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'My children are too anxious for school - please help me get them educated'
'My children are too anxious for school - please help me get them educated'

Yahoo

time4 days ago

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'My children are too anxious for school - please help me get them educated'

A woman whose children have been off school for a long period due to acute anxiety has pleaded for help to get them back into full-time education. Beverly Craig said her son Casey, 14, and 12-year-old daughter Autumn "go into meltdown" anytime they go near school so they have been off for months on end. One leading mental health consultant said "school-based anxiety" is "off the Richter scale" in Northern Ireland after BBC News NI learned that thousands of children had missed more than a tenth of school days in the current academic year. The Department of Education (DE) said increasing pupil attendance was an "ongoing challenge" and "not unique to Northern Ireland". The Children's Commissioner Chris Quinn is so concerned about the high levels of "emotionally based school avoidance" that he has instructed his officials to investigate the phenomenon. Some of the main causes cited are anxiety, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), autism and bullying, either physical or online. One politician alone, the SDLP assembly member Cara Hunter, said she is in touch with 200 families across Northern Ireland who have children who will not attend class. More than 4,000 pupils with the very highest rates of absenteeism are currently referred to specialists for help but it is unclear how many of these are linked to "emotionally based school avoidance". Ms Craig said Casey has not been at school since Easter of last year and Autumn has been off since September. Both are enrolled at Laurel Hill Community College in Lisburn. The 44-year-old single mother said they find the secondary school environment "overwhelming". "It ranges from not being able to eat, not being able to sleep, having just a complete meltdown trying to get through the doors, crying," she said. "Didn't want to get out of bed, didn't want to get dressed, didn't want to get in the car - you had these four or five challenges even before you've got to the school doors, and then teachers are expecting them just to walk in and continue with their day as normal." She said offers of reduced timetables or "time-out" passes, whilst well-intentioned, actually made her children feel worse. "I just feel like the secondary school setting is not suitable for every child and, unfortunately, the alternative to the secondary school doesn't exist," Ms Craig said. "We're not in 1925 anymore, we're in 2025 and the school system has not changed." She said education authorities need to offer more help to people like her and her children. Ms Craig is now paying out of her own pocket to get them schooled in English and mathematics in a private setting. "It's not that they don't want to learn," she said. "Both of them are very intelligent and they're willing to learn, but they're willing to learn in the right settings, just not a big school." Omagh-based mental health consultant Bronagh Starrs believes Northern Ireland is facing an "epidemic" of school-based anxiety. She said many of these children are academically capable and want to go to school, but cannot. "They just have catastrophic levels of fear around going to school, they just think of the worst possible scenarios." She added: "The difference between truancy and this phenomenon is that parents are usually aware, or very aware, of the issue and are actively trying to help the young person. "These kids have genuine psychological struggles to attend school." She said schoolchildren had become "entrenched" during the Covid-19 pandemic and associated lockdowns, when they had to stay at home, and then struggled when schools opened up again. Ms Starrs said the issue is now "off the Richter scale in terms of the extent of this phenomenon in every school". SDLP assembly member Cara Hunter described it as the biggest issue she has dealt with since being elected to Stormont five years ago. She said a lot of young people are waiting on an autism or ADHD assessment and feel the school environment is "anxiety-inducing". It was also very distressing for parents who "don't know where to go for guidance", she added. "I've spoken with a number of parents who've actually had to leave their job because their child is not attending school, so it's a massive issue across Northern Ireland. "We have a big problem here." Hunter also accused education authorities of "failing quite a large number of children" because they have not recognised the severity of the problem. Of the 4,120 children referred to the Education and Welfare Service, more than a third are currently on a waiting list, the Education Authority (EA) confirmed. Children's Commissioner Chris Quinn said the high rates of "school avoidance" - and understanding why so many children are involved - are "a top priority" for his office. He said they were "exploring issues related to anxiety-based school avoidance, impact of poverty, ill health, long-term impact of Covid-19 and bullying". "We need to understand why these children and young people are not returning to school and explore whether their support needs are being met," he added. "Additionally, with fewer educational psychologists in schools and the increasing impact of mental health issues, particularly since Covid, we must do more to support children and young people's wellbeing." The Education and Welfare Service (EWS) currently receives an average of 300 referrals every month from schools about children who are not attending class, although the causes can range from emotional-based school avoidance to physical health, domestic abuse and drug and alcohol issues. From 2019 to May 2025, nearly 500 parents or guardians were prosecuted by the Education Authority for keeping their children from school without a valid excuse. Previous figures from the Department of Education (DE) show there was a significant rise in school absences after the Coronavirus pandemic and lockdowns. The DE said it recognised that "attitudes towards regular school attendance have changed since the Covid-19 pandemic and that some children and young people face challenges that make regular attendance at school difficult". Officials said regular attendances had actually improved in the last three years and help was available through emotional health and wellbeing programmes. If you have been affected by any of the issues raised in this article, information about help and support is available via BBC Action Line. 'I was crying, screaming and shouting in the car'

