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Inside Diana's testy relationship with her mother who let down the Princess 'terribly' on her wedding day
It's 21 years today since Princess Diana 's mother Frances Shand Kydd was laid to rest following a long health battle against Parkinson's disease and brain cancer. She outlived her daughter by seven years and tragically Frances was not on speaking terms with Diana at the time of her sudden death. Indeed, it has been well documented that Diana and Frances had a testy relationship throughout their life with periods of reconciliation followed by long spells where the pair did not speak to one another. A particular sour point in their relationship started around the time of what should have been one of their happiest memories together - Diana's wedding to Prince Charles in July 1981. Writing in his bombshell autobiography about the late Princess of Wales - titled Diana: Her True Story - Andrew Morton revealed how Diana felt 'let down terribly' by Frances on her wedding day. 'She kept crying and being all valiant and saying that she couldn't cope with the pressure, I tended to think I was the one under pressure because I was the bride' Diana told Morton. Diana goes on to claim that her mother drove her 'mad' during her engagement and Frances was left 'hurt' when she was not included in preparations for the big day. She even makes the shocking allegation that the stress of the wedding led her mother to begin taking the anxiety medication valium which she was on 'ever since'. After the wedding, Diana said the pair didn't speak to each other for three to four years. Despite this, Frances was spotted at Mary's Hospital following the birth of Prince William in June 1982 with the new grandmother reportedly relieved that Diana would not have to endure the pressure of producing a male heir. Frances bitter split with Diana's father in 1969 had a profound on the future Princess. After the four children were left in the care of their father after a fierce custody battle when Diana was seven, Charles Spencer - Diana's younger brother - recalled that 'Diana used to wait on the doorstep for her, but she never came.' He said : 'While she was packing her stuff to leave, she promised Diana she'd come back to see her. 'Our father was a quiet, constant source of love, but our mother wasn't cut out for maternity... she couldn't do it. She was in love with someone else, infatuated really.' Despite her own troubled mother-daughter relationship, by all accounts Frances had a good relationship with her royal grandchildren. William and Harry reportedly enjoyed their visits to Frances home on the rugged and isolated Seil Island off the coast of Scotland which provided a welcome break from royal life for the young Princes. However, Diana's status as one of the most famous women in the world drew a further wedge between the mother and daughter. After divorcing John Spencer, Frances married wallpaper tycoon Peter Shand Kydd. By the late 1980s Frances' second marriage had began to deteriorate and she in part blamed Diana for the break up. Peter allegedly felt overshadowed by his more famous wife after Diana's skyrocketed the popularity of the Spencers. In thier obituary for Frances, The Guardian wrote about why Peter divorced her in 1990. 'I think the pressure of it all was overwhelming and, finally, impossible for Peter. They didn't want him. They wanted me. I became Diana's mum, and not his wife,' Frances is quoted as saying. After Diana separated from Charles in 1992, Frances is reported to have not approved of her later relationships. Diana's former butler - Paul Burrell - claimed that she voiced disapproval of Diana's relationships with heart surgeon Hasnat Khan and businessman Gulu Lalvani during a particularly tetchy phone call. 'It was the slurring voice of Mrs Frances Shand Kydd. What I heard was a torrent of abuse, swearing and upsetting innuendo towards the Princess and towards the male company she was keeping,' Paul said. He added that the call left Diana crumpled on the sitting room carpet, sobbing into her white bathrobe. Frances tendency to be loose looped with members of the press left a damning final legacy in her relationship with Diana. This came after Frances said in an interview months before her daughter's death that it was 'absolutely wonderful' she had been stripped of her HRH title after her divorce from the then Prince Charles, Diana never spoke to her again. Much of Frances' poor relationship with Diana and her other children, stems from her troubled marriage to John Spencer. At just 18 years old, Frances married 30-year-old Edward John Spencer at Westminster Abbey and was one of the youngest