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If You Don't Want To Get Rid Of Any Clothes, Here Are 25 Things To Better Organize Your Closet And Drawers

If You Don't Want To Get Rid Of Any Clothes, Here Are 25 Things To Better Organize Your Closet And Drawers

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Yeah, you need those four pairs of faux-leather leggings and won't be choosing a favorite, (though we all know the fave).
1. Some legging organizing hangers so you can tell the differences between all your black leggings, like the number of pockets or waist height. It's hard to tell which are the high-waisted ones you prefer for yoga when they're folded up in a drawer!
Each hanger holds 10 pairs of leggings. After putting these in several stories, I finally bought a pair and my gosh, just using one legitimately freed up a third of a drawer. But because it came with two hangers, I'm using the other one for my nice scarves! (I use tissue paper in between the clamps and my actual scarves.)
Promising review:"Yes...I have too many clothes. I LOVE my leggings. These saved me soooo much room! Now I have much more space, AND I can see them all easier." — Larry Seymour
Get two from Amazon for $15.99.
2. And some Wonder Hangers that'll *triple* your closet storage space out of seemingly thin air. You've for sure seen 'em on TikTok.
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Check out how they work on TikTok! And PS: Wonder Hanger is a small biz!
Promising review:"I wish I had taken the time to take a before and after pic because I have so much more room in there now than I did before. I found the cutest tops in there that I had completely forgotten about because my clothes were crammed in the closet so tightly. Most of the time, I felt like I had nothing to wear, LOL, and now, I know exactly what I have, and it's even organized by sleeve length and color. I would definitely buy again and actually plan to buy more for my husband and children to use as well." — Mariko Lamb
Get 10 from Amazon for $13.99+ (available in three colors and packs of 10 or 24).
3. And a similar pair of pants hangers with a nonslip covering on the hangers so you can take a gander at which pair of black jeans you wanna slip into today.
4. A bra/tank organizer in case your drawers are too far gone and you need to be able to find that specific bra that fits under the neckline that specific dress.
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Promising review: "Can't believe how AMAZING these are!!! these have helped me save so much space in my closet. If you are thinking of getting these, don't hesitate. They are very very sturdy and I have many items on them and they have not broken or bent. I would give it more stars if it was possible." — Continental traveler
Get it from Amazon for $16.99.
5. Or a steel tank top hanger to finally hold your favorite tanks and camis in a way that's more easily searchable than rolled up in your drawers.
Reviewers also use this for storing bras.
Promising review:"I love the crap out of this thing! I have so many camis that I use as undershirts for work and they were always being folded up and crammed into a drawer, taking up way too much space. After putting away half of my shirts on this two-pack, I knew I needed to buy another pack! It's so easy to take the shirts on and off without messing around with any of the others. This organizer is perfect for my needs in freeing up a drawer and taking up little space in my closet." — Tessa
Get a three-pack from Amazon for $15.75.
6. A pants/skirts hanger with clips that'll help you ~waterfall~ six bottom styling actions at once! I have a couple of these in my closet and it's one of the handiest closet organizers I own. I have one for faux-leather pants (yes, I like options) and another for skirts and skorts!
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Promising review: "I love these hangers. I am able to save so much space in my closet! They are sturdy and very well made." — Danielle Hinshaw
Get four from Amazon for $25.99.
7. A hanging shoe organizer can do so much more in basically every room of your house. The pockets are the perfect size for cold-weather accessories, tights, wallets, wound-up belts, and all kinds of stuff. I have one of these hanging in my coat closet and I fit all kinds of stuff in it!
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Promising review: "I love this product. I have one that is similar for jewelry. I use this in my main bathroom for deodorant, shampoo, hair brushes, toothpaste, perfumes, hand towels, rolled up my counter, nice, and clean and clear." — Cynthia McLeod
Get it from Amazon for $14.99 (available in four colors).
8. An adjustable closet doubler that does exactly what its name says to help fill that dead space below your hanging tops. No need to fish some hand tools for this, though. It simply hooks onto your existing closet rail.
