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Time of India
13-05-2025
- Entertainment
- Time of India
Is it a good idea to date a man half your age? One woman says it changed her life
Love doesn't always come in ways we would expect, or society would approve. Many of us wouldn't even dare to look at a much younger man as a prospective dating material, forget about pursuing him. For British fashion editor Charlotte Anne Fidler , falling for a man 25 years younger wasn't part of the plan, but it turned out to be the most freeing decision of her life. In a candid reflection, Fidler wrote for Telegraph, sharing her unconventional story of dating a 'stupidly good looking" guy with whom she also found a soul connect. She narrated how being with him makes the "whirring around in my head goes still.' After discovering her husband had been having an affair for six years, her world came crashing down. 'I loved all that we'd built together with our family; I couldn't bear the idea of losing him,' she wrote in a recent piece for The Telegraph. After the split, her husband remarried and moved on, leaving Fidler to explore the dating world once again. After registering herself on dating sites, her first few dates were 'fine', mostly polite dinners and divorced dad small talk. But something was missing. 'I didn't want to swap stories about divorce and children. Sponsored Links Sponsored Links Promoted Links Promoted Links You May Like Click Here - This Might Save You From Losing Money Expertinspector Click Here Undo I wanted something different,' she wrote. When her friends encouraged her to adjust her dating app settings to include younger men, the results were instant, and exciting. One incredible date turned into more. She found herself feeling desired again. Admiring a much younger men, drew criticism from her neighbors and her elder daughter, who is just 10 years younger to her new beau, but Fidler is undeterred. 'My youngest daughter thought he was fun, but my eldest was initially hostile,' she wrote. 'My eldest is only 10 years younger than him and that made her uncomfortable. Now my youngest says I should be looking for someone older, to be a father figure for them. I've told her, you have your own dad for that.' Things to consider before dating a younger man Priorities : Age-gap relationships come with their own unique dynamics. Different life stages can lead to mismatched priorities. while one person may be inclined towards stability or parenting, the other may be pursuing career goals or new adventures. Also, societal judgment can impact a bond, even if it is subtle. Partners may also differ in terms of the family dynamics but when both partners are aligned on what they want, and choose the relationship anyway, something beautiful can grow from it. Energy levels : Such relationships can involve differences in energy and lifestyle preferences. One partner might enjoy a more active or adventurous lifestyle, while the other might prefer quieter, more laid-back activities. It's important to find a balance and respect each other's pace to maintain harmony. Expectation : In relationships with significant age differences, communication styles and expectations may vary due to life experience. Younger partners might still be navigating their career or personal growth , while older partners may already have established careers and a clearer sense of their life goals. Clear, open communication about these differences is essential to avoid misunderstandings and keep the relationship strong. Relationship Repair: Avoid These Common Communication Mistakes Future-Proof Your Child with AI Skills | Limited Early Bird Seats – 33% OFF! | WhatsApp: 9560500838
New York Post
11-05-2025
- Entertainment
- New York Post
Woman says her love affair with a ‘stupidly good looking' man 25 years younger than her is life-changing
This woman is having an affair with a man 25 years younger than her — and she's soaking in every amazing minute of it. British fashion magazine editor, Charlotte Anne Fidler recently wrote about her hunky lover for the Telegraph in which she fawned over her beau who she describes as being 'stupidly good looking.' On paper, Fidler seemed to have the picture-perfect life — thriving career, husband and two daughters. Yet, when she found out her husband was having an affair — for six years — she said she was blindsided. 'I loved all that we'd built together with our family; I couldn't bear the idea of losing him,' she wrote in the article. After finalizing their divorce, her ex-husband remarried quickly, and 'we now have a decent working relationship.' Fidler distracted herself from her heartache by building her own skincare company for teens called Spots & Stripes. After some time, she eventually felt ready to date again and went on 'fine' dates with men — but soon realized she didn't want to 'swap stories about divorce and children. I wanted something different.' 'With a friend egging me on, I switched my dating age range to 27-39, and the pictures immediately looked so much better,' she explained. She realized that when you stop looking for 'the one' — things get way more exciting and liberating. It was in that moment that she met her current beau. After an incredible date, Fidler realized how this new guy made her feel: desired. 'I didn't question why he'd want an older woman. I couldn't doubt our chemistry.' Fidler is as happy as can be dating her younger man. The two continued to date and eventually slept together. 