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Metro
4 days ago
- Entertainment
- Metro
I'm nearly 70 — it's time to fulfil my biggest sexual fantasy
Welcome to How I Do It, the series in which we give you a seven-day sneak peek into the sex life of a stranger. This week we hear from Leopold*, a 69-year-old former English teacher who lives in Spain. After separating from his partner eight years ago, Leopold has kept his sex life alive with the help of sex workers and masturbation sessions. And despite almost turning 70, he's proving it's never too late to discover a new desire: he wants to find a dominatrix to spank him. 'I've been fascinated by spanking and domination for a long time, but always as the dominant. It suddenly dawned on me that maybe I wanted to be in the submissive role instead,' he explains. 'I've become obsessed with this fantasy and pleasured myself intensely with it for five days straight, without even the need for Viagra, which was a surprise. 'I'm ready to begin a new chapter of sexual exploration.' Without further ado, here's how Leopold got on this week… The following sex diary is, as you might imagine, not safe for work . Love reading juicy stories like this? Need some tips for how to spice things up in the bedroom? Sign up to The Hook-Up and we'll slide into your inbox every week with all the latest sex and dating stories from Metro. We can't wait for you to join us! You'd think I'd be able to find a woman to give me a good thrashing — if not someone I've accidentally irritated, then at least among the professionals. But no. I've been in touch with quite a few sex workers, but many don't reply, and others want money even to just consider my request for a session. I haven't made it easy for myself either, since I'm in Spain but want to be dominated by 'an English gentlewoman'. I've seen my sex worker, Juanita, fairly regularly over the years. She's travelling at the moment though, so today, I'm meeting a woman called Susi. I like to prepare myself, so I shave my penis and balls, and as I have been to the chiropractor in two months, I head to a nail bar nearby for a pedicure. I have the Viagra ready. I take one an hour before the session, and then one 10 minutes before Susi arrives. I think she's leading me into the bedroom, but the language barrier between us becomes apparent as she takes me into the bathroom and tries to position me over the bidet to wash my penis. I'm a little hurt by this as I've already spent time preparing myself — but it's likely she does this with every client, and she's not to know I'm already squeaky clean. Back in the bedroom she starts kissing me but I'm a bit distracted by the constant pinging of messages to her phone. I try to ask her to put it on silent, but instead she pushes me down onto the bed, and places it on the pillow beside me. I give up and try to concentrate on her enthusiastic caresses before she asks me if I want a blowjob. Juanita will spit on my nether regions a lot when she does this, and it drives me wild with desire — but when I try and ask Susi for the same, she doesn't understand. She holds the phone to my mouth and makes me repeat it, translating it so she can understand, which leaves us both laughing. When we move on to penetrative sex, I let her know that I only really have the stamina for cowgirl, regular or reverse. She does this well, though my encouraging cries of 'ride, cowgirl, ride' mean another session with Google translate and a lot more giggling. All in all, a very pleasant hour for £85, and I will always remember the laughter. Even though it's a transaction, I do feel a little bit of an emotional connection. I'm back at my computer looking for someone who will dominate me — I feel sexually and emotionally incomplete without this experience. I would never look down on another's consensual kink, but I'm not interested in some fantasies that others are: I wish to avoid being dressed in feminine undergarments or rubber, having my parts locked into a cage, being insulted, or having my balls kicked. Neither do I get any pleasure from watching other men being dominated, though the occasional well-written description has struck a chord. For me it's all about the spanking of the buttocks. I'm comfortable with the spanking part, having received the odd slap from partners and, recently, practiced on myself. I do worry about the implements or impact tools, as I've heard them called, though — I have a vague fear that, after a stroke or two, I'll leap to my feet screaming my safe word. I check my emails, and still no response from anyone wishing to fulfil my request. With sex on my mind, I book in a session with Juanita. She provides the girlfriend experience: she greets me with a passionate kiss, takes my hand and leads me to her bedroom. She tells me to undress and falls to her knees. Then she pushes me onto the bed and undresses herself, as I watch, entranced by her beauty. We caress and kiss for a while and then she starts to go down on me, until I tell her to turn around so I can return the favour. Then it's penetration time. She puts a condom on me ('XL', I bet she says that to all the boys) and climbs on top, as she knows my