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Rotherham Hospital appeals for bonding hearts for newborn babies
Staff at a neonatal unit have appealed for people to sew more "bonding hearts" so mothers can share scents with their premature babies to help them Hospital nurses have used scent-sharing for a while to bring babies and parents closer together, but said supplies of the cotton hearts were running nurse Sam Jones said the hearts nurtured a "vital connection" and scent was the "most developed sense of a newborn baby".Grace, a mother of five-week-old twins born at the hospital 10 weeks premature, said the hearts made it "feel like [the twins] are with me even when they're not".
Grace's twins have both been tube-fed and lived in incubators, although one of them, Heidi, has just been moved to a nurse Sam Jones said scent-sharing between a mother and baby was "vital"."Callum, the twins' dad, swaps his hearts with the babies too, because it's vital for dads as well," she said."The fabric hearts help nurture that vital connection by absorbing mother and baby scents together."
Ms Jones said the scent also helped produce the hormone oxytocin, or "the love hormone", which stimulates milk manager Claire Ellis-Wood said the unit now only had a small supply of the hearts, often made by parents and grandparents."We're running really short," she said."We used to give mums the baby's vest or babygrow to put down their bra or really close to the skin."She said the hearts were given to both parents and could be taken home for siblings or pets, then kept as a keepsake for the child as they got Ellis-Wood said the response to previous appeals had been "phenomenal", with "all sorts of community groups getting together to make them".She said parents had even posted photos of their babies and children as old as seven, who still had their cotton was a "big social interaction" and a great thing for people to get involved in, she said, adding: "We want to thank people so so much."
Ms Ellis-Wood said the hearts must be made from cotton, not fleece, crocheted or padded - and old sheets or duvet covers were the hearts must not have exposed seams, which fray and could get in babies' the hearts would be washed at the hospital so pre-washing was not necessary, she said, and a template was available hearts can be dropped off at the hospital's charity hub in the main entrance, where they will be collected and delivered to the unit.
Meanwhile, Grace said she was looking forward to going home once the twins are strong enough to eat and breathe now has a room in the hospital so she can see the babies every day and feed them regularly, but still keeps the hearts close to her chest every night which makes the twins feel "much closer"."It's been really hard," she said. "But the hearts have helped".
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