'Of course, sometimes, I do think, 'God, I hope my stomach doesn't look bad from this angle,' Or wish I still had my 30-something breasts. But I try not to let those thoughts creep in,' she told the outlet. And Fidler doesn't consider herself a cougar nor does she lean in to any of those stereotypes when an older woman dates a younger guy. When she's with him, she said, 'everything that's normally whirring around in my head goes still.' As expected, Fidler has faced some criticism from neighbors — and even her daughter — about her relationship with a younger man. When she's with him, she said, 'everything that's normally whirring around in my head goes still.' Charlotte-Anne Fidle/Instagram 'My youngest daughter thought he was fun, but my eldest was initially hostile.' 'My eldest is only 10 years younger than him and that made her uncomfortable. Now my youngest says I should be looking for someone older, to be a father figure for them. I've told her, you have your own dad for that,' Fidler wrote. When asked if the couple will get married, Fidler replies that they're 'just enjoying it – not making plans.' 'This relationship has helped me let go of fear. I just made the leap and opened myself up to whatever might happen.' Fidler's admiration for a younger man isn't anything new. A study published in the journal Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences (PNAS) revealed that women are just as attracted to younger partners as men. Researchers analyzed 4,500 blind dates of people seeking a serious partner. 'After a blind date, participants were slightly more attracted to younger partners, and this trend was equally true for men and women,' study lead author Paul Eastwick, a professor of psychology at the University of California, said to SWNS. 'This preference for youth among women will be shocking to many people, because in mixed-gender couples, men tend to be older than women,' Eastwick said. Plus, women generally say they prefer older partners. 'But women's preferences on the dates themselves revealed something else entirely.'
Hamilton Spectator
06-05-2025
- General
- Hamilton Spectator
Cooking with heart: Fort Erie students help honour Community Living volunteers
Community Living Fort Erie celebrated its volunteers recently with a special dinner cooked up by the students at Pomegranate Restaurant located inside Greater Fort Erie Secondary School (GFESS). Held April 30 as part of Community Living Month, the volunteer appreciation night honoured volunteers for their time, commitment and impact on local programs that support individuals with developmental disabilities. The three-course dinner was prepared and served by students under the guidance of culinary teacher, Afshin Keyvani. Community Living board of directors chair Betty Talbot, kicked off the event by thanking the many volunteers who fill roles ranging from e-gaming and administrative work, to leisure buddy programs and fundraising. 'What you do matters more than you know,' she said. 'You may not always see the full ripple effect of your efforts, but let me assure you, you make a big difference.' Margaret Fidler, manager of community development, also took time to honour the short-term and long-term volunteers at the event. 'This kind of teamwork is rare, and it's something I'll always treasure,' Fidler said. 'Your efforts have brought joy to countless families and made a lasting impact on this community, and on me personally.' The evening was planned to celebrate the work of Community Living's volunteers, but also marked the end of an era as the organization bid farewell to Fidler, who is retiring. To close the evening, office administrator Tiyanna Schooley, gave a heartfelt speech to honour Fidler's impact. 'I've been here five months, and what I learned is that this woman seriously, loves, cares and appreciates you guys all so much,' she said. 'She genuinely cares, and I've never seen someone who embodies their career and cares so much about the people she serves.' The dinner, sponsored by Bill Marr of Garrison Automotive Service, was one of many events planned for Community Living Month. On Tuesday, the organization raised its Community Living flag at Fort Erie Town Hall, with Mayor Wayne Redekop in attendance. 'They had a lot of people turn out, it was great,' said Talbot. As plates were cleared and dessert was served, applause filled the room not only for the volunteers, but also for the students that made the dinner possible. Student Harper James said the experience of being part of the culinary program has opened up opportunities she never imagined. 'There's (a lot) of different experiences that I would have never even thought of or known of until I took culinary arts and met a teacher like (Keyvani),' said James, who has participated in the program for three years. James is also involved in Skills Ontario competitions and has been a part of relaunching the school's in-house restaurant, the Pomegranate, which had been dormant since the COVID-19 pandemic. 'We started (the Pomegranate) again last year after getting back into everything after COVID,' she said. 'Last year was the first year bringing it back to GFESS.' Keyvani, who teaches culinary arts at the school, said the culinary students are often involved in events that serve the broader community, including local fundraisers, school functions, and special dinners like the Community Living dinner. For students like James and her peers, this event was more than just an after school project, it was a chance to contribute to the community and learn by doing. 'It's kind of cool knowing that there are so many different things I get to experience just because I have a teacher that is so involved,' she said.
