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Forbes
3 days ago
- General
- Forbes
5 Signs You Feel Truly Safe In Your Relationship, By A Psychologist
When most people evaluate their relationships, they focus on love, loyalty, chemistry or compatibility. While these are all important, they don't guarantee emotional well-being. What truly makes a relationship sustainable and nourishing — whether it's romantic, familial or just a meaningful friendship — is psychological safety. Psychological safety means you feel safe to be fully yourself. Unfiltered, messy, vulnerable, always changing, all without fear of being shamed, belittled or emotionally punished. It's a deep sense of trust that you can express your truth and still be held with respect. But how would you know if your relationship is psychologically safe? Here are five signs to look for, and ways to cultivate more of it in your life. In psychologically unsafe relationships, saying 'no' often comes at a cost. For example, saying no may be met with guilt trips, emotional withdrawal or a lingering sense of tension in the air. Over time, this teaches you to say 'yes' just to avoid conflict, even when it means ignoring your own needs. In contrast, psychologically safe relationships respect your 'no' as an essential part of who you are. It's not taken personally, nor is it seen as a rejection. Whether you're declining an invitation, asking for space or expressing disagreement, your partner holds space for it. They don't need you to mirror them in order to feel secure. This balance between a connection and independence is highlighted in a 2019 study that explored two foundational psychological needs in relationships: relatedness (feeling emotionally close to others) and autonomy (feeling free to act in alignment with your own values). The study found that people were more likely to respond constructively during conflict (a behavior known as accommodation) when they felt not only close to their partner, but also free to be themselves — independent and self-directed. In other words, healthy closeness doesn't require losing yourself. In fact, relationships where both people feel safe to say 'no' tend to be more resilient. They can tolerate difference without turning it into distance. So, what can you do when faced with this dynamic? Begin with small, honest assertions. Try saying, 'I won't be joining this weekend,' or 'That doesn't feel right to me' — without sugarcoating it with apologies. Then observe if the other person stays emotionally present and responsive. If so, you're likely in a space where both your need for connection and need for autonomy is being respected. One of the most telling signs of a lack of psychological safety in a relationship is a constant, nagging tension. It's that feeling that you have to watch your words, manage your tone or suppress your feelings to avoid setting the other person off. This emotional tiptoeing may not always involve loud conflict, but it breeds a quieter kind of distress which manifests as a chronic state of self-monitoring. Over time, you may begin to withhold joy, hide disappointment and shrink parts of yourself to avoid emotional backlash. A 2012 study published in The American Journal of Family Therapy, examining the relationship between PTSD symptoms, perceived emotional safety and relationship health found that feeling safe in a relationship fully mediated the impact of trauma symptoms on how well the relationship functioned. In other words, even when someone carries deep relationship wounds, what most determines the health of their relationship isn't the trauma itself but it's how safe they feel with their partner. Emotional safety, then, isn't a relationship accessory; it's really the foundation of a relationship. When a relationship offers consistent empathy and non-defensiveness, it allows both partners to lower their guard. They don't have to 'perform' emotional control. They can be real, even when that means being confused, vulnerable or not at their best. In safe relationships, there's room for full expression. You can have a bad day. You can bring up hard topics. You can even disagree without losing closeness. And if it's ever difficult to establish emotional safety, try this: Notice the next time you hesitate before sharing something good or bad. Ask yourself, 'Am I afraid of how they'll react?' Choose one thing you've been holding back. Could be an opinion, a request, a silly story, anything. Then share it gently but directly. Then observe: do they lean in, shut down, deflect or become defensive? Their reaction reveals how safe the space between you really is. More than conflict itself, it's often a lack of resolution that harms relationships. In psychologically unsafe dynamics, disagreements quickly spiral into blame or withdrawal. But in safe relationships, conflict doesn't mark the end of connection. It's simply seen as what it's meant to be — a moment to pause and look into ways of repair. A 2015 study by John Gottman and colleagues found that the most effective conflict repairs are emotional, not logical. They happen early, often within the first few minutes, and aim to shift the emotional climate through warmth, empathy, humor or vulnerability. These small cues say, 'We're still okay, even if we disagree.' When repair becomes part of the relationship culture, missteps feel less threatening. Partners don't fear conflict or tiptoe around hard feelings. Instead, they return to each other with care and curiosity, even if that return begins with an argument. The core idea is that you don't wait until emotions boil over. Reconnect early. Try saying, 'I've been thinking about what happened earlier, can we talk?' or 'I care more about us than about being right.' Early repair softens tension and steers the conversation away from escalation. Based on Gottman's research, repair doesn't have to be complicated. It just needs to be timely, genuine and emotionally aligned. Here are six tools to help achieve this: Remember, the goal isn't to avoid conflict. It's to make space for it and meet it with compassion. One of the hallmarks of relationship safety is that you feel expanded. You speak more freely, laugh louder and bring your full, layered self into the room. There's room for your contradictions: the thoughtful and the silly, the confident and the unsure. You're not filtering yourself to fit into a version you think will be more palatable. You're simply you, and that feels easy. Research on relational self-change supports this experience. It shows that in close relationships, our self-concept can shift in meaningful ways. People in supportive relationships often experience self-expansion (gaining positive traits) and self-pruning (letting go of negative ones). These changes are linked to greater satisfaction, more empathy and a stronger capacity for forgiveness. In short, the right relationship helps you grow into a better version of yourself. Unsafe relationships, on the other hand, lead to self-contraction where you shrink, suppress your voice or mold yourself to avoid tension. Over time, this chips away at your confidence and desire to stay in the relationship. So, try this check-in: After spending time with someone, ask yourself: 'Do I feel more like myself — or less?' If you feel clearer, lighter and more at ease, chances are you're in a relationship that supports your evolution rather than stifles it. Healthy relationships don't require performance. They welcome your becoming. As humans, we're not meant to stay the same. As we grow, our preferences, boundaries and beliefs will most definitely shift. Psychologically safe relationships allow space for that evolution without any guilt or resistance. A 2020 study published in Personal Relationships found that people who adapt their thoughts and behaviors in response to life changes experience greater well-being and relationship quality. Their openness also benefits their partners, deepening mutual connection and resilience. In unsafe dynamics, however, change is seen as a threat. You may be stuck in rigid roles like always being agreeable or emotionally available. Any attempt to redefine yourself is treated as confusing or disloyal. Your growth becomes a problem to solve, not a transformation to support. But safe relationships welcome your evolution. You're allowed to be dynamic. You're encouraged to set boundaries that reflect who you're becoming. So, whenever you notice yourself changing, name it. Point it out by saying, 'I know I used to be okay with this, but I've realized I'm not anymore.' Watch for whether you're met with curiosity or criticism. The answer speaks volumes about your relational safety. Do you also experience psychological safety outside of your relationship? Take the science-backed Psychological Safety Scale to find out.
