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My father's death showed me how hard it is for men to open up. I started a men's walking group to help us connect.
Jonathan Jacobs, 35, moved to Los Angeles from New York during the pandemic. He wanted more local friends in the sprawling city. He started a men's walking group to build his community and help other men meet each other. This as-told-to story is based on a conversation with Jonathan Jacobs, a marketer, writer, and community organizer who founded the LA chapter of Men Walking, Men Talking. The following has been edited for length and clarity. I moved from New York City to Los Angeles in the middle of the pandemic — not exactly the best time to make friends. It took me a year to make lasting connections with people, and four years to slowly build my social circle through my running club, professional industry, and friends of friends. Still, I wanted a greater sense of local community, especially with other men. In the summer of 2020, right before I moved to LA, my father passed away. On his deathbed, I learned he was an alcoholic — a secret he'd kept from me for 31 years. Because he was in a coma for two weeks before he died, I was never able to confront him about it. The experience made me realize how few, if any, intimate relationships he must have had. It also made me passionate about creating spaces where men could be more open with each other. Through my work, I met Mark Greene, who founded Men Walking, Men Talking, an NYC-based men's walking group. He suggested I lead my own. So, in 2025, I started the LA chapter. In January, I posted a short description on an LA-based Reddit page describing how I envisioned the group. The rules were simple: what was said in the group would be private, and we wouldn't talk about politics or religion so as not to isolate anyone. I added my email. About 60 men said they were interested. Seven of us showed up that first time. It was a bit awkward at first. I grappled with the idea of icebreakers to get through that initial silence. But I wanted men to explore why it was hard to be the first one to speak up. Slowly, we started to chat, letting our craving for connection lead the way. As we've done more of our bi-monthly Sunday walks, the group has grown. Over 100 men have reached out to me, with up to 17 showing up at one time. Due to the demand, we've also started experimenting with "pop-up walks" in the middle of the week. We're a mix of married and divorced men, single fathers and childfree husbands, in our 20s through our 60s. Half of the group is made up of men who keep coming back. Research shows that men prefer activities where they're side-by-side rather than facing each other. At the same time, some activities can make it harder to have meaningful conversations because the focus is on playing a game or watching a movie. Walking invited men to talk to each other, while also making the gathering as low-stakes and accessible as possible. This is especially crucial in LA: you can spend the night sitting in traffic and searching for parking, all for a hangout they're not sure will be fun. For men who are already on the fence about showing up, a long commute pretty much guarantees they won't come. Men who come to the walks repeatedly tell me that the low barrier to entry — no need to sign up or pay a fee to join — makes it easier for them to commit. For men who have trouble putting themselves out there to begin with, it gives them peace of mind that they don't have to stay the whole time or show up every week to feel like part of the group. One man recently showed up and was walking by himself. I came over to him and started breaking him open — he had some bad friendship experiences in the past and was trepidatious about making new connections. I'm glad he could come to the walk, even if it may have made him nervous at first. Throughout my dad's life, really negative manifestations of masculinity, like not asking for help, affected our relationship. What's nice about the group is how quickly such a simple activity can morph into a meaningful bond, especially amid so many stories of male loneliness in the US. I still remember our second walk ever, right after my girlfriend had a health scare. Opening up to other men wasn't just cathartic; I also learned some had gone through similar situations. I've seen men break off after our hour-long walk to continue walking or to grab a beer somewhere. Sometimes, if only one other man shows up that day, he and I will just walk together, two strangers opening up to each other. I still talk to men who are interested but wary about attending their first walk; they're not sure if they'd fit in. More than anything, I wish every man who feels that way would know he's not alone. There's a group who'd love to talk to him. He just has to show up. Read the original article on Business Insider
Business Insider
2 days ago
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- Business Insider
My father's death showed me how hard it is for men to open up. I started a men's walking group to help us connect.