preferences. First it's regular cowgirl and then I tell her to turn around so that I can watch her magnificent bottom in action. She won't accept a proper spanking but says she is is quite happy with the occasional encouraging slap. As for spanking me, she says she is horrified by the thought of causing pain. The finale is always the same; she goes down on me and I finish, covering my face in case I look especially ugly in the moment. I get in touch with Juanita, asking if she's free again this weekend, but she's not available. I know she's not really my girlfriend but it feels like a rejection, and I wonder if she's finally had enough of this old man. I see her Whatsapp status update, which says she will be unavailable for a few days. Not just me then, which is a relief. I rarely think of Juanita and we hardly ever exchange messages apart from when I ask for a session. And yet, for that hour or two, I am completely in love. Still no answer from my prospective doms but looking on X, I find an interesting possibility. A woman offers her bottom for spanking sessions and, while I am particularly keen to find myself across a woman's lap, I'm still interesting in being the spanker. So, I get in touch with Greta, and we go about setting some boundaries. She tells me she doesn't actually touch men, but I can touch her wherever I like. I say that, at some point, I might want to masturbate and she says that's fine, but she won't watch me. Our compromise is I'll send her to stand against the wall, displaying her reddened bottom while I pleasure myself. More Trending Her response is a smiley emoji along with a devil, which I take to mean we've agreed. We set a date three weeks away. Thanks to my new found fantasy I'm feeling, almost constantly, low-key horny. I seem to have lost all sense of guilt and shame about wanting my sexual desires satisfied. I've also been reading about the prostate, and how regular ejaculations are good for it. Apparently, around 21 per month is a healthy number to aim at and, since I can't afford that number of sex worker sessions, I'm going to have to up my masturbation game. No porn today; I'll just run through the script I've written in my head for my session with Greta and daydream about, one day, getting that spanking. Do you have a story to share? 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Daily Mirror
15-05-2025
- Health
- Daily Mirror
'I'm a GP - after watching my dad suffer I must support the assisted dying bill'
As the Assisted Dying Bill gets set to be debated, Dr Susi Caesar, a GP for 30 years, tells The Mirror why she is so fiercely in favour of seeing it passed through Parliament A historic bid to legalise assisted dying is set to reach a milestone moment as it returns to the Commons for key votes. The Terminally Ill Adults ( End of Live) Bill is being debated in Parliament. And if it goes through, it will give some terminally ill patients in England and Wales the option of assisted death. It will allow terminally ill adults in England and Wales - with fewer than six months left to live - to apply for an assisted death. After months of intense scrutiny, MPs will vote on key amendments on Friday before a crunch vote on the controversial issue next month. Campaigners for and against assisted dying are expected to be watching the debate from the public gallery of the House of Commons. One of the supporters is Dr Susie Caesar's father passed away in October 14th last year aged 87 A GP for 30 years, Susi from Gloucestershire, has supported assisted dying ever since she went to medical school but her beliefs were further cemented after she lost her father last year.. Here Susi talks about why she is in favour of the Assisted Dying Bill: I have been in favour of assisted dying ever since I was on the medical ethics committee. And when we were talking about individual choice and dignity, at medical school. That was nearly 40 years ago, from 1984 to 1990. My father who was an industrial chemist and my mum Judi, a primary school teacher brought up my brother and I talk to openly. We talked about deep and meaningful things rather than making small talk around the dinner table. So we talked about money, sex, religion, politics and death - and I think that's, not always the case. Sometimes the British are very inclined to shy away from things that might be slightly embarrassing or difficult or sad to talk about. My dad was not frightened of death. . For as long as I can remember, he had made his peace with dying - with being dead. Dad was incredibly fit and well until October 2020, when he had a massive heart attack. And when he was admitted to hospital with a heart attack, he was in kidney failure, and they investigated and found out he had bladder cancer and that it had already killed one kidney. And they couldn't do anything about his heart. Even doing angiogram and putting stents in because of his kidney And They couldn't do anything about bladder cancer. Dad had three separate ticking time bombs So basically the nurses told him go home and die. So my father has known he was four years. He also had prostate cancer back when he was in his late 60s, and he knew from the blood test that