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Daily Record
23-05-2025
- Daily Record
East Kilbride boxing club launches 'Knives Down Gloves Up' sessions following tragic death of Kayden Moy
EK Boxing Academy has launched the new sessions in a bid to tackle youth violence. A boxing gym in East Kilbride is hoping to educate local youths by urging them to put the knives down and pull the gloves on. Following last week's Irvine Beach tragedy when 16-year-old East Kilbride boy Kayden Moy lost his life in an alleged stabbing, EK Boxing Academy has launched 'Knives Down Gloves Up' sessions in a bid to tackle youth violence locally. A post on their Facebook page reads: "In light of recent affairs we're posting to encourage teenagers to come along to these sessions to help educate our youths on putting the knives down and gloves on to learn respect, self worth and joining a community of like-minded individuals. "Anyone interested in coming along just drop our page a message so we can book you in free of charge and lets put the knives down and gloves up." The town has been rocked by the tragic events of Saturday when former Duncanrig pupil Kayden Moy was fatally wounded at Irvine Beach while enjoying a day out at the seaside with his friends. Emergency services were called to the beauty spot in Ayrshire on Saturday evening after receiving reports of a seriously injured youth. Sadly 16-year-old Kayden died in Crosshouse Hospital, Kilmarnock on Sunday, May 18. A 17-year-old male, who cannot be named for legal reasons, has now been charged with murder in connection with the incident as the investigation continues. He made no plea at Kilmarnock Sheriff Court on Tuesday and was remanded in custody. A second teenager was yesterday arrested in connection with Kayden's death as enquiries continue. East Kilbride town centre-based health and wellness charity Little Brains is also offering advice on how to open conversations with teenagers and provide safe spaces for them to deal with their grief. Louise Keegan, who runs the non-profit organisation, said: "Our deepest condolences to the family and friends of Kayden. "There will be a lot of heartbroken young people trying to navigate this situation and they will need a lot of empathy as they try to get their head around this. There may be outbursts which are completely understandable. "Grieving the loss of a friend, especially in traumatic circumstances, can be an incredibly intense and complex experience for teenagers. The way they process this profound loss can vary greatly, influenced by their age, emotional maturity, and personal experiences. "When a friend is taken so drastically, it can feel like the ground has shifted dramatically beneath their feet. Teenagers may experience a mixture of shock, disbelief, anger, and profound sadness. "These feelings can be overwhelming, and it's essential to acknowledge that what they are going through is a natural response to a devastating situation. "During this grief journey, teenagers might struggle with feelings of vulnerability and fear, questioning their safety and the world around them. "They may feel isolated in their pain, believing that friends and adults around them cannot fully understand their experience. This sense of disconnection can sometimes lead to anger, apathy, or withdrawal from social interactions." She added: "Additionally, teenagers may feel guilt or shame, grappling with thoughts like, 'Could I have done something to prevent this?' or 'Why did this happen to them and not to me?' "These thoughts can be distressing, making it crucial for supportive adults to reassure them that these feelings are normal and that they are not to blame for the tragedy. "Engaging in open conversations about their feelings can be incredibly beneficial. Encourage teenagers to express their emotions, whether that's through talking, writing, or other creative outlets. "If they find it challenging to open up, they may feel more comfortable confiding in a trusted friend or a counselor who can provide a safe space for them to process their grief. "Support can also come from peer groups or memorial activities that honour the memory of their friend, allowing them to connect with others who understand their shared loss. Remind them that it's okay to seek help and that they don't have to navigate their grief alone. "Ultimately, helping teenagers recognise that grieving is a personal journey that isn't linear can be comforting. It's okay to have good days and bad days, and it's important for them to know that healing takes time." Crimestoppers' youth service Fearless Scotland is also urging conversations with young people after the recent tragedy and a number of other serious events involving young people across the country. They want families and communities to talk openly with young people about the importance of speaking up about crime. Lyndsay McDade, Scotland Manager of Fearless, Crimestoppers' youth service, said: 'In the wake of the devastating incident in Irvine at the weekend - and other recent events involving young people across Scotland - it's more important than ever to talk about the power of speaking up. "Encouraging young people to share what they know about crime can be a life-saving conversation and one we all need to be having. "That's why I'm asking you: please talk to the young people in your life this bank holiday weekend. Help them understand how vital it is to speak up if they know someone carries a weapon, is involved in violence or any other crimes. Let them know it's not 'grassing' - it's protecting lives. "Give them permission to do the right thing and help them to see that speaking up is an act of courage and kindness. "I know fear of stigma or retaliation can stop them - but that's exactly why our charity exists. At young people can tell us what they know 100 per cent anonymously. "What it will do is make their lives safer, their friends' lives safer and all of our communities safer. "This is one simple, powerful step we can all take that will make a positive difference.' *Don't miss the latest headlines from around Lanarkshire. Sign up to our newsletters here.


