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The Sun
4 days ago
- Entertainment
- The Sun
Drag Race UK star shares top tips for the perfect dating profile pic – from no group snaps to switching it up
DRAG Race UK star Kitty Scott-Claus has shared their top tips for the perfect online dating profile pic – flaunt it, strike a pose and avoid group photos. The 33-year-old knows a thing or two about looking their best for the camera - and has seen countless profile pics which don't cut it. 4 4 Mirror selfies aren't recommended, instead Kitty claims the best dating profiles bring a range of vibes including smirks, laughs and pouts. And it's important to be authentic, rather than trying to be someone you think people want. But the most important element is to simply ensure that the photos you're using on dating profiles, are current – to avoid awkward moments when meeting in real life. This applies whether you're on the apps looking for Mr Right, or Mr Right Now, according to Kitty's tips, in collaboration with Grindr. The star revealed their top tips after a poll of 500 adults who use online dating platforms found 45 per cent struggle to get the perfect shot of themselves. Kitty Scott-Claus said: "There is quite a bit of pressure to get it right. 'You have even less time to make a first impression on a dating app than you do in real life, so that initial picture is all-important.' The research also found it takes an average of 10 attempted pictures taken before people decide they're happy enough to upload one. While 42 per cent admitted they've been actively 'turned off' by a bad online snap, of someone they may otherwise have been interested in. And 41 per cent have been on a date who turned out to look nothing like their profile snap. Danni Menzies opens up about catfish hell that haunts her social media and how they're cashing in on pretending to be her. On average, it takes just 14.6 seconds for daters to decide if they're looking at someone they want to connect with. And while 34 per cent say their biggest online dating pic ick is no face pictures, 32 per cent dislike 'overly sexual' poses. While 29 per cent get turned off by obvious use of face filters or heavy editing, according to the OnePoll research. Tristan Pineiro, a spokesperson from Grindr, said: 'In today's digital dating world, your profile picture is often your first impression – so put your best photo forward. 'While it can be tempting to choose an old photo or heavily filtered image, it's far more effective to show the real you. 'People are looking for genuine connections, and that starts with being upfront about who you are, including how you look.' Kitty Scott-Claus' top tips for dating snaps Refresh that throwback. If your profile pic's older than your last situationship, it's time to update. That blurry beach snap from 2015? Cute memory but not a vibe for 2025. Make it a moment. Strike a pose that tells a story of who you are, give them something to ask about in the DMs. Snap your pics when you're feeling fab - whether that's fresh from a spin class or living your best life at Mighty Hoopla. Your joy is your glow-up. Confidence is sexy. Embrace every part of you, confidence is sexier than fantasy. Don't try to be someone you think people want; we're here for the most authentic you. Got killer arms? A dazzling smile? Show it off. Modesty is cute, but confidence is the real thirst trap. No group gaggles. We want a date, not a game of Guess Who. This is your moment to shine, solo. Switch it up. One blank stare in five mirror selfies? No ma'am it's not cute. The best dating profiles bring a range of vibes: smirks, laughs, pouts – even serious can look sexy. 4
Yahoo
11-05-2025
- Entertainment
- Yahoo
Professional Dating Coach Gives 3 Simple Tips to Single Men
Dating can be difficult in 2025, but one social media coach is looking to help single men in a new video released to her social media platforms. She says that these three tips will point men in the right direction, and she outlined them all in a recent Instagram video. Dating coach Blaine Anderson started her video by telling men to "stop following any Instagram models you're thirsting over." Her second tip was to "put your phone down and get out of the house," telling men that they wouldn't meet women "sitting on the couch." The final tip of the video was simple enough, as Anderson gave the advice of "go talk to a girl." "Take the pressure off," she advised. "It doesn't have to be romantic or flirtatious." "Solid advice!," said one commenter. "Even better, get off of social media. Your privacy is a great currency to have," another comment suggested, offering another solution to the issue. "Solid advice, as always," one commenter said. Anderson has built a platform for herself on Instagram, where she has more than 700,000 followers. Anderson has also advocated for singles events, asking men to attend in an effort to put them in the same room as single women looking to date. She highlighted an event taking place in Austin, Texas in another video called "Pitch-A-Friend" - where friends of the dater create PowerPoints on the person's behalf and attempt to sell potential dates on their positive qualities. "Stop sleeping on singles events," Anderson said. "They are one of the most underrated ways to meet single women. I'm not talking about cringey speed dating in a Hilton ballroom. It's 2025, the game has changed!" Anderson's content has been featured in the New York Times, Wall Street Journal and Forbes, and she also offers free specialized courses and content for men who are seeking additional help in dating. In addition to her social media posts, Anderson has been featured on several podcasts and in other creators' content, where she compares ideas and strategies to help make dating more enjoyable. We'll see if men listen to Anderson's advice after her latest viral video.