that was coming back as well. But it left him in this horrible position being terrified about losing his dignity. He was ready to die in terms of having a will, and his affairs were always in order. Dad always told us that he loved us, and he was proud of us. So there wasn't any unfinished business. But after his diagnosis, he spent four years absolutely terrified that at the end he would lose his dignity, he'd be incontinent. I'd have to wipe his bum and all of those things happened despite the best palliative care that we've got. I don't think, putting more money into palliative care would have given my father the death that he wanted, because he had, from a palliative care point of view, 'a brilliant death'. He was in hospital for a week and then was able to come home to where he wanted to be with his family and his cat. And after a week with a care package from the palliative care nurses, he died at home. That sounds like that's the best it gets in this country. But the medication never quite kept up with his symptoms because he couldn't be given enough to ease suffering. The district nurses were great about coming as soon as they could when we called them. . But inevitably, until they arrived I could see that he was suffering. Dad was a paid up member of Dignity in Dying for 25 years. And we talked a lot. It would not have been financially easy, but it would have been perfectly possible to go to Switzerland to go to Dignitas. But the way my father's illness trajectory went, he was not ill enough to want to do that. He said it was too expensive and didn't want to spend the money, and he'd say 'I don't want you or your brother because my brother's a doctor too - to to get into trouble if you help me go and get assisted dying in Switzerland.' Also the practical implications of repatriating the body and what to do. He just didn't like the messiness of the practical side of it. And by the time, he knew he was really ill enough to want it, he would not be fit enough to travel. So he felt very pleased when the Assisted Dying Bill was proposed. He was absolutely thrilled that it was debated in Parliament. I know he just wanted me to speak out on behalf of all the people who deserve the comfort of choice The Assisted Dying Bill is not killing people. Something else is killing them. It's just about how they die and how peacefully they die. My mother Judi feels exactly the same - she has supported assisted dying since she was twenty and old enough to know what it meant, and it is certainly something she would wish for herself.
Free Malaysia Today
11-05-2025
- General
- Free Malaysia Today
Migrant mums work hard out of love for their children
31-year-old Mayang Sari hopes to continue working in Malaysia to ensure her child in Indonesia receives a good education. PETALING JAYA : A mother needs to summon extraordinary strength when her young child asks when she will return home after years of working hard overseas. But 31-year-old Mayang Sari has no choice. This single mother from Medan, Indonesia has spent the last two years away from her nine-year-old daughter to earn a living here. According to a report quoting ambassador Hermono on March 19, there are an estimated 585,000 registered Indonesian workers in Malaysia. Most of them work in construction or agriculture, or as domestic helpers. After separating from her husband, Mayang decided to leave home in pursuit of a better future for her only child. 'Since she was young, her father never took responsibility, so I had to bear all the expenses,' Mayang, who works as cleaner, told FMT. 'My child is growing up and needs to go to school. I decided to come here so she can have a proper education and lead a good life.' Sadly, women like Mayang are forced to miss out on crucial milestones in their children's lives. 'Every night I call my daughter, and she always asks when I will come home. I always say, 'When I have a bit more money, I'll come home',' Mayang shared. Mayang Sari and Susi are among the estimated 585,000 registered Indonesian workers in Malaysia. Another cleaner, Susi, migrated to Malaysia with her husband as job opportunities in their village in East Java were too limited for them to support their family. Like Mayang, Susi wants her two children – who were aged 13 and five when they left – to have a good education. 'This was why we were determined to come here for work,' said Susi, 39. It has been close to four years but Susi's heart continues to be filled with longing every day. 'When I'm alone, the loneliness creeps in,' she confided. When they left, she and her husband waited until their younger child was asleep before departing for Malaysia as they couldn't bear to see his tears. 'I remember our older child, now 17, crying and asking, 'Mama, why are you leaving again?'' Susi recalled emotionally. Mayang's and Susi's stories are among the many tales of mothers who form the backbone of their families thanks to their unconditional love. For them, Mother's Day is another reminder of the sacrifices they make for their loved ones who, despite being far away, are close to their hearts.
BBC News
15-04-2025
- Health
- BBC News
How do zoos look after elderly elephants?