brides to wed at the venue, Tina Brown wrote in her 2022 book, The Palace Papers. It marked the beginning of a somewhat difficult chapter in Frances's adult life. Her husband, though polite and friendly on the surface, she soon discovered to be an abusive bully who drank, Ms Brown claimed. Frances and Diana at the Wimbledon Men's Tennis Final in 1993. Frances said in an interview months before her daughter's death that it was 'absolutely wonderful' she had been stripped of her HRH title after her divorce from the then Prince Charles, Diana never spoke to her again As the future heir to Althorp, 'Johnnie' needed a baby boy to continue the Spencer name and inherit the family fortune, though this proved to be a challenge to fulfil. Frances gave birth to her first child - Lady Sarah McCorquodale - in 1955 and went on to have another daughter, Lady Jane Fellowes, in 1957. 'In order to produce a male heir, he made Frances go through six pregnancies in nine years, of which only four were carried to term, and he resented her having any independent life,' Ms Brown wrote. Before Diana was born, Frances did give birth to a baby boy who sadly passed away several hours after birth. It was heart breaking for the couple and Ms Brown told how John refused to allow Frances to see the infant, also named John. She would only discover years later he was born with 'extensive malformation'. 'She struggled from the bed and banged frantically on the locked doors of the nursery to which he had been snatched away,' the former editor in chief of Tatler wrote. Frances recalled: 'My baby was snatched away from me and I never saw his face. Not in life. Not in death. No one ever mentioned what had happened.' Some 18 months later, Diana was born and weighed a healthy 7lb 12oz. Despite this, there was a great sense of disappointment in the Spencer family that 'the new arrival was not the longed-for male heir,' Andrew Morton wrote in his 1992 book, Diana: Her True Story - In Her Own Words. They hadn't even thought of a girl's name for the new arrival and it took the couple a week to settle on Diana. Eventually, Frances did give the Spencer family their much desired male heir and on May 20, 1964, Charles - now the ninth Earl Spencer - was born. Despite having the family they wanted, the couple's marriage broke down just five years later. When her second marriage ended in 1988 and she turned to religion, converting to Catholicism at the age of 58 and devoted the rest of her life to the Church.
Daily Mail
14-05-2025
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For Prince Harry and Meghan Markle, it was love at first 'hello', according to royal expert
As Prince Harry famously said in his engagement interview, the stars aligned when he and Meghan Markle met. As the Sussexes celebrate their seventh wedding anniversary, traditionally marked by wool, there was a time before their whirlwind romance when Meghan was not interested in dating a prince. In Andrew Morton's bestselling biography of Meghan Markle, he claimed that when asked during a TV quiz to choose between William and Harry, she appeared 'nonplussed'. 'The presenter had to encourage her to choose the prince who was still single,' he wrote. But in July 2016 the Suits actress was in London to promote the new season of the show and was sent on a 'blind' date with the prince. In Morton's Meghan: A Hollywood Princess, he wrote: 'The scene was set and Cupid's arrow was aquiver.' The two were keen to keep things under wraps so their date took place at a private room at the exclusive Soho House where Meghan's friend Markus Anderson was brand ambassador. 'Not that Meghan had much of an opinion about the man she was about to meet,' Morton wrote. Harry had just returned from France to commemorate the Battle of the Somme and was, understandably, in sombre spirits. Before the date Meghan had asked her friends if the prince was 'kind and nice', according to the royal author. 'The answer lay in his blue eyes. As they say in movies, they had each other at "hello",' Morton wrote. According to the Sussexes' Netflix docuseries, Harry & Meghan, Harry was late to their date at 76 Dean Street. Meghan said: 'I didn't know him. So I was like, "Oh, is this what he does?"' But the two were 'mesmerised by each other', according to Morton, with Harry 'enthralled by her beauty, sophistication and perceptiveness'. He added: 'She understood him as a man, not a title. 'In that subtle one-upmanship of a first date he realised that while his grandmother might be the Queen, Meghan had given a speech at a United Nations forum. 