Yahoo
09-05-2025
- Entertainment
- Yahoo
I'm a dating expert — these are the 5 things men do that instantly turn off women and kill any chance of love
Struggling to land a lady? It may come down to one of these five fatal faux pas. Dating expert Louanne Ward is dishing on the handful of relationship-ending errors that men make, saying they leave women with an instant 'ick' that kills their libido. 'Once she sees it, she can't unsee it,' the expert asserted in the caption of an Instagram post she shared last month. 'And the spark? Gone.' First, Ward warns against men engaging in 'cutie baby talk' during the courting process. 'Speaking to her like she's your puppy, toddler or cartoon sidekick? It's not cute. It's cringy,' the love maven sassed. 'She's not 'Mummy.' She's mentally exiting the chat.' Meanwhile, Ward explained that disastrous daters don't display proper table manners while dining with a prospective paramour which leads to a total turn-off. Thus, her second no-no: Picking at your teeth during a meal. 'She's trying to focus on the conversation, and you're elbow-deep in your own molars,' the expert hypothesized of the horrifying behavior. 'Bad breath is one thing. But picking food out of your teeth with your nail? It's not just a hygiene fail, it's a primal repulsion.' The remainder of Ward's mistakes pertain to technology, including the way that men present themselves on dating apps. Posting pouty selfies and AI-generated profile pics is classified as her third fatal mistake. 'If your dating profile looks like it belongs in a Marvel casting folder… she's not swooning. She's dry,' the no-nonsense blonde blasted. She additionally advised against fellas faking a smolder while posing for any pictures posted online. 'You think it's seductive, [but] she thinks you're auditioning for an off-brand aftershave commercial. She's gone,' Ward said of the try-hard 'perfume-ad stare.' Ward's fifth and final faux pas: men who can't control their temper when engaging with technology. 'Shouting at the remote. Throwing your phone… It's not passion. It's pressure. And pressure doesn't feel safe,' she explained.