Susi and Bully are two of the oldest residents in Barcelona Zoo in Spain and possibly some of the oldest animals being looked after in captivity. Susi is 52, and Bully is 40 years female African elephants are said to be helping zoos around the world find new ways to look after elderly animals. The zookeepers say more animals are reaching old age with regular healthy food and vet check-ups. They say elephants' teeth are a key sign of ageing, as they begin to fall out after 40 years old. Therefore, the carers have adapted the mammals' diets to soft, sliced vegetables to make sure they can chew and digest their food without causing any further damage to their teeth. They also have regular health checks, treatment for arthritis and nutritional supplements. They also get daily pedicures where zookeepers look after their ageing feet. Susi has learnt to put her foot through a hole in the metal barriers where a zookeeper scrubs the soles of her tired feet. They also get their ears and trunk cleaned by a biologist at the zoo. Their enclosure includes a shelter to keep warm at night and has been adapted with a soft sandy floor to help any aches and pains in their feet. Barcelona Zoo is also home to other ageing animals, from a 15-year-old wolf to a leopard and tiger who are both 17, and some older birds, including a flock of senior flamingos and a 17 year-old Zordan, who is a veterinarian and the CEO at the World Association of Zoos and Aquariums, says many animals have a longer lifespan under human care than those in the wild. "This is pushing us to develop more research and improve practices. "Because we are having to care for animals that in nature would probably be victims of predators or they would die of hunger or diseases. "So we are now dealing with all those new health issues that are new for us and for science. Because we are not used to seeing those animals living so long."
Nahar Net
14-04-2025
- Health
- Nahar Net
A zoo in Spain helps elderly elephants age gracefully
by Naharnet Newsdesk 14 April 2025, 12:23 At the Barcelona Zoo, a 40-year-old African elephant places her foot through the metal barrier where a zookeeper gently scrubs its sole — the beloved pachyderm gets her "pedicure," along with apple slices every day. The treatment is part of the zoo's specialized geriatric care for aging animals that cannot be reintroduced into the wild as zoos world over increasingly emphasize lifelong care. "Sending them back into nature would be an error," said Pilar Padilla, head of the zoo's mammal care. "It is very likely they wouldn't survive." Zoos have undergone a rethink in recent decades with the emphasis on the conservation of species and education, moving away from the past paradigm that often displayed exotic animals as a spectacle. The new approach includes knowing how to adapt to the needs of aging animals, which has led zoos to create bigger, more nature-like enclosures, such as the Sahel-Savannah area at the zoo in the Spanish city of Barcelona. Along with breeding programs to reintroduce fit animals into nature, zoos today want to ensure that animals living longer due to advancements in veterinary care can age gracefully, said Martín Zordan, the CEO of the World Association of Zoos and Aquariums, or WAZA. "Specialized geriatric care is becoming increasingly essential," Zordan told The Associated Press at the organization's Barcelona offices. Zordan said that just like older people, elderly animals require more care: regular health checks, arthritis treatment, softer foods or nutritional supplements, adapted living spaces and monitoring of mental and behavioral health. Along with caring for a pair of aging elephants, the Barcelona Zoo is also the home for a 15-year-old wolf, a leopard and a tiger who are both 17, as well as some older birds — including a flock of senior flamencos. It's not alone — several zoos in the United States, for example, highlight their treatment of older animals, such as the zoos in Baltimore and Baton Rouge. A study of grief Zookeepers at the Barcelona Zoo, not far from the city's Mediterranean coastline, are closely monitoring its two aging female pachyderms, Susi and Bully (pronounced BUH'-yi), as they cope with the recent death of Yoyo, their former pen-mate and long-time companion. Yoyo died in December at age 54. Susi, at 52, is now among the oldest known African elephants in captivity, even though WAZA said the age of animals born in the wild is approximate. Bully, who is 40, is also considered old for an African elephant. All three were captured in the wild and spent time in circuses an other zoos before coming to Barcelona. The zoo is now working with the University of Barcelona to study the impact of Yoyo's death on Susi and Bully. It's the first study of its kind, focused on elephants not from the same family after the death of a long-time companion, Padilla told The Associated Press during a recent visit to the zoo's elephant enclosure. At first, Susi and Bully showed their shock by not eating, but are now adapting well and turning to one another, including even sharing food, Padilla said, adding that Susi has taken on the dominant role that Yoyo had. The proof is in the teeth For elephants, their teeth are the real age test. "What marks the decline of the animal is the wear on their teeth," Barcelona zookeeper José María Santamaría said after finishing the Bully's pedicure. "They go through six sets of molars during their life, and when they reach around 40 years old they lose the last set." Susi and Bully require daily checkups, food suited for their now molar-less mouths and extra attention to their legs — hence the daily pedicures and the enclosure's soft sandy floor to cushion aching feet. "Those are the sort of considerations taken because we care about these animals living comfortably and leading lives with dignity," Zordan said.
