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Long Island teen Finn Schiavone overcomes paralysis, credits Navy SEALs as inspiration
A Long Island teenager says a Navy SEAL museum, and the people who run it, inspired him to overcome an unthinkable challenge. Finn Schiavone overcame paralysis after a traumatic brain injury he sustained during wrestling practice almost three years ago. "I lost my ability to walk, talk, read and write," Schiavone said. He says the bravery on display at West Sayville's Lt. Michael P. Murphy Navy SEAL Museum is what inspired him as he went through rehab. "It's like, truly amazing - what people were able to put their mind to," Schiavone said. After two years of slight improvements, one day his aide rolled him into the museum in his wheelchair. Schiavone said something within its walls lit a new spark. "I was dazed out, half the time. But I remember coming here, and I was like, this is the place. They're going to be with me," Schiavone said. He was right. "Every time he came back, something new changed" "This kid had this infectious smile and charisma to him, but he couldn't relay his message," Lt. Michael P. Murphy Navy SEAL Museum Executive Director Chris Wylie said. Wylie said the two developed an instant connection, and as Schiavone frequently returned to the museum, that bond grew. "Winded up making this museum a normal spot, monthly or every other month, to come and visit and give him a little more inspiration," Wylie said. Each time Schiavone showed off his progress. His rehab, six days a week, were helping him. "Every time he came back, something new changed," Wylie said. Finn Schiavone takes his first steps during a race in 2024. Schiavone family Last year, during a race, Wylie was there to help Schiavone take his first steps on his own. "He ended up surprising his mother, taking a couple of steps. She never saw him get out of his wheelchair and be able to move on his own," Wylie said. Schiavone made these significant improvements after two years in a wheelchair, which is when doctors say significant functional recovery is rare. Now Schiavone is fully recovered, and competing in strength challenges at the museum. "I have nothing but gratitude for this place," he said. His next goal is to finish up high school and, once he graduates in two years, he wants to go into the Naval Academy and pursue special warfare.
Washington Post
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- Washington Post
15 sets of twins are graduating from one New York high school
HEMPSTEAD, N.Y. — A high school in the suburbs of New York City will be seeing double on graduation day this weekend: Among the nearly 500 students in its graduating class, 30 are twins. It's a tight knit group. Some of the students at Long Island's Plainview-Old Bethpage John F. Kennedy High School have known each other since kindergarten, their parents meeting through a local twins club. Some even still plan family vacations together. These days, some of the twins are on a group text chain, which has helped them cope with their newfound notoriety as graduation day approaches. 'Honestly when we're together, the room is electric,' said Sydney Monka, as she attended graduation rehearsal with the other twins earlier this week. 'We're all very comfortable around each other and we all have these shared experiences so we're all bouncing off each other. It's really cool.' Save for the shared last names, though, the pairs may be hard to spot as they walk the stage Sunday at their high school graduation, held at Hofstra University in Hempstead. The students are all fraternal twins — meaning born from different eggs and sperm — so none of them are identical. Many of the twins are different genders. That doesn't make the bonds any less tight, says Bari Cohen, who is attending Indiana University in the fall. 'Especially for boy-girl twins, a lot of people think it's just, like, siblings, but it's more than that, because we go through the same things at the same time,' she said of her brother, Braydon Cohen, who is headed to the University of Pittsburgh. Most, when prodded, give a playful shrug at the curious phenomenon in the high school, which is located in an affluent, largely white district about 35 miles (56 kilometers) east of Manhattan. 'I guess there's just something in the water,' said Emily Brake, who is attending the University of Georgia, echoing a common refrain among the twins. 'We're all just very lucky. I think it's just a coincidence,' added her sister, Amanda Brake, who will be attending Ohio State University. Others acknowledge there's more than Mother Nature at work. Arianna Cammareri said her parents had been trying for years to have kids and in vitro fertilization was their last option. Back then, it was more common than it is now for IVF babies to be twins or triplets. There also may be a genetic component at play. 