22-04-2025
8 most passive-aggressive K-drama characters (and why we still love them)
2. Park Yeon-jin ('The Glory')
Above She may not be the hero, but she has the best lines.
Sure, she's technically a villain. But Yeon-jin (Lim Ji-yeon) isn't the slap-you-in-public type. She's more 'I'll ruin your life and then gaslight you over a glass of wine'. Her attacks are polished, well-planned and devastatingly poised. And somehow, she still manages to deliver some of the series' most meme-able, deliciously toxic lines.
Why we love her: Because she's the Regina George of K-dramas—and sometimes we like our villains with great cheekbones and better dialogue.
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Above Passive-aggression doesn't always come ice-cold. (Photo: JTBC)
Jo Tae-hoon (Lee Ki-woo) is the emotionally repressed friend we all know. His passive-aggression isn't loud. It's in the sighs, the late replies and the 'I'm fine' that means absolutely the opposite. He weaponises detachment like a stoic poet, and yet, we ache for him.
Why we love him: Because sometimes the most cutting line is silence, and no one does it better than Tae-hoon. 4. Seo Dan ('Crash Landing on You')
Above Sometimes, passive-aggressive behaviour appears in the way you dress.
The ice queen of Pyongyang, Seo Dan (Seo Ji-hye), could freeze a man's soul with a single glance. Her brand of passive-aggression is couture-level elegant. Remember how she entered that cafe in jaw-dropping style? How about when she shut her judgmental friends up when a handsome man came to pick her up? Dan is the type who'll tell you she's fine while slowly suffocating you with her disapproval. And yet, her heartbreak? Utterly relatable.
Why we love her: Because she's the ex-girlfriend we'd never cross, but we'd definitely follow on Instagram. And yes, she's the ex-girlfriend we'd want to emulate.
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Above We love this mom's redemption arc though (Photo: IMBD)
Oh, the things unsaid. Se-ri's mother could write a masterclass in emotionally withholding parenting. Her dialogue dances on the edge of cruelty, laced in silk and soft lighting. A compliment from her is a rare celestial event. A backhanded one? That's every Tuesday.
Why we love her: Because even though she makes Lady Catherine de Bourgh look nurturing, we can't stop watching. 6. Cheon Seo-jin ('The Penthouse')
Above Passive-aggressive characters are never as elegant as Cheon Seo-jin. (Photo: SBS)
In the symphony of chaos that is Hera Palace, Cheon Seo-jin (Kim So-yeon) conducts drama like a maestro in couture. As the venom-laced soprano with a voice as sharp as her stilettos, she doesn't yell—she destroys with icy glares, chilling whispers and the occasional well-placed sabotage. Whether she's gaslighting her daughter or belting out an aria in between murder cover-ups, Cheon Seo-jin is the epitome of poisonous elegance.
Why we love her: Because no one makes being terrible look this fabulous. And let's face it—no villainess ever did a power ballad breakdown quite like her.
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Above Does her backstory excuse her passive-aggressive behaviour?
Here's another entry for Sky Castle , as the show is essentially a PhD programme in passive-aggressive warfare. Kim Joo-young, the college coordinator from hell, is cool, clinical and colder than the university admissions office. She'll sabotage your life in the name of 'success', and you'll thank her for it.
Why we love her: Because she represents the worst parts of ambition, but we still low-key wish she'd edit our résumé. 8. Yoon So-Yi ('Flower Boy Ramen Shop')
Above So-Yi is hardly the main character, but she (and her passive-aggressive actions) always steals the show.
Before the K-drama world was flooded with lovable cinnamon rolls and tsundere chaebols , Flower Boy Ramen Shop (also known as Cool Guys, Hot Ramen ) gave us Yoon So-Yi (Ho-soo)—a teacher, ex-girlfriend and possibly one of the most gloriously passive-aggressive characters to ever float through a school hallway in kitten heels.
She doesn't scream or throw drinks. No, So-Yi operates on a diet of sweetly delivered micro-aggressions and dangerous politeness. Her speciality? Backhanded compliments so polished they deserve their own line of cutlery. When she discovers her ex (the endlessly flustered Choi Kang-hyuk) is running a ramen shop with a younger woman, she doesn't confront him. Instead, she offers a calculated smile, a slow blink and casually remarks, 'You're so brave to take on something like that. I never thought you were that ambitious.'
Why we love her: What makes her so irresistible is that she's not just spiteful. She's deeply insecure, constantly balancing between jealousy and the fear of irrelevance. That tightrope walk between vulnerability and quiet venom makes her so fun to watch—and so eerily familiar to anyone who's ever had a co-worker who 'didn't mean it that way'.
