27-05-2025
The Democrats must think young men are idiots
The Democrats are desperately trying to win back young men. They have been haemorrhaging support among the group, 56 per cent of whom backed Donald Trump in 2024 according to one study. Party leaders have realised that there is no credible path back to power so long as they continue to alienate the male voters of the future.
Judging by their efforts so far, they're going to be languishing in the wilderness for a while yet. Witness the ridicule attracted by one of their latest projects – a $20 million effort called 'speaking with American men: a strategic plan' (or SAM). It appears to centre, in part, on the genius idea that all will be solved if only Democrats bought more ad space in video games.
To be fair to the project's originators, they have accepted that they must 'shift from a moralising tone'. But how easy will that be for the Left, given the sheer contempt they have displayed towards young men and some of the things many of them enjoy?
Recall the climate of the past few years, as Democrats and their media allies bent over themselves to denounce masculinity itself as 'toxic'. Even relatively quotidian behaviours came under fire. Eating red meat was disparaged by The New Republic as one of 'conservatives' darker fantasies'. Getting fit, said The Guardian, was liable to turn you into a 'Right-wing jerk'. Young men's predilection for attractive women was sneered at by Newsweek, which labelled it an 'obsession'.
It's a vicious cycle. The Left dismisses young men as problematic, pushing them to the Right. As they retreat to the manosphere and messaging that legitimises their masculinity instead of scoffing at it, Democrats demonise them as incel recluses who are dangerously interested in weight-lifting, protein-maxing, and heteronormative beauty standards.
It's true that young men have their problems (though, from poor mental health to academic underperformance, Democrats rarely want to talk about them). But while the Left-wing media accuses them of having god complexes and delusional overconfidence because they enjoy steak and aspire to beat their bench-press records, they neglect to mention the destructive and self-indulgent new-age interests of many young women. Take the self-care craze, which has led many down an egotistical slippery slope to soft occultism and thinking that femininity is 'divine'.
By attacking good eating habits and physical strength as fringe male pursuits, the Left shows that it wants young men as supporters only if they agree to be disempowered. This serves as more motivation for them to double down on conservatism, which doesn't ask them to repent for being who they are.
Democrats love to scold, most of all young men. On the 2024 campaign trail, one particularly cringe-worthy Harris-supporting ad featured a cast of presumed actors implying that real men should back a woman for president.
Former president Barack Obama, meanwhile, chastised black men who were voting for Trump or were reluctant to vote for Harris, suggesting that they were sexist.
'And you are thinking about sitting out?' Obama said. 'Part of it makes me think – and I'm speaking to men directly – part of it makes me think that, well, you just aren't feeling the idea of having a woman as president, and you're coming up with other alternatives and other reasons for that.' Instead of hearing black men's fears for a Harris presidency and hopes for a Trump one – such as better economic and immigration policies – Obama reduced them to bigots.
And then there was Tim Walz, Harris's running mate, who claimed in April that she tapped him to 'code talk to white guys'. He bragged that he spoke the secret language of men 'watching football, fixing their truck,' and that he 'put them at ease', describing himself as the 'permission structure' for rural white men to vote for Democrats.
The implication was that men don't vote based on who has their family's interests at heart but on who aligns with their prejudices. To persuade them to vote for Harris in 2024, Walz insulted men's intelligence by cosplaying as Larry the Cable Guy in camo gear.
Inspiring confidence in young men was never something that could be forced. The Democrats are still approaching them like a dissident group in need of reprogramming, rather than voters capable of rationality. More young men are questioning the sexual revolution and taking a stand against DEI. But instead of asking why they are disengaging from Left-wing politics, all the Democrats have are gimmicks. Whatever Democratic propaganda makes its way onto Call of Duty, it will suffer from an authenticity problem.
Many young men attached themselves to Trump because they viewed him as the natural archetype of an alpha male. His bold, unapologetic demeanour was cathartic to a generation of men told by woke culture to atone for their privilege and take a backseat.
A legacy of the Democratic Party is that it is responsible for this war on men. Until they make amends for that, young men's grievances will continue to find a home with the Republican Party. Expensive research and mind games will get Democrats nowhere.
Caroline Downey is a staff writer at National Review and a senior fellow at the Independent Women's Forum
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