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Yahoo
29-05-2025
- General
- Yahoo
Divorce lawyer reveals the four common mistakes couples make
Till death — or divorce — do us part. Although divorce rates are dropping across America, couples are still splitting up every day — sometimes for avoidable reasons. That's why divorce lawyer Padideh Jafari, founder and CEO of Jafari Law & Mediation Office, revealed the four common mistakes couples make to Business Insider. She shared the top reasons why she's seen couples split and her advice to overcome those obstacles. 'Marriage can be a beautiful thing, but it requires work and intention in addition to love,' Jafari said. One of the main reasons why couples separate is that they lose focus on their relationship and put other things — typically their work or kids — ahead of their marriage. 'You absolutely cannot prioritize your career over your marriage,' the expert said, noting that kids also should not come in the way of your relationship. 'Of course, you love your children and need to look after their physical and emotional needs, but don't forget your spouse.' A special date night or holiday getaway with your partner can be a great way to forget your responsibilities and dedicate time to your loved one. Instagram posts, Facebook albums and TikTok videos keep us connected — but sometimes seeing the highlights of someone's life and being one click away isn't great for our relationships. 'From reconnecting with old flames to secret messages, social media is fueling modern divorces,' Jafari said. The expert claimed that even taking a peek at a former flame's social media account is crossing a line. 'Social media makes us think that the grass may be greener somewhere else,' she said. 'But as a married person, you should be thinking about your own home — watering and fertilizing your own lawn to make it beautiful alongside your spouse.' As the saying goes, communication is key — but it's more than that really. Couples need to not only communicate but also comprehend what their partner is saying. The skilled communicator explained that sometimes this can go awry as innocently as when you finish your partner's sentences, but warned, 'It can lead to frustration and resentment.' That's why she advises people to 'try to pause and be present in conversations' and not make assumptions — you know what they say. She also added that asking follow-up questions can help you better understand each other. Despite what the Beatles would have you believe — love is not all you need. Take time to truly understand each other's values, goals, and ways of handling stress or conflict. Being in love can feel like enough, but long-term compatibility takes patience, communication, and shared growth. That's why Jafari advises against rushing into a marriage. 'If you're going to be together forever, there's no reason to get married quickly. Instead, take time to see your spouse in different seasons of life, literally and figuratively,' Jafari insisted. Spend time building a strong emotional foundation, talk about finances, children, and life plans. The more you know each other, the stronger your bond can become.
Yahoo
23-05-2025
- General
- Yahoo
FCC grads grateful for support systems, proud of their achievements
Ines Agopome said she is proof that with persistence, faith and the right support systems, people can break through barriers and generational curses they didn't think they could ever overcome. Agopome was one of two student speakers at Frederick Community College's commencement ceremony Thursday evening at Knott Arena in Emmitsburg. She received an associate degree in social sciences with a concentration in psychology. She plans to continue pursuing a bachelor's degree in counseling psychology at the University of Baltimore with a full scholarship. Agopome's parents are immigrants from Togo, a country in Africa. As she faced the crowd of hundreds at the arena, she told everyone important lessons she and her sister learned from her parents. One was that hard work and perseverance are not just tools, but survival skills. Another lesson was that no matter where people come from, the knowledge they carry can't be taken away from them. Before coming to FCC, Agopome was a student at Montgomery College. In 2020 during the COVID-19 pandemic, Agopome gave birth to her daughter. She realized that to give her daughter everything she wanted, Agopome needed to reflect and look at what she personally wanted, too. She realized she was pursuing the wrong major and was not at the best school for her, so with the help of her family and friends, she found FCC. Agopome said her daughter is the main reason she could complete her associate degree and continues to have purpose in her actions and life. She thanked her own family and support systems during her speech, tearing up at the mention of her daughter. She told the arena to raise their imaginary glasses, cellphones or whatever else they preferred to cheer the class of 2025. "The world is already yours, you're capable of so much more than you know, and the knowledge you've gained here will never be taken away," Agopome said. FCC's class of 2025 has 915 graduating students, and about a quarter of the class consists of first-generation college graduates. The vast majority of the class — 90% — received associate degrees, while the rest of the graduates received certificates of accomplishment. As the graduates processed into the arena wearing their green robes, audience members cheered loudly and waved excitedly down at the graduates they came to support. Giulietta Jafari was the other student speaker for the ceremony, alongside Agopome. She also made it a point to thank her parents for the sacrifices they made, so Jafari could pursue her education. Jafari received associate degrees in English and paralegal studies. She will attend the University of Maryland in the fall to study philosophy and linguistics, according to a Facebook post from FCC announcing the 2025 commencement student speakers. Jafari said her father is Persian and fled to Iran to escape religious persecution. Her mother was 16 years old and alone, and had little