Associated Press
07-05-2025
- Business
- Associated Press
Little Tandem's Flagship Product The Frame Reaches Hundreds of U.S. Families Within Months of Launch
Little Tandem, a U.S. children's furniture company founded in 2024, reports strong adoption of The Frame, its flagship product designed to support children's independence and emotional well-being. The sustainable wooden furniture system features customizable elements and reflects growing market demand for functional children's furniture. North Carolina, United States, May 7, 2025 -- Little Tandem, a U.S.-based children's furniture company, today announced that its flagship product, The Frame, has been adopted by hundreds of families nationwide in just a few months since launch. The Frame is designed to encourage calm, organization, and independence in children's living spaces. Little Tandem was established in late 2024 and develops multifunctional children's furniture grounded in principles of emotional well-being and thoughtful design. Its best-selling item, The Frame, is the core of a customizable system built to evolve with a child's developmental needs. Little Tandem constructs The Frame from sustainably sourced wood and designs it to sit low to the ground for safe, easy access. It works alongside a growing lineup of optional attachments, including The Canopy, a soft drape that turns the structure into a quiet retreat for reading, reflection, or unwinding. Together, these elements create a personalized environment that supports autonomy and reduces overstimulation. 'The overwhelming response to The Frame from families across the country confirms that there is a strong desire for furniture that not only looks good but serves a deeper purpose,' said Amanda Meguid, co-founder of Little Tandem. 'We designed The Frame to offer children a calming retreat, an anchor in their environment where they can recharge, find quiet, and feel in control of their own space.' The growing demand reflects wider shifts in the children's furniture market. According to IMARC Group, the global children's furniture market was valued at approximately $52.8 billion in 2024 and is projected to reach $187.4 billion by 2033, growing at a compound annual growth rate of 15.12 percent. Maximize Market Research projects a growth rate of 9.2% in the North American segment through 2030 as families increasingly seek practical, adaptable solutions for limited space and evolving child needs. Little Tandem's method aligns with this trend. By focusing on emotional and functional needs rather than aesthetics alone, Little Tandem has differentiated itself within a traditionally cluttered market. The product's design reflects guidance from the American Academy of Pediatrics, emphasizing the importance of stable supportive environments for promoting autonomy and emotional regulation in children. Meguid added, 'We often talk about independence in terms of milestones like tying shoes or riding a bike. But we believe it starts earlier with routines, habits and having a space to call your own where you feel in control.' Little Tandem's operational strategy's key component is its vertically integrated model. The company handles design production, and fulfillment internally, allowing for high-quality control and quicker response to customer feedback. This structure has enabled Little Tandem to grow while maintaining consistency and craftsmanship. Little Tandem currently ships The Frame to all locations within the continental United States. To explore The Frame and learn how Little Tandem is shaping a more intentional home environment for children, visit . About Little Tandem Little Tandem is a family-owned children's furniture company based in North Carolina. Founded by a husband-and-wife team with over a decade of experience in high-end furniture, the company focuses on designing calming, functional environments for children. Every piece is developed and manufactured in-house to ensure the highest quality. Since its launch in 2024, Little Tandem has reached hundreds of families and continues to expand its presence in the U.S. market. Contact Info: Name: Amanda Meguid Email: Send Email Organization: Little Tandem Address: United States Website: Release ID: 89159438 Should you detect any errors, issues, or discrepancies with the content contained within this press release, or if you need assistance with a press release takedown, we kindly request that you inform us immediately by contacting [email protected] (it is important to note that this email is the authorized channel for such matters, sending multiple emails to multiple addresses does not necessarily help expedite your request). Our expert team will be available to promptly respond and take necessary steps within the next 8 hours to resolve any identified issues or guide you through the removal process. We value the trust placed in us by our readers and remain dedicated to providing accurate and reliable information.
