What can our obsession with Princess Diana tell us about ourselves?

Boston Globe

23-04-2025

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Well, sort of. The first chapter, 'Blood Family,' is indeed about the Spencers, reminding us that 'the people's princess' came from the highest echelons of the English aristocracy, and the second is about Diana's complicated relations with 'The Rat Pack,' as she dubbed the journalists on the royal beat. From there, the communities and the coherence get fuzzier. A chapter titled 'Will the Real Diana Please Sit Down' wanders from the 'not overwhelmingly favorable' reactions to her wedding dress through press coverage of her clothing and appearance to a peculiar digression about Diana look-alikes and then to a discussion of painted portraits that don't look like her, all leading to the tenuous conclusion that 'her capacious dress-up box has created confusion about who she really was … it has been difficult to tell where Diana stops and the rest of us begin.' Next, 'Don't Do It Di!' posits an interesting, if debatable point: 'Diana, the everywoman, Diana, the superwoman. These were the poles between which much of her reputation was framed … illuminating of contemporary conversations about gender and the lives of women in a way that is still bitingly relevant.' Instead of pursuing this argument, however, White moves on to comparing the image of Diana as an ideal woman with royal predecessors such as the Queen Mother, and to the 'mythology' that linked her to Marilyn Monroe and Jackie O as someone 'soft, vulnerable, and
sad
' — to what end isn't clear.
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White's razor-sharp prose is as pleasurable as ever, nailing 'that unmistakable mixture of lasciviousness and archaic deference that the tabloids favored when writing about Diana,' or describing the photos of her being mobbed in Australia as 'a scene that lands somewhere between Christ among the multitudes and Beatlemania.' In 'Dianaworld,' regrettably, such shrewd comments generally appear in asides. Most of his insights feel old, as when he tells us that Diana's feelings of neglect and rejection, sparked by the loss of her mother in an ugly divorce and deepened by her chilly relations with the royal family, were 'central to the story she told us about herself, and the place she occupies in the collective imagination.' White goes on to link this image of her as someone who could relate to the despised and outcast as a (very privileged) fellow victim with the well-worn topics of her charitable work for people with AIDS and other marginalized groups and with many women's perception of Diana as an emblem of the wronged wife. Only his discussion of the sense of connection with Diana expressed by immigrant women of color, who felt as unwelcome in Britain as she did in the royal family, offers something unexpected.
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The book's freshest insight is the conflict White discerns between Diana's ferocious ambition, her lifelong sense that she was born for great things, and her publicly professed, quite genuine, commitment to serve others. This, at least, is something that never came up in the contemporary press. If only there were more of it and less background material on various Diana obsessives, from the sculptor who planned a 9-foot-tall, 2-ton bust of her to be placed outside the London headquarters of the National AIDS Trust to the founder of the Diana Circle who insists, 'She was definitely murdered.' Whatever White thinks, these profiles don't enrich our understanding of Diana's significance in the culture.
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White closes abruptly, with a visitor to the Spencer family estate, disappointed by the lack of memorabilia, asking, 'Is there nothing else Diana?
Is that it?'
There's plenty of Diana in 'Dianaworld,' but unfortunately, readers expecting an original take on one of the most analyzed women in the world may well have the same reaction.
DIANAWORLD: An Obsession
By Edward White
Norton, 384 pages, $31.99
Wendy Smith is the author of '
' and a two-time finalist for the National Book Critic Circle's reviewing citation.