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BBC News
18-04-2025
- Health
- BBC News
Bell's palsy: 'I once cried every day but now I love my face'
"I spent a good five years crying in that mirror... I cried every day looking back at myself, traumatised."Aged 18, Gary Parsons had the world at his feet. But when he woke up one morning to find half of his face did not move, he felt his world fall spent years coming to terms with a condition called Bell's palsy, which he has never fully recovered a lengthy tussle with his own self-esteem and confidence, Gary is set to appear on Channel 4 show Love My Face - offering treatment and support for people with facial differences. Gary, who opted to have smile surgery - an operation designed to restore symmetry or create a smile movement - while on the show, said: "I've learned to love myself now and I realised that we smile from the inside." The 41-year-old, from Belper in Derbyshire, said he was a confident young man with an "entrepreneurial spirit", building computers and selling them to his teachers. He was attending college and was looking forward to what his life had in store for that changed one morning when he woke up to paralysis on one side of his face. He initially thought it would return to normal after a few minutes, but panic started to set in when it didn't. What is Bell's palsy? Bell's palsy is temporary weakness or lack of movement that usually affects one side of the face. Treatment with steroids can help and most people get better within six also include:Drooping eyelid or corner of your mouthDrooling A dry mouthLoss of tasteA dry or watering eyePeople are urged to call 999 if: They cannot lift up both arms and keep them thereThey have difficulty speaking such as speech being be slurred or garbledEither could be the sign of a NHS According to experts, 71% of people with Bell's palsy fully recover within three to six months, but Gary never did."For 24 years, I've had to deal with my face not fully working," Gary said."I was at the age where I was spreading my wings, getting the bus to college, halfway through a business course and I genuinely thought my dreams and my life were over. "I thought I wouldn't do what I've been able to do... I didn't leave the house unless it was for medical appointments for months on end." He added his medical appointments only focused on his physical changes with no real support for how it affected him was encouraged to return to work at his job at Dixons by his mother, whom he describes as his "rock", but opted to work in the warehouse as he "couldn't be in front of people".He also recalled a story when he was on a night out and someone asked a friend of his what was wrong with his face."That comment put me back 10 years... that comment, intentional or not, really impacted me," he said. "Not smiling was my way of wearing a mask, my armour." 'I hated myself' Gary said the journey to accept his facial features had taken years."I've worked on myself a lot, on my confidence and self-esteem in that time," he said."For 20 years, I stopped looking in the mirror, I stopped smiling, which is really sad because If I did, people would look at me a bit confused. "I spent a good five years crying in the mirror... from the age of 18 to 23, I cried every day looking back at myself traumatised, trying to deal with the person on the other side of it."I wasn't in love with myself, I hated myself because my identity had changed overnight."Gary met a woman online - who had a rare skin condition she developed when she was 18 - on an app called app is an audio programme known for its focus on live, intimate discussions similar to a podcast. "I said to myself, enough is enough now... I need to talk about this openly," he said. Gary went on to tell his story and posted a video online - and says the response he received was overwhelming. "At 8am the next morning, I was in bed in tears because of all the love, the amazing comments that I had from friends and family and I decided to stop being silent and use my voice for good," he a production company and Channel 4 saw his story and invited him on the show, which he described as an "amazing experience"."I genuinely didn't think they would pick me, I didn't think I was worthy enough because I felt Love My Face was about somebody who had gone through so much more," he said."I love my face now... I've learned to love myself now and I realised that we smile from the inside."
Yahoo
17-04-2025
- Yahoo
Couple arrested in Pitt County on exploitation of an elder charges
PITT COUNTY, N.C. (WNCT) — The Pitt County Sheriff's Office arrested two people in connection to an embezzlement scheme on April 15 and 16. An attorney for Clifton Powers, a senior citizen with cancer, contacted the sheriff's office in January 2024, to report that Powers' wife was a victim of elder exploitation. Clifton's wife, Gladys, reportedly received help from Sandra and Michael Dixon while Clifton was hospitalized from a stroke. There is no familial relation between the Dixons and Powers. Gladys died before Clifton left the hospital. Clifton told his lawyer that the Dixons' had him sign documents that he eventually realized were forms of Power of Attorney, a Will and a Deed to his home days before he left the hospital. He added that in the fall of 2024 his doctor told him to seek legal counsel, which he did. This nullified the Power of Attorney. It was later found out that the Dixons had allegedly stole Clifton's money from his account and placed it in theirs. Clifton died in October 2024 and the Dixons did not settle his estate, making any final expense be transferred to a familial relation. The Dixons sold Clifton's home after his death. Sandra Fay Dixon, 58 years old and from Walstonburg, was arrested on April 15. He husband, 62 year old Michael Scott Dixon, was arrested a day later on April 16. Both were charged with exploit elder trust over $100k, embezzlement over $100k and felony conspiracy. Their bonds were set to $200k each. Copyright 2025 Nexstar Media, Inc. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten, or redistributed.
