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Yahoo
31-05-2025
- General
- Yahoo
Americans Are Sharing Things They Thought Were Perfectly Normal Until They Realized The Rest Of The World Disagrees
If you are from the United States, there are probably lots of aspects of everyday life and culture that feel so commonplace you'd never second-guess them. But for someone from elsewhere, these American customs might seem totally bizarre. Here are some of the American norms that people from other places around the world find strange. 1."The fact that there are so many things you can do in America before you can legally drink. It's like they've got it backwards. For me, in Australia, drinking was probably the first 'adult' thing people do." —jaketha-1 2."Coffee in the States is often a 'to-go' thing, while in the rest of the world it's a sit and relax thing." —vivalaroja2010 3."American flags are EVERYWHERE. In India, it's pretty much illegal to use the Indian flag on anything except actual flags and pins. Meanwhile, I've seen the American flag on underwear." —gernumbligardensi62442 4."The fact that curse words are bleeped out on television. This is even funnier in TV shows like The Walking Dead, where they show zombies tearing people apart and eating them, but in the next scene, the one curse word is censored." —amazing_wanderr 5."Paying for health care." —jungumper 6."Tipping. On my first visit to Paris, I tipped everyone, and while I got excellent service, my friend who lived there had to explain that tips were included in the bill before it got to us, so I was tipping on top of already tipping. I didn't care after a while. We're so conditioned for this in the US." —marvelouskid298 7."I learned that the US week starts on Sunday two years ago, and everytime I remember it I just stare into the void, silently freaking out. It has zero effect on my life, but for some reason, it deeply disturbs me. I can't even describe how unhinged this seems to me. Why do you call the weekend the weekend when it's not the end of the week?! Or don't you count Sunday as a weekend?! And if you do, then why not have the week start with Monday, as it should?! Now I am going think about this all day again." —Shallow 8."A lot of people dress down instead of dressing up. It's always T-shirts and jeans or sweatpants in America." —cutecentipede613 9."How long it takes to get from place to place in the US. This is so baffling to people from other countries. We lived in Oregon, and my husband's Italian business associate called him from NYC one day and said he was going to be in the west. He wondered if he could 'drop by' and visit with my husband. My husband asked, 'Sure, where are you?' The man said he was in Detroit." —homeylatte47 10."Putting the real estate agent's face on the 'For Sale' signs outside homes." —toastehmonstah 11."How difficult it is to get around if you don't have a car. Not everywhere, but there are some places that are just impossible because there are no footpaths, bike lanes, or decent public transportation." —Potato_times_potato 12."Am I right in thinking that in the US, shops don't show the *actual* price of the items? You find out when you get to the till and taxes are added? If so, WHHYYYYYYYY???? That sounds so stressful and just totally unnecessary?" —DrHeidiBobble 13."That your public schools are funded by the county. This means that resources for schools are highly dependent on the wealth of the people who live in each county. Weird." —cheesyjellyfish554 14."Costco. It's amazing, and I wish we had it where I live. The mere concept of a place where you can buy rice in bulk but also a tire for your car is hilarious. And the cakes were really good." —snailjuice 15."American here. Something I didn't realize was weird until I traveled out of the country is that some of our coins don't have the denomination/value on them. For instance, our 10-cent piece just says 'one dime.' How tf are tourists supposed to know how much a dime is worth??" —RelevantPuns 16."The imperial system instead of the metric system. Can we all agree to transfer over to the metric system like the rest of the world?!" —Livinthatlife 17."Saying The Pledge of Allegiance in schools. Its like some sleeper agent mode. And people are so proud of themselves that they remember all the words." —maybbeyesmaybbeno 18."People have lunch on their desks. And usually it's just a snack. Where I come from, lunch is the most complete meal of the day." —oneaveragejoseph 19."Restaurants expect you not to finish the food and take it home. My mother finds taking home leftovers from a restaurant to be embarrassing and will not do it. But American restaurants have portion sizes that seem to expect this." —Repulsive_Tear4528 20."How friendly Americans are. I lived in California for three years. I made more friends there in that time than I did living in my home country for over three decades." —Statesbound 21."The ability to make so many substitutions when ordering at restaurants. I'll never forget when I ordered the breakfast platter in England and the waitress just walked away. I said, 'She didn't ask how I want my eggs or what kind of toast I want. She didn't ask if I wanted bacon or sausage!' My local companion rolled her eyes and said Americans are so entitled! I was in utter suspense until the plate came. Elsewhere, you get what you get and you like it!" —Esmer_Tina Do you have something to add? If you're from the US, what is something you always considered "normal" until you realized other people find it unusual? Tell us in the comments or in this anonymous form.