The Sun
06-05-2025
- Business
- The Sun
I'm a relationship expert – here's the six questions you should never ask on a first date, you'll get ghosted
WE all get nervous before going on a first date, after all, we want to make a good impression. And there's a lot of planning involved to make sure it goes well - from picking the perfect outfit to choosing the right activity or venue. 5 But relationship experts have now revealed that it's the conversation that can actually make or break your chances of a second date. With summer fast approaching, there has been much warmer weather, which has caused a surge in dating app activity. So, in a bid to help first-date opportunities, professionals have revealed that there are six questions you should never ask when meeting someone for the first time. Not only can they make your date feel awkward, but they can even cause you to get instantly ghosted. Alexa Johnston, Sex and Relationship Expert at Just, Australia's premier online adult product retailer, shared her list of questions that are guaranteed to get you dumped before you've even finished your first drink. While these conversation killers might seem harmless, they send immediate red flags to your potential partner. Alexa said: 'First dates are already nerve-wracking enough without accidentally stepping on conversational landmines. 'What people frequently don't realise is that certain questions, no matter how innocent they might seem to you, can instantly send your date running for the exit." 1. 'How much money do you make?' Nothing kills romantic potential faster than bringing finances into the conversation too early. According to the experts, this question makes you appear materialistic and calculating from the beginning. I'm a dating expert - the 5 key signs your partner is cheating on you & the Instagram feature that'll tell you all you need to know Instead, Alexa suggests showing an interest in your date's career by asking them what they enjoy about their job or what drew them to their field. She explains that this shows genuine interest in their passions rather than their paycheck. She said: 'Asking about someone's salary on a first date suggests you're evaluating them based on their financial worth rather than their personality. 'It creates immediate discomfort and signals that you might be more interested in their bank account than who they are as a person.' 5 2. 'Why are you still single?' This might seem like an innocent question, but it carries a lot of baggage. Alexa says it implies there must be something wrong with them for not being in a relationship. Instead, try asking about their interests or what they enjoy doing in their free time, which gives insight into their life without judgment. She says: "This question immediately puts your date on the defensive. "It suggests they need to justify their relationship status, as if being single is a problem that needs explaining. "It can make people feel like they're being interrogated rather than engaged in pleasant conversation.' 3. 'Do you think I'm attractive compared to your ex?' Everyone has an ex, but bringing them up on a first date is risky territory - especially if you're asking for comparisons. The experts say this question is a guaranteed disaster and have urged people to keep conversations forward-looking rather than dragging past relationships into their fresh start. Alexa warns: "This question is a triple threat – it shows insecurity, forces them to think about their ex during your date, and puts them in an impossible position. "There's literally no good answer to this question. "Say yes, and they're speaking ill of someone they once cared about. Say no, and they've just insulted you.' 5 4. 'When do you want to have children and how many?' While this is an important question to ask, it's not something to bring up before you've even ordered dessert. Family planning discussions are vital, but Alexa suggests saving them (and other deeper life goal discussions) for a little bit later. A good time to start thinking about them is when you've established a connection and are actually dating consistently. The expert points out: 'This question signals you're mentally fast-forwarding through dating straight to serious commitment. "It creates immense pressure and can make your date feel like they're being interviewed for a parenting position rather than getting to know you naturally.' 5 5. 'What's your body count?' While you might be curious, asking this on a first date is a huge no-no. Questions about sexual history this early often come across as judgmental, regardless of how they're asked. Instead, try focusing on building chemistry through shared interests and values rather than sexual scorekeeping. Alexa explains: "This question immediately changes the tone from getting to know someone to scrutinising their past. 'It creates discomfort and suggests you'll be judging them based on their answer. "It can make people feel reduced to a number rather than seen as a complex individual.' TOP ADVICE ALEXA has also shared her best pieces of general advice for people going on a first date. Whether it's your first first date in a while, or it's someone you're really nervous to meet, the expert says the key is to relax, pay attention and enjoy yourself. She says: First dates should establish chemistry and compatibility, not feel like an interrogation. "When you ask invasive questions, you prevent natural connection from developing. Instead, try open-ended questions about interests, travel experiences, or favourite memories to invite storytelling rather than one-word answers. 'Pay attention to what makes them animated – that's your cue to ask follow-up questions. "Building rapport happens gradually, so be present and actually listen instead of just waiting for your turn to speak. "Small gestures like remembering details they mention shows genuine interest. 'This summer, focus less on rushing to assess compatibility through direct questioning and more on creating a relaxed, enjoyable experience. "The best connections often form when you're both having such a good time that you forget to be nervous.' 6. 'Have you had any work done?' This can be a tricky one to navigate at any time, but especially so on a first date. Comments or questions about physical appearance beyond general compliments can quickly veer into offensive territory. Alexa suggests sticking to genuine compliments without prying questions about how they achieved their look. She says: 'This question puts your date in an awkward position where they either have to admit to cosmetic procedures or feel like you're scrutinising their appearance for 'flaws'. 'Either way, it makes them self-conscious at a time when you should be helping them feel comfortable and appreciated.'