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Promising review:"It has doubled my closet space in my apartment where I can't make any damage in terms of adding another permanent shelf — so this has been a perfect solution. It was easy to assemble and is sturdy. I've had it for a couple of weeks now with no issue. Your closet has to be pretty high for this to work or else your shirts above are going to get caught on the hangers below and for my case, some of my shirts are dragging on the floor — just keep this in mind when you're thinking about purchasing." — Alex
Get it from Amazon for $17.97.
9. Hanging vacuum bags that'll help you find even more closet space. (You thought that was impossible!) This is especially great for bulky items you can hang like coats. I for one am REALLY looking forward to that part of spring when I can confidently store my coats.
Promising review:"Bought these storage bags to pack my winter clothes for summer, and they did the job perfectly. They are large and sturdy. I like its five-hook design. I can store five women's jackets or four big men's jackets in ONE bag. The long bags also fit my dresses. The biggest reason I bought these bags is that I do not need to fold my seasonal clothes; just hang, zip, vacuum, done! Super convenient. Extremely happy with this space bags. I will definitely order more!" — Jia Yan
Get a four-pack from Amazon for $24.99+ (available in four colors).
10. Cap holders so you can clear that shelf in your closet dedicated to your baseball hats.
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Promising review:"I am a neat freak and purchased this for my husband (I mean myself!) to organize the pile of hats laying around. I love it, as it cleaned up the hat area. He loves it because he can find the hat he needs easily. I hung them up with ease. They work great. I would purchase again for myself or a gift." — Jessica P
Get it from Amazon for $11.99.
11. Or a baseball hat organizer will take up *very* little room while helping maintain the shape of your caps.
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PS: DomeDock is a small biz!
Promising review: "Such an efficient and easy way to store hats. Whoever came up with this is a genius!" — Melissa Humphrey
Get it from Amazon for $19.99+ (available in white or black and individually or as a two-pack).
12. An acrylic belt organizing case for letting you eye your belts and designer buckles in a split second while taking up a very small amount of shelf space.
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Promising review: "I like how well they are made and how you can stack them or mount them on a wall. We used ours for belts and ties and they work great. I own a cleaning business and a client of mine had them in his closet when we were dusting. I asked him where he got them from and then I purchased them as well. I love them! I will be buying more." — Brenda Lamberti
Get it from Amazon for $34.99.
13. A rotating shoe rack can store your shoes, handbags, and more compact accessories in a very small spot of floor space. This'll make shopping your own closet even more appealing.
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SpaceAid is a small business!
Promising review:"First of all… this was the easiest thing I've ever put together. It took a few minutes to assemble. Secondly, it is awesome… I've had numerous friends want the info on where I've bought it. We are in the process of remodeling a closet, so we are planning to build shelves around it. But in the meantime, it's going in my office as a plant and book shelf. My mother is planning to purchase one for her pantry in her kitchen. So well worth the money." — lauren
Get it from Amazon for $199.98+ (available in three sizes).
14. A set of hoodie hangers so your most comfortable items can end their reign of terror on your normal clothes hangers or your closet's lone shelf.
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Venalli is a small Etsy shop based in Overland Park, Kansas.
My colleague Daniel Boan swear by these: "This is one of those "where has this been all my life?!" type of products. I'm a sucker for a soft hoodie, especially ever since my apartment became my office, and now I can wear them 24/7. As much as I love curling up in them, hanging hoodies in the closet is SUCH a pain. They always slip right off my plastic hangers unless I zip them all the way up, so they usually just end up thrown over a random chair (or that mini elliptical I bought in March 2020 and have used a total of two times 😬). These little hook-shaped hangers are the storage miracle I never knew I needed. Now I can just hang my sweatshirts and jackets by the hood and easily grab them when I need them — no zipping or folding necessary! Best of all, the pile of random hoodies on my chair has disappeared. I'm keeping the mini elliptical covered, though."
Get a pack of 10 from Venalli on Etsy for $19.99.
