'There's A Lot More To That': Cassie Ventura Disputes Defense Assertion She Agreed To 'Freak-Offs' Just To Make Sean 'Diddy' Combs 'Happy'
'You and Sean Combs were in love for 11 years, right?' defense lawyer Anna Estevao poignantly asked Cassie Ventura today at the beginning of her cross-examination of the former longterm girlfriend of the 'All About the Benjamins' performer in Combs' sex-trafficking trial. After the heavily pregnant Ventura responded in the affirmative, Estevao gently added, 'You knew the Sean that he didn't want anybody else to see but you?'
Ventura admitted that even though she found Combs' charismatic big personality to be'scary' when they first met, she felt she discovered the so-called 'real' Sean Combs underneath his public perpetual hypeman persona . He was 'very sweet' and 'attentive,' Ventura said, in many ways reiterating testimony she gave while under questioning from the prosecution earlier this week.
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It should be noted that the feds want to paint a portrait of Combs as upstanding in the first months he and Ventura were together to illustrate how he always intended to bend the then 19-year-old singer to his will and desires. For the defense, the reasoning is clearly the opposite. Their goal is to convince the jurors that as distasteful as it could sometimes be, Ventura and Combs had a genuine relationship between complicated people with non-traditional desires and turn-ons, but with no coercive undercurrents
'To make him happy, you told him that you wanted to do 'freak-offs,'' the defense attorney queried, going to the escort and chemically enhanced sex sessions that Combs asked the often jealous Ventura to participate in about a year into their relationship that is at the core of the feds' case.
'There's a lot more to that,' Ventura said.
At that point, Ventura directly asked Judge Arun Subramanian for a break in the proceedings. At the time the witness requested the pause, the court was looking at a series of explicit correspondence between Combs and Ventura.
Less than 24 hours after Ventura tearfully told the jury in the high-profile trial about being raped in 2018 by Diddy after they broke up, the singer Wednesday faced what is sure to be in-depth grilling from the defense team. Setting the stage, Ventura was asked earlier Thursday if she felt that she was 'special' to the much-accused Bad Boy Records founder during the years they were together. The witness very quietly replied: 'No, I don't think I always knew.'
The intricacy of Combs and Ventura's 2007 – 2018 relationship became evident when Estevao stated: 'So when he cheated on you, it really hurt?' Looking out into the packed lower Manhattan federal courtroom, the eight-months pregnant Ventura responded: 'I would say not every time.'
On the fourth day of the trial, Ventura's questioning by ex-prosecutor Estevao follows a grueling day of testimony Tuesday that found the 'Me & U' singer frequently in tears, especially as she described an alleged 2018 rape by Diddy months after the couple had broken up.
The assault occurred on the living room floor of Ventura's LA apartment. Combs had driven the singer home after the duo had gone for what the witness called a 'closure conversation' and pleasant dinner in Malibu. Barely holding on to her composure and asking for a break in the proceedings soon afterwards, Ventura detailed how she was screaming 'No!' and crying, but the 'eyes black' Combs didn't stop or seem to care.
'It's like someone taking something from you,' Ventura stated, while also admitting to Assistant U.S. Attorney Emily Johnson that she later consensually had sex with Combs one more time after the alleged rape.
In that vein, the defense Thursday quickly leaned into their primary argument that Combs and Ventura were always consenting adults and Ventura was never forced to do anything she didn't agree to, no matter how kinky or out of control their relationship was. Tho establish that stance, this morning, defense lawyer Estevao pulled up warm, gushing and also lurid emails from both Combs and Ventura from the early days of the couple's time together.
Kindly in nature from the start, because there really is no other way to question Ventura right now with all she has testified so far, the cross-examination by the Marc Agnifilo, Teny Geragos and Brian Steel-led defense of Ventura is expected to continue Friday and maybe even into early next week. Probably the most important witness of the prosecution's case, Ventura was called as to testify right from the near start of the trial in part because of the advanced stage of her pregnancy.