'There's a few twins in our family, like I have cousins that are twins, so I guess that raised the chances of having twins,' added the incoming freshman at Stony Brook University, also on Long Island. Large cohorts of twins are not unusual at Plainview-Old Bethpage. The high school had back-to-back graduating classes with 10 sets of multiples in 2014 and 2015, and next year's incoming freshmen class has nine sets of twins, according to school officials. Among the other schools around the country with big sets of graduating twins are Clovis North High School in Fresno, California, with 14 pairs, and Eleanor Roosevelt High School in Greenbelt, Maryland, with 10 pairs. Last year, a middle school in suburban Boston had 23 sets of twins in its graduating class, though that's still far shy of the record for most multiples in the same academic class. New Trier High School in Winnetka, Illinois, had a whopping 44 twin pairs and a set of triplets in 2017, according to Guinness World Records. Most of the twins at Plainview-Old Bethpage are heading off to different colleges. An exception is Aiden and Chloe Manzo, who will both attend the University of Florida, where they'll live in the same dormitory on campus and both study business, though with different majors. 'We're going to see each other a lot,' Chloe said wryly. 'Deep down, my mom knew it would be easier if we went to the same school,' she added. 'You know, like moving in, graduation, going to sports games.' Some were apprehensive about living far from their longtime partner in crime. Emma and Kayla Leibowitz will be attending Binghamton and Syracuse University, respectively. The fifth generation twins say they're already making plans for frequent visits even though the upstate New York schools are some 80 miles (130 kilometers) apart. 'I think it's gonna be really weird because we really do everything together. She's my best friend. I really can't do anything without her,' said Emma. 'We're sleeping over every weekend. I'm coming for football games — like all of it,' said Kayla. Others were looking forward to getting some breathing room. Sydney and Kayla Jasser said they're both studying fashion design — but at different colleges. Sydney is attending the University of Delaware while Kayla will be attending Indiana University. 'We could have went to the same college, but we just wanted to be able to be independent since we've been with each other forever,' Kayla said. 'It's good to get out there and have our own experiences.' ___ Follow Philip Marcelo on X at .
Yahoo
an hour ago
- Yahoo
Lies Women Tell Themselves To Stay In Marriages They've Outgrown
Marriage can be an enchanting dance, but sometimes, the music stops, and we find ourselves stepping on toes rather than gracefully gliding across the floor. Whether it's fear, comfort, or just plain stubbornness, women often tell themselves stories to stay put when their hearts are whispering, 'it's time to go.' Here are 15 of those whispered lies, unmasked and unpacked. Optimism is a beautiful trait, but when it becomes a blinding force, it morphs into a dangerous delusion. You might tell yourself that this rough patch is just a phase and that soon, everything will click back into place. The trouble is, sometimes we cling to this hope for years, only to wake up one day and realize time has slipped through our fingers. According to marriage therapist Dr. John Gottman, couples often wait an average of six years of unhappiness before seeking help, a statistic that suggests improvement might not be as inevitable as you'd like to believe. It's easy to cling to the idea that the best is yet to come, especially when the thought of starting anew feels daunting. Yet, when years pass and the problems persist, it's worth questioning whether this future you're betting on is a genuine possibility or just an illusion you've crafted. It's crucial to distinguish between a realistic chance for change and a chronic state of inertia. Sometimes, the only way for things to get better is to take a brave step forward, away from what's familiar. The fear of being labeled selfish can be a powerful deterrent, especially when societal norms whisper that a woman's happiness should be secondary. You convince yourself that wanting more is a flaw, a sign of greed rather than a natural human desire. In doing so, you strip yourself of the rightful pursuit of joy and fulfillment, becoming a martyr in a marriage that doesn't nourish you. But is it truly selfish to crave happiness, or is it more selfish to expect someone to suppress their dreams for the sake of comfort? By telling yourself that your needs are insignificant, you perpetuate a cycle that prioritizes stability over satisfaction. The truth is, healthy relationships thrive on mutual fulfillment, not silent sacrifice. When you embrace this, you open the door to a partnership that respects and cherishes both individuals. It takes courage to stand up for yourself, but in doing so, you create the possibility of a life where happiness is a shared pursuit, not a solitary fantasy. Children are often at the heart of decisions to stick it out, with parents convincing themselves that staying together is a noble act of sacrifice. The belief that a traditional family structure is inherently beneficial can overshadow the reality of the tension and unhappiness it may breed. Research by Dr. E. Mark Cummings, a psychologist at the University of Notre Dame, has shown that children actually thrive in happy environments, regardless of whether parents are