15. A "portable closet" that some reviewers have used *in* a closet as an organizing system. But it really shines with its intended use as an outside-of-closet organizing solution where 1) a closet doesn't exist or 2) your fashionista status has outgrown said closet, and you've gotta do SOMETHING with your stuff in the meantime.
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Promising review: "I moved into a new apartment with limited closet space, and this was easy to put together and sturdy. Just what I needed." — Amanda Short
Get it from Amazon for $43.99+ (available in five configurations and three colors).
16. Some slim-fitting velvet hangers for a VERY simple switch for a lot more room in your closet. Sorry, plastic coat hangers! You're no longer welcome here.
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Promising review:"You get twice the amount of space in your closet. Highly recommend them for neat freaks and small closet spaces." — Kinsley P
Get 50 flocked hangers on Amazon for $24.19+ (available in five colors).
17. A tie holder that'll store as many as 20 ties and keep them in tip-top shape in between wears. Go ahead, buy a couple. Dozen.
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Promising review:"Does pretty good. Holds 20 ties each. Comes with two racks. It holds them pretty snugly. They seem durable. I've probably got 5-7lbs of ties on each. Organizes them beautifully." — Jabbalaugh
Get a pair from Amazon for $8.99.
18. A shirt folder to make all of your stacks of clothing even crisper and tidier.
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Promising review:"Easy to use! Made very durably. I haven't had this much fun folding clothes, EVER! I am going around my entire house and plan to fold every single thing I can! Makes nice, neat stacks of T-shirts! If you are a bit of an organization and neat freak — THIS PRODUCT IS FOR YOU!!! Love it!" — Cynthia L. Weisert
Get it from Amazon for $16.99+ (available in five colors).
19. Or if you'd like to cut to the chase and want even easier access to your folded shirts, an Ezstax closet organizer *and* shirt folder can turn that pile of shirts into an orderly display you can flip through to find that shirt dead in the middle of the stack that you wanna wear today.
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Promising review:"Love this. I bought the 20-pack. I love clothes, and I'm a neat freak without a lot of closet space. Now I can store my shirts and camis in my closet shelves and can see and access each one individually. Wish they were more affordable, or I'd buy even more!" — Wendy I. Smith
Get a 20-pack from Amazon for $31.99+ (available in two sizes and five multi-packs).
20. Clip-on shelf dividers as a topple-free solution for keeping your sweatshirts, gym clothes, and other drawer overflow in neat piles. (Those hoods always mess up other sweatshirt organizing options!)
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Promising review:"Helped with the organization of my messy closet shelves. Everything stays stacked now, and I can see and easily grab what I need. Love them!" — Shawn LeValley
Get a set of eight from Amazon for $27.99+ (available in three quantities).
21. A genius T-shirt roll holder to move some shirts from hangers or drawers to an unused door back *or* front.
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The Roll Keeper is owned by Kelso, Washington's resident crafter, Traci. Traci has been crafting for over 40 years and created her storage design to help organize vinyl, soon realizing that it was the perfect organization solution for much more. Her shop has versions for bottles, wrapping paper, pens, and more. Don't miss checking out this small business!
My colleague Mallory Mower owns this and loves it:
"Before getting this I was driving myself up the wall with my bad folding habits. I basically shoved all my shirts into the storage drawers under my bed, because I have a teeny tiny closet (the picture above gives you a solid idea of how small it is). This has given me a massive amount of clothing storage I didn't have before. The quality is stellar and Traci is 10/10 the most thoughtful person I've purchased an Etsy product from!"
22. A scarf organizer can help you remember which scarves you actually own...rather than assuming that you left that one pashmina in a hotel room in who knows where only to find it on your closet floor a year later.
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Can hold 23 scarves! DecoBrothers is a small biz specializing in all sorts of home-organizing solutions.
Promising review:"I am an organization freak, and this keeps all my scarves neat and organized (No more scrounging through the back of my closet trying to look for the scarf I want to wear!). It saves a ton of space in my closet as well." — Kindle Customer
Get it from Amazon for $9.97 (available in three colors).
