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Yahoo
4 days ago
- Yahoo
St. George to crack down on off-highway vehicles after fatal crash kills 9-year-old boy
ST. GEORGE, Utah () — After last month, law enforcement officials said they will start cracking down on the use of off-highway vehicles (OHV) on city streets. Earlier this week, the St. George Police Department saying they were starting a focused enforcement. From neighborhood roads to school zones, police are saying they are seeing more kids and teens riding in places that they shouldn't be. Sgt. Jeremy Needle told ABC4 these vehicles can reach freeway speeds, and officers are seeing them being driven recklessly. After four years of education and awareness for the safe use of OHVs, it was time to start cracking down. 'Now, we're at a point where we will start impounding and issuing citations not only to the juveniles but also to the parents who are allowing this,' Sgt. Jeremy Needles said. Carp chaos at Utah Lake as carp overpopulation becomes serious problem Several laws surround OHVs in St. George. For starters, OHVs, including electric motorcycles, are not allowed on any city streets, trails or sidewalks. Other laws include: Unlicensed individuals under the age of 18 must have direct supervision from an adult within 300 feet. All drivers must have an OHV Education Certificate from the State to operate an OHV. All OHVs must be registered with the DMV. Sgt. Needle said that while some parents may not be aware of the laws when it comes to using an OHV, he said ignorance isn't a defense. 'The first thing that a parent should do when they buy these types of devices is know the law,' said Needle. 'It's your responsibility as a parent to know the laws that are applicable to the devices you're buying. If you don't know those and you just let your kid go out and ride these things, you could get in trouble. Not to mention, it could cost your child's life.' Just last month, a 9-year-old boy was riding a scooter through his St. George neighborhood when . The 9-year-old was airlifted to a Las Vegas hospital in critical condition but later died from his injuries. Brigham City Peach Days vendors now free to sell beverages, Coca-Cola partnership is ended So, at the end of the day, St. George Police said cracking down on golf carts is not about ruining anyone's fun – it's about keeping everyone safe. 'Safety is paramount to us, and we don't have to tell any parent their child has passed away because they were improperly riding one of these devices,' said Needle. While St. George begins cracking down on the use of OHVs on its city streets, a city along the Wasatch Front the use of golf carts on residential roads. In early May, the Highland City Council in Utah County voted 4-1 to allow golf carts on 25 mph roads in the city. Similar to St. George, Highland has strict laws surrounding the use of golf carts on city roads, including no driving after dark, and drivers must be at least 18 years of age. St. George to crack down on off-highway vehicles after fatal crash kills 9-year-old boy Musk offers peace signal to Trump after all-out verbal war Scattered showers, thunderstorms for Utah's Friday, toasty weekend to follow Trump and Musk feud explodes in public view Race heats up to replace Connolly on powerful Oversight panel Copyright 2025 Nexstar Media, Inc. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten, or redistributed.
