Grandparents ‘murdered 'painfully thin' boy, 2, after he became object of abuse in family's campaign of brutality'
A COUPLE murdered their toddler grandson after he became an "object of abuse" in a campaign of brutality, a court heard.
Ethan Ives-Griffiths suffered catastrophic head injuries at the home of Michael Ives and Kerry Ives in Deeside, North Wales.
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Jurors heard the two-year-old was "painfully thin and vulnerable" at the time of his death.
Ethan had suffered a "thoroughly miserable" life and had was an "object of abuse and neglect" for gran Kerry and mum Shannon Kayleigh Ives.
Prosecutor Caroline Rees said: "He was shown vanishingly little care by Kerry and Shannon and experienced casual brutality.
"He would have experienced pain and misery in the weeks before he died. He was severely underweight and covered in bruises."
Mold Crown Court was told Ethan died from fatal head injuries from a deliberate from blow and a forceful shaking injury.
This was the "culmination of emotional and physical abuse on him by people who should have cared for him most", it was said.
At the time of the horror in August 2021, his mum Shannon, 27, was upstairs on her phone.
Ms Rees said: "So it was either Michael and/or Kerry who were responsible for the deliberate assault which led to Ethan's death. Neither offered a plausible explanation."
The court was told there was a "pact of silence" by "team of two" Michael, 46, and Kerry, 45, to conceal the truth.
Shannon meanwhile was "unconcerned" about her son's plight, it was said.
Miss Rees said all three were to blame for the cruelty inflicted on Ethan in his short life.
She added: "Not one adult sought medical help. Michael and Kerry sought to deflect responsibility for what happened and blamed their daughter Shannon for Ethan's ill-treatment and death."
Michael and Kerry deny murder, assault and neglect, while Shannon has pleaded not guilty to causing or allowing a child to suffer serious physical harm.
The trial continues.
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Chelsea's Wernicke's encephalopathy left her unable to walk at one point but now sees her suffering from migraines and has resulted in the mother-of-two partially losing her sight The Glaswegian explained she struggles to live independently and can't use public transport or drive drive due to her partial blindness. She confessed: 'I can't judge distances and steps so public transport is hard - I count all the steps around my own home.' Chelsea added: 'Not being able to drive has massively affected me, I'm just much less independent and stay at home more.' She explained after she was discharged from hospital her nine-year-old son had to help her go to the toilet and move around the house and her sister moved in with her but now she can walk unaided and has systems to make sure she is safe in her house. The mum says she counts the steps on her staircase but even then she described walking up and down them as like trying to 'walk up stair while paralytically drunk'. And Chelsea has also had to make changes to her home including replacing her walk-in shower with a bath and giving up her dream of opening up her own nail and eyelash business in her home. She added: 'I had to get a bath put in because when I was bending down to shave my legs I would just fall over whereas now I can sit in the bath and lift my leg up. 'There have been lots of little changes day to day but I just try to manage. 'One of the worst was not being able to work. I did a nail and eyelash course and bought a summer house as a salon but the gastric sleeve has meant game over and I just had to get rid of it all.' While Chelsea is glad she had her gastric sleeve fitted, she said she 'wouldn't wish this on her worst enemy' and revealed she had tried a number of treatments to ease her symptoms but with little success. Despite the litany of side effects, Chelsea remains positive and said she no longer has diabetes, bowel or kidney issues and at a size 12 weighting ten stone,she no longer worries about her body. But most of all she's glad she underwent the procedure because her weight loss allowed her to welcome her daughter, now two. 'I won't get anything else done because I'm happy and I'm lucky to be here and I don't want anything else. I've got my daughter and that's all I wanted.' Spire Healthcare told MailOnline: 'We are sorry to hear about Ms Connell's condition. We are now in direct contact with her to discuss her concerns and will review the care she received accordingly. 'We are unable to share further detail due to patient confidentiality. 'Spire Healthcare continuously invests in patient safety, and as a result 98 per cent of our inspected hospitals and clinics are rated Good, Outstanding or the equivalent by health inspectors in England, Wales and Scotland. 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