Saving friend's life inspired Tipperary woman's Darkness Into Light fundraising
Denise O'Connor was inspired to take part in the Thurles walk after she helped save the life of a friend who attempted suicide.
'I used to live with an owner occupier and he went through a really, really, dark time at one point,' she explained. 'Unfortunately, he did attempt, and we were lucky enough to save him.
"So it is very close to my heart because I did live with this experience during my years in Dublin. We're so lucky that we got there in time.'
Denise had to phone 999 after they found him. The ambulance came just in time to save him.
'It was kind of heartbreaking that he wanted to leave the world. I think it's really important to make people aware that there are people you can talk to. You have the Samaritans, you have counselling. It's not the only way out.
'People are there to help. Help is a very important word. It's a four letter word. Once you say it, it can just be a release.'
Denise, who is from Cashel, took part in last year's walk too, and she can see how it helps survivors, and families who are impacted.
'I think when you see a massive community coming together, and people getting up - taking time out of their weekend, most people are socialising on a Friday night – but these people are getting up at 3am, 4am in the morning to go out and walk, to acknowledge people who seem to think there's no other way out.'
They say the darkest hour is the one just before the dawn, and for those who take part, the walk can become a spiritual experience.
'It's just so, so amazing, how many people come out. I did it last year and it was amazing. It felt great. You are heading towards the sunlight and the light. You start off and it's pitch dark out.
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'When you see the sunrise, at the end of it you realise there's a new day ahead and new possibilities. Now I was absolutely wrecked after it. There's always brightness and the sun will rise again. It's just so important to not let the dark times get you down which can be the case for so many people in the world,' said Denise.
Supporters can help keep Pieta's essential services free and available to anyone who needs them by donating now to help them reach their fundraising goals.
'Every euro counts. A small donation can make a big impact,' added Denise. 'Together, we can light up the darkness and create a brighter future for everyone. Thank you so much for your support.'
Darkness Into Light 2025 in Thurles on Saturday, May 10 will raise vital funds for Pieta and people affected by suicide and self-harm.
The starting point for the Thurles event is The Dome, Colaiste Mhuire Co-Ed, Castlemeadows, Thurles, (E41 V656), at 4.15am. Donations can be made to darknessintolight.ie.
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