Yahoo
5 days ago
- Entertainment
- Yahoo
‘Stick' Soundtrack: All The Songs You'll Hear In The Apple TV+ Golf Series
Stick tells the story of optimistic ex-professional golfer Pryce Cahill (Owen Wilson), who might be good friends with one Ted Lasso if they ever overlapped in their sports worlds. Hailing from creator Jason Keller, the Apple TV+ series premiered early June with the first three episodes, watching Pryce reluctantly let his ex-wife Amber Linn (Judy Greer) sell their former house before he decides to bet on teen Santiago Wheeler, who has the swing of a golf pro, and take him to the big leagues along with his former caddy and friend Mitts (Marc Maron) and Santi's mother Elena (Mariana Treviño). More from Deadline 'Stick' Release Guide: When Do New Episodes Come Out? 'Stick' Star Owen Wilson And Creator Jason Keller On Show's Exploration Of Mentorship And Found Family: 'There Isn't A Foolproof Guidebook To Bring Out The Best In Someone' 'Before' Co-Star Judith Light Talks Teaming Up With Long Time Friend Billy Crystal For Apple TV+ Psychological Thriller Needle drops support Pryce's positive thinking throughout the show, thought there are more series moments too. Find the full soundtrack of Apple's Stick below: Episode 1 – 'Pilot' 'Pass the Hat' by Eddie 'Lockjaw' Davis 'Rag and Bone' by The White Stripes 'La Grange' by ZZ Top 'Strangers Room' by Graham Nash & David Crosby Episode 2 – 'Grossweiner's Law' '20th Century Boy' by T. Rex 'Hopeless' by Rosali 'Bad Thing' by King Tuff 'My Sharona' by The Knack 'The Boys Are Back In Town' by Thin Lizzy Episode 3 – 'Daddy Issues' 'Baba O'Riley' From the Pickin' On Series 'See It Through' by The Cactus Blossoms 'El Eye Em Eh' by Ural Thomas And the Pain 'Baba O'Reily' by The Who 'Brainwashed' by The Kinks' Best of Deadline 'Nine Perfect Strangers' Season 2 Release Schedule: When Do New Episodes Come Out? 'Stick' Release Guide: When Do New Episodes Come Out? List Of Hollywood & Media Layoffs From Paramount To Warner Bros Discovery To CNN & More
CNN
03-05-2025
- Health
- CNN
Are you experiencing relationship burnout?
Do you walk around resenting your partner? Do you dread coming home from work as much as, if not more than, going to work? Are you too tired for date night, much less the sex that might follow? When you think of the future, does it feel like it's just going to be more of the same? Those can all be signs of relationship burnout, and it's possible you've got it. Most therapists deal with patients who are either burned out or burning out: exhausted, stressed, feeling cynical and even indifferent. As a couples therapist, I'm increasingly seeing clients who are experiencing relationship burnout. These couples are similarly stressed out and exhausted with all the demands at home, but they also resent their partners, feel a sense of growing incompatibility, only see a future where nothing is going to change or have stopped believing in the future with their partner. When I talk to couples, many don't understand that they can get burned out from their relationships the same as they can from their jobs. And just as you can recover from burnout in your job, you can also recover from it in your relationship — or move on from a situation that's no longer healthy for you. I consulted some colleagues for their insight into the causes of relationship burnout — and how couples can address it. Intimate relationships need care and feeding, just like friendships do. 'Relationship burnout is a state of emotional exhaustion that develops when the pressures and demands of maintaining a relationship outweigh the resources and support available to nurture it,' Rachel Needle, a licensed psychologist and codirector of Modern Sex Therapy Institutes, told me. Burnout doesn't just affect couples emotionally. It can also have a profound impact on sex and intimacy, said New York City-based psychotherapist Eva Dillon: 'When one or both individuals are experiencing emotional or mental exhaustion, it often leads to emotional withdrawal, decreased libido, and a decline in both intimacy and sexual activity.' Several factors can contribute to relationship burnout, from an unequal division of labor at home (one partner has more household responsibilities), lack of work-life balance (one or both partners feel burned out at work), family stressors (conflicts with parents or in-laws), lack of growth as a couple (falling into repetitive routines) and boredom (sexually or emotionally). 'It doesn't usually come from a single rupture or acute crisis,' said Needle, who is based in West Palm Beach, Florida. 'It's the slow accumulation and gradual wear and tear of unmet needs, unresolved conflicts, chronic stressors, and ongoing disconnection.' Here, Needle, Dillon and other experts offer advice for couples to cope with burnout and reenergize their relationship. Recognizing that the relationship has gotten to a state of burnout is the first step, according to sexologist and sex educator Yvonne Kristin Fulbright — who said the key is to do so without blaming or criticizing each other. 'Own your statements by saying, 'I've noticed' or 'I feel' and ask how your partner has been feeling about things,' said Fulbright, who is based in Iceland. 