The Guardian
09-04-2025
- Business
- The Guardian
Lord Kalms obituary
There can be relatively few householders in the UK who have not bought a television, laptop, hi-fi, fridge or washing machine from one of the companies overseen by Stanley Kalms, Lord Kalms, who has died aged 93. Working up from a single north London camera shop to a chain of 1,300 branches of Curry's, Dixons, PC World and The Link by the time he retired in 2002, Kalms bestrode the high streets and shopping malls of Britain with a portfolio that made him the largest electronics retailer in Europe with a fortune of £300m. The white goods equipment, cameras and computers that Kalms sold interested him less than the act of selling: he could not use a computer and had difficulty operating a mobile phone. What mattered was the bottom line. 'I get a buzz seeing people walking round my store and buying my products, walking up to a cash till and paying for them,' he told the Sunday Times in 2001. His stores, he would say, were really toy shops for men. Kalms spent long hours in his Mayfair mews office in London, far away from the shop floor, but ventured forth every Friday to make a surprise swoop on a store to find out what they were doing wrong. He never found one that entirely satisfied him: 'Each shop should be beautiful. It is where a retailer displays his arts, but I can usually find a hundred things wrong with it,' he told the Daily Mail. The screens around his office desk recorded what each shop was selling in real time, as well as the state of the stock market. 'I have never read a single book on management,' he said in 2006. 'I don't need to study anyone else's methodology. You have to have a passion for whatever you do and a rage to win.' What lay beneath Kalms's success was his competitiveness – 'We have to be No 1, not No 2 or No 3' – and a willingness to undercut his rivals and copy them if necessary. He was also keen to keep up with innovations. 'When I started to sell, the consumer was pleased to be able to buy, which is a very wrong thing. Now everyone will shop around on the internet. It's the world we live in and we have to be No 1 on the internet,' he said. To that end, in 1998 he co-launched the Freeserve internet service provider for those who bought computers from his stores. It was sold to Wanadoo, owned by France Télécom, two years later for £1.65bn. Kalms was born in London, into a family of 12 children who all became business people. His parents were both Jewish; his mother, Cissie, was of Polish origin, and his father, Charles, was of Russian heritage. During school holidays from Christ's college, Finchley, Kalms worked at the photographic studio run by his easygoing father, which he had opened in Southend before moving to Hendon, north London. Stanley discovered that he enjoyed retailing more than studying, and at the shop he persuaded Charles that selling cameras and equipment would be more profitable than taking pictures. He doubled the business's modest turnover, taking over its running. As the business expanded, eventually to 12 shops, the name Dixons was apparently chosen at random from a phone book. Kalms's key insight came during a trip to east Asia in 1958, when he saw a vast range of Japanese camera equipment being sold much more cheaply than in Britain. By securing direct import deals he was able to offer cameras at prices 30% lower than those on sale elsewhere. Dixons was floated on the Stock Exchange in 1962, making Kalms a millionaire at the age of 30. More deals followed, culminating in the £300m acquisition of Curry's, with its 300 stores, after a bitter takeover battle in 1984. In addition he took over the Silo electrical retailer in the US in 1987, but that venture proved to be a costly failure, and it was sold off at a loss six years later. An attempt to acquire Woolworth also ended in defeat, amid accusations that Dixons' advisers had bugged the Woolworth boardroom. Outside the business world, Kalms was active in Jewish affairs and with educational charities, including a foundation to support the study of Jewish culture and values, a chair for ethical studies in Jerusalem and a business ethics chair at the London Business School. He was a governor of Dixons City academy in Bradford for 14 years and also chaired Jews' College (now the London School of Jewish Studies), the religion's principal theological establishment in the UK. In the 1980s he wrote a report for United (Orthodox) Synagogues calling for the body's reorganisation, but his recommendations were not taken up. He also supported the appointment of Jonathan Sacks as chief rabbi in 1990, though he and Sacks later fell out after Kalms wrote a critical article in the Jewish Chronicle about Sacks's leadership. Kalms did tend to fall out with people. Initially a strong supporter of Margaret Thatcher and donor to the Conservative party, he became treasurer in 2001 for two years, serving under Iain Duncan Smith's leadership until he was accused of not raising enough money for the party. He was subsequently made a life peer by Michael Howard, having earlier been knighted during John Major's premiership. But he was always a Eurosceptic and an opponent