Family reveal daughter's 'painful' last memory of mother stabbed at Notting Hill Carnival
The family of a mother who was fatally stabbed as she attended Notting Hill Carnival with her three-year-old daughter has said "the feeling of loss is overwhelming, but so is the feeling of rage".
Cher Maximen, 32, was stabbed at the west London carnival's "Family Day" on 25 August last year.
Shakeil Thibou, 20, has been found guilty of her murder following a trial at the Old Bailey.
"I've lost my parents. I've lost my brother. Nothing has felt like this ever," Ms Maximen's cousin Lawrence Hoo told Sky News.
"It is the cruellest thing, it truly is."
Ms Maximen died at a carnival she had been to so many times - she barely missed one.
On the day, Ms Maximen and her three-year-old daughter arrived at Europe's biggest street party with a group of friends and their children. They'd been sitting and chatting when she was knocked over by some men who had started fighting.
News of her stabbing came almost immediately. Mr Hoo remembers receiving the call. "When I first heard that she'd been stabbed, I know it sounds silly, but I thought Cher will be alright. Cher's strong, she'll get through this."
Ms Maximen was taken to hospital and underwent a number of emergency procedures before being put on life support.
Mr Hoo immediately headed to London to be at her bedside.
"I can remember being in the hospital being sat there with her, with other family members and that's the last time I saw her. It still doesn't feel real. There's still disbelief," he said.
"It's the most senseless act to someone who had so much life and so much to give."
Ms Maximen died from her injuries six days after the incident.
Relatives say she was a vivacious young woman who grew up in Bristol and then London, finding her feet working with people in music and entertainment.
'She lit up the room'
Ms Maximen was described as a "people person", which for Mr Hoo manifested in her being "a bright light" in the lives of her loved ones.
He said: "It's just this energy she had, she lit up the room. If you walked into a space, you'd know that Cher was there. Her energy itself would fill the room. She was a very bright light."
Her life changed three years before her death when she became a mother in her late 20s.
Her daughter became her life's work, she poured her love and energy into creating a person her family describe as her mini-me. "She's Cher 2.0," Mr Hoo said.
Ms Maximen was stabbed just metres from her daughter on that day.
Mr Hoo said the idea of the toddler witnessing her mother on the ground punctuates the sadness the family feel with anger.
"The feeling of loss is overwhelming, but so is the feeling of rage," he said. "She [Ms Maximen's daughter] is aware that on that day, something happened to her mother.
"She saw her mother drop to the floor, and then she saw her mother bleed. That's the daughter's last living memory of her mother. And to live with that, knowing that that's happened, that somebody did that. That's why it's so hard and that's where the rage comes from."
The family is now rallying around the little girl who is growing up without her mother.
Mr Hoo said the attack "will be a memory that will recur" for Ms Maximen's daughter, adding "that is why it is so painful and hard to try to live with".
"I think the trauma is going to be there, and trauma will raise its head when it chooses to come up. But we'll be there for her," he said.
The family held Ms Maximen's funeral in October, and dozens came to remember a woman who loved to spread joy.
Mr Hoo said their focus is now Cher's daughter: "It's difficult to say how do we celebrate this life that was taken so prematurely. But I think it goes into her daughter, and it's to give her daughter the best life and love, and tell her who her mother was.
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