23. Drawer organizers so you can finally find that one pair of nude-colored underwear for that dress you're wearing to a picnic. (Truly, you can never have too many pairs of nude undies.)
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Each set comes with four bins: a six-cell (for scarves, hankies, and ties), an eight-cell (for undies), a seven-cell (for bras), and a 24-cell (for socks). They're also collapsable and fold flat if you need to store them away!
Promising review:"I am a neat freak so these were right up my alley. They are great organizers for my socks, undies and some of my beauty products. Not super sturdy but still pleased with this product and will most likely order a few more for organizing other drawers." — Kelley Anderson
Get the set of four from Amazon for $15.97 (available in seven colors).
24. A space-saving retractable clothes rack your laundry room has been yearning for since you first hung up a shirt in there. It can buy you a little extra clothing storage space and even give you a spot to plan out your week's worth of work outfits or outfit combos for an upcoming trip!
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Promising reviews:"Amazing quality. Perfect for neat freaks! We got this for our small laundry room. This is the perfect answer to both small spaces and the desire for clean lines. It's sturdy and holds about 20 items. When we are not using it, it folds so darn neatly. Looks awesome and is easy to install. Would totally get more for other rooms. I am thinking guest rooms." — linda sloan
Get it from Amazon for $14.99+ (available in five colors).
25. And a trio of clothes storage bags where you can stuff a bunch of stuff that doesn't currently fit, is seasonal, or you just need to get out of the way right now. They have a handy window where you can see what's inside before you open it up. Reviewers say they fit a LOT.
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Promising review: "Durable and convenient storage bags that fit in closets and are also stackable in a common area. Thick, clear plastic area for easy viewing of what is inside but gives privacy. Easy to use handles." — JayJay

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35 Budget-Friendly Ways To Transform Your Backyard

A pack of solar-powered garden lights to turn your yard into a wind-powered light show. They charge during the day and glow at night, no plugs or switches required. A flexible adjustable mister so you can feel like you're at a high-end resort when you're lounging around outside during a really hot day. Just hook it up to your hose and voilà! It's ready to go. Or a misting system if you're already sweating just thinking about summer and want maximum misting in your outdoor space. This easy little setup connects to your garden hose and mists a fine spray that can cool the area by up to 20 degrees. Perfect for patios, play spaces, or wherever else you'd rather not melt. A fade-resistant outdoor umbrella for relaxing without worrying about harmful UV rays. (But remember to always wear sunscreen when your skin's exposed to the sun!) It's got a diameter of 7.5 feet, which can provide shade for a small table and three or four chairs. Note: The umbrella stand is not included, but this is a good one if you need one. Promising review: "This umbrella was perfect and met my needs. I live in a condo and needed a way to shade the balcony from the intense morning sun. This worked really well. The setup was easy. The crank works well ,and the tilt is easy to do." —DanielleGet it from Amazon for $37.99+ (available in 15 colors and patterns). And a clip-on umbrella light, because sometimes a great day on your balcony turns into a great night, and you want to make sure you have the proper illumination. A waterproof outdoor curtain to either partition off space in your outdoor space or provide you with some privacy, like if your balcony looks directly onto someone else's balcony or something unsightly. A pack of four plant supporters because some plants just need extra help staying upright. Bonus points because the metal is powder-coated green, which camouflages well. A set of metal hanging flower pots so you can have fresh flowers or herbs, regardless of whether you have a plot of dirt to grow them in. Each set includes 10 planters, so you can plant different types of flowers, herbs, and other greenery to really make a big visual impact. A set of metal wind chimes that'll turn your yard into a peaceful soundtrack. With six precision-tuned tubes, it plays soft, melodic tones in the breeze. It also comes with a strong hook for easy hanging. Promising review: "I purchased the rose colored chimes. I've been outside daily, working on the yard. Yesterday, I