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Community-based parenting programs rarely put focus on dads. That needs to change.
How are we making space for dads to show up — messy, honest, and human? (Getty image) Each June, we pause to celebrate fathers. We share cards, fire up the grill, and scroll through social media posts honoring fathers near and far. But when the smoke clears and Monday rolls around, how often do we stop to ask: What do fathers really need to thrive — and are we, as a community, truly supporting them? For too long, the story of fatherhood has been told in extremes — either lionized as stoic protectors or vilified in the absence. What's missing is the middle: the everyday father who's trying, stumbling, learning, and growing. The father who wants to break harmful and oftentimes generational patterns, to love better, to be present. The father who — like all of us — needs support, not judgment. We often say it takes a village to raise a child. But let's be honest — most of that village has been built around motherhood. Parent groups, baby showers, parenting blogs — these are cultural scaffolds that help mothers feel seen, heard, and supported. And they should. But where is that scaffolding for fathers? Nationwide, fewer than 1 in 5 community-based parenting programs are designed specifically with fathers in mind. The gap is even wider when it comes to programs that address fatherhood in the context of trauma, domestic conflict, or behavioral health/conflict resolution. And yet, engaged fathers are linked to better outcomes in nearly every measure of child development — from higher school achievement to lower rates of incarceration, mental illness, and substance use. Too many fathers — especially those who have made mistakes — are navigating parenthood without a map or a hand to hold. They face shame, isolation, and often don't have a safe space to reflect, grow, or reconnect with their children. Parent groups, baby showers, parenting blogs — these are cultural scaffolds that help mothers feel seen, heard, and supported. And they should. But where is that scaffolding for fathers? One example of what's possible when we invest in fathers is the Family Service of Rhode Island program, Caring Dads. The 17-week program doesn't just teach parenting skills — it fosters self-awareness, empathy, and accountability. Participants learn how their actions have impacted their families and are equipped with practical strategies to build healthy, child-centered relationships. This isn't about excusing harm — it's about transforming it. Each cohort is supported with group sessions, individual check-ins, and connection to foster community services. Mothers are also engaged in parallel, ensuring transparency and safety. In many cases, fathers in the program are able to reestablish trust, increase positive communication and create more stable environments for their children. We know from decades of research that children do better when both parents are positively engaged. Yet our systems often write off fathers too quickly — especially Black and Brown fathers, who are twice as likely to be in the child welfare system and face greater barriers to reunification. If we are serious about equity, we must dismantle the narrative that fatherhood is expendable. We must challenge ourselves to ask: How are we making space for dads to show up — messy, honest, and human? Supporting fathers isn't just a feel-good gesture for Father's Day. It's a year-round commitment to community well-being. When we support fathers, we interrupt cycles of trauma, and longstanding stereotypes that impact fathers ability to be present and engage, strengthen families, and create safer, more nurturing environments for children to grow. This Father's Day, let's expand our idea of celebration. Let's reach out — not just with praise, but with partnership. Let's build father-friendly spaces. Let's ask dads what they need, and listen with compassion. Because when fathers thrive, families heal. And when we embrace dads as a vital part of the village, everyone wins. SUBSCRIBE: GET THE MORNING HEADLINES DELIVERED TO YOUR INBOX
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5 Major Reasons Why People Cheat, According to Couples Therapists
Anyone who's been cheated on in a relationship knows the question that hits the hardest is Why? As quick as we are to condemn infidelity, the reasons why people cheat often aren't black-and-white—and that gray area can be incredibly frustrating to make sense of. If they needed something they weren't getting in your relationship, why not speak up? Or break up? While sometimes it is as simple as being an inconsiderate or impulsive asshole, in many cases, 'the motivations can be layered and complex,' Patrice Le Goy, PhD, LMFT, a Los Angeles–based couples therapist, tells SELF. Even what seems like a one-time drunken slipup with a stranger is usually rooted in something deeper. Make no mistake, though: Reasons are not the same thing as excuses. But understanding what drives a person to be unfaithful can offer clarity, closure, and even a starting point for healing. Below, couples therapists break down some of the most common (and perhaps surprising) reasons why people cheat. Sometimes the motivation is as straightforward as chasing that rush of being wanted or desired by someone new. In general, people who struggle with low self-esteem or didn't grow up feeling emotionally secure end up craving external validation and reassurance from others. 