'Have an honest heart-to-heart about the stressors and frustrations so that each person has a chance to share without interruption.' Part of burnout can include blaming each other and not being accountable for the state of things. 'With relationship burnout, partners often think the solution is for their partner to change,' said Eric Rosenblum, a licensed marriage and family therapist in New York City. 'But the best way through is to consider your own role in the dynamic and reflect on how you can personally transform to help the relationship evolve.' Some of this work can even happen on your own, without your partner, said New York City sex therapist Rebecca Sokoll. 'Try writing down the moments when your negative feelings or thoughts are pointing at your partner,' Sokoll said by email. 'Next, see if you can turn your gaze to the other side of the concern, which is your contribution, how you've collaborated with your partner in co-creating the problem. Write this down too. You don't have to show it to anybody — just see how it feels to write it down.' Burnout often worsens because couples ignore issues until they feel overwhelmed. Set aside some time each week to check in with your partner. 'Have a two-way conversation about your desire to improve the relationship where you can both have input,' Sokoll suggested. 'Listen to each other's needs and look for small changes you can both agree on. This shouldn't be a one-time conversation, but an ongoing one.' The prospect of discussing serious issues can feel stressful, but communication can help you feel more relaxed, according to Dillon. 'Sharing with your partner that you are struggling can help regulate the nervous system and create an opening for connection,' she said. 'From there, you can engage in small but powerful acts that further soothe the nervous system: a six-second kiss, an extended embrace, a walk outdoors, cuddling, reading aloud or sexual intimacy.' Prioritizing couple time is crucial for preventing burnout. Protect this time and schedule it just as you would an important appointment or work meeting. Needle recommends focusing on novel experiences — such as trying a new class together, going on a hike or even just cooking a new recipe — to reignite connection and excitement. Novelty and playfulness can also help you connect in a way that doesn't feel like work, Sokoll said. 'Put your phones in another room with the ringers off and play a game or do something silly together,' she said. And there's a bonus: 'The playful self is often connected to the sexual self, so this can help burned-out couples reconnect sexually, too.' When you share your life with your partner — financially, as parents, as roommates — it can be easy to miss out on alone time and self-reflection, both of which are necessary to protect against burnout. 'At the end of the day, you need to deal with individual burnout to help address relationship burnout,' Fulbright said. Consider ways to rejuvenate yourself independently — a workout routine, quality sleep, yoga, meditation, hobbies — and encourage each other in your self-care efforts. 'In revitalizing yourself, you'll cultivate the energy needed to take on relationship matters.' When it comes to addressing your relationship, you don't have to go it alone. Seeking professional help with a couples therapist or sex therapist can provide strategies to manage burnout and reconnect emotionally and sexually, especially if you feel you need a neutral party or mediator to guide you through the process. There's no need to wait: 'Working with a therapist when burnout first appears can help reset dynamics before deeper damage occurs,' Needle said. Addressing burnout is crucial for maintaining a healthy and fulfilling relationship — and it's about moving from patterns of disconnection to patterns of intentional reconnection. By recognizing the signs and taking proactive steps, couples can work toward restoring intimacy and connection.
Buzz Feed
16-03-2025
- Business
- Buzz Feed
10 Red Flags To Be Wary Of In A Potential Partner, Because Looks Aren't Everything
It's natural to be on alert for 'red flags' as you navigate the world of dating. From overt trust issues to weird relationships with exes, warning signs can come in many forms, but perhaps one of the most important categories is financial. 'Money is one of the biggest sources of conflict in relationships and is one of the most difficult topics to discuss for many,' Rachel Needle, a licensed psychologist and the co-director of Modern Sex Therapy Institutes, told HuffPost. 'The topic of money brings up a host of deeper issues and thus is not always about just the money.' Indeed, multiple studies have indicated that financial issues are a leading cause of divorce in the US, along with things like infidelity and basic incompatibility. 'So, looking for financial red flags early in a dating relationship is important and can possibly save you a lot of angst in the future,' Needle said. 