noticed a feeling of calm as a small storm moved in. It was the chimes, without noticing, they played in the background and moved me into a relaxed state." —PegiGet it from Amazon for $27.89+ (available in seven colors and three sizes). Or some bamboo wind chimes to bring some zen vibes to your outdoor space. When it moves, the bamboo produces deep, soothing tones that'll blend nicely with nature's soundtrack. No batteries, no wires, just peaceful background music you didn't have to find via a playlist. Promising review: "Was actually a little bigger than I expected to be for the price. Beautiful and well worth the money. Sounds beautiful." —Ashleigh Yates Get it from Amazon for $17.99+ (available in two sizes). Ooooor a set of solar wind chimes for bringing a little glow and gentle sound to your outdoor space after dark. The charge during the day, then kicks on automatically at night with soft, color-changing light. Promising review: "Ok so I absolutely LOVE this! So much so I have bought two more for gifts, lol. They shine wonderful amounts of light. The whole unit is lightweight. Hangs well and blows nicely in the wind. I could watch it for hours... and have. I see more orders in my future." —Fairy girl Get it from Amazon for $13.99+ (available in seven shapes). Some waterproof and shatterproof solar-powered outdoor string lights to turn your backyard into a whimsical nighttime oasis. Perfect for draping over trees, winding around railings, or highlighting the edges of your outdoor living space, they create an intimate setting that's both magical and inviting. Brightech is a small business in Los Angeles that sells indoor and outdoor lighting for the review: "I have had these lights up since the end of September 2022. They lit up right out of the box. They have been through a snowstorm, ice storm, and massive rain, and are still perfect. They are pretty easy to hang. They are shatterproof, which I love. —D KellyGet it from Brightech on Amazon for $27.99+ (available in warm or soft light). A pack of sunflower seeds with nine varieties so your backyard will be an oasis for honeybees, bumblebees, hummingbirds, and butterflies. Each package has over 1,000 seeds and can cover up to 325 square feet. Or a pack of wildflower seeds that'll turn a sad patch of dirt into a butterfly-and-hummingbird buffet. You get over 30,000 seeds (!!!) across 23 varieties, so even if half of them ghost you, you'll still end up with a bloom-filled backyard. Seed Needs is a family-owned small business in Michigan that makes seed packets. Promising review: "I bought this package hoping to attract butterflies. It did not disappoint. I have the opposite of a green thumb, and this was super easy. I couldn't tell you the names of any flowers, but we have at least six different types. I overseeded a smaller area, so I will probably make the area larger or only do half the seeds next year. We can go outside at any time and see our beautiful flowers and SO many butterflies! 10/10" —Tesa TaylorGet it from Amazon for $5+ (available in four mixes and two sizes). An outdoor rug for an instant (and cheap!) way to make your outdoor space look pulled together. The bold floral print brings the color, it folds up when you don't need it, and it costs less than a round of drinks. Promising review: "Love this outdoor rug and it's reversible. White where the yellow is on this side. I love it ... the yellow is a beautiful, bright color. Just magical." —BarbGet it from Amazon for $39.99+ (available in three colors and three sizes). Or a geometric black and white outdoor rug so chic it'll instantly transform your backyard into a scene straight out of The White Lotus. Not only does it add a touch of pizzazz to your outdoor space, but it's also made from durable materials designed to withstand the elements. Hauteloom is a small business in Georgia that sells rugs for the review: "Delivered exactly as described. This is a really beautiful outdoor rug that adds coziness and pop to my deck. I put heavy items around the perimeter of the rug for a day to help flatten the edges. Great price for a great quality rug." —Amazon CustomerGet it from Amazon for $35+ (available in 15 sizes and three colors). Some solar-powered stair lights that'll keep your stairs from turning into a tripping hazard after dark. They're waterproof, they charge themselves (bless), and they'll make your stairs look like the runway your guests deserve. Promising review: "Where I live, it's so dark and I have no outside electricity off my screened-in deck. I wanted lights for my stairs for safety and found these lights, which work and look great! They come with everything you need to fasten them to the stairs so they don't fall off as well. I even bought extra