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'She is so missed' - tribute paid for Colchester woman who died unexpectedly
A CARING daughter has paid tribute to her 'kind-hearted' mum who died unexpectedly last month amid a fundraiser to give her the 'send-off she deserves'.
Pamela Diver died at her home at the age of 46 in May.
Her daughter, Alishia Diver, 22, from Colchester, says Pamela was found on May 19 and had died unexpectedly, two days after she last visited her on May 17.
Mother and daughter - Pamela Diver and Alishia Diver last year (Image: Alishia Diver) Alishia has paid tribute to her mum, she said: 'She was very outgoing, loud, funny, she was such a kind-hearted person, very bubbly, she would give you anything she could.
'She loved her family, she recently became a nan as I have a five-month-old daughter, she was excited to spend more time with her.
'She was such a good person, so kind-hearted and so loving.
'She is going to be so missed, and I wished she knew how much, I only had my mum, I didn't have a dad.'
Gone but not forgotten - an old image of Pamela Diver (Image: Alishia Diver) Pamela previously lived in Colchester for 18 years and spent time living in Harwich, before moving to Ipswich, Suffolk, in 2011.
A GoFundMe Page has been set up by family friend Lindsay Mullin to help pay for a funeral due to financial pressures.
Alishia has a five-month-old newborn baby and has just moved into new home with her partner and child, she is also on maternity leave.
She said: 'I'm struggling to make ends meat, I'm on maternity leave.
'It will help with the payment of the funeral, we're hoping to get it in place.
Memory - Pamela and Alishia Diver many years ago (Image: Alishia Diver)
Photo - an image of Pamela Diver in her 20s (Image: Alishia Diver) 'Any donations big or small will help, without putting financial pressure on.
'Life hasn't gone the way we have expected, anything donated will go towards giving her the best send-off we can and saying goodbye in the best way she deserves.'
So far £800 of the £3,000 target has been raised.
She said: "I am so appreciative, I didn't expect it to hit off at all, it is such hard times with the cost-of-living crisis, it has been helpful.'
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