The Independent
20-05-2025
- The Independent
Don't order ketchup! The do's and don'ts for eating out in Europe and getting along with the locals
Europe is a dream destination for many Americans. But a trip there could become nightmarish if local customs aren't followed. Luckily, help is at hand for those planning their first trip. We asked two experts on the European way of life to share their advice on eating out in Europe and getting along with the locals in public spaces. The first is Noel Wolf, a linguistic and cultural expert at language site Babbel who grew up in Germany, lived in America and now calls Spain home. The second is Jonathan Kleeman, a UK-based hospitality consultant and sommelier who has worked across the UK and Europe for 18 years. Here they reveal the etiquette around those European kisses, the condiment you should never order and the one American trait that might raise hackles. Don't just pay lip service to greetings One of the most common mistakes North Americans make when visiting Europe for the first time is misunderstanding cheek-kissing etiquette. Noel explains: "Many assume that kissing on the cheek is the go-to greeting all across Europe, but that's not always the case. In fact, it varies widely depending on the country and even the situation. "For example, in Spain, cheek-kissing – usually two kisses: left cheek, then right – is very common, not just among friends but often even in professional or casual settings, especially between men and women. "On the other hand, in Germany, cheek-kissing tends to be much more reserved, typically saved for close friends, family, or intimate relationships. "So if you go in expecting a kiss everywhere, you might catch people off guard – or feel awkward yourself." So, what's the best approach? Noel reveals: "A lot of Americans get flustered or pull away after one kiss because they're not used to the rhythm or social cue, and that can create an uncomfortable moment. "The best advice? Let the locals take the lead. Watch how people greet each other and mirror what they do. It's the safest way to avoid any awkwardness." Speaking the local language matters The bad news? An understanding of the local language is important. The good news? You don't need to master it to get along with the locals. Noel explains: "Learning the local language matters more than you might think. No one expects you to be fluent just for a vacation, but even learning a few basic phrases can go a long way. A simple 'gracias' in Spain or 'danke' ['thanks'] in Germany shows locals you're making the effort – and that effort really counts. "Especially if you're American, you might get extra credit for trying. It's often unexpected, so people are genuinely surprised and usually delighted when you try to speak their language, even if you butcher the pronunciation a little." Jonathan adds that it's important not to overdo it in big cities, though. For example in Paris, he explains, "most people will switch to English anyway, unless you speak decent French". But out in the countryside, "even a bad attempt at French is usually appreciated". Drink in the bar rules There are a few rules to soak up for North Americans when it comes to bar etiquette. For starters, no waving at serving staff. Noel explains: "In the US, it's normal to wave down a bartender, especially in a crowded place. But in much of Europe, that's seen as rude. The pace is slower, and you're expected to wait your turn – no shouting or hand-waving needed." And don't order a bespoke cocktail when you have got the bartender's attention. Jonathan says: "In most bars across Europe, cocktails are made one way, the way the bar does them. If you want something customised, find a proper cocktail bar or a high-end hotel bar. Don't expect every local spot to make your 'special' Martini." There are pitfalls associated with ordering beers, too. Noel adds: "In Germany, a common misstep is asking for 'a beer'. There are so many types – Pils, Weizen, Helles, Kölsch, and more – that it's a bit like walking into a wine bar and just saying 'red, please'. Be specific or ask what's local." Noel has some tips for Spain, too. She reveals: "Sip on a tinto de verano – a light red wine spritz with lemon soda – or a glass of Vermouth on ice, especially in Madrid, where it's a weekend tradition. And if you're feeling adventurous, try orujo, a potent grape spirit from northern Spain – definitely not for the faint-hearted!" Don't cause a stir with your coffee order Ordering coffee in Europe can be straightforward, but there are ways for tourists to create a stir. For example, in Italy, cappuccinos are for breakfast, Jonathan points out, adding: "Don't order one after noon unless you want to look like a tourist." Noel agrees: "If you order a cappuccino after 11am, you might get a raised eyebrow. It's considered a breakfast drink, and