone. Take time to freshen up your beauty routine, not because you need to 'fix' anything, but because you deserve to feel good in your skin. Treat yourself to a luxurious skincare ritual, even if it's just 10 minutes.'The modern Indian mom wears many hats; she's raising children, building careers, running households, and somehow still finding time to care for herself. In doing so, she's reshaping what motherhood looks like today. We're seeing women choose beauty that's intuitive and uncomplicated, with solutions that fit into their day, without appearing as an added task", Ankit Virmani, Director, Esskay Beauty ResourcesTry that bold lipstick you've been eyeing or experiment with a hairstyle that makes you feel empowered. You're not trying to turn back the clock—you're celebrating the woman you've become.Motherhood doesn't dim your glow; it deepens it. You're wiser, stronger, and more beautiful than ever. This Mother's Day, let your reflection remind you of just how incredible you are—inside and out.