The 30 best 10-year anniversary gifts for celebrating a decade of love

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10-year anniversary gifts quick picks
For the couple with many adventures yet to come: Finger Crafts Co Personalized Metal Luggage Tag
For the music-loving couple with a special song: Lime & Lou Music Memories Metal Wall Art
A gift they can use on future anniversaries: Waterford Wishes Happy Celebrations Toasting Flutes
For the foodie: The Truffleist The Complete Truffle Collection Gift Set
A sparkly addition to their ring stack: Linjer Five-Stone Diamond Ring When it comes to love, we're always in favor of a reason to celebrate. And wedding anniversary gifts, particularly those themed by year, are a popular way to honor a tradition of gifting while celebrating your marriage and what makes it unique. That's especially true for your 10-year wedding anniversary — a decade together is no small feat!
'Wedding anniversary gifts are significant because they celebrate not just the time passed together, but the growth and strength of a relationship,' etiquette expert Myka Meier said. 'They offer a chance each year to pause, reflect and appreciate the journey that people are taking together. Whether it's a small gift or a grand gesture — as the old saying goes — it truly is the thought and sentiment that make it special.'
From adjusting to married life, navigating new experiences and going through life changes together, 10 years of love is most definitely something to celebrate. Keep reading for the best 10-year anniversary gifts we've seen, whether you're following traditional or modern guidelines.
'The 10-year mark is so special — it feels like a quiet triumph, a decade of shared mornings and midnight conversations,' Leigh Batnick Plessner, the chief creative officer of Brooklyn-based jewelry brand Catbird, said. 'Traditionally, tin or aluminum represent resilience and the ability to bend without breaking, which I find so beautiful.' And the good news? There are tons of creative, fun and romantic gifts made of these silver-tone metals, Meier explained.
Match 'XOXO' Box
Several of our experts recommended a vintage-style keepsake box as a way to honor your 10th wedding anniversary, and this one is made from pewter — a metal alloy made up primarily of tin. You can keep your vows inside it, store a handwritten letter in it or use it as a place to keep 'little mementos from your 10 years together,' Meier said.
West Elm Modern Rounded Metal Tabletop Frames
Both Meier and etiquette expert Lisa Mirza Grotts said you can't go wrong with a classic picture frame, and we're big fans of the elegant rounded edges on these aluminum ones from West Elm. Simply print out a favorite wedding photo and you have a 'timeless and tasteful' anniversary gift, Grotts explained.
Away The Carry-On Aluminum Edition
Away's original carry-on suitcase has been our top pick for ages, but this eye-catching aluminum model comes with a couple upgrades that make it a splurge-worthy anniversary gift for your spouse. You get sleek leather details, two TSA-approved combination locks, upgraded wheels and slow-release handles for a piece of luggage that feels truly luxurious.
Apple Watch Series 10
We can't help but recommend the Apple Watch Series 10, especially for those already in the Apple universe. This model has an aluminum case and comes with all the bells and whistles you'd expect from a top-of-the-line smartwatch, along with useful health and fitness features like sleep data, water depth sensors and advanced workout metrics. Read our review
Pottery Barn Daphne Tray
'I love blending both function and thoughtfulness,' said wedding planner Laura Gardner, who suggests a jewelry catch-all with some type of romantic or celebratory engraving. We think this aluminum tray from Pottery Barn, which comes in two finishes and three sizes, is both elegant and timeless.
M Clip Natural Solid Slide Money Clip
For a classic 10-year anniversary gift, Gardner recommends an engraved money clip. This stainless steel option features a matte aluminum inlay.
Levain Bakery Cookie Tin Bundle
If you're the type of couple that's not into all the bells and whistles of anniversary gifting, this cookie tin is a sweet way to celebrate the tradition without searching for something that you might not get a ton of use out of. Plus, as many CNN Underscored editors will attest, the cookies are absolutely delicious.
Outer White Aluminum Outdoor 3-Seat Sofa
If hosting backyard barbecues, outdoor lunches and s'mores nights is up your partner's alley, high-quality outdoor furniture can go a long way in making hosting less stressful and more comfortable. We're longtime fans of Outer, and this stunning sofa — which is made from aluminum! — is a perfect example of how sleek yet durable the brand's furniture is.
Beatriz Ball Organic Pearl Small Heart Bowl
For those of us who love romance, you can never go wrong with something heart-shaped. And this beautiful aluminum piece, which was handcrafted by skilled artisans, is no exception.