'As he subsequently confessed, he realised that he would have to up his game.' Harry said at the time: 'I fell in love with Meghan so incredibly quickly - it was a confirmation to me that all the stars were aligned.' The couple had two dates before Meghan had to fly back to Toronto on July 5. 'The normally self-contained actress was smitten,' wrote Morton, and the Hollywood actress even shared multiple not-so-cryptic clues of her budding romance on her Instagram. And for their third date Harry took Meghan away on a romantic trip to Botswana. 'It was three, maybe four, weeks later that I managed to persuade her to come join me in Botswana, and we camped out with each other under the stars,' Harry explained during their engagement interview. 'She came and joined me for five days out there, which was absolutely fantastic. 'Then we were really by ourselves, which was crucial to me to make sure that we had a chance to get to know each other.' Harry later said it was during this trip that he knew Meghan was his 'soulmate'. Harry later said it was during this trip that he knew Meghan was his 'soulmate'. Rumours had been circulating for around a month when, on November 8, Kensington Palace released a statement confirming Harry and Meghan's relationship. In a rare turn of events, Harry also issued a lengthy appeal to the media claiming that Meghan had been at the receiving end of harassment, as well as 'sexism and racism'. He acknowledged that there was 'significant curiosity about his private life' but appealed to people to respect Meghan's privacy. 'Prince Harry is worried about Ms Markle's safety and is deeply disappointed that he has not been able to protect her,' the note read. 'It is not right that a few months into a relationship with him that Ms Markle should be subjected to such a storm.' The couple later returned to Botswana for a three-week trip to Africa to celebrate Meghan's 36th birthday in August 2017. The trip included some time in the Meno a Kwena camp in Botswana where they camped out together following their first few dates. A source at the time said: 'Harry has been planning this holiday for a long time. He's made the trip incredibly romantic. 'They'll go on boats across the lake, walk in the bush at dawn and camp under the stars.' 'We're two people who are really happy and in love,' Meghan told Vanity Fair In September 2017 Meghan spoke openly about her relationship with the prince for the first time in an interview with Vanity Fair. She said: 'I can tell you that at the end of the day I think it's really simple. 'We're two people who are really happy and in love. 'We were very quietly dating for about six months before it became news and I was working during that whole time, and the only thing that changed was people's perception. 'Nothing about me changed. I'm still the same person that I am, and I've never defined myself by my relationship.' 'I'm sure there will be a time when we will have to come forward and present ourselves and have stories to tell, but I hope what people will understand is that this is our time. 'This is for us. It's part of what makes it so special, that it's just ours. 'But we're happy. Personally, I love a great love story.' Recounting the 'intense' moment meeting the Queen during her Netflix docuseries, Meghan performed a deeply exaggerated curtsy as her husband Harry watched on Meghan and Harry attending a wheelchair tennis tournament during their first public outing as a couple during the Invictus Games in Toronto Later that month the couple made their official debut at the Invictus Games in Toronto where Harry was seen giving her a peck on the cheek. Then came tea with the Queen in which Harry had to ask Meghan if she knew how to curtsy. The meeting in October was said to have been about an hour long and Meghan and Harry were escorted to the Royal Lodge in Windsor in station wagons with blacked-out windows. In the docuseries, Meghan said: 'There wasn't like some big moment of, now you're going to meet my grandmother. 'I didn't know I was going to meet her until moments before.' The couple had dating for just a year when Harry proposed during a quiet night at home over a chicken dinner. 'It was just so sweet and natural and very romantic,' Meghan said. The engagement ring was made with a diamond from Botswana, where they had fallen in love, with two outer diamonds from his late mother Princess Diana's collection. The Sussexes are pictured on their wedding day on May 19, 2018 The engagement ring was made with a diamond from Botswana, where they had fallen in love, with two outer diamonds from his late mother Princess Diana's collection In the Sussexes' seven years of marriage they have made headlines after stepping down as senior royals, moving to the US and criticising the Royal Family in multiple high-profile interviews.