'Not all red flags are reasons not to move forward or to end a relationship, but they are things to communicate about and to consider in your decision making.' Although money red flags can vary from person to person and relationship to relationship, some are more common or concerning. Below, relationship and money experts break down 10 examples. They're not willing to talk openly about finances 'The biggest flag that comes to mind for me is someone not willing to talk openly about their finances, especially if they're asked, or feeling like the other person is hiding something,' said Nicole Carson, a financial planner at Brunch & Budget. Take note if the person isn't open to engaging with your questions about important topics like student debt or credit use. The topic of money inevitably arises as you get close to someone, so there should be some degree of openness. Talk about expectations around paying for dates, the things you feel OK splurging on, and how you save money. 'It is completely appropriate during the dating phase to inquire about a person's financial status and goals, at an appropriate timeline,' said Liz Higgins, a relational therapist and founder of Millennial Life Counseling. 'Meaning, you may not ask about these details on the first date, but after some months of dating and if the relationship seems to be heading in a more serious direction (or you hope it will), at that point it becomes appropriate to inquire a little more about a person's state of financial health. When this is met with closed-off responses or an unwillingness to dialogue, I would absolutely consider this a red flag.' They use money to control you 'A true red flag is anyone who tries to use money to manipulate you,' said Damona Hoffman, a dating coach and host of the Dates & Mates Podcast. 'If a potential partner makes you feel bad about money or holds what they've spent on you over your head for any reason, that's a huge red flag.' Beware of anyone who tries to guilt you into paying for things or asks to borrow large sums of money, too. 'Is your date asking for expensive gifts or expensive trips?' asked finance coach Tatiana Tsoir. 'If they are, maybe they think you're loaded, and it's time to have a conversation!' They make you feel ashamed about your financial situation 'If someone you're dating makes you feel ashamed or embarrassed about your own financial situation, that's a red flag,' Carson said. 'This topic should be a no-shame zone when it comes to dating.' Not everyone has the luxury of earning a six-figure salary (or more), so if someone is making you feel inadequate about your paycheck or scant savings, they're probably not worth your time. A good partner should be understanding and offer encouragement as you set financial goals, even if you don't always meet them. They're overly flashy 'Another red flag is when someone is living a publicly lavish lifestyle and it almost feels like they're in it to impress,' Tsoir said. 'Sometimes it's true wealth, but more often than not this is just smoke screen.' Tsoir advised paying attention to how your date talks about and makes money-related decisions. 'Do they offer a more money-savvy option and explain it, or do they just pay for everything to impress you?' she asked. 'I would be wary of the 'impress' part. It could not only mean they're reckless with spending, but also they're most likely not serious about a potential relationship and just want a fling.' Psychotherapist Noorhayati Said similarly recommended taking note of their lifestyle preferences ― whether they only eat at expensive restaurants or mix it up with a casual slice of pizza, if they only wear trendy designer clothes or also shop for more reasonably priced pieces, and how much they spend on vacations. 'If their job description and salary don't add up to his lifestyle, it's not difficult to discover whether they are living beyond their means or paycheck to paycheck,' Said noted. They don't tip 'If they are frugal in situations where you believe they should be more generous, pay attention to that,' Hoffman said. Many people use 'the waiter rule' to evaluate potential partners. The idea is simple ― you can tell a lot about someone by the way they treat service workers. And tipping plays a big part in that. 'A client recently told me that she went out on a lavish date with someone, but when they rode in a taxi to their next location, she could see on the payment screen that he entered an embarrassingly low tip of less than a dollar for a professional and efficient driver,' Hoffman said. 'I confirmed her suspicions that it said something about his character that he would fork out lots of money for someone he was trying to impress, but devalue someone in the service industry who he thought he'd never see again. They didn't have another date after that.' There's no clarity around their career or finance goals 'Many people ask in their early dates, 'What are your goals?' or 'Where do you see yourself in five years?'' Carson said. 'Those questions are trying to understand if your potential partner has a plan for their future and how you could potentially fit in. Those questions are trying to understand if they have a plan for employment, housing, and views on family dynamics.' A potential red flag is if they have no clarity around their career and financial goals, as this makes it difficult to understand if you're compatible in this realm. 'Asking them how they like to spend their free time, their passions and goals in life will tell you a lot about how they spend their money and what they want to accomplish,' Said explained. 