Finger Crafts Co Personalized Metal Luggage Tag
Whether you're planning an anniversary trip or just share a love of travel, Grotts recommends a 'custom aluminum luggage tag engraved with your anniversary date' as a perfect way to honor your globetrotting proclivities.
Coca-Cola Personalized Can
A custom can of Coke is proof that a thoughtful gift doesn't have to be pricey. You can customize your very own aluminum soda can from the Coca-Cola online store. Simply add your personalization (such as your names or wedding date) and order as many cans as you'd like.
Kilne The Cookware Set
Tired of your old sticky pans? There's no better way to show appreciation for your culinary-inclined spouse than by upgrading their cookware to this striking set. The pieces are nontoxic, oven-safe and usable on any type of stovetop. The pots and pans are made with recycled aluminum, while the ceramic interior features the brand's patented nonstick technology.
Pirantin Tin Daffodil Pendant
Though it's not as commonly recognized, daffodils are the flower associated with 10-year wedding anniversaries, so this 100% tin pendant recognizes two unique gifting traditions. Pair it with a bouquet of 10 daffodils and you have a thoughtful two-part anniversary present.
Mark & Graham Silver Boat Bar Tool Set
This unique bar tool set, which is made from aluminum in addition to stainless steel and brass, is the ultimate gift for the bartender of the house who's into boats. Gift it with one of our favorite cocktail kits and you'll have everything you need for the perfect anniversary party.
Lime & Lou Music Memories Metal Wall Art
This metal wall art is the perfect way to honor (and remember) a special song, whether it's the music that brought you together or your first dance song from your wedding. No matter what your connection is to the song you choose, it's a thoughtful and completely personalized gift that's sure to bring back memories.
Moleskine x Kaweco Rollerball Pen
If the past 10 years have involved professional growth for your spouse, a luxurious pen can be a great way to honor their hard work. This timeless refillable rollerball pen is made from a high-quality aluminum that's just as beautiful as it is useful. The modern 10-year anniversary gift is diamonds or diamond jewelry, which 'symbolize strength and enduring love,' Meier said. Many couples use this milestone as an opportunity to revisit their original wedding set. 'Your style has probably evolved, and your budget may have too,' Kegan Fisher, co-founder of Frank Darling, said. 'That's why 10 years is such a beautiful milestone — not just to celebrate where you've been, but to choose something that reflects who you are now.'
Waterford Wishes Happy Celebrations Toasting Flute, Set of 2
Grotts recommends diamond motif-etched glassware, like this Champagne flute set from Waterford, as a celebratory diamond-themed anniversary gift. It's 'perfect for toasting the past and what's still to come,' she said.
Frank Darling The OG Round Prong Set Pendant Necklace
If you're thinking of upgrading your current engagement ring, Fisher recommends resetting your original stone into a pendant like this one. That way, you can 'keep those early memories close to your heart.'
Concrete Collective Sweetheart Necklace
But maybe you and your partner aren't interested in upgrading your rings. If so, a heart-shaped necklace, like this vintage-inspired piece from Concrete Collective at Catbird (one of our favorite jewelry brands), is just as chic and romantic.
The Truffleist The Complete Truffle Collection Gift Set
Known to many as the diamonds of the food world, truffles are the perfect way to amp up any meal. This thoughtfully packaged gift set includes truffle butter, honey, salt, mustard and oil, giving you countless ways to infuse your anniversary dinner with a little extra luxury.
Longines Master Automatic Diamond Bracelet Watch
'The 10th anniversary blends resilience with brilliance, making a watch the perfect tribute,' said James Thomas, co-founder of Reklaim, which sells pre-owned luxury goods. Whether you surprise your partner with a new piece or get them a watch they've been eyeing for years, 'consider a personal engraving or opt for a symbolic dial' to make it that much more special, Thomas said. If you aren't sure where to begin, consider this mixed-metal watch from Longines, which has diamonds to mark the time.
Aurate Lab-Grown Diamond Stud Earrings
If your partner is someone who opts for elegant yet wearable jewelry, you can't go wrong with diamond studs. This lab-grown option from Aurate is easy to personalize, both in terms of style and budget. It's available in yellow, rose or white gold and in diamond sizes ranging from 0.06 to 1 carat.