This criminal trial of Combs began in great part with his arrest last September on charges of racketeering, sex trafficking, transportation to engage in prostitution and more.
If found guilty by the 12-person jury in court now, that since amended indictment could see the 55-year-old 'I'll Be Missing You' performer behind bars for the rest of his life. At the same time, with his much mentioned allegedly enabling inner circle not defendants in this case, Combs faces dozens of civil case, including one filed earlier this week that mocks the Grammy winner's genitals as it accuses him of raping a woman in his NYC apartment in July 2001. Repeatedly denied bail and incarcerated in Brooklyn's Metropolitan Detention Center since last fall in this criminal case, Combs has also asserted he is not guilty of anything more than an unconventional lifestyle with other consenting adults, regardless of what the police, the Department of Justice, some ex-staffers, or any of his accusers say.
In so many ways, with cameos of sorts by Death Row Records founder and Combs rival Suge Knight, Prince, and Ventura's short term boyfriend Kid Cudi, it was the complexity of star witness Ventura's second day of testimony on Wednesday that was so powerful.
Yes, with a sweater wearing Combs, his mother and other members of his family just a few feet away in Judge Subramanian's courtroom, she revealed the $20 million settlement she received from Combs after suing him in late 2023 for abuse and assault. Yes, Ventura revealed her own infidelities and drug use in the relationship and how she entered a rehab and trauma therapy program a couple of years ago after 'spinning out' and contemplating suicide. Yes, she revealed Combs extensive threats (some of which may have borne fruition) against Cudi when Ventura was with the latter.
However, devolving into what Ventura herself called 'degradation,' and injuries physical and psychological she experienced during the 11-year relationship, time and time again she still expressed the love she had for Combs despite the horrors, 'freak-offs' and relentless violence and manipulation he seemingly subjected her to.
Explaining her decision to have sex with her now-ex Combs after he raped her, Ventura said in a steady but quiet voice, 'We'd been together for 10 years and you just don't turn that off.'
Having already acquiesced to their client being a domestic violence perpetrator and not great guy, the defense made it clear even before this trial began this week that is exactly that sentiment of the deep ties of the relationship they plan to focus on. Specifically, as the court saw in the beginning of cross-examination, that the self-described 'toxic relationship' Combs and Ventura had was a two-way street and, even with Combs strong personality, to put it mildly, Ventura made her own choices and was a consenting adult to all and everything that went on, as sordid as it sometimes became.
To that, even as pregnant as current married mother of two Ventura is now, her words of love to Combs, her admitted agreement, as least initially, with the male escorts of 'freak-offs,' the video footage of those marathon drug juiced session and the numerous text exchanges between the two organizing those session and the aftermath, even if it was all just to keep Combs happy, tell a tale of their own if you adopt a certain POV. It is those words, those actions that could prove the high-priced defense's best path to a not guilty verdict for their not guilty pleading and plea deal rejecting client by the end of this eight to 10 week-long trial.
That strategy is reliant, however, on the jurors to some degree not believing their eyes.
Yesterday saw the panel shown a series of photographs from the 'freak-offs. Photographs, not revealed to the public or media in the courtroom, that clearly shocked or surprised a number of jurors. Even before that prosecution carefully planned by the jarring display on Wednesday there was the repeated viewings in court of 2026 hotel security footage of a freak-off in action, to some degree. The stark nine-year old video from L.A.'s InterContinental Hotel, which, CNN obtained and broadcast last spring, shows a half-naked Combs beating and kicking his then-girlfriend in the hall and dragging her back to their room. Once hotel security arrive, Combs tries unsuccessful to convince Ventura not to leave, which, in possession of her phone and other essentials, she eventually does.
Last year, Combs, who bought for over $50,000 what he thought was the only copy of the footage, took to social media to apologize for what he did in 2016, Yet, in the past few months that apology has been deleted, and the defense disputed the feds reading of the events on the video. In her May 12 opening statement, the defense's Geragos took a different tone, and used the video as an example of Combs committing domestic violence, but not the criminal charges the government have gone with.