of the single currency, and grew increasingly critical of the Conservatives, especially under David Cameron. By 2009 he was saying he would consider voting for Ukip. Kalms chaired Dixons Retail from 1971 until his retirement in 2002, and thereafter was group president until 2014, when it merged with Carphone Warehouse to create Dixons Carphone, which was renamed Currys in 2021. He was a director of the Centre for Policy Studies for 10 years (1991-2001) and of Business for Sterling (1998-2001). In 1954 he married Pamela Jimack, who worked for Barnet health authority, having proposed to her within four days of their first meeting. They owned properties overlooking St James's Park in central London, holiday homes in Israel and Portugal, and a yacht in Antibes in the south of France. The couple had three sons, Richard, Stephen and Paul, all of whom worked only briefly for their father's company before choosing alternative careers. Pamela, their children and eight grandchildren survive him. Harold Stanley Kalms, Lord Kalms, businessman, born 21 November 1931; died 30 March 2025
Yahoo
01-04-2025
- Business
- Yahoo
Lord Kalms, retailer who built his family firm Dixons into a pillar of British business
Lord Kalms, who has died aged 93, was one of Britain's most enduringly successful retailers; over half a century he built Dixons, his family business, from a single camera shop in north London into a nationwide chain of what he called 'electronic toy shops for adults'. He was also an ardent Eurosceptic who acquired high influence in the Conservative Party before shifting his allegiance towards Ukip. Stanley Kalms was a quintessential Jewish entrepreneur whose toughness in business was balanced by a commitment to philanthropy, particularly in the field of education. His stores – 1,200 of them in his heyday, including Currys, PC World and The Link as well as the Dixons chain itself – sold annually more than £3 billion worth of televisions, microwaves, mobile phones, laptops and other gadgetry. Kalms was a corporate autocrat who could be a steadfast ally, but dealt harshly with those who opposed him, intellectually or commercially. His peers regarded him as the consummate retail professional, in command of every detail of his operation – though he could not work a personal computer, and in the days when he chiefly sold cameras, acquired no skill at taking pictures. Nor did he like to work above the shop, running his empire ran from a quiet, chintz-filled office in Farm Street, Mayfair. But he never took his eye off the core of his business. His philosophy was firmly grounded in Jewish family values, and he found himself strongly in sympathy in the early 1980s with Margaret Thatcher's credo of free enterprise and personal responsibility. Later, however, he was one of the first of her business supporters to take a revisionist view: 'I don't think [she] gave enough thought to the consequences of adopting the market system. The system works but it is very crude… We have to find a better way of helping those who cannot make the adjustments necessary...' Kalms was chairman of Dixons until 2002, and president until 2014. In 2001 he took on the role of treasurer of the Conservative Party, to which he was a already long-standing donor, and became a close ally of the then leader Iain Duncan Smith, who he described as 'a great patriot'. But as other donors became increasingly disillusioned at a low ebb in Tory fortunes, Kalms presided over ruthless cuts in Central Office expenditure. He was one of several large donors nominated for peerages by Duncan Smith after his ousting (to be replaced by Michael Howard) in October 2003. Though Kalms continued to serve the party for a time as a vice-chairman, his relationship with it was increasingly rocky. In the 2005 leadership contest he backed David Davis rather than David Cameron, for whose modernising tendency he made plain his dislike; and in 2006 he called the shadow foreign secretary William Hague 'ignorant' for criticising Israeli attacks on Lebanon. Matters came to a head on the eve of the European elections in June 2009, when Kalms decribed the poll as 'an opportunity to vote for personal priorities' in which 'for myself, I am considering lending my vote to UKIP.' It was unclear whether, as was sometimes reported, he was 'expelled' as a result, but his connection with the Tory party was certainly severed. Harold Stanley Kalms was born in London on November 21 1931. His paternal grandfather migrated to England from Lithuania – the family name was shortened from Kalmovitz – and his mother's family, the Schlagmans, came from Poland. Stanley was educated at Christ's College in Finchley, where by his own account he showed little academic promise but developed his trading skills in the playground. At 11 he set himself up as a stamp dealer, offering items from his own collection through adverts in philatelic journals. Stanley's father Charles opened a photographic studio at Southend in 1937. During the Second World War, which brought a boom in portrait photography, the business expanded to seven outlets, trading as Dixons Studios, a company name that Charles had bought off the shelf. But