'This will clue you in on what's important to them. How we spend shows what we value. Ultimately, it's not about how much money they make, but gaining clarity on their relationship to money.' If they can't provide any insight into their needs and goals, you won't know if you have shared values and can make important decisions together. They have debt problems Having debt is not itself a red flag, but the way someone handles it might be. On a recent episode of Hoffman's podcast, money expert Nicole Lapin broke down the notion of 'good' and 'bad' types of debt. 'Someone having a mortgage on a property or student loans isn't the same as credit card debt,' Hoffman explained. 'When you marry someone, they assume your debt and vice versa, so you have to be aware of their financial situation if things get serious. I wouldn't call it a red flag for early dating, but definitely something to discuss before the relationship progresses.' Consider the type of debt, whether they have a plan to pay it off and how effectively they can stick with it. 'A red flag is if they are borrowing money to make ends meet,' Carson said. 'This could mean that they are overextended on their credit or don't manage their money well. It would be important to understand if this a short-term cash flow issue or a signal to a larger issue.' They lie about money 'A healthy relationship is built in part on shared values with money touching a lot of these values,' Said noted. 'Lying about your finances can and will ultimately strain your relationship and cause you to lose trust in your partner.' The urge to hide or ignore money problems is understandable, but it's crucial for partners to be honest about finances. Secrets and lies will only drive you apart and potentially lead to even worse financial issues. 'The money discussion can bring up a lot of feelings, inadequacy, resentment, and feelings about dependence,' Said explained. 'Fears of judgment or embarrassment can also come up, especially if your money situation is less than ideal. It's important to treat these feelings as valid, and something that you can acknowledge and process as a couple.' You can't get on the same page 'Even just having different ideas of how to spend money can be challenging in a relationship,' Needle said. Some couples may have different financial priorities, for example, with one partner prioritizing saving for vacations and big-ticket items, while the other prefers spending more on a casual night out. 'It is important to be on the same page about what you want to spend money on and what your financial priorities are,' Needle added. 'Communicating about money and finding a middle ground you are both comfortable with will help lower anxiety and distress in a relationship.' The first step to determining if you can find financial compatibility is to look inward and understand your own goals and priorities. 'Start with self-awareness,' Tsoir said. 'How are you at managing money? Are you aware of how you spend money? Do you buy on impulse? Do you have huge credit card debt you now have to pay for? How can you stop yourself from doing that in the future, and how do you create a plan to pay this off and start fresh? Are you willing to take responsibility for your own finances?' Then, consider what you're looking for from a partner in the financial arena. Think about needs and nonnegotiables, as well as wants and areas for compromise. 'Does this mean you want full transparency from a partner and open books and shared bank accounts?' Higgins asked. 'Or, do you simply want to be able to dialogue about your prospective financial states and work toward identified shared financial goals as a couple? There is no wrong or right way. The key is to walk into this part of a serious relationship with clarity about what you want, and the ability to stand in that truth while you tune in to what the other shares is their hope or preference.' You don't have to see eye to eye on everything, but being able to reach a compromise is crucial. Carson recommends setting up 'money dates' to see if you can get on the same page and lay the groundwork for bigger financial conversations later. 'This is meeting with your significant other for at least 15 minutes a month, or as often as you both agree on, to discuss your finances,' Carson said. 'This is generally to ask some general questions such as: What did we spend this month? Did it align with our budget? Did it align with our shared goals? If not, is there anything we should change or do differently? These money dates keep lines of communication open about money, couples goals, and what they value.' They're inflexible 'Take note if the person is inflexible about how the financials during dating will be handled,' Higgins said. 'For example, they might operate on extremes versus more flexible boundaries around who will pay for things, or not asking about your preferences around that. They may not ask at all. They may be firm on paying for everything, or never offering to pay for anything.' As relationships have become more reciprocal in recent years, Higgins believes a major red flag would be a lack of openness to consider or discuss a partner's needs and wants. A lack of willingness to learn and grow in the personal finance realm is a big issue. 'Can you determine if your date has made poor financial decisions in the past?' Tsoir said. 'Look for verbal cues, like dark humor about a decision made in the past, inquire so that you see if they've learned their lessons and know better ― or not.'