Even with former employees of Combs and other women who say the one-time mini-mogul abused and assaulted them expected as witnesses (though Victim-3 has still not be located by the U.S. Attorney's office), the judge has promised to wrap the matter up for the non-sequestered jury before the July 4th holiday. To meet that goal, starting next week, the court will go to a 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. ET schedule shorter breaks.
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List of Celebrities Mentioned in Diddy Trial and What Was Said
Based on facts, either observed and verified firsthand by the reporter, or reported and verified from knowledgeable sources. Newsweek AI is in beta. Translations may contain inaccuracies—please refer to the original content. The high-profile trial of Sean "Diddy" Combs has referenced over a dozen of the biggest names in the entertainment industry, as testimony continues in the fourth week of proceedings. Why It Matters Combs is facing federal charges of sex trafficking, racketeering and transportation to engage in prostitution. He has pleaded not guilty to all charges. What To Know While the names of many celebrities have been mentioned during Combs' trial, none are accused of any wrongdoing in connection with the criminal case. Sean "Diddy" Combs attends the Fragrance Foundation FiFi Awards on May 27, 2009. Sean "Diddy" Combs attends the Fragrance Foundation FiFi Awards on May 27, 2009. zz/Raoul Gatchalian/STAR MAX/IPx Kid Cudi Rapper Scott Mescudi, who goes by the stage name Kid Cudi, has been mentioned several times during the Combs trial. He also testified during the second week of proceedings. Mescudi started dating Cassie Ventura in 2011. Ventura dated Combs from 2007 to 2018. Mescudi said that he did not realize that Ventura and Combs were still together when they started dating. Mescudi alleged that Combs broke into his house in 2011 after he discovered Ventura's relationship with Mescudi. Mescudi also testified about a 2012 incident where his car caught fire in the driveway of his home. He said he asked to meet with Combs after the incident because he "knew he had something to do with it." The defense objected to the statement, and it was stricken from the record. Dawn Richard Dawn Richard, a former member of the girl group Danity Kane, also testified in Combs' trial. The group was formed on the reality show Making the Band. Combs was an executive producer of the show. Richard said she saw Combs attack Ventura as she was making eggs at Combs' home in Los Angeles. "He came downstairs screaming, belligerent," Richard said. She said Combs grabbed the skillet and tried to hit Ventura with it. Combs then grabbed Ventura's hair and dragged her upstairs, Richard testified. Michael B. Jordan The defense questioned celebrity stylist Deonte Branch about Ventura's relationships with other men while she was dating Combs, including actor Michael B. Jordan Nash said Ventura and Jordan were "dating, talking, getting to know each other." Prince Combs' former assistant, who used the pseudonym "Mia" during her testimony, stated that she attended a party at singer Prince's house with Ventura around 2011 or 2012. Mia said she convinced Ventura to go to the party even though Combs told them to stay home. She said they danced, hung out with friends, and Prince performed on a table. Mia saw Combs, who previously used the stage name "Puff," walking into the party. She and Ventura "booked it" outside the house. "Puff caught up to Cass and had her on the ground," Mia testified. Prince's security intervened. Rihanna Ventura's makeup artist, Mylah Morales, testified that she also worked for Rihanna for 13 years. During cross-examination, the defense showed Morales photos where she had done Ventura's makeup. This included a photo of Ventura, Rihanna and Ryan Lewis attending an awards show. Usher Richard said she saw Combs punch Ventura in the stomach at a restaurant in 2010 while other celebrities were present, including Usher. "She immediately bent over, [Combs] told her to leave," Richard said. "No one intervened." Ne-Yo Richard testified that singer Ne-Yo was also present when Combs punched Ventura at a restaurant in 2010. Nicki Minaj Ventura testified that she was given access to contacts in the music industry during her relationship with Combs. She said she recorded a song with Nicki Minaj. Lil