in the immediate postwar years it contracted again to one studio at Edgware, which struggled to find supplies and turned over barely £100 a week. At 16, Stanley worked with his father for a summer and proved such an asset that he never returned to school. He soon persuaded Charles to start selling cameras and accessories. Bold advertising, keen prices and easy credit terms for customers helped the business to expand. Stanley was particularly astute on the buying side: on his first trip to the Far East in 1958, he found he could buy camera tripods at a quarter of the price offered by British distributors. So he cut out the distributors and imported directly, adding his own labels. In an era of rapid growth in consumerism, and particularly in hobby photography, the problem was not so much how to sell the merchandise, but how to find sufficient prime shop sites to keep pace with demand. By the time the business was floated on the stock exchange as Dixons Photographic in 1962 – making Stanley Kalms a millionaire at 30 – it had 16 branches, and soon added 40 more by buying two rival chains. In due course the stores began to sell audio and hi-fi equipment as well. Stanley succeeded Charles as chairman in 1971, and growth continued with the acquisition of another electrical chain, Wallace Heaton. The step which took Dixons into the top rank of retailers came in 1984 when Kalms won a hard-fought £300 million bid battle for Currys – which had 600 stores, many of them in out-of-town shopping centres. Two years later, Kalms launched a £1.8 billion hostile bid for Woolworth, which failed amid accusations that Dixons' advisers had bugged Woolworth's executives to gather damaging information about them. Kalms knew nothing about the bugging operation, and was deeply embarrassed by it. In due course Woolworth (renamed Kingfisher) launched a counter-bid for Dixons, but was thwarted by the Monopolies Commission. Kalms, meanwhile, made a self-confessed mistake by buying Silo, a leading American electrical retailer, for £240 million in 1987. The venture accumulated huge losses until it was abandoned in 1993, contributing to something of a fall in Kalms's reputation. But he remained determinedly in charge, and another consumer boom in the latter part of the decade restored his good standing. In 1999 he achieved a brilliant coup with the launch of Freeserve, an internet service provider which was profitably spun off from Dixons. Asked whether he would ease back as he approached retirement age, Kalms replied: 'The time to step down will be when I get tired of doing the 70-80 hour week I do now. I still feel I have something more to contribute... I would like my epitaph to be something more than just 'he sold a lot of cameras'.' He was also a director of British Gas, chairman of the King's Healthcare NHS Trust in south London, a member of the Funding Agency for Schools, a governor of the National Institute for Economic & Social Research and treasurer of the Centre for Policy Studies, the free-market think tank. He supported a very wide range of Jewish causes, and established a foundation to support the study of Jewish culture and values. He was also passionately interested in business ethics, funding a chair in the subject at London Business School and a centre for ethical studies in Jerusalem. Among his many other endowments, he regarded the Dixons Bradford Technology College, founded in 1988, as 'my greatest single success'. The college aimed to take in teenagers of varying ethnic backgrounds and abilities and equip them to find jobs; Kalms saw it as a virtuous circle of capitalism, in which private wealth funded a project which nurtured the skills necessary to generate future wealth for others. This was part of Kalms's larger view that businessmen have a duty to act as good citizens – but should also be free to run their businesses in the interests of shareholders. He was a vigorous opponent of the centre-left 'stakeholding' school of corporate governance – briefly embraced by Tony Blair – which claimed that staff, customers, suppliers and local communities had rights in companies equivalent to those of shareholders. 'Capitalism has lots of warts,' he observed, 'but you mustn't clip its wings and prevent it functioning.' Having been knighted in 1996, Kalms was created a life peer in 2004. He kept a handsome apartment overlooking Green Park, holiday homes in Jerusalem (where his sister lived) and Portugal, and a yacht at Antibes. For relaxation in London, he enjoyed opera, ballet and bridge. He married, in 1954, Pamela Jimack, who worked for Barnet Health Authority and was appointed MBE in 1995. They had three sons, all three of whom worked briefly for Dixons but chose not to make careers there. 'It's not the right thing for kids to be with their dad if he's rather single-minded,' Kalms observed. But the family remained close, eating together every weekend in the Jewish tradition. Lord Kalms, born November 21 1931, died March 30 2025 Broaden your horizons with award-winning British journalism. Try The Telegraph free for 1 month with unlimited access to our award-winning website, exclusive app, money-saving offers and more.