together or apart. The quality of parenting, rather than the marital status, has a more significant impact on a child's well-being. By staying in a toxic or stagnant relationship, you might inadvertently model unhealthy dynamics and emotional suppression for your children. Kids are perceptive, and they absorb more than you might give them credit for, including the unspoken resentments and silent treatments. In aiming to protect them, you could be teaching them to settle for less than they deserve. Sometimes, a fresh start for you means a healthier environment for them, one where love is present and palpable, rather than strained and obligatory. Settling into the belief that marriage is synonymous with struggle and compromise can easily become a justification for disharmony. You might look around and see other couples with their own problems, convincing yourself that everyone is merely surviving rather than thriving. By normalizing dissatisfaction, you close yourself off from the possibility that marriages can be both challenging and fulfilling. This lie suggests that happiness is an exception, not the rule. Yet, enduring bitterness and discontent doesn't have to be your reality. When you stop comparing your marriage to others, you free yourself to redefine your standards and expectations. Every relationship has its highs and lows, but believing that yours should be predominantly low stifles growth and contentment. Dare to envision a union that is vibrant and supportive, because that vision could become your guide to a more authentic connection. Financial security is a significant consideration, and the fear of losing stability can feel like a steel trap anchoring you in place. The thought of navigating the financial unknown alone is intimidating, leading you to conclude that enduring the current situation is your only option. A study by the Institute for Women's Policy Research found that many women do face economic insecurity post-divorce, but planning and support can mitigate these risks. The question is whether you're willing to make temporary sacrifices for the possibility of long-term happiness. Believing you can't afford to leave ties your self-worth to economic factors, rather than recognizing your capability to adapt and thrive. While financial concerns are valid, they shouldn't be the sole determinant of your life's trajectory. There are resources and strategies to help you transition into independence, often leading to empowerment and growth. Sometimes, investing in yourself means seeing past the immediate hurdles to the freedom that lies beyond. Age can feel like a daunting barrier, convincing you that starting anew is a young person's game. You tell yourself that at this stage, you should be settling down, not shaking things up. This mindset steals the possibility of renewal, trapping you in a cycle of regret and resignation. But age is just a number, and it's never too late to pursue a life that excites and fulfills you. When you buy into the lie that you're too old, you limit your horizons and underestimate your resilience. The world is filled with stories of people who reinvented themselves later in life, finding joy and purpose beyond their previous imaginations. Your age brings wisdom and experience, tools that can guide you towards a more meaningful future. Embrace the idea that change is a constant, and it's never too late to shape your destiny. The idea of gratitude and obligation can tether you to a relationship long past its expiration date. You might feel indebted to your partner for years of companionship, support, or sacrifices they've made for you. Dr. Andrea Bonior, a psychologist and relationship expert, explains that while gratitude is important, it shouldn't come at the cost of your happiness. Confusing gratitude with obligation can lead to a life where you're trapped by past debts rather than inspired by future possibilities. In reality, a healthy relationship thrives on mutual support and understanding, not guilt or repayment. When you stay out of obligation, you suppress your true desires, ultimately breeding resentment. It's possible to appreciate the past without being bound by it, allowing both partners to pursue lives that align more closely with their current dreams. Sometimes, the most loving thing you can do is to set both of you free. When self-doubt creeps in, it convinces you that your current situation is the pinnacle of what you deserve. You might look at your marriage and think, "This is as good as it gets," even if deep down you know you yearn for more. Settling for less because of a perceived lack of options anchors you in a world of diminished possibilities. But the truth is, your worth isn't defined by your current circumstances. Believing that this is the best you can do underestimates your potential and narrows your view of what happiness can look like. It's easy to fall into the trap of thinking that any change might lead to something worse, but this fear inhibits growth. Breaking free from this mindset requires recognizing your value and the abundance of opportunities that await. Allow yourself to imagine a life that's aligned with your true desires and strengths, and you might just uncover