Wayne Ventura said she also recorded a song with Lil Wayne while she was in a relationship with Combs. R. Kelly In a January 2019 message shown in court, Mia told Combs she had a nightmare where he rescued her after she was trapped in an elevator with singer and convicted sex offender R. Kelly. Chris Brown The defense questioned Ventura about an alleged encounter with singer Chris Brown during her testimony. "Do you remember the incident where he suspected you of dancing with Chris Brown?" defense attorney Anna Estevao asked Ventura. Ventura said she did not remember the incident, but she "was not dancing" with Brown. Mike Myers Prior to working for Combs, Mia worked as a personal assistant for comedian Mike Myers. 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The Truth About Diddy Might Be Darker Than the Rumors
Over the past year and a half, I've kept finding myself in unexpected conversations about Diddy. Cab drivers, deli cooks, and far-flung uncles have all wanted to chat about the 55-year-old rapper who's now on trial for charges of sex trafficking, racketeering conspiracy, and transportation to engage in prostitution. There is, certainly, plenty to talk about: Federal prosecutors allege that the media mogul liked to throw baby-oil-slicked orgies—called 'freak-offs'—where abuse and exploitation regularly occurred. (He pleaded not guilty; his lawyers say he never coerced anyone into anything.) But the conversations tend to be less about Sean 'Diddy' Combs than about playing a guessing game: Who else was involved? Some of the people I've spoken with had theories about Justin Bieber, citing rumors suggesting that the singer—a teenage protégé of Diddy's—had been preyed upon ('Justin is not among Sean Combs' victims,' Bieber's representative said in a statement last month). Others speculated that the Democratic Party, whose candidates Combs has campaigned for over the years, was in some way implicated in the case. Most of them agreed that Diddy was comparable to Jeffrey Epstein in that he was probably at the hub of a celebrity sex-crime ring. Since the trial began a few weeks ago, it's become clear what these conversations were: distractions from the bleak, all-too-ordinary issues that this case is really about. The wild nature of the conspiracist narratives surrounding Combs can't be understated. In January, social-media users wondered if the fires that swept through glitzy L.A. neighborhoods were meant to destroy evidence pointing to the participation of other celebrities. On Amazon last year, sales spiked for a salacious memoir purportedly written by the rapper's late girlfriend, Kimberly Porter, and published by a self-described investigative journalist using the pseudonym Jamal T. Millwood—the latter being the supposed alias that Tupac used after he, according to legend, faked his death. (Amazon pulled the book from its offerings after Porter's family lambasted it as a forgery.) One viral fake news story, based on no evidence at all, said that Will Smith had sold one of his children into Combs's servitude. On Truth Social last fall, Donald Trump himself shared a meme featuring a fabricated image of Kamala Harris and Diddy, with text reading, 'Madam vice president, have you ever been involved with or engaged in one of Puff Daddies freak offs?' The media also stoked the fervor. A former bodyguard of Combs's gave an interview for a TMZ documentary saying that politicians, princes, and preachers were mixed up in the rapper's debauchery. The conservative influencer Charlie Kirk devoted a portion of one webcast to wondering, 'Maybe P. Diddy has footage of Barack Obama doing something he shouldn't have been doing?' Piers Morgan hosted a singer, Jaguar Wright, who insinuated that Jay-Z and Beyoncé had committed crimes much like the ones Diddy is charged with. After those stars issued a vigorous denial and threatened to sue, Morgan apologized and edited any mention of them out of the interview online—and then, in February, retired General Michael Flynn presented Wright with a 'Defender of Freedom Award' at Mar-a-Lago. A few actual facts underlay all of this QAnon-esque speculation. For more than a decade, Combs's legendary White Parties attracted a medley of stars to the Hamptons, Los Angeles, and Saint-Tropez. Attendees often joked publicly about how rowdy the festivities could get. Over the past year or so, dozens of people—an