money to support herself. While her parents' biggest concerns were survival, Jafari said, her biggest concerns were unplugging the family's Wii gaming console fast enough before her sister could beat her in the video game Mario Kart. Jafari said her dad would tell her to never give up and never surrender whenever she faced an obstacle. She keeps that sentiment in mind to this day. "I'll always be grateful for [my parents], for the opportunity and sacrifices that they made, so that I could graduate on this day with all of you today, so that I could attend university without denying who I am, so that I could grow into the best version of myself and seize every opportunity that comes my way," she said. FCC President Annesa Payne Cheek spoke about the diverse range of backgrounds in the graduating class. She said the class ages ranged from 18 to 68. Some people might have gone to FCC right after graduating high school, while others might have returned to school after years away. Cheek told the class to also remember the people who believed in them when the students didn't believe in themselves. She gave the graduates some words she said she would've needed to hear when she was graduating from college herself: "I belong," "I earned this" and "I'm ready." Jacques Mbengang said he feels accomplished now that he's graduated. He received an associate degree in STEM technology with a concentration in cybersecurity, as well as certificates of accomplishment in computer studies and information security and assurance. Mbengang began attending FCC right after he graduated from high school. He got his first job in information technology at Meritus Medical Center last month and will continue working there after graduation. He said his professors were hands-on and "really took care" of him in and out of the classroom. His father died while he attended FCC, and the college's staff helped him get through that hard period to get his degree. "In my culture, education is really important, and I believe that knowledge is very important," he said. "Being able to acquire it and finish it to the end, even when I could've gave up multiple times, the fact that I was able to keep moving was something that I really take pride in."
New York Post
03-05-2025
- Business
- New York Post
Divorce lawyer reveals the four common mistakes couples make
Till death — or divorce — do us part. Although divorce rates are dropping across America, couples are still splitting up every day — sometimes for avoidable reasons. 5 One of the main reasons why couples separate is that they lose focus on their relationship and put other things — typically their work or kids — ahead of their marriage. Diego Cervo – That's why divorce lawyer Padideh Jafari, founder and CEO of Jafari Law & Mediation Office, revealed the four common mistakes couples make to Business Insider. She shared the top reasons why she's seen couples split and her advice to overcome those obstacles. 'Marriage can be a beautiful thing, but it requires work and intention in addition to love,' Jafari said. Prioritizing your work or kids over your marriage One of the main reasons why couples separate is that they lose focus on their relationship and put other things — typically their work or kids — ahead of their marriage. 'You absolutely cannot prioritize your career over your marriage,' the expert said, noting that kids also should not come in the way of your relationship. 5 Kids should not get in the way of your relationship, Jafari said. Drazen – 'Of course, you love your children and need to look after their physical and emotional needs, but don't forget your spouse.' A special date night or holiday getaway with your partner can be a great way to forget your responsibilities and dedicate time to your loved one. Falling into the temptation of social media Instagram posts, Facebook albums and TikTok videos keep us connected — but sometimes seeing the highlights of someone's life and being one click away isn't great for our relationships. 'From reconnecting with old flames to secret messages, social media is fueling modern divorces,' Jafari said. 5 'From reconnecting with old flames to secret messages, social media is fueling modern divorces,' Jafari said. bongkarn – The expert claimed that even taking a peek at a former flame's social media account is crossing a line. 'Social media makes us think that the grass may be greener somewhere else,' she said. 'But as a married person, you should be thinking about your own home — watering and fertilizing your own lawn to make it beautiful alongside your spouse.' Communicating but not comprehending As the saying goes, communication is key — but it's more than that really. Couples need to not only communicate but also comprehend what their partner is saying. 5 Couples need to not only communicate but also comprehend what their partner is saying. Damir Khabirov – The skilled communicator explained that sometimes this can go awry as innocently as when you finish your partner's sentences, but warned, 'It can lead to frustration and resentment.' That's why she advises people to 'try to pause and be present in conversations' and not make assumptions — you know what they say. She also added that asking follow-up questions can help you better understand each other. Rushing into romance Despite what the Beatles would have you believe — love is not all you need. Take time to truly understand each other's values, goals, and ways of handling stress or conflict. Being in love can feel like enough, but long-term compatibility takes patience, communication, and shared growth. 5 Jafari suggests couples take time to truly understand each other's values, goals, and ways of handling stress or conflict before getting married. AntonioDiaz – That's why Jafari advises against rushing into a marriage. 'If you're going to be together forever, there's no reason to get married quickly. Instead, take time to see your spouse in different seasons of life, literally and figuratively,' Jafari insisted. Spend time building a strong emotional foundation, talk about finances, children, and life plans. The more you know each other, the stronger your bond can become.