locals would never dream of drinking one after lunch." Restaurants - a few tips to digest Americans will need to get used to a different pace and style of service in Europe. Noel explains: "One of the biggest surprises for many Americans dining out in Europe is the difference in pace and style of service. Back home, quick, attentive, and efficient service – often with a heavy focus on catering to the customer – is the norm. But in countries such as Spain, Italy, or Germany, dining is less about rushing and more about savoring the experience. It's more like being a guest in someone's home than simply a customer at a restaurant. "That mindset makes all the difference. Treating servers as hosts rather than just staff can totally change your dining experience. For example, if the waiter takes a smoke break while you're waiting for your check, try not to take it personally – it's just part of the more relaxed rhythm of the meal." Noel adds that timings are different, too. "In Spain, timing is key," she says. "Dinner usually doesn't start until 8.30 or even 9pm, so arriving at 6pm often means you'll face empty restaurants and puzzled hosts. It's a big shift from the earlier dinner hours typical in the US, so plan accordingly to avoid disappointment." Jonathan, meanwhile, has some advice about trying to customise your order: don't. He explains: "Customising dishes isn't really a thing. In most of mainland Europe, you order what's on the menu. That's it. The UK's a bit more relaxed. But even there, don't treat menus like a build-your-own adventure." And on that subject, some extra advice on ordering eggs and ketchup. Jonathan adds: "Europe does eggs four ways: fried, boiled, poached, or scrambled. No sunny side up. No over easy. If you ask, expect a confused look. "And never ask for ketchup unless it's for a burger or fries. And honestly, if you're in Italy ordering a burger, you've already gone wrong." Plus, Americans should remember that in France entrée means starter or appetiser, not main course like it does in the US. And in general in Europe, starters and the main course are ordered at the same time. Jonathan says: "There's none of this 'we'll decide on mains later' thing. Starters aren't meant to be a separate event, they're there to keep you busy while the kitchen gets your main ready." Dishes to order Going with the local flow is the order of the day when eating out. Noel explains: "Europeans eat very seasonally, so what's on the menu often reflects what's fresh at that time of year. It's a good mindset to adopt – go with the flow and try what's in season. "In Germany, the classic bratwurst is a must, especially when grilled and served with mustard and a fresh bun. Pair it with a cold Helles, a smooth, golden Bavarian lager that's easy to love. You've also got to try a real Bavarian pretzel – crispy on the outside, soft and chewy inside, with just the right amount of salt. For something heartier, order sauerbraten, a marinated pot roast (often beef or venison) that's slow-cooked until tender, served with red cabbage and potato dumplings. "It's rich, comforting, and full of deep flavour." Any tips for what to order in Spain? Noel says: "In Spain, eating is a social event, and tapas culture means you can try a bit of everything. Definitely don't leave without tasting jamón Ibérico – Spain's prized cured ham. It's richer and more intense than prosciutto, and people take it seriously here. If you're near the coast, order pulpo a la gallega – Galician-style octopus with paprika and olive oil. Or if you're in Valencia, go for the real Paella Valenciana – often made with rabbit, chicken, and beans, not just seafood." Public transport - keep the volume down Noel stresses that public transport in Europe tends to be quieter than it is in the States. She says: "Loud phone calls or big conversations can feel disruptive, especially in Germany where people really value personal space and quiet time during their commute. It's worth taking a cue from the locals: if everyone else is silent, it's probably a good moment to turn your volume down, too." Are Americans liked in Europe? Europeans generally love American visitors – as long as they keep their voices down. Noel explains: "Most Europeans are friendly and open toward American visitors – especially if you're respectful, curious, and make even a small effort to engage with the local culture. But like anywhere, first impressions matter. "A common gripe is that Americans can come across as a bit loud or overly confident in public spaces. It's not always about rudeness – it's often just cultural differences. In many European countries, people tend to speak more quietly in restaurants, on public transport, or even in the street. So a booming voice can turn heads fast. The good news? Being aware of this and adjusting a little makes a big difference."