array of musicians, workers, models, and others who have crossed paths with him since the 1990s—have sued Combs for a variety of offenses (all of which he denies), and some of those suits have alluded to alleged misdeeds by other celebrities. (One lawsuit naming Jay-Z was dropped after the star denied the claim; he has since countersued for defamation.) Still, the speed and sheer giddiness with which conspiracist thinking eclipsed the known details of Combs's case confirmed a few bleak realities about the psyche of a country in which economic inequality and sexual abuse are both stubbornly endemic. A whole class of politicians, commentators, and media platforms exist to exploit the resentments that everyday people hold toward the rich and famous. Meanwhile, rates of sexual harassment and assault—reportedly experienced by 82 percent of women and 42 percent of men in the United States in their lifetime—remain as high as they were when the #MeToo movement erupted in 2017. Examining the real reasons for this is less fun—and, for many, less profitable—than imagining that Hollywood is a front for ritualistic sadism. The trial itself, which began in Manhattan on May 12, has not yet revealed a network of super-famous evildoers. Although the testimony has surfaced vivid and bizarre details about the rarefied lives of celebrities, it's also told an intimate, human, oddly familiar story about how power can warp relationships in all sorts of ways. I realized that in the random conversations I'd had leading up to the trial, I'd heard a lot about the imagined villains, and very little about the people they were said to have hurt. Combs's downfall in the public eye began in November 2023, when an ex-girlfriend, the singer Cassie Ventura, filed a lawsuit alleging that he had raped and physically abused her. The suit was settled one day later out of court, but many of its details are resurfacing now. Although the federal trial against Combs is expected to last at least eight weeks and feature dozens of witnesses, Diddy and Ventura's relationship has been central to the testimony. Prosecutors say Combs ran an organized criminal enterprise that served, in part, to assist in and cover up this one woman's subjugation. Ventura, now 38, was a 19-year-old aspiring R&B singer when she met Combs around 2005. He'd heard her first-ever single, 'Me & U'; it would become a hit, but Diddy promised that he could guide her to a career of lasting success. He signed her to a 10-album deal with his label, Bad Boy Records, and released her debut album in 2006. It is still her only album to ever come out. Their relationship soon evolved from professional to romantic. The singer said she'd initially rejected the rapper's advances but that she'd felt pressured to do what he wanted because her career was largely in his hands. He also reportedly provided her with gifts, threatened her with punishment, and supplied her with drugs until she felt he controlled her life. She said that he then used that control liberally, dictating what she wore, whom she socialized with, which medications she took. He also beat her. Hotel security-camera footage from 2016 published by CNN last year—and used as evidence in the trial—showed Combs chasing Ventura down a hallway, throwing her to the ground, kicking her, and pulling her by her sweatshirt. The video is a small and terrible glimpse into their relationship. Diddy is in a towel and clearly furious; Ventura, starkly alone, makes no effort to defend herself. 'My behavior on that video is inexcusable,' Combs said in a filmed mea culpa last year; during the trial, his lawyers have acknowledged that he was violent toward her. Other witnesses in the trial have testified that the hotel assault was not an isolated incident. One former assistant, Capricorn Clark, reported seeing Combs repeatedly kick Ventura after learning that she'd been romantically involved with the rapper Kid Cudi. Another former assistant, George Kaplan, described a 2015 altercation between Combs and Ventura on Diddy's private jet. He heard the sound of breaking glass in a private area, where he then saw Combs standing and holding a whiskey glass over Ventura, who was on her back. According to Kaplan, Ventura screamed, 'Isn't anybody seeing this?' No one on the plane intervened, Kaplan said. The now-notorious freak-offs allegedly occurred against this backdrop of violence and