and tested them in the event that the ones that are currently outside get damaged for any reason, and they are no longer sold. Definitely recommend for the price, nice and bright, and easy installation. Plus, they last all night long!" —BrookeGet it from Amazon for $30.99+ (available in warm or cool white light and six pack sizes). A wooden wall-mounted trellis for adding some vertical greenery to your exterior walls. From potted plants to air plants, this trellis will provide you with everything you need to help your garden grow vertically. A wood patio set that's cute enough to impress your guests and comfy enough to keep them lingering. The slatted acacia wood and crisp cushions give it a clean, modern vibe, and the table is juuuust the right size for a couple of cold bevvies and a snack bowl. It's proof that functional doesn't have to mean boring. Promising review: "I was looking for some nice small chairs to put on our front patio. We had camping chairs out there before and they looked awful from the street. We ordered this little set and it has been perfect. They have great street appeal. They are extremely comfortable. The cushions are firm and supportive. We easily sit out here for an hour or two now each day. Cat and human approved." —Vik Get it from Amazon for $74.99. An inflatable pool for taking a dip whenever you please. No packing a bag and heading to the local pool required. It has a built-in bench and a couple of cupholders, too! And a dog/kiddie pool so the tiny tots and furry friends in your life have a safe spot to splash, too. This folds up for easy storage when not in use and doesn't need to be inflated to work. A Chomp! oil stain remover to finally get rid of those nasty spots on your patio and walkways. Just smear on the thick gel, let it dry, and peel it up. It's heavy-duty help for the kind of stain that you thought was permanent. Promising review: "I went in skeptical, I'm not going to lie. We had grease spilled on our brand-new paver patio. The grease had been sitting for a few weeks, and I saw an ad for this stuff. I ordered it to try because why not? Well, I'll be damned because this took the spots right off! No evidence we ever spilled anything! I'd buy it again." —SusanGet it from Amazon for $17.97. A colorful three-piece patio set if you want a cozy place to enjoy your morning cup of joe or a meal al fresco. The bright color will create a nice focal point for your outdoor space. Promising review: "This set was just what I needed to add a pop of color to my porch. It seems sturdy and tolerant of extreme weather conditions. My friends and neighbors love the bright yellow." —Judith J. Get it from Amazon for $109.99+ (available in five colors). Or a three-piece folding wood bistro set that comes with the cushions. This is such a timeless look; you can put this anywhere and it's sure to impress. Promising review: "I recently moved and have a small front patio. The rules of the complex are neutral as far as furniture is concerned. And so I spent forever looking for something that would fit the color scheme, plus be cute and comfortable. I am so so happy with this purchase. The table and chairs are not only a good size, but they are tall! I myself am almost 6 foot tall, and to not have to lean over with a patio set is really cool. The cushions are very comfortable, and the setup was extremely easy. Highly recommend." —Ashley kGet it from Amazon for $109.99+ (available in three colors). A triangular sail to block harmful UV rays and also provide you with necessary shade. A simple way to create a relaxing area. The corners of the sails have D rings so you can attach them to whatever you'd like with your choice of hardware or review: "Purchased this to increase privacy and provide some shade. The color is vibrant, hasn't faded, and the loops are well-stitched. The sail has also fared well in winds, thunderstorms, monsoon rain, and the brutal heat of Vegas. Shade is wonderful and one can definitely feel the temperature difference from full sun to being under this sail. The look and feel compliments our pool area and will certainly be purchasing an additional one." —VHC MediaGet it from Amazon for $23.99+ (available in a variety of sizes and 12 colors/patterns). A hanging hammock chair, because sometimes you just need a main character moment and this is the chair that'll give it to you. A bottle of Scotts multipurpose outdoor cleaner if you want to tackle dirt, mildew, and grime without blasting everything with bleach. It's tough on messes but gentle enough for your exterior. Just spray, scrub (if needed), and admire how much less gross everything looks. A seeding start kit for giving your backyard a literal fresh start. This little setup is basically