'They're trying to address more deeply rooted issues of not having love readily available to them in childhood,' Dr. Le Goy says. So while the attention from an emotional or physical affair can seem like an instant way to feel more attractive, desired, or interesting, this ego boost is typically short-lived—and definitely not a substitute for building lasting confidence from within. So often we hear that someone cheats because the sex isn't what it used to be. And to an extent, intimacy issues like mismatched libidos or differences in preferences can create tension and distance in a relationship, Brianna Brunner, LCSW, psychotherapist and owner of Couples Therapy Services based in New Jersey, tells SELF. When that bedroom compatibility is missing, 'people might go out and seek that elsewhere from someone they do have that physical chemistry with,' Brunner points out. Suddenly, 'the affair becomes really exciting, since they're getting that desire and rush that they weren't getting before.' Obviously this isn't a respectful or healthy way to go about wanting more or a different type of sex, but it can explain why certain cheaters will cling to the emotional safety of a stable relationship while also chasing steamy passion somewhere else. Even if the sex is solid, people also cheat because they're feeling unfulfilled or taken for granted with their current partner. Especially in long-term relationships, it's easy for the romance to quietly take a backseat due to things like work stress, raising kids, or managing finances, all of which can make the relationship comfortable, sure, but also emotionally flat. The best thing to do, according to every expert we spoke with, is to speak up about any concerns before resentment or apathy builds. But according to Theresa Herring, LMFT, a couples therapist at Centered Connections in Chicago, 'We live in a society that is so focused on instant gratification, where an affair can present as a quick fix for problems in a person's life or relationship.' This is often what may lead people to (intentionally or not) fall for someone who compliments them, say, listens closely, or makes them feel seen in a way their SO hasn't. For some folks who've been hurt in the past (or maybe never had a close, emotionally safe relationship before), letting someone really see you—flaws and all—can seem risky, even terrifying. That level of closeness, according to Herring, can stir up a lot of fear and anxiety. (What if I get hurt again? What if they leave me once they really know me?) If you want a deep, intimate connection, you have to be willing to work through that discomfort (ideally with some honest, open communication with your SO, maybe even with the help of a couples counselor). Others, however, may subconsciously try to protect themselves by self-sabotaging or pulling away. 'They might think, I'm scared to feel too close. I'm scared of what this might mean,' Herring says. And for some, cheating becomes a way to create that distance—like, If I mess this up before it gets too real, then I won't get hurt. So affairs aren't always about desiring someone else: It can be about running away from the vulnerability that real intimacy demands. Another common reason why people cheat, according to Brunner and Herring, is wanting an out from the relationship. When someone's unhappy but too scared, guilty, or conflict-averse to explicitly break things off, infidelity can feel like a built-in eject button. Basically, a way to force the relationship to end without ever having to say the words 'I don't want to be with you anymore.' For obvious reasons, none of this excuses cheating—it's a pretty immature (and hurtful) exit strategy. Because if a relationship isn't working, the most decent thing you can do is have an honest conversation rather than leaving your SO with the emotional fallout. Short answer: Yes—and luckily, 'once a cheater, always a cheater' isn't some universal truth (more on that here). That said, your chances of successfully moving forward as a couple depend on a few important factors beyond the why, every expert we spoke to agrees. What matters just as much as the reason behind the affair is whether it's truly over, whether the person who cheated has taken accountability and shown a willingness to rebuild trust, and whether both partners are genuinely committed to doing the hard work—which eventually includes forgiveness. In many cases, understanding the why behind a betrayal can be an important part of that equation too. 'While for some people, cheating is cheating, for others, certain layers can make the betrayal more or less challenging to overcome,' Dr. Le Goy says. It's not a justification, exactly, but it can be a helpful first step in figuring out whether there's potential to stay together. Related: 6 Bad Relationship Habits Couples Therapists Are Begging You to Break 9 People on the Signs of Cheating They Wish They'd Paid Attention to Sooner How Bad Is It to Go Through Your Partner's Phone When They're Not Looking? Get more of SELF's great relationship advice delivered right to your inbox—for free. Originally Appeared on Self
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King Charles III marks Air India tragedy with moment of silence during annual birthday parade
LONDON (AP) — King Charles III and other members of the royal family in uniform wore black armbands and observed a moment of silence during his annual birthday parade Saturday as the monarch commemorated those who died in this week's Air India plane crash. Charles requested the symbolic moves 'as a mark of respect for the lives lost, the families in mourning and all the communities affected by this awful tragedy,' Buckingham Palace said. An Air India flight from the northwestern city of Ahmedabad to London crashed shortly after takeoff on Thursday, killing 241 people on board and at least 29 on the ground. The plane was carrying 169 Indians, 53 Britons, seven Portuguese and one Canadian. One man survived. In addition to being Britain's head of state, Charles is the head of the Commonwealth, an organization of independent states that includes India and Canada. The monarch's annual birthday parade, known as Trooping the Colour, is a historic ceremony filled with pageantry and military bands in which the king reviews his troops on Horse Guards Parade adjacent to St. James' Park in central London. The military ceremony dates back to a time when flags of the battalion, known as colours, were 'trooped,'' or shown, to soldiers in the ranks so they could recognize them. All members of the royal family in uniform wore black armbands. The moment of silence occurred while the king was on the dais after reviewing the troops. Charles' mother, Queen Elizabeth II, held a similar moment of silence in 2017 when Trooping the Colour took place three days after a fire ripped through the Grenfell Tower apartment bloc in west London, killing 72 people. Error! Sorry, there was an error processing your request. There was a problem with the recaptcha. Please try again. You may unsubscribe at any time. By signing up, you agree to our terms of use and privacy policy . This site is protected by reCAPTCHA and the Google privacy policy and terms of service apply. Want more of the latest from us? Sign up for more at our newsletter page .