intimidation. Ventura's lawsuit said that toward the beginning of Combs and Ventura's relationship, Combs hired a man to have sex with Ventura while Diddy watched. Encounters like that, involving sex workers and drugs, became regular occurrences that could last for days at a time. The freak-offs were, prosecutors say, 'performances' for Combs's pleasure. And they affected the performers; Ventura testified to having medical problems, mental-health issues, and drug addiction as a result of them. Combs's defense argues that Ventura willingly participated in these events. His lawyers have cited text messages in which she appears to express enthusiasm: 'I'm always ready to freak off,' she wrote to him in August 2009. Other texts suggest a more complicated picture—in 2017, Ventura wrote, 'I love our FOs when we both want it.' She and prosecutors assert that whenever she tried to resist Combs's commands, he would bring her to heel with physical violence and threats of blackmail and financial harm. Ventura's lawsuit alleged that when she tried to break up with him for good in 2018, he raped her in her home (an accusation that Diddy's defense has concertedly pushed back on during the trial). Ventura is not the only alleged victim of Combs's. His employees have shared particularly disturbing stories: Clark said that Combs kidnapped her twice; a former assistant identified as Mia testified last week that the rapper repeatedly sexually assaulted her. (Diddy's lawyers dispute that the kidnappings ever happened and have questioned Mia's credibility.) Prosecutors are pursuing racketeering charges on the theory that Combs didn't act alone: For example, they say he may have had someone set Kid Cudi's car on fire (the defense denies Combs's involvement in that arson). In this way, Diddy's case is also a story about what happens when it's easier to take the check and not ask too many questions. But fundamentally, the trial is another highly public test of the definition of consent. It recalls the prosecutions of Harvey Weinstein, the movie producer who allegedly dangled job prospects to women interested in the film industry in exchange for sex (one of his convictions was overturned last year and is being retried now). It also evokes R. Kelly, the musician who wooed aspiring singers with promises of career help and then violently kept them—and other women—in sexual servitude (behavior for which he is currently serving 31 years in prison). And the issues here transcend celebrity. When #MeToo erupted eight years ago, it forced many everyday Americans to reexamine experiences they'd had in their workplaces and homes. The movement has, by many indications, petered out or even curdled into backlash: Yesterday, one of Diddy's lawyers asked Mia whether she was looking for a 'Me Too money grab,' which suggests he thinks the very words Me Too might be tinged for some jury members. But to sit with the allegations against Combs—and the experiences of the alleged victims—is to again be confronted with the underlying reasons that movement happened. It's to be confronted with the intolerable things that happen when men are given the power to pursue their desires however they want, and to extract whatever they want from their underlings. A lot of people would evidently prefer to turn away from that confrontation—and to focus on fantasy. Since I started paying attention to the case, my YouTube algorithm has become polluted by videos with AI-generated courtroom sketches of stars such as Will Smith and Jay-Z, paired with totally imaginary testimony about their involvement in Combs's crimes. The videos are yet another sign that our society is losing any shared sense of reality. They do, however, have disclaimers stipulating that they are fiction, which raises the question: Why is this the story someone wants to hear? Perhaps because tales of demonic Hollywood cabals offer a simple, clear-cut narrative that doesn't ask us to reflect on how domestic violence and sexual coercion really get perpetuated—and perhaps because that narrative benefits certain agendas. Last month, I tuned in to Asmongold, a popular Twitch streamer who interprets the daily news for a large audience of young, often aggrieved men. He had a glazed look in his eyes as TV news footage related to the trial played on his screen. Then he said, 'I don't care about this case at all—until Diddy starts naming names.'