Economic Times
28-04-2025
- Business
- Economic Times
Satellite images reveal destruction after Iran port explosion as death toll rises to 46
A massive explosion occurred at Shahid Rajaei port near Bandar Abbas in Iran. The blast resulted in numerous fatalities and injuries. Satellite images reveal extensive damage to buildings and containers. The cause of the explosion remains unclear. Reports suggest the port received missile fuel chemicals. Iranian authorities deny these claims. Tired of too many ads? Remove Ads Tired of too many ads? Remove Ads Satellite images analysed by The Associated Press on Monday showed the devastation of an explosion that rocked one of Iran's main ports as the death toll rose to 46 people with over 1,000 injured. The photos from Planet Labs PBC came as local news reports from the site raised more questions about the cause of the blast Saturday at the Shahid Rajaei port near Bandar port reportedly took in a chemical component needed for solid fuel for ballistic missiles - something denied by authorities though they've not explained the source of the power that caused such blast Saturday disintegrated a building next to the blast site, which appeared to be in a row where other containers once stood, the satellite photos showed. It also shredded the majority of another building just to the force of the blast also could be seen, with what appeared to be two craters measure some 50 metres across. Other containers nearby appeared smashed and distended by the explosion and the intense fire that fire still burned at the site Monday, some two days after the initial explosion that happened just as Iran began a third round of negotiations with the United States over its rapidly advancing nuclear still haven't offered an explanation for the security firm Ambrey says the port received missile fuel chemical in March. It was part of a shipment of ammonium perchlorate from China by two vessels to Iran, first reported in January by the Financial chemical used to make solid propellant for rockets was going to be used to replenish Iran's missile stocks, which had been depleted by its direct attacks on Israel during the war with Hamas in the Gaza Iranian military denied receiving the chemical media footage of the explosion saw reddish-hued smoke rising from the fire just before the detonation. That suggests a chemical compound being involved in the blast, like in the 2020 Beirut port Sunday, Iran's semiofficial ILNA news agency quoted Saeed Jafari, the CEO of marine services company working at the port, as saying there were false statements about the cargo that detonated, which he called "very dangerous.""The incident happened following a false statement about the dangerous goods and delivering it without documents and tags," Jafari report by the semiofficial ISNA news agency claimed the cargo that caused the blast was not reported to customs authorities as high-level authorities in Iran, such as its paramilitary Revolutionary Guard, could circumvent normal procedures at the port.
Hindustan Times
28-04-2025
- Politics
- Hindustan Times
Satellite images reveal destruction after Iran port explosion kills at least 46
Satellite images analyzed by The Associated Press on Monday showed the devastation of an explosion that rocked one of Iran's main ports as the death toll rose to 46 people, with over 1,000 injured. The photos from Planet Labs PBC came as local news reports from the site raised more questions about the cause of the blast Saturday at the Shahid Rajaei port near Bandar Abbas. The port reportedly took in a chemical component needed for solid fuel for ballistic missiles — something denied by authorities, though they've not explained the source of the power that caused such destruction. The blast Saturday disintegrated a building next to the blast site, which appeared to be in a row where other containers once stood, the satellite photos showed. It also shredded the majority of another building just to the west. The force of the blast also could be seen, with what appeared to be two craters measure some 50 meters (165 feet) across. Other containers nearby appeared smashed and distended by the explosion and the intense fire that followed. The fire still burned at the site Monday, some two days after the initial explosion that happened just as Iran began a third round of negotiations with the United States over its rapidly advancing nuclear program. Authorities still haven't offered an explanation for the explosion. Private security firm Ambrey says the port received missile fuel chemical in March. It was part of a shipment of ammonium perchlorate from China by two vessels to Iran, first reported in January by the Financial Times. The chemical used to make solid propellant for rockets was going to be used to replenish Iran's missile stocks, which had been depleted by its direct attacks on Israel during the war with Hamas in the Gaza Strip. The Iranian military denied receiving the chemical shipment. Social media footage of the explosion saw reddish-hued smoke rising from the fire just before the detonation. That suggests a chemical compound being involved in the blast, like in the 2020 Beirut port explosion. Late Sunday, Iran's semiofficial ILNA news agency quoted Saeed Jafari, the CEO of marine services company working at the port, as saying there were false statements about the cargo that detonated, which he called 'very dangerous.' 'The incident happened following a false statement about the dangerous goods and delivering it without documents and tags,' Jafari said. Another report by the semiofficial ISNA news agency claimed the cargo that caused the blast was not reported to customs authorities as well. Only high-level authorities in Iran, such as its paramilitary Revolutionary Guard, could circumvent normal procedures at the port.
