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Yahoo
21-05-2025
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Dating Expert Names the 1 Word Women Use When They're Not Interested
There's one word that men need to be on the lookout for when it comes to a woman indicating she's uninterested, says dating coach Blaine Anderson. Anderson and her team at Dating By Blaine are in the process of "getting men unstuck with women." According to Anderson, dating "is a skill" and guys can improve on it with the right time and guidance. In addition to her paid coaching and matchmaking services, Anderson offers free tips to guys on her Instagram account. She regularly produces videos highlighting dating advice, with her latest clip telling men to look out for a woman who says she has been "busy." According to Anderson, using being busy as an excuse is a sure sign she's not into you. "The truth is, we make time for the things that are important to us, and she's saying you're not important enough for her," Anderson said. "Don't waste any more time. Move on, and find a girl who makes you a priority." This bit of advice has sparked plenty of conversation on Anderson's post. "The reality is the universal equation is Effort = Interest . I learned this the hard way . It's the brutal truth someone who is interested is never to busy to hang out," one man said in the comments. "Your tips have helped immensely 🔥," another added. "I always meet the busy ones unfortunately," a third said. "Yup, I got that a lot," added a fourth. "Yeah men say that too," a woman contended. You can follow Anderson on IG here. The University of Arizona alum has over 712,000 people keeping tabs on her. In addition to today's tip, Anderson has recently published videos on flirty texts for guys to send, ways to ask for a woman's phone number and what haircuts to avoid.
Yahoo
19-05-2025
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The Common 'Mistake' Guys Make When Asking For Phone Number
Some men make a key mistake when asking a woman for her phone number, according to one dating coach. Blaine Anderson has been in the game as a dating expert and matchmaking coach for several years now. The former University of Arizona sorority girl and Dating By Blaine founder said she was inspired to go into the field while in college. "I've helped 3,000+ guys like you learn to build confidence, escape the friend zone, and land awesome girlfriends, fast 🤠," Anderson's website says. "Dating is a SKILL. If you believe in yourself, and have the humility to believe there are things you can learn, you will see big changes with a little effort and the right plan." Anderson also provides free dating tips on her Instagram page, where she has over 710,000 followers. In one video this weekend, she outlined one way men often fumble an attempt to secure a woman's phone number. According to Anderson, the mistake men make is simply asking for the digits, when instead, they should ask the woman out first and then ask for her number. "Here's what you're going to say: 'It's been great speaking to you, but I have to go now. Let's grab a drink sometime,'" Anderson said. "When she agrees, say this, 'Great, what's your number? Will arrange via text.'" Anderson added in the caption of the video that "making this change won't mean she always says 'yes' but it will give you the best possible shot!" "I wish I knew all this stuff when you were single 😭," one guy said. "I just show up in my Maserati and an Armani suit and they hand me their #," another joked. "Getting the number is fairly easy, the big questions is will she reply and keep the momentum going after?" a third man chimed in. "I've actually gotten several #'s by asking straight for it," a fourth person said. "Great idea," added a fifth. You can follow Anderson on Instagram right here.
Yahoo
16-05-2025
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Professional Expert Explains Why 'Smart' Guys Struggle With Dating
Blaine Anderson is not surprised by men struggling in the dating world. It's why she went into the business in the first place. Anderson, who runs is a dating and matchmaking coach for men. She says she was inspired to pursue this career by watching guys have trouble with the opposite sex during her days at the University of Arizona. "My guy friends would ask me for dating advice about my sorority sisters," Anderson says. "The BEST guys had the WORST luck with girls, and it confused me. I became obsessed with figuring out why. Do women hate nice guys? Or is there another problem?" Anderson was probably around a lot of intelligent men during her time at U of A, and now, she says she's noticed a trend that explains why some smart guys struggle with women. According to her latest Instagram video, they are too wrapped up in their heads. "It's because you overthink every possible outcome and talk yourself out of making a move. Too much thinking and not enough doing," Anderson said. "So next time you see a beautiful woman, stop analyzing and start approaching." Anderson regularly shares different dating tips for men on her IG account, including hairstyle suggestions, texting advice and fashion guidance. "Dating is a SKILL. If you believe in yourself, and have the humility to believe there are things you can learn, you will see big changes with a little effort and the right plan," she says on her website. Currently, Anderson has over 710,000 followers on Instagram. You can join them right here.
Yahoo
14-05-2025
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Professional Dating Coach Tells Men How To Answer 3 Tricky Questions From Women
Gentlemen, if you have some questions about dating, Blaine Anderson can probably answer them. Anderson founded her "Dating By Blaine" service after seeing guys struggled with the opposite sex while attending the University of Arizona. These days, she and her team help men "get unstuck with women." "My guy friends would ask me for dating advice about my sorority sisters," Anderson says. "The BEST guys had the WORST luck with girls, and it confused me. I became obsessed with figuring out why. Do women hate nice guys? Or is there another problem?" In her most recent video, Anderson gives men the appropriate responses to three classic questions women often ask, which seem straightforward but can leave guys flustered. The questions, along with Anderson's advice, are as follows: "Do I look fat in this?" - You look, then say, 'No, you look great.' "Do you think she's prettier than me?" - You DON'T look, then say, 'That would be impossible.' "Notice anything different about me?" - You say, 'You mean aside from how you always look amazing?' Which buys you time to look for whether she got a new haircut or outfit. Anderson even threw in an extra tip, telling guys that when a woman says not to order fries for her, they should always do the opposite and order the fries. "The last one is important especially if you don't want her to eat all of yours 🍟😋," she explained. The dating world can be intimidating and frustrating for anyone, but Anderson believes she's cracked at least some of the code to get men on the right track. "Dating is a SKILL. If you believe in yourself, and have the humility to believe there are things you can learn, you will see big changes with a little effort and the right plan," she says on her website. Currently, Anderson has over 710,000 followers on Instagram. You can find her page right here.
Yahoo
13-05-2025
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Here's What to Text a Woman Who Takes Forever to Respond
Slow texters are the bane of so many people's dating experiences, male or female. Fortunately, Blaine Anderson has an idea for how men might want to deal with a woman taking forever to get back. Anderson, a dating coach and matchmaker, has been in the game for a few years now after saying she was inspired by watching her guy friends struggle with dating while attending the University of Arizona. "The BEST guys had the WORST luck with girls, and it confused me," Anderson says on her business website. "I became obsessed with figuring out why. Do women hate nice guys? Or is there another problem?" You can contact Anderson for assistance on her site, or listen to her free tips on Instagram. In her newest video Monday afternoon, she offered up a text for men to send if the woman they've been messaging is taking too long to respond. "If you're chatting with a girl, and she is taking days to respond to your messages, say this: 'I wanna take you out, but scheduling is challenging at our carrier pigeon pace of conversation. Can I call you to set up a date?'" Anderson suggested. "If she likes you, she'll take the bait and hop on the phone." Anderson added in the caption that she likes this message "because it's cute AND to-the-point." Anderson and her team say their goal is to help men get "unstuck with women." "Dating is a SKILL. If you believe in yourself, and have the humility to believe there are things you can learn, you will see big changes with a little effort and the right plan," she writes. Anderson has over 710,000 followers on Instagram. You can find her page right here.