Yahoo
an hour ago
- Yahoo
Former Escort Hired for Diddy's Alleged 'Freak Offs' Breaks His Silence to Share Emotional Message for Cassie (Exclusive)
A former male escort hired for Sean "Diddy" Combs' alleged 'Freak Offs' with Casandra "Cassie" Ventura is speaking out for the first time in an exclusive interview with PEOPLE Shawn Dearing's photo and prior alias were disclosed during Combs' sex crimes trial The model fought back tears, discussing his interactions with Ventura, praising her as 'a badass lady'A former male escort hired to perform at Sean 'Diddy' Combs' 'Freak Off' parties has broken his silence after prosecutors showed his photo during the music mogul's federal sex trafficking and racketeering trial. In an exclusive interview with PEOPLE, he shared an emotional message for Casandra 'Cassie' Ventura. Shawn Dearing was one of more than 10 men Combs, 55, allegedly forced his ex-girlfriend to have sex with during their nearly 11-year relationship, according to prosecutors. The escorts' identities were revealed in court testimony and evidence submitted by the government. 'She was so uplifting — the kindest and most respectful person," Dearing, 37, says of Ventura, 38. 'She was genuine throughout the whole experience." Dearing tells PEOPLE that he is only speaking out now to give "some credence" to Ventura's story and because his photo and alias were already made public during Combs' trial. 'I never wanted to open my mouth,' he says. 'I don't seek attention. I don't want to go out there and make it seem like I'm trying to get my name known off of this experience." When discussing Ventura, he says, 'You got me tearing up! I want what's best for her, honestly, because she … she's a badass lady, man. She's awesome. So I want her respect first and foremost.' Ventura testified on Wednesday, May 14, that she knew Dearing as 'Skyler' and met him through the website Cowboys4Angels. She said he was one of many escorts Combs hired via the site for his 'Freak Offs,' what federal prosecutors have called 'elaborate and produced sex performances' that the Bad Boy Records founder allegedly orchestrated and coerced Ventura and others into joining. Dearing tells PEOPLE that the identities of Ventura and Combs were not revealed to him before he met them for the first time around late 2014 or early 2015. He claimed Cowboy4Angels founder Garren James told him only that the clients were 'A-List.' Dearing says he was hired for 'more than a dozen' sessions, which typically took place at either a bungalow at The Beverly Hills Hotel or a condo off of Sunset Blvd. in Los Angeles, which he believes belonged to Ventura. 'It was only me, him, and her," Dearing says, referring to himself, Combs, and Ventura. "He never touched me. We did everything under his direction." While Dearing says he did not witness Combs physically abuse Ventura, the model tells PEOPLE that he did 'notice forms' of what he believed was 'psychological' abuse. Ventura's 'kindness' was 'being abused in [an] improper manner,' Dearing claims. 'She was there under his control, and there was that knowing and understanding that if she didn't do what he said — I don't know what the consequences could have been, but I could tell there was that constant energy of knowing that we must perform for him or else," he felt. Ventura broke down in tears when asked about the 'Freak Offs' during the fifth day of testimony on Friday, May 16, claiming that Combs pressured her to participate in his sex parties with physical violence and threats of blackmail. 'I had to do 'Freak Offs',' she said during redirect, after giving testimony on Wednesday, May 14, that she did not want to do 'Freak Offs.' Dearing claims, "There were times where she wouldn't speak if he wasn't in the room, because she knew she couldn't.' He adds, 'It was a power complex thing with him.' He remembers one 'Freak Off' when he says Ventura allegedly became like 'a drone' after Combs 'left the room for a moment.' 'She just sits there staring at the ground, and I ask her a question. She's like, 'No, no, no. Not until he gets back.' So it's like, 'Oh, okay,' ' Dearing claims. When the 'Freak Offs' would turn 'dark,' Ventura's demeanor would change, Dearing says. 'You could see that it was kind of like the spirit was leaving the body,' he adds. Want to keep up with the latest crime coverage? Sign up for for breaking crime news, ongoing trial coverage and details of intriguing unsolved cases. A self-described 'man of faith,' Dearing is no longer an escort and is 'on a different path these days.' After some 'soul searching,' he left L.A. in 2017 and returned to Hawaii, where he was born and raised. The move was 'more of a back to my roots situation [rather] than getting out of LA type of deal,' he explains. Combs' trial is in its third week. He was arrested in September 2024 and charged with sex trafficking, racketeering, and transportation to engage in prostitution. He has pleaded not guilty on all charges. If you or someone you know has been sexually assaulted, please contact the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) or go to Read the original article on People