07-05-2025
Befrienders: Confront suicide with compassion, collective action
KOTA KINABALU (May 7): The recent spate of suicides reported on social media, including a tragic case in Tawau, has prompted Befrienders Kota Kinabalu to issue an urgent call to action, where society must confront suicide not with silence or shame, but with compassion, urgency and a shared sense of responsibility.
In a statement released by chairperson of Befrienders Kota Kinabalu cum president of Befrienders Malaysia, Jessie Ting, the organisation expressed deep sorrow over the loss of lives and emphasised that suicide is a preventable tragedy.
'Every life lost to suicide is one too many,' said Jessie.
'It is not a moral failure, but more often the result of untreated mental health conditions, emotional pain or overwhelming life stressors. Many who die by suicide do not wish to die. They simply want the pain to stop,' she added.
Befrienders highlighted that the signs of suicidal ideation are often visible but frequently misunderstood or overlooked. Warning signs include withdrawal from social relationships, sudden mood changes, expressions of hopelessness, or even giving away belongings. By learning to recognise these signs, members of the public can play a vital role in saving lives.
The organisation, which has served Sabah for 18 years, attests that emotional support can make the difference between life and death.
Jessie noted that many individuals contemplating suicide have changed their minds after receiving compassionate, non-judgmental support via the Befrienders helpline.
In response to the growing need for public education, Befrienders is holding a training session this weekend, on May 11 and 12, aimed at equipping individuals with skills to identify warning signs and offer meaningful support.
The session is open to anyone, whether they plan to volunteer or simply wish to better support those around them.
'The skills gained can benefit not only volunteers but also families, workplaces, and communities at large.
'We are inviting everyone to be part of this vital mission,' said Jessie.
Befrienders is also appealing to all sectors namely government agencies, healthcare professionals, educators and civil society to unite in addressing mental health with the seriousness it deserves.
The call includes breaking stigma, increasing access to support services and advocating for policy reforms, such as the creation of free and accessible mental health clinics.
The organisation further emphasised the broader implications of suicide, including economic burdens on healthcare systems and lost productivity.
Jessie stressed that addressing mental health is not just a social obligation but also a critical development issue for Sabah and Malaysia as a whole.
Media organisations and social media users were also urged to practise responsible reporting. Befrienders warns that graphic or sensational coverage of suicide can trigger further incidents, a phenomenon known as the Werther Effect. Instead, media should report with sensitivity and include resources for those in crisis.
'To anyone who is struggling, you are not alone. Help is available, and hope is real.
'We must act now as a community, as a state and as a nation. Together, we can save lives,' she concluded.
For support or to sign up for training, contact Befrienders Kota Kinabalu at 016-8036945 or 088-255788, or visit their official Facebook page.