Yahoo
06-05-2025
- Business
- Yahoo
Alabama House passes bill requiring data collection on international wire transfers
Rep. Brett Easterbrook, R-Fruitdale (left) speaks with Rep. Jennifer Fidler, R-Silverhill (right) on the floor of the Alabama House of Representatives on April 8, 2025 at the Alabama Statehouse in Montgomery, Alabama. The House passed Fidler's bill that requires data to be collected on international wire transfers exceeding $1,000 last week.(Brian Lyman/Alabama Reflector) The Alabama House of Representatives passed a bill Thursday that would require wire transfer companies to collect data on some international wire transfers exceeding $1,000. HB 297, sponsored by Rep. Jennifer Fidler, R-Silverhill, is what remains of a bill that would have taxed international wire transfers, often used by immigrants to send money home to families. As filed, Fidler's bill would have subjected all international wire transfers to a 4% tax. A House Financial Services Committee substitute changed that. SUBSCRIBE: GET THE MORNING HEADLINES DELIVERED TO YOUR INBOX The bill requires data to be collected and stored on 'suspicious' international wire transfers of $2,000 or more, and for the data to be stored for five years. The bill requires all transfers exceeding $1,000 to be recorded. Fidler said $2,000 being transferred internationally is suspicious, but the bill does not define suspicious transactions. 'The wire transfer companies will determine what suspicious is. The Securities Commission that regulates all these transactions, they're the ones that are keeping an eye on it,' Fidler said. Rep. Chris Blackshear, R-Smiths Station, said in the Committee on April 23 that the substitute removes the 4% per transaction tax that the legislation originally imposed. 'Instead of a fee or a tax, it would now turn into a fine on any guilty findings they come up with,' Blackshear said at the committee meeting. The fines would be collected by the Alabama Securities Commission. The proceeds would go to the Sheriffs' Advancement in Education, Technology, and Training Fund, according to the Legislative Services Agency. The bill's fiscal note says each civil penalty can generate up to $5,000 for the fund. Rep. Mary Moore, D-Birmingham, said during debate on the House floor last week that the current political climate made her concerned about the intentions of the legislation. 'My rationale is because of the climate that we're living in now that I would not want somebody falsely accused of something,' Moore said. 'People are being falsely arrested and everything else and once it happens they have no way out when they are innocent.' Moore said that parents could be sending money to a child that is studying abroad, not just immigrants with families abroad. 'If you've got a child living overseas going to school and every week you transfer them $1,000, that's going to look suspicious,' Moore said. Fidler said that the transaction would just have to be recorded and kept for five years. The legislation requires the commission to record data on multiple transactions of $15,000 or more between the same people. The commission must also record all transactions of more than $1,000. The legislation makes evading recording the data a Class C felony on first offense and a Class B felony on multiple offenses; punishable by up to 10 years in prison and a $15,000 fine, and up to 20 years in prison and a $30,000 fine, respectively. Fidler's bill effectively replaced similar legislation filed by Sen. April Weaver, R-Alabaster, which would have imposed a $7.50 fee on money sent overseas and a 1.5% fee on transfers over $500. The bill was held because the Constitution requires the legislation to start in the House. The bill passed 83-2 with 15 abstentions. It goes to the Senate Insurance and Banking Committee, which had not posted an agenda as of early Monday afternoon. There are three days left in the 2025 session. SUPPORT: YOU MAKE OUR WORK POSSIBLE
USA Today
29-03-2025
- Sport
- USA Today
Michigan State F Frankie Fidler talks win over Ole Miss in Sweet 16
Michigan State F Frankie Fidler talks win over Ole Miss in Sweet 16 Michigan State basketball went down to Atlanta and took down the Ole Miss Rebels in the Sweet 16 on Friday night, punching their ticket to an Elite 8 matchup with Auburn on Sunday. In the win, Tom Izzo relied on his seniors to weather some very big storms from the Rebels, but it was the seniors that would deliver. Frankie Fidler was one of those seniors that stepped up in a big way on Friday. Fidler may have only finished with five points, but two of those points came at one of the biggest points in the game, and overall, he was a stabilizing force for the Spartans. In the locker room after the game, Fidler briefly spoke with the media, touching on some of the game plan things in the game against the Rebels, as well as what it means to him to make a deep run in the NCAA Tournament. Full video: Contact/Follow us @The SpartansWire on X (formerly Twitter) and like our page on Facebook to follow ongoing coverage of Michigan State news, notes, and opinion. You can also follow Cory Linsner on X @Cory_Linsner