Death In The Afternoon: How a young soldier met his fate on the pitch 100 years ago today
Death In The Afternoon: How a young soldier met his fate on the pitch 100 years ago today

The 42

time30-04-2025

  • Sport
  • The 42

Death In The Afternoon: How a young soldier met his fate on the pitch 100 years ago today

WHEN YOU PIECE it all together, the story of Hugh O'Doherty pulls in all the threads that bound together the aspects of rebellion, the War of Independence, the formation of the Irish Free State and a National Army, and the fledging GAA as a cultural and sporting body. Just over a century ago, O'Doherty was three days short of his 23rd birthday and despite his relative youth had lived through much already. In this latest guise of his life, he was a soldier of the Irish Army, based in Finner camp outside Ballyshannon, Co Donegal. 'Young Doherty came to Finner camp with the first detachment of the National Army immediately after mobilisation,' noted a Ballyshannon correspondent in the Omagh-based newspaper, 'The Ulster Herald.' 'With his comrades, as well as the people of Ballyshannon and Bundoran – indeed all over Tír Chonaill, where he was known as a clean and gentlemanly footballer – he was extremely popular,' the account continued. 'Of a cheery disposition he always saw the bright side of things. A true sportsman, a win or defeat on the football pitch was all the same – he accepted either in the proper sporting spirit. He was looked upon as one of the best footballers in Co Donegal.' Playing for Ballyshannon against Dunfanaghy was a typical afternoon for him. But the later evidence to an inquest at the Sheil Hospital of Sergeant James Campbell, of An Garda Siochana Ballyshannon, who attended the match as a spectator, showed how the day soon turned catastrophic. After 20 minutes the ball was kicked towards the Dunfanaghy goals. Doherty, playing for Ballyshannon, positioned himself under the ball at the same time as the Dunfanaghy goalkeeper, Hugh McGinley. In the evidence, McGinley was said to have jumped higher and while both men were in the air, the goalkeeper's knee caught O'Doherty in the stomach. He fell on his back, his head striking the ground. After some time spent collecting himself, he walked off the pitch unassisted. Some time after, Patrick Kennedy from Ballyshannon walked past O'Doherty who was kneeling on his knees behind the goal and asked him was he badly hurt. - 'I'm done,' came the wounded response. Kennedy suggested he was merely winded and offered some first aid. O'Doherty asked if he could get a drink and with the help of another boy, Kennedy brought him across the railway line in search of a tap. Halfway there, O'Doherty collapsed, remarking he could go no further. Advertisement A newspaper report of the match in which Hugh O'Doherty lost his life. He was lifted and brought to the railway platform and access to a water tap. They then conveyed O'Doherty into a Mr Cowley's motor that brought him to the home of a Dr J D Gordon. Dr Gordon's evidence was that the victim was at the time suffering from a great deal of abdominal pain. He administered one-eighth of a gram of morphia and sent him to the Shiel Hospital. Later that evening, Dr Gordon called at the hospital and O'Doherty was more stable. On Monday morning at 10am, Dr Kelly and Dr Donovan of Finner Camp consulted with O'Doherty and his condition appeared to be improving, but would soon deteriorate. At 5pm it was decided to operate. They discovered a large rupture on the upper part of his small intestine, while there was a good deal of intestinal contents in his abdominal cavity. Naturally, this was seriously alarming. Around 45 minutes into the operation, he died. Dr Kelly believed this to be due to shock and peritonitis, with a sudden blow capable of inflicting the damage, with Dr O'Donovan corroborating. Rev E O'Harte, Finner Camp, stated he refereed the game. He gave his sequence of events, and how a crowd had gathered around the stricken player on the turf, before being instructed to disperse. He told the coroner O'Doherty made no complaint about being struck by any other player. The jury returned a verdict that Hugh O'Doherty came to his death according to the medical evidence from shock and peritonitis due to the rupture of his