Daily Record
22-05-2025
- Daily Record
Family and friends of tragic East Kilbride teenager Kayden Moy gather in tribute to 'best boy'
Kayden's heartbroken parents, brothers and family members turned out to the sun-soaked hill where green and white flares and fireworks were set off in a moving tribute to their "big boy". Emotions ran high as chants of 'There's only one Kayden Moy' rang around Greenhills last night when family and friends of the tragic East Kilbride teenager gathered to remember him. In a show of overwhelming support, dozens of teenagers came together at the Highpoint in Greenhills, East Kilbride in memory of the popular 16-year-old Celtic fan. The town has been rocked by the tragic events of Saturday when the former Duncanrig pupil was fatally wounded at Irvine Beach while enjoying a day out at the seaside with his friends. Download the Lanarkshire Live app today Kayden's heartbroken dad Paul Moy, mum Ashley Drummond, younger brothers and family members also joined mourners on the sun-soaked hill where green and white flares and fireworks were set off in a moving tribute to their "big boy". Friends donning Celtic tops marched to the Highpoint singing and flying banners before gathering on the grassy hill and chanting his name. One being flown read: "Forever 16. Always in our hearts, Kayden. Long live Kayden Moy." A friend posted: "There's only one Kayden Moy. The best send off for our best boy Kayden. We are not just friends we're a family." A parent who attended the event told us: "There was nothing but utter joy and admiration for a boy that was taken too soon. "All the kids were well behaved, and what a send off for wee Kayden Moy. A shining light gone far too soon, but will never be forgotten. The love shown tonight was a true reflection of the impact he had on so many. "So proud of my son and the rest of the young team. Fair play to the police that let the youngsters pay their respects. Met a few lovely parents up there too keeping an eye on their kids. And of course Paul and Ashley Kayden's mum and dad. Rest easy Kayden." There was a heavy police presence in the area but police confirmed the send off for Kayden "passed peacefully". Chief Inspector Paul Doyle said: "Our thoughts remain with the family and friends of Kayden Moy following his tragic death. "Officers attended a gathering at the Greenhills Highpoint, East Kilbride on the evening of Wednesday, May 21. "The event passed peacefully.' A gofundme page set up for his family by his former football club Busby AFC has now raised nearly £15,000. Yamakai Karate Club in East Kilbride, which Kayden was a member of as a youngster, posted the following heartfelt tribute: "Karate family is not always a phrase I use lightly, however after the tragic events of Saturday evening on Irvine Beach I think it's completely appropriate on this occasion. "It's fair to say that today the Yamakai Karate family have been left totally devastated by the untimely death of one of our own Kayden Moy. Words cannot express what Kayden's family are currently going through today, what should have been a fun trip to the beech with his mates has turned into a nightmare. Our thoughts and prayers are with his parents Paul and Ashley, his brothers as well as the Moy family. "Kayden trained in our East Kilbride club for over six years winning many awards over the period, culminating in a Scottish Kumite title in 2019. He will be forever remembered as a highly talented Karate-Ka who was well thought of by all with-in our Club, who trained regularly and always gave the sport 100 per cent effort and commitment in everything he done. "I would like to dedicate yesterday's medals in memory to our student, our team mate and our friend Kayden Moy. Rest in peace young man. You will forever be in our thoughts and prayers." Emergency services were called to the beauty spot in Ayrshire on Saturday evening after receiving reports of a seriously injured youth. Sadly 16-year-old Kayden died in Crosshouse Hospital, Kilmarnock on Sunday, May 18. A 17-year-old male, who cannot be named for legal reasons, has now been charged with murder in connection with the incident as the investigation continues. He made no plea at Kilmarnock Sheriff Court on Tuesday and was remanded in custody. A second teenager has today been arrested in connection with Kayden's death. A spokesperson for Police Scotland said: "A second 17-year-old male youth has been arrested in connection with the death of Kayden Moy in Irvine and enquiries are ongoing. "Around 6.45pm on Saturday, May 17 officers were called to a report of a 16-year-old being seriously injured on Irvine beach. Emergency services attended and Kayden, of East Kilbride, was taken to Crosshouse Hospital near Kilmarnock. He died a short time later. "A 17-year-old male has already appeared on petition at Kilmarnock Sheriff court on Tuesday, May 20 in relation to Kayden's murder. "Detectives have also set up a website that gives members of the public access to a form to send information directly to the Major Investigation Team, which can be submitted anonymously. The portal can be accessed at A walkway at East Kilbride Showpark had been taped off by police since the weekend tragedy. Officers were standing guard and instructing locals to take a different route. The cordon, which police confirmed today has now been lifted, had been in place along a grass verge at a large section of the path near to Dunblane Drive and Halfmerke Primary School. Police said officers were conducting enquiries "as part of an ongoing investigation into the death of Kayden Moy in Irvine". Police Scotland has thanked members of the public who have come forward and continue to ask anyone with information, who has not already spoken to police, to contact them. Detective Chief Inspector Campbell Jackson, Major Investigations Team, said: 'Our specially trained officers continue to support Kayden's family and keep them updated with the progress of our investigation. 'Extensive enquiries are ongoing and officers remain in the Irvine and East Kilbride areas. Anyone with concerns can speak to them or call 101.' *Don't miss the latest headlines from around Lanarkshire. Sign up to our newsletters here.