the pregame to a garden glow-up: it comes with everything you need to start a whole lineup of veggies, herbs, or flowers indoors before sending them out to thrive in the wild (aka your raised beds). Plus, it's way more fun than impulse-buying yet another sad basil plant from the grocery store. The kit has space for up to 72 seedlings in cells measuring 1.5" x 1.5" x 2" each. Entire tray is 10" x 20" x 5". Recommended for use with a heat mat to promote germination. Once sprouts emerge, use a plant grow light or place near a well-lit review: "As an avid gardener, I've found this kit to be an essential tool for starting seeds and nurturing young plants before transplanting them into the garden. Each cell is sturdy and well-designed, ensuring proper airflow and drainage to promote healthy root development. The included greenhouse dome helps retain moisture and warmth, promoting optimal germination and seedling growth. Incredibly user-friendly, making it suitable for both beginners and experienced gardeners alike. The included growing medium is pre-fertilized and ready to use, eliminating the need for additional soil amendments and saving time during the planting process. Highly recommend." —Blondie16Get it from Amazon for $19.99. And a pack of the 20 most popular vegetable seeds to basically turn your vegetable beds into your own organic produce market. From beets and cucumbers to cabbage and okra, there are enough seeds to grow plenty of produce year-round. A three-piece wicker chair and table set for under $100 that doesn't look like it came from the dusty clearance corner of a big-box store. You get two cushioned chairs, a glass-top table, and the undeniable satisfaction of leveling up your outdoor space without blowing your budget. A two-pack of solar-powered outdoor lantern lights to add just the right amount of illumination to your backyard. Because they don't require electricity, you can hang them and then not worry about maintenance. Promising review: "My goodness, I did not expect to love these lanterns as much as I do. They are very, very good quality and display lots of light. I hung both of them between my small patio and English garden, and they provided enough light for both areas. I received them late afternoon, so they got about four hours in the sun. At 9 p.m., both came on like clockwork. I got up at 3 a.m. to check if they were still on, and they were as bright as ever. They are so dang cute and unique in my yard. I will be buying more. Love, Love, Love them." —Dog TailorGet it from Amazon for $32.99+ (available in three styles). An outdoor inflatable ottoman so you can kick your feet up after a long day. It's fade- and water-resistant, and deflates for easy storage when not in use. Just inflate the interior pouf and stick it inside the printed, water-resistant review: "Love these! Ordered two more. The fabric is very nice and sturdy especially for outdoors. The inflatable part appears to be good quality. How to: Place inflatable inside of cover before inflating it. Do not inflate to full capacity or it will look like an inflatable and will not rest in a nice flat position. Far nicer than I imagined. They look great flanking my outdoor rattan sectional." —Cali gGet it from Amazon for $36.99 (available in 18 fabric patterns). A colorful small raised garden bed that costs less than takeout and looks like it came from a Crayola collab. It's tall enough to save your back, compact enough for small spaces, and colorful enough to count as decor. A cheerful little upgrade for anyone flirting with the idea of gardening. Promising review: "I searched all over for a planter small enough to fit on my porch. I'm so happy I came across this one. There really isn't anything out there right now that's 1. This size, and 2. This price. It's exactly what I was looking for, and I was able to plant six herbs in it. Assembly was easy but it helps if you have an extra hand to hold the pieces together. It's made out of metal and feels very sturdy. It has a drain hole, which is a plus. I highly recommend this, especially if you are limited on space." —ChristineGet it from Amazon for $45.99. An instant mold and mildew stain remover spray to take your patio, siding, or outdoor furniture from "abandoned for decades" to "ready for guests" in seconds. Just spray it on and watch the gunk disappear like magic. It's powerful, a little smelly, and kind of a miracle if you've been neglecting your exterior for who knows how long. And a glassworks wind chime for adding some gorgeous color to your outdoor space. Nearly all wind chimes are metal or neutral tones — which is fine! — but it's refreshing to find an option that has a bit more flair.

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