bowels. The coroner, PJ O'Dolan of Dunfanaghy, Mr J Norton of Ballyshannon GAA, all expressed sympathy with the relatives of the deceased on his sad bereavement. After the inquest at 10pm on the Tuesday night, the remains were conveyed from Hospital to the Finner Camp with military honours. The coffin, mounted on a gun carriage and covered with a tricolour while a company of his comrades marched behind with arms reversed. An enormous crowd of Ballyshannon people turned out. Mass was on the Wednesday at camp. The remains were brought to Omagh, where they were met by a large crowd of people. The coffin, still shrouded with the tricolour, was borne on the shoulders of his acquaintances and brought to his parent's home in Kevlin Road, where Hugh O'Doherty senior and his wife Bella lived. On Thursday, Requim Mass took place in the Sacred Heart, celebrated by Fr Lagan. Members of the Free State army accompanied the remains and acted as pall-bearers. Wreaths were sent from a wide and varied collection of bodies such as the Irish National Forresters, St Eugene's Brass and Reed band, the committee and members of St Patrick's Hall, Omagh, Dunfanaghy and Aodh Ruadh Ballyshannon clubs, Ballyshannon United soccer club and the Omagh Motorman's Association, reflective of a man who spread himself across many diversions. However, trouble arrived prior to the funeral. On the Wednesday night, it was reported that two RUC men went to the house of Hugh O'Doherty senior and gave warning that the flag of the Irish tricolour would not be permitted to fly the following day. O'Doherty then pointed out that funeral arrangements would be the business of the Free State Army and brought two of the officers to the door, who had accompanied the remains. One of the policemen said, 'It is a scandal to carry that flag through the streets of Omagh.' A Free State officer asked if the Free State flag was not recognised in the six counties and received an answer, 'We know nothing about you fellows. Remember you are in the six counties now.' After some more discussion and rancour the RUC men left, vowing to remove by force any Irish tricolours should they appear on the day of the funeral. However, one of the policemen returned later that day and said that the flag could be displayed at the funeral. A little further digging into the story revealed that Hugh, along with his brother Jim, had to get out of Omagh some years earlier, owing to their subversive activities. After receiving a tip-off about an impending arrest, they made across the border. In 1941, his mother, Bella, was sent a medal in recognition for his contribution to the War of Independence. As he was deceased at the time, his name was engraved on the medal. Some years later, when Hugh Jnr's brother John passed away having lived in Cabra, Dublin, the Ulster Herald newspaper ran an obituary that contained some revealing details. 'The deceased gentleman was a member of an old and respected Catholic family, the members of which had taken an active part in the struggle for Irish Independence. Hugh O'Doherty's medal for his part in the War of Independence. 'The late Mr Doherty served the 2nd Northern Division IRA in the Omagh area until the British agents got to know of his activity when he was forced to go 'on his keeping.' At the same time, his brother Mr Hugh O'Doherty, also of the 2nd Northern Division had to go on the run…' Their escape was a long and arduous one, no doubt, on a horse and cart making their way across the border and into Pettigo in Donegal. When they reached that point, the border patrol stopped them and were attempting to relieve the company of their horse and cart. That was before one of the patrol – who himself came from Omagh – recognised Hugh O'Doherty and after renewing acquaintances, allowed them to continue on their way. His resting place is in Killyclogher graveyard today, his death marked as 100 years ago today. His medals came into the care of his father Hugh and was passed on to his brother Joseph when he passed away. They remained on top of a wardrobe while the children were growing up and are kept safe today, a reminder of a tumultuous time in Irish history. *** Check out the latest episode of The42′s GAA Weekly podcast here

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