Jonathan Jacobs, 35, moved to Los Angeles from New York during the pandemic. He wanted more local friends in the sprawling city. He started a men's walking group to build his community and help other men meet each other. This as-told-to story is based on a conversation with Jonathan Jacobs, a marketer, writer, and community organizer who founded the LA chapter of Men Walking, Men Talking. The following has been edited for length and clarity. I moved from New York City to Los Angeles in the middle of the pandemic — not exactly the best time to make friends. It took me a year to make lasting connections with people, and four years to slowly build my social circle through my running club, professional industry, and friends of friends. Still, I wanted a greater sense of local community, especially with other men. In the summer of 2020, right before I moved to LA, my father passed away. On his deathbed, I learned he was an alcoholic — a secret he'd kept from me for 31 years. Because he was in a coma for two weeks before he died, I was never able to confront him about it. The experience made me realize how few, if any, intimate relationships he must have had. It also made me passionate about creating spaces where men could be more open with each other. Through my work, I met Mark Greene, who founded Men Walking, Men Talking, an NYC-based men's walking group. He suggested I lead my own. So, in 2025, I started the LA chapter. Craving connection In January, I posted a short description on an LA-based Reddit page describing how I envisioned the group. The rules were simple: what was said in the group would be private, and we wouldn't talk about politics or religion so as not to isolate anyone. I added my email. About 60 men said they were interested. Seven of usshowed up that first time. It was a bit awkward at first. I grappled with the idea of icebreakers to get through that initial silence. But I wanted men to explore why it was hard to be the first one to speak up. Slowly, we started to chat, letting our craving for connection lead the way. As we've done more of our bi-monthly Sunday walks, the group has grown. Over 100 men have reached out to me, with up to 17 showing up at one time. Due to the demand, we've also started experimenting with "pop-up walks" in the middle of the week. We're a mix of married and divorced men, single fathers and childfree husbands, in our 20s through our 60s. Half of the group is made up of men who keep coming back. Men need low-stakes ways to hang out Research shows that men prefer activities where they're side-by-side rather than facing each other. At the same time, some activities can make it harder to have meaningful conversations because the focus is on playing a game or watching a movie. Walking invited men to talk to each other, while also making the gathering as low-stakes and accessible as possible. This is especially crucial in LA: you can spend the night sitting in traffic and searching for parking, all for a hangout they're not sure will be fun. For men who are already on the fence about showing up, a long commute pretty much guarantees they won't come. Men who come to the walks repeatedly tell me that the low barrier to entry — no need to sign up or pay a fee to join — makes it easier for them to commit. For men who have trouble putting themselves out there to begin with, it gives them peace of mind that they don't have to stay the whole time or show up every week to feel like part of the group. One man recently showed up and was walking by himself. I came over to him and started breaking him open — he had some bad friendship experiences in the past and was trepidatious about making new connections. I'm glad he could come to the walk, even if it may have made him nervous at first. Leaning on each other in small, important ways Throughout my dad's life, really negative manifestations of masculinity, like not asking for help, affected our relationship. What's nice about the group is how quickly such a simple activity can morph into a meaningful bond, especially amid so many stories of male loneliness in the US. I still remember our second walk ever, right after my girlfriend had a health scare. Opening up to other men wasn't just cathartic; I also learned some had gone through similar situations. I've seen men break off after our hour-long walk to continue walking or to grab a beer somewhere. Sometimes, if only one other man shows up that day, he and I will just walk together, two strangers opening up to each other. I still talk to men who are interested but wary about attending their first walk; they're not sure if they'd fit in. More than anything, I wish every man who feels that way would know he's not alone. There's a group who'd love to talk to him. He just has to show up.
Associated Press
21-03-2025
- Climate
- Associated Press
Water Mission Responds to Hurricane Helene With Support From FedEx
On September 26, 2024, Hurricane Helene tore through the southeastern United States, leaving destruction in its wake. The Category 4 storm claimed more than 215 lives, making it one of the deadliest storms in the U.S. this century, and left more than 2 million people grappling with power outages and drinking water shortages. North Carolina was hit the hardest, as the hurricane set the record for the worst flooding in the state's history. Entire communities were uprooted, and critical infrastructure was destroyed, damages that are still impacting the people of western North Carolina today. Mark Greene, a resident of western North Carolina, was severely impacted by Helene. His home lost power, which affected his wife, who needs electricity to power her oxygen tank. 'I've been through a lot of storms, and this is the worst one I've ever seen,' said Mark Greene, a resident of western North Carolina, in October 2024. 'My wife is on oxygen 24/7…and we went through all of her reserve oxygen tanks .... She's been in the hospital ever since.' Water Mission, a Christian engineering nonprofit, rushed aid to western North Carolina. The disaster response team was on the ground the day after the storm hit, immediately seeking opportunities to partner with the local community to meet needs. The response started in Boone and then expanded to Asheville and its surrounding areas. Thanks to support from the FedEx Cares Delivering for Good program, Water Mission shipped generators to North Carolina to begin distributing to people in need. Water Mission distributed 1,100 generators to individuals and families, serving more than 3,000 people, including Greene and his wife. 'I just really appreciate the fact that you guys are here to help,' Greene said. 'This generator is going to help power my home so I can get my wife back home and comfortable.' Along with helping people have restored power, Water Mission's disaster response team brought safe drinking water to those for whom the safety of their well water had been compromised. Over the course of the response, Water Mission distributed 124,000 emergency water purification packets and installed 19 safe water treatment systems at schools, churches, and community centers. The water systems provided more than 457,000 gallons of safe drinking water for people in need. The safe water systems installed in three Asheville-area schools met the needs of 3,000 students, allowing them to return to school after weeks of being away. 'The entire Asheville City Schools community is beyond grateful to Water Mission for their support in helping us reopen schools after Helene devastated the city's municipal water system,' said Maggie Fehrman, the superintendent of Asheville City Schools. The collaboration with FedEx enabled Water Mission to bring generators and provide safe water for people across western North Carolina, serving more than 112,000 men, women, and children who were impacted by Hurricane Helene. in recognition of World Water Day, March 22, 2025. Photos provided by Water Mission.