Kinn North Star Signet Ring Diamond
If you're on the hunt for a timeless diamond-themed anniversary gift, Plessner recommends 'a signet ring with a tiny, subtle stone.' This 14-karat solid gold option also features a North Star design — a fitting reminder of the partner who's helped guide you through 10 years of life and marriage.
Brilliant Earth Perfect Hoop Lab Diamond Earrings
If it's within your budget, Meier recommends opting for a piece of jewelry with a diamond accent. These small hoops — a favorite of our gifting editor Amina Lake Patel — are covered in diamonds for plenty of sparkle.
Grown Brilliance Round Lab-Grown Diamond Button-Style Cufflinks
For those hoping to stay true to the modern anniversary gifting theme, Meier suggests diamond-accented cufflinks. This sterling silver set, which features a round lab-grown diamond in a classic pave setting, is a true heirloom.
UntuckIt Linen Short-Sleeve Dixon Shirt in White & Blue Diamond Print
Let's face it, some guys just aren't into luxury. If your husband is only interested in practical gifts that he'll get tons of use out of, we recommend this linen shirt from UntuckIt. The white and blue diamond-shaped pattern is timeless, versatile and easy to style.
Ana Luisa Loree Chain Link Necklace
If diamonds aren't in your budget, there are tons of alternatives that give a similar sparkle, explained Meier. She recommends a simple necklace. This chain-link style piece symbolizing an unbreakable bond is perfect for celebrating love and 10 years of marriage.
Kate Lower x Tie Bar Leaf Diamond Basil Tie
For the husband who's not into bling, this leafy tie pays homage to the anniversary gifting tradition while staying true to his style. A collaboration between Tie Bar and Brooklyn-based artist Kate Lower, this tie adds the perfect pop of color and freshness to any formal outfit.
Linjer Five-Stone Diamond Ring
When it comes to something as special as diamonds, it can be a challenge to know exactly what to buy for someone — especially if they already have a jewelry collection. Grotts recommends a versatile stackable ring, which they can easily style alongside a variety of different pieces.
Lancôme La Nuit Trésor Eau de Parfum
If receiving a new fragrance sounds like your spouse's ideal gift, this sultry scent is 100% romance — and it's perfectly packaged in a diamond-shaped bottle. 'Anniversary gifts have long symbolized the enduring bond between partners, marking each year with a token of appreciation, reflection and commitment,' Thomas said. 'The tradition dates back to medieval Europe, where husbands would present their wives with silver or gold wreaths to celebrate milestone years,' he said. 'Over time, this evolved into the custom of giving meaningful, lasting gifts, each one representing the strength and value of the years shared.'
When thinking of the perfect gift for your spouse, there are a couple routes you can take, according to Gardner. You can go practical and opt for something they'll use regularly, brainstorm thoughtful presents that are more symbolic or go all-out with a grand gesture of your appreciation. Just be sure that no matter what you opt for, you're leading with who your partner is and what makes them unique, Gardner added.
And of course, you can never go wrong with nostalgia. Plessner recommends starting with a memory. 'Think about something the two of you often return to — a song, a shared ritual, a place — and see if you can weave that into the tradition,' she said. 'The gifting tradition gives you the bones, but the heart of the gift is always yours to fill.'
For this article, we consulted the following wedding, etiquette and jewelry experts to gain their professional insights.
Kegan Fisher, co-founder and designer of bespoke bridal and fine jewelry brand Frank Darling
Laura Gardner, wedding and event planner and owner of Love, Laura
Lisa Mirza Grotts, also known as the 'The Golden Rules Gal,' a renowned etiquette expert, author and public speaker
Myka Meier, a globally recognized etiquette expert, two-time bestselling author and founder of Beaumont Etiquette
Leigh Batnick Plessner, chief creative officer of Brooklyn-based jewelry brand Catbird
James Thomas, co-founder and chief commercial officer of Reklaim, a secondhand platform for luxury designer goods
We know you get tired of seeing the same gift ideas year after year, which is why CNN Underscored editors carefully curate each gift guide to include a selection of products tailored to the person, hobby or event you're shopping for (though, if you're seeing some repeat products in our coverage, it probably just means we really love them). To make sure each gift you give is a hit, we include products hand-tested by our team, foolproof presents we've given to someone (or have been given), the newest products from our favorite brands and other trending items taking over our social feeds. For this story, contributing writer Noelle Ike compiled the best traditional and modern 10-year anniversary gifts with the help of several experts.