a reality far better than you've ever known. The fear of loneliness often feels more terrifying than the reality of an unsatisfying partnership. You convince yourself that your partner is your only shot at love, clouding your judgment with scarcity rather than possibility. This mindset traps you in a relationship that lacks joy, simply because the alternative seems too daunting. But love isn't a limited resource, and the world is vast and full of potential connections. When you tell yourself you'll never find anyone else, you dismiss the idea that you are capable of attracting and sustaining love. This belief can keep you tied to unfulfilling partnerships out of fear rather than choice. The truth is, your capacity for love and connection extends beyond your current situation. Embracing this can lead you to explore relationships that match your evolving needs and desires, ultimately enriching your life in ways you can't yet imagine. Family expectations can weigh heavily on your shoulders, guiding decisions more than personal desires. You might fear that leaving your marriage will let them down, especially if they're emotionally invested in your partner. This pressure can lead you to prioritize their happiness over your own, creating a life that looks good on paper but feels empty in your heart. But living your life for others rarely leads to true fulfillment. The fear of disappointing family can be paralyzing, but it's important to remember that your life is yours to live. Your family may have opinions, but they don't live in your marriage or understand its complexities. When you focus on what truly makes you happy, you create the possibility for genuine relationships with both family and future partners. It's time to release the weight of expectations and make choices that honor your journey. The judgment of others can feel like a looming shadow, dictating your choices and silencing your voice. You worry about the whispers and raised eyebrows, wondering how you'll explain yourself to a world that seems quick to judge. This fear of social scrutiny can trap you in an unfulfilling marriage, prioritizing external approval over personal truth. But living in the fear of judgment only stifles your potential for growth and happiness. When you allow the opinions of others to shape your life, you lose touch with your own narrative. The truth is, people will talk regardless of what you do, and their opinions often say more about them than you. By focusing on your own path and values, you cultivate a life grounded in authenticity and courage. Embrace the freedom that comes from releasing the need for validation and living life on your own terms. The commitment of marriage vows can feel like chains when they're rooted in obligation rather than love. You might hold onto these promises with a grip so tight it chokes the life out of your marriage. There's a difference between honoring vows as guiding principles and clinging to them as immutable laws. Your vows were meant to honor love, not imprison it. By holding onto vows at the expense of your well-being, you might miss the opportunity to redefine what commitment truly means. Relationships evolve, and sometimes keeping a vow means being honest about its current impact. When you allow yourself to re-evaluate these promises, you open up possibilities for growth and change, honoring both the past and the future. It's time to view vows as living commitments that adapt and align with your evolving needs and desires. Dismissing your feelings as overreactions can keep you stuck in a cycle of self-doubt and complacency. You might question your own experiences, minimizing your emotions to avoid confronting the truth. This self-gaslighting prevents you from honoring your intuition and recognizing the legitimacy of your feelings. But your emotions are valid, and they often hold the key to understanding your deeper needs. When you label your emotions as overreactions, you undermine your sense of self and your ability to advocate for your happiness. Your feelings are a powerful compass, guiding you towards what's truly important. Acknowledging and embracing them allows you to make informed and authentic choices. Trusting your emotions is not an overreaction; it's a courageous step towards self-empowerment and fulfillment. Convincing yourself that the solution lies in changing who you are can be a seductive but destructive lie. You might believe that if you were different—more patient, more understanding, less demanding—the marriage would transform. This self-blame narrative places all responsibility on your shoulders, ignoring the complexities of a relationship dynamic. But true change comes from both partners growing together, not one person morphing to meet unrealistic expectations. When you focus on changing yourself to save a marriage, you risk losing sight of your own identity and needs. A partnership should celebrate and nurture your authentic self, not demand its alteration. Embracing who you are and what you want is essential for building a relationship that supports mutual growth. Sometimes, the most profound change is accepting that